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Willy7:
They have a washing machine. They decided to wash manually. They actually moved to a new apartment last night, and because the whole house was so congested, they decided to go spend the night and today at the guy's family house before returning to arrange their house. They took their dirty cloths and cotton along to wash. In fact as I'm writing this, he said the wife has laid down to sleep, while his Mom saw the littered cloths outside and is washing them. He is so furious, didn't say anything to his Mom, but went into the room and told his wife he will deal with her because of this. I just told him to calm down for now.

He will deal with her? In what way?? It may interest us to assume that this may not be the main cause of their problem. They should sort their problem out.
They packed in last night..... with all the rigors of the packing. Isn't it obvious that the wife may be too tired to continue or needed a rest??
She couldn't continue and told him so, even advise him to pack the rest inside and he is still fuming. What exactly is wrong with him?
Will it kill him to finish the washing or he is fuming that his mother is washing his clothes instead of his wife? Where the Bleep is the problem here?


Is the wife pregnant, if i may ask?

Willy7:
Ya, he is seriously considering not helping her out on chores anymore. In fact he is furious.

He is not helping her in any chores. He is rather helping himself.

You stated earlier that the wife is hardworking which when translated to street lingo means that the wife is financially capable.
Except you are financially capable of footing house bills comfortably without inputs from the wife, be rest assured that not helping at home will either force the wife to withdraw her finances or opt to be a full-time housewife to take care of the growing responsibility.
You can't eat your cake and have it.

Willy7:
They have a washing machine. They decided to wash manually.

So what is the problem here
He should use it.
What will he do if his business partner or colleague in the office do something similar?
Men are whining more than women nowadays

Poverty. Washing machine should've solve this problem.

He should select his cloth, wash them and soak the wife's cloth as she requested. They should stop washing each others cloths sef . Kids never come and dem dey throw yeye tantrum.

Dey even carry am come nairaland, kai mana

Souqwaqif:
Guess you are a victim of what you are saying that's not so in my own case.The person you seems to be fighting for is already apologizing.

YEAH right!!!. You have threatened her then not that she wanted to. You have to report her for her to apologize that says a lot about you.

Souqwaqif:
I wonder the type of human being you are,so you encouraged insurbodination,for your info I didn't meet her initially in that kind of dressing, I saw her a decently dressed lady before I went to her,this is just happening now because of bad friends

INSUBORDINATION? DA HELL . Your wife- insubordination. No wonder she is rebelling. What are running in that home of yours? A slave camp You probably sees her as an object in the garrison you called a home.
No wonder you are hyperventilating Insubordination your left yellow balls.

Lemme get this straight.
The skimpy dresses attracted you like an infested fly seeking for shits and now you believe it will attract other guys like it attracted you. . In this case, you decided to give yourself headache, not because she was caught cheating but because you're a typical insecure Nigerian horseband. Come on men . Get you act together and stop whining like a sissy. After reporting to her parent what happened...nothing, nada, zilch, efu, sifili . Because they know you were over-reacting.

Get this-
She is not a child or your child that you will instruct or command. You converse with an adult, the decision about their life is their perogative.

Okolomammma:
https://nursesarena.com/news/uk-govt-abolishes-ukvi-ielts-for-doctors-nurses-midwives-others/msg10295/#msg10295


Please how true is this?

IT IS .
https://www.gov.uk/government/news/expansion-of-the-shortage-of-occupation-list?utm_source=63fa355e-448b-4f7c-b636-2b1c0727ba35&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=govuk-notifications&utm_content=immediate

roaringlamb01:
You are quite dramatic, ain't you? It is fine, I understand. of course, I was threatened, I was scared; for my finances and the future of my small family in this Nigeria. Any other "treat", you may want to explain further.

You are funny, "how am I treating them?"...

Like a leech

The young shall grow sha

roaringlamb01:
lol. lol. "it's my house and not their sister's house". i.e. imagine if it was her house, then, they might send me packing, since they can't greet the owner of a place

I believe this is a woman speaking...

Yes i am a woman and your thinking is erroneous.SO IT IS NOT HER HOUSE? You see your wife as a visitor too albeit a permanent one in "your" house, same way you see her brothers.
Let me be clear with you--------- in terms of packing, you are threatened. You are already thinking it cos you are sending her brothers packing for " overstaying". They must have misjudged or miscalculated their moves by thinking that they will feel at home in their in-laws. They erred in that regard by not being specific on the number of days they wish to stay but they do not deserve to be treated with disdain.
If reverse is the case, would you like your wife to treat your siblings the same way you are treating hers? Please tell them you do not want them in YOUR HOUSE.

roaringlamb01:
Lol... Very easy for you to speak. Did I send them away because I wanted to be "pretty and wicked"? What a way to put it.

