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whitelexi:
No its not!
A mother is part of a man's dna as well oh, there's always that closeness between them that even makes the man confide more in his mum. . .  Trust me, when u have a son, you'd be eager to experience that closeness

I totally agree with u, as always, your words are very salty

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whitelexi:
A beautiful woman is one who epitomizes all the attributes of a beautiful woman, an embodiment of beauty, with a kind heart, and a nack for cleanliness. A woman who reminds me of my sweet mother

I put this question across to my colleagues at work and some of them said:

Now a war of words is going on in my office
The guys are split into 2 sides arguing whether angelina is finer than jessica or vice-versa. Thanks poster

More to come

You're spot on bro. In my file, there are just three important women: My wife, my sister & my mother  . If a man is lucky to find the right woman for him, he's found in her the three --- a sister, a mother and a wife. That's why you don't joke with your wife.

michelin89:
You are highly stupid for this comment you made. Do you think rape is like touching one's breast or giving a slap? The girl was a virgin too. Her values have been broken and you are here saying shit about how she should forgive, forget and move on?

Do you have a brain? If it was your sister would you be telling her the same thing? Foolish idiot.

Given that the situation was a bad one, I don't think he ever condoned the guy. Please take it easy on him, ok? Thank you. _{Did I say you're one of the best?}

michelin89:
Ok. Perfect couple. Congrats.

Now tell us who a beautiful woman is.

RichyBlacK:
That guy must be the luckiest bitch in this world.

If that girl had big brothers, the ones way dey craze well well, that boy will be chilling on his "72 inches" very nicely.

She should go hire boyz to maim that guy and destroy his property! He either pays N 1 million or he looses a leg and an ear!

Guys that know that boy must and should deal with him ruthlessly!

Wish he had tried it on my sister; if he ever lives to tell the story, he can only nod with his head and describe with his hands. Because I will devote myself to the Devil for seven days and ask him for guidance to make him lose his life - or at the least - regret to have ever woken up that morning

Kunbee:
The guy is just an idiot that deserves to be burnt alive with tyre and petrol but there is 2 sides 2 a story

LMAO . Even if there are 5 sides to the story, I don't think any guy in their right senses should go out of their foolish way to rape a girl. Such guys should be subject to torture and eventual death.

whitelexi:
Well, go ahead then and keep checking everyone out, but u need to know that some of we naija men absolutely hate it when a woman sticks her nose into what does not concern her.

When you have just started seeing someone, there will always be loose ends to tie up, there will always be girls on the side whose relationship have to be tidied out. . .  

u dont just come into someone's life and start placing tabs on them or start posting pictures of the 2 of u everywhere to scare off other women, leave him to tidy things out first - the time for all that will come when you will be free to post anything and have his support. . .  

u have no right to call up his friends to ask or gossip about him - without his permission, that is just unacceptable - u have no right to do that. . .

u have no right to curse him to his face, once is good enough to let u go - no matter what he feels for u at that stage, he can decide not to put up with that part of u. It doesnt make him thin-skinned or less of a man, no, it is a way of avoiding stress which will be caused by u when the relationship matures.

Finally, it may be worth your while to know that u dont force things when u've only just started a relationship, u need to turn a blind eye for a period of time and then slowly start asserting your control otherwise u create a wrong impression at an early stage. Keeping tabs on your husband is different from keeping tabs on a bf u only just started seeing.

In all u do though, i still wish u the best, however if he's a naija man, it may not go far until u learn to accord a good level of respect.

whitelexi:
Me thinks u drove him to another woman with your cursing and name-calling. . .  I told u earlier that it was a silly thing to place all those tabs in the first place, i think when a man discovers that his partner does not as much as trust him in a relationship - the result is usually simple and straight-forward.

Beyonce sang a very silly song and called it irreplaceable, truth of the matter is that no woman is irreplaceable - no matter how good she is. . .  If one woman cannot replace u, 2, 3, or 4 will make up for all your abilities - it is not that easy for a woman to do the same. Some men will tolerate your mess for longer than other men, but some will not tolerate it at all.  If i were him, i'd have walked a long time ago.

Waxxy:
@seeker,
If i do actually write an open letter to my ex, i would stand accused of plagiarising your manuscript. This sounds twisted but its like you're my twin and you dated my ex, lol.

Nice girl, still friends but our relationship lacked vital communiation, had to let it go

posakosa:
This sounds like some Hannibal lector shyt.

oluclem:
TheSeeker, pls expantiate.

whitelexi:
Yeah, that part about prozac impressed me. . .  Now i think i need a dose

TEXASGIRL:
Seeker; Yes the truth hurts and you are 90% right, lol. I am only human and my marriage ended due to cheating. I thought I was over that, but this has brought it up again. A stalker though? Ouch that hurts, but slightly true. Now about the cussing, that is not normally me. I was just soooo hurt. There is more to the story but did not want to take up too much time. I found that he had sex with another woman 2 days after we went on our first date. He says she does not matter because he did not make love to her, only had sex with her. He also thinks that I should except them still talking as long as he does not see her. We had not yet agreed to be exclusive, but it still hurt. The main reason I reacted like that was he would not talk things out with me. He was still angry and trying to calm down. We have never had an argument so I did not know that was how he worked.
I have one more question, [b]why take our pictures off facebook? [/b]If she is no longer anything to him? Are the courts/ laws not the same in Nigeria? Surely she wouldn't be allowed to just take his money?
Even though it hurts to face the truth, I am glad I posted this here. It's good to get feedback from people other than my close friends, who will always take my side.
I will be leaving this in God's hands. I know he is the only one who can put forgiveness in both our hearts and bring us back together. I pray that is his will for us.

whitelexi:
Exactement

naawee:
Y'all fools! Why the f**k would a silly ugly dumbass nigga come up here and be spitting raw shit like, "i'm so godamn f**kin' ugly but gat the shawties rolling with me!"! Thats plain bullshit.

All hot shawties wherever I am gotta roll with me! I'm 2H2H (=2 Hot 2 Handle) and I run all lascivious and raunchy hot chicks in my godamn motherfuckin palm! Yeah, Thats me and what my V and F accounts do for me!

So shut y'all morons and ugly niggaz! How many of ur phoney shits gotta come out of ur ugly faces b4 y'all know it's time to grow up and respect the king who never slacks but always doublepump his switching game?!

F**k y'all ugly niggaz! I'maa fucin' bumb on y'all! Fools and dunnies here rantin' shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!