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Romance › Re: What Pet Name Do You Call Him/her? by TheSeeker(m): 6:17pm On Aug 02, 2009
posakosa:
TheSeeker


Shey una go church today ?
Of course, you?
Romance › Re: What Pet Name Do You Call Him/her? by TheSeeker(m): 5:58pm On Aug 02, 2009
posakosa:
Beef ke ? The question says what pet name do  you call him/her ? and Im answering the question. I don't think that my answer has anything to do with beef.

I exploit the use of sarcasm in many of my posts,  and not everyone gets it. <whatever it is>
So I guess when you're serious, your posts will carry "SERIOUS" sign.
Romance › Re: What Pet Name Do You Call Him/her? by TheSeeker(m): 5:40pm On Aug 02, 2009
[b]@Posakosa,[/b]you seriously need to stop your beef on this guy. Damn! grin
Romance › Re: What Pet Name Do You Call Him/her? by TheSeeker(m): 5:29pm On Aug 02, 2009
My heartbeat, my world, my wifey, sweetheart, my shawtie, my air, and she calls me babe or baby(my head swirls when she calls me) *Smiling endlessly* smiley
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 5:26pm On Aug 02, 2009
patwhizkid:
How do yu mean?
Come up with a better defense. MKO died over 10 years ago and you presumed his phone number? Was there GSM in Nigeria already then? Or are you talking landline? He called you, that's why you have his number even to the point of know its last 5 digit numbers without bating an eyelid.

Anyways, is it true that you're dating Seun and his cousin?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 3:59pm On Aug 02, 2009
patwhizkid:
He didn't call me nao. . .he gave me his number before he died.
Try harder grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 3:20pm On Aug 02, 2009
patwhizkid:
42337
I want to believe you're sure of this number, but how did you know if MKO hadn't called you? I thought you said he didn't? hmmm? grin grin grin
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend's Friend Is After Me by TheSeeker(m): 3:18pm On Aug 02, 2009
And what the hell are you waiting for? Tell him! Are you waiting until he starts to feel guilty for his actions and thinks he should separate you from your boyfriend? Wonder how? He'll just tell him you made a pass at him and almost had you but for his fidelity he restrained; how will you prove it to your boyfriend he first of all made the pass if you don't tell him now? Of course trying to prove his friend wrong will be futile because at that time, you're already in a bad light and he will seriously doubt you.

The best thing is tell him but try calming him down to put his actions in check.
Events › Re: October-born Nairalanders, Let's Hook Up! by TheSeeker(m): 3:07pm On Aug 02, 2009
Wow! I never knew this thread was already in existence before I created another one, sorry for the confusion. Mine is 21. Up Libra and scorpio
Business › Re: 300 Million Naira Mistakely Paid Into One's Account by TheSeeker(m): 3:02pm On Aug 02, 2009
How dumb do you think someone could have been that they'll conduct a 300M Naira transaction without reviewing all the details? That's no way possible. And, if it does happen, the best option is to find out the account number where the money came from, do some digging to know who owns the account and that will tell you what to do -- but while you do this, don't spend a dime of that money. You might think you can get away with it but 300M is too exorbitant a cash to be messed around with; even in Nigeria where everything is almost untraceable, it could still be located.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:45pm On Aug 02, 2009
patwhizkid:
Da last digit of Abiola's number is 7.
Yea, give me the last 5 digits
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:11pm On Aug 02, 2009
patwhizkid:
Late MKO Abiola?! My number?! Nah, it can't be. I only received a call from Obama dis morning.
You best must have heard that rumor. Because, Obama called me last night and not this morning; sorry, eh? Anyways, I'd give you $1,200.00 if you give me the last 5 digit number of Abiola's number. Consider the offer before I start to get fake claims.
Romance › Re: Im A American Girl With A Igbo Man by TheSeeker(m): 1:59pm On Aug 02, 2009
Your situation can be pretty tempting; but the truth may be the guy loves you. Not necessarily any Nigerian that involves with an American have fiancees/wives back at home(Some have fiancees but don't just trust them the moment they've stepped out the shores). In this kind of situation the Nigerian gets used to the environment he finds himself, meets new people, somewhat he might think they are much more advanced than his fiancee back home, or otherwise he loses interest immediately in the relationship.

In other instances, the guy doesn't have a fiancee back in Nigeria but a girlfriend -- a relationship where they've not really specified where it'll be landed. So the best option they opt for is break the relationship. That's why if you get to Nigeria, girls will tell you not to trust your boyfriend the moment he's out of Nigeria because it's believed they end up finding someone else, however, I can't blanket all Nigerian guys to be that way.

Also when it comes to Africans' involvement, Nigerians' especially, with foreigners more likely the women -- or so I've seen-- families back in Nigeria are mostly leery. This is because parents always want their children and grandchildren home at least once a year. It's to be noted though that, when Nigerians are married to foreigners, they rarely come home; this is one fear that parents(especially the caring and concerned ones) can't work or get over. It constantly taunts their minds.
Relate that fear to the the manner by which these parents dote on their grandchildren.

So far as I remember, parents care most about their grandchildren more than anything else. They always want as often as they can, see their grandchildren. This can be seen from the mode with which grandchildren are pampered and spoiled by their grandparents(I personally love my grannies). This is the second fear.
These two fears are predominant in Africa, especially Nigeria like I've mentioned earlier. Hence, some family crackdown on their wards not to get married from outside the country; even in some situations when such men may have married a foreigner their parents will still pressure the weak ones into marrying from home.