Yes, i wanted to be pretty and wicked to a people who are overstaying their welcome, a people who don't even greet me in the morning or evening, or are not useful to me , my wife or my kids. Or who didn't deem it necessary to discuss with me about staying 2 more months (not 3 extra weeks, pls read well ...). It is my house, not their sister's. How can I allow my kids to continue to see such behavior?

Lol. Providence... Continue. Providence is not stupidity.


Lol. Na wa o. Unceremoniously throw out?! They went back to their parent's home, after 5wks of supposed visitation. Talking like i throw out on the street.

IT IS YOUR HOUSE NOT THEIR SISTERS
You are petty and wicked. So you also see your wife as a tenant.
If this guys were to be your brothers would you have treated or even think of treating them or being petty for something as greetings, licking your asses?
How many of your younger siblings greets you and ass licks everything you do? You are petty Mr Poster.
Did you bother to be friends with this guys and tell them please do this and that, give them advise........In short be their friends.

If this had been a woman, everybody would've been asking for her head.

lol

PassingShot:


If not some kind of voodoo, how does one explain a directive by this terrorist asking his brainwashed followers to arrest and disgrace a sitting president, and they in turn attempting it.

Even, a normal 10 year old knows it's an impossible stunt to pull, yet we see adults acting foolishly attempting to carry out the order from their lord.


How a set of people can be this gullible, irrational and tactless needs to be studied as a major course in ivory towers.

Only Nnamdi Kanu can bring you out of sabbatical.

sreamsense:
Is this man truely a prof? His statement is disgusting! This is pure irrational thinking and submission! If a supposedly respected individual, father and brother to indicted fraudsters can say this in the public, then, moral values from more than average homes in that region has "gone on holiday". Indirectly, he is advising federal government to shield fraudsters from international embarassement. How can federal government bend so low to support criminality when the same government is fighting fraudsters and other forms of criminality locally? Abike Dabiri statement in this context is fair enough to a morally cultured society so that international communities will not see Nigeria as country that support criminers and fraudsters, otherwise, it will portray Nigeria as unserious in anti-corruption fight.

You should learn the meaning of indictment before commenting. Nigerian government has a duty to its citizens to protect not using media trials and accepting FBI online publications of fraud on a face values, it shows lack of tact . They are indicted does not mean that they are guilty. It is left for the FBI to prove this case beyond every reasonable doubt to a competent court with the presented evidences. Some of these guys may walk free at the end of the day.

Abike Dabiri followed the faulty Nigerian culture of media trial and proving suspects guilty without trials. Quite unfortunate.
Once your name rings out..gbam you are guilty. Very faulty, i must say. What if majority of this guys listed were just victims whose emails where used by some select few to commit the crimes. It won't be the first time such is happening.

Well tribalism has eaten so deep into our souls that stereotypes will not allow us to reason objectively.

Catholic mission to the rescue. But wait till he enters high school and can defend himself

BEEJAY452:
@theyoungmatron,
Pls enlighten me the more. How will she go about it. Is like you have a colleague who have undergone this sucessfully before. Tnx in anticipation.

She should first of all decide which country she want to practise.
For USA, let her apply to CGFNS, register and fill the online form for professional evaluation. Cost approximately 130k.
Check the first page of this thread for the detailed guide.

BEEJAY452:
Help a friend pls,
@expert @experienced colleagues in the house,

A friend did a 3year basic midwifery programme at first before she proceeded to an 18month basic Nursing programme hear in naija, she is now RM/RN.

(1) will US Nursing board accept/consider her for RN or LPN registration? Or midwife registration?
(2) can UK accept her as RN or RM for registration?
(3) can Canada accept her for RN or LPN registration?

Pls what country/part(s) is/are suitable for her for registration as a naija trained nurse according to her situation?

She will be eligible for registration as an USRN if she submit both RM and RN for evaluation. Most colleagues of mine did same as the midwifery made up needed theoretical and practical hours.

Even an infantile prick is advising women

pocohantas:
Sorry about your situation bro, I will suggest you follow these steps.

-Pray for her. Go down on your knees and pray.

-Control your tongue. You men have a way of provoking even an angel with your words (sometimes actions). No sane woman would want to kill her husband. No sane woman stays and starts nagging. Most times they react to something.

-Hope you are not denying her sex? Hope you still look good? I can't remember the last time I saw a Nigerian man with flat tummy. One would think men give birth to male kids and women the baby girls. Workout, smell good and dress good.