All this is owing to the fact that most foreigners don't like letting go of their kids to visit their fatherland --- as it's usually presumed in Africa. People want to be close to their cousins, grandsons and granddaughters, nieces and nephews, but there's a strong segregation of these kids because their mom(foreigner) doesn't want her kids to visit Nigeria, neither will she allow the husband to; basically might be financial problems as to why but it'll not strike them like that in Africa. Foreign countries, to many Nigerians, is like an ATM machine where you can withdraw money anytime you want.


So if the guy hasn't made you meet his family, it might be one of the above reasons. But I still feel he can communicate it to you if it's one of those. He might not be married back home. Maybe he doesn't want you bothered by the pressures his family will put on him when he introduces you to them - or he wants to have got married to you before he breaks it to his family.  Nevertheless, I'm can't deny the fact that there are so many dubious guys out there who will have been married back in Nigeria, then still go ahead to marry a foreigner but you shouldn't ride freely to think so unless he has proven so with his actions. Talk to him that you'd love to meet his family, know his friends, etc., and take it from there. The response he gives you tells you the next thing to do.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Wanna Hook Up With Chelsea Nairalanders: Drop Ur Number Here by TheSeeker(m): 1:26pm On Aug 02, 2009
Blues for life.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 1:21pm On Aug 02, 2009
patwhizkid:
Pervert, ehen nao. . .u nor know say na me im like pass?
I heard Late MKO Abiola called your number persistently for 48 hours, is it true? grin grin
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 1:19pm On Aug 02, 2009
Kelvinj:
@theseeker
NL has been closed since april, aldo ppl has been posting d site is nw illegal.
Dis na 9ja we no fit leave NL 4 any motherf**k, but if ojo show i don ja[s][/s]
Real talk! Ojo dey come I no like anything illegal grin
Business › Re: Price To Ship Documents From Nigeria To USA Via UPS, DHL, FEDEX by TheSeeker(m): 1:12pm On Aug 02, 2009
Ask whoever it is to confirm
TV/Movies › Re: Dead Of Micheal Scorfield. by TheSeeker(m): 1:07pm On Aug 02, 2009
Clown! angry
TV/Movies › Re: Do Actors Really Cry In Movies? by TheSeeker(m): 12:51pm On Aug 02, 2009
Slap my palm with $1,000.00 and ask me for a 30-minute demo? You'll be shocked.
TV/Movies › Re: What Do You Dislike About Nigerian Movies by TheSeeker(m): 12:33pm On Aug 02, 2009
Bad costumes, good story line(sometimes) but pathetic and annoying directing and producing, etc. I will prefer A NIGHT OF A THOUSAND LAUGH to any Nigerian movie any day.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Intercourse During Her Period! by TheSeeker(m): 12:30pm On Aug 02, 2009
I don't see anything wrong with it if she wants it then. I've done it before, but like someone said earlier, if you ain't disgusted with the blood you're good to go.
Business › Re: Clickbank Rejects Nigerian Mastercard And Visa Cards by TheSeeker(m): 12:20pm On Aug 02, 2009
Visit https://www.www-card.com/Screens/Issue/IssueCard.aspx?get-a-new-prepaid-credit-card you can buy and pay for a pay-as-you-go virtual card. Load it up and use it whenever you want to.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Nairalanders Meet Up In New York City (usa) by TheSeeker(m): 12:10pm On Aug 02, 2009
NYChuh Aha! I've only met one NLer who's in NY. Can you make do with someone in NJ?
TV/Movies › Re: Nollywood Is Now "second" In The World! by TheSeeker(m): 11:39am On Aug 02, 2009
"I have a dream, a song to sing, to help me cope with anything.
If you see the wonder of a fairy tale . . . . .
" Keep dreaming!
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Let,s Gossip Here by TheSeeker(m): 10:56am On Aug 02, 2009
I heard NL will be closed down in November, is it true? Then, I wonder where all of una go dey
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Check In If You Were Born In October -- Friends & Family Also Are Welcome! by TheSeeker(op): 10:40am On Aug 02, 2009
If you were born in October, come on in. If you're a friend or relative to one, you're most welcome.

Please, leave your experiences and what you significantly like about your birth month. You can also share with us how you intend to celebrate/mark your birthday.
As for friends and families of "Octoberans", please recount your experiences, qualities of people born in October.

All hail the LIBRAS and the early SCORPIOS!
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 9:16am On Aug 02, 2009
Kelvinj:
@ d mere mention of money be it monopoly money or cowries money, evry chic must go gaga! grin
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Is That True 95 % Of Lagos Babes Are Just Girl Friend Material Not For Wife by TheSeeker(m): 8:48am On Aug 02, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=303498.msg4285509#msg4285509 date=1249174654]i think there is a misunderstanding, i was talking about my monopoly money embarassed embarassed embarassed[/quote]I see a guy keep eye on his monopoly money and going gooey on his Benjamins grin
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend's A Virgin(she Wants Us To Wait Till Our Wedding Night): by TheSeeker(m): 7:59am On Aug 02, 2009
Kunbee:
posakosa and Theseeker r , ahhh i can hear wedding bells wink
grin ;DWedding bellshuh From where? Are you sure you're not living close to an Anglican or Catholic church? Because I think that's the bell you're hearing. No be only bell, na ringing you dey hear grin grin
Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 7:16am On Aug 02, 2009
Hey y'all

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