- Are you contributing enough to the home? Financially and domestically? She might be stressed. Help out in the home ehn.

In all, stoop to conquer. Your fathers went through worse, but they found a way around it. Do not throw away the baby with the bathe water. I wish you strength.

No need to add more. Just-----
Shut up when she is talking and always give her her favorite gifts and amount of money. Allow her to rant and please do not provoke her before she finds your replacement.
Give her quality sex and more sex. Wear sexy boxers and swim in Nautica Blue Eau de Toilette, Dolce & Gabbana The One, L'eau D'issey by Issey Miyake and Versace Man Eau Fraiche mixed in same bottle. Pray ceaselessly. Always be on your knees praying for your wife.

olumalcolm:
Uncle send her out of the house, sell one of ur lands, add the proceeds to ur biz and wrk hard to raise enof money for DNA test. She has more dan enof guys in her life, i am pretty sure she has a younger marafvcker in ur neighbourhood also greasing her engine so u beta ler her go except u wnt to die young. Also ur first born is which gender cos if ur first born is a girl, @ 17, she wuld knw alil about her mothers runs except she is not close to her mum, so she will understand the reasons for ur actions better.

He should send the woman out of her house, abi no be the same thread we dey read so. He cannot send her out of any house because the house, business and almost all their all whatnots belongs to the woman. .

obentenyson:
you just said Lagos is capital for mad people. You just stated another reason why the woman is naked on a bike. she is obviously mad... ode...

Disjointed man. Have no idea what you mad lots are talking about or maybe your mad highness is referring to another thread.

obentenyson:
or your are the one who lacks the ability to Understand... I don't have ur time.... just tell your mum to stop dressing naked on the street of Lagos again, if u don't want her to be called names in public.. have a nice day defending trash...

Lagos?? The capital of the mad world? I can't be found 5000 miles near that filth. No wonder you are ranting like a frustrated lunatic. Perpetual resident of a mad city!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

obentenyson:
it obvious your dehydrated Brain didn't read through the post n think instead u just bitch-dived to start reacting like a chemical.....

YOU ARE NOT COMMUNICATING WITH your disjointed excuse of a sentence.........

doctokwus:
He must have realised his folly after being scolded or educated by his betters.
Same foolishness displayed by a nurse on Facebook or Twitter that was stigmatising HIV patients that came to her centre.

You must always find a way to rope nurses in to inflate your points.

obentenyson:
did the person that posted this issue tell you what led to the lady who claim to have her phd in d UK say what she said to the nurses? its like some of u don't know how useless most of this hospital nurses her.. no respect.. my dad that is 70, u go see how them go dey treat the old man like some shit, not until they figured out that he was a friend to the Doctor before they started behaving like someone with sense. obviously one of those nurses must have provoked that lady to brag about her PhD n the rest but the idiot that posted this won't post about what led to all this issue.. them suppose sack that cleaner.....

The poster mentioned a cleaner but you are here with your embittered mind crying about nurses. Face your problem abeg.

Opdannex:
Thanks for your response, I called them and they have directed me according, pls I still have the 2nd question regarding the fingerprint cards for BON

TBON will send it directly to you

Andersonjr:
I love that series Poldark. It has a Very intriguing drama gosh!

Very intriguing!!!!!!!!!!

canadiandamsel:
please i have the following questions
1. Can a fresh graduate with just 1 year internship experience get agency like Avant for USA sponsorship
2. If the above is no....can getting CES report from CGFNS help.
3. If number 2 fails...can getting IELTS with CES report make any difference.
4. If all options fail...can getting NCLEX in addition to number 3 increase ones chances of getting sponsored by the likes of Avant.
Thanks

You first of all get CES report then NCLEX then Avant

cheliejelie:
Girl......... You're the ignorant because you obviously dony watch the freaking news. Trump is cutting off legal and illegal immigration. Your green card doesnt mean anything. If it was as easy as you're trying to make it out to be you wouldn't be in this thread looking for advice and tips. Ice is going to lock you up in those cages if you dare do something so irrational. Lmao im literally laughing because it's crazy how blind you are to whats going on in tbe world right now. Do you really believe these white countries want you there especially if you're this dumb already? Look for opportunities in your home land please and hopefully you get more education too while you're at it because id hate to imagine my life in your hands if i were a patient.

This guy is so ignorant as F.. and so pained. You are pained because you studied animal farm.

This thread is for nurses not for your fellow illegal immigrants. Foreign nurses has never migrated illegally in any country of the world.

Find somewhere else to take out your frustration.