₦airaland Forum

SwagPower:
Reading the comments from the ladies on here made me realize we need to start praying for these girls mehn..


At this rate most may not end up well..

Guys Pray o!

Don't pray for ladies rather pray for yourself and fellow men to be a great provider to their families

They would've kicked the woman to the curbs if reverse had been the case here.

Men are obviously the worse hypo-critics and crybabies ever.

Work, you no wan settle for less, chores you no dey do.......just occupying space like MATTER

The whole post on front-page has men running away from marriage citing silly excuses especially cheating .
They do not want to be served with their own coin

SamConquer:
Lol....how good is the show,cause I see it has 90% rating on rotten tomatoes.

Breaking bad is not a quick ejaculation kinda TV series. It starts from seduction, fore-play, penetration, orgasm, climacteric effects and ejaculation. So if your series are for quick or premature ejaculation, kindly do not spoil the show for us.

Timi1990:
this your post funny ooo bro , so you quit your job because of that ? . Well I must say there’s risk everywhere and in every job . If you have about 3-4 years experience as correctional officer i’ll Advice you join the PD or work for Sheriffs Office . If you’re willing to take certification courses and do lot of self study then you can start a career in IT .

Nigerians and the diehard syndrome . Naaaa, he won't quit till they kill and mince his meat

gift01:
had this same effect when I finished Scorpion and Burn Notice. Never watched BB but am downloading asap

Burn notice and breaking bad is a biannual ritual for me. I have been searching for a fix like some compound addict ever since. They are in the league of their own. The acting and story-lines are effortless and real.

HYMENOPLASTY is a surgery for the reconstruction of hymen i.e virginity.
I am laughing

Shidaota1:
Hello everyone.

Please I would like to make enquiries/seek a better opinion.

I am a medical doctor here in Nigeria, been practicing for 9 years, and would love to relocate to Canada with my family (my wife and one child).
I really don't know the steps to take, the possibilities of been employed and how to go about it.
your kind responses would be appreciated.

Never you listen to all this doctor and nurse beaters cos when push comes to shove they won't hesitate to beat the hell out of you and rub your name in the mud. Go where patients do not need to pay for ordinary medical consumables before they are treated. Where you will find peace of mind, damn it !!!!!!!!!!

Good morning y'all.
Please, i need Spanish series with English subtitles. Need to brush up my Spanish ASAP.
Your suggestions are welcome.
Thanks.

Ryan03:
or you don't want to contribute in your home?

Monetary, materially, in house-chores..........where else. Have been contributing for aeons. Some women don't have the luxury of making good plans and having helps like house-helps, relatives, in-laws but they are expected to do all and still contribute financially to the home.

Ryan03:
I have and will always be an advocate for gender equality. House chores can never be 50-50, if you try that you may end up monitoring every thing in the house. Let everyone live freely without trying to Lord over the other and the home will be perfect

Well Ryan, most Nigerian male aren't. They meanders from a typical traditional husband to 21st century husband to bible-thumping husbands etc. Their confusion caused them to practically sits on the fence jumping from one type to the other.

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahaha

The funny thing is that if the wife works, except she is solely on her own and can do EVERYTHING she currently does without a sweat, they would be worse off.

I am just thinking about it again;

They do not pay for extramural lessons, no budget for clothes (wifey is at home and can manage whatever), hair, shoes, outings, payment for chores etc.

I would also wager that the OP does not do any chores (Oworosoki - V/I) everyday is not beans so the wife carries all that burden.

Yet, we are asking 'What does she do or she should assist the man.'

If she does, who will pick up the slack that would be left?

A business I can think of is frying potatoes, plantain, yam etc in front of the house however, it is very very time intensive and energy sapping.

OP should brace himself up more to earn more.

When people talk of unpaid work and the only arrangement that seems fair to an average woman is one where she stays at home and the man works full time, it seems idiotic.

CC: LadySarah

People fail to understand this. If that woman step out to work no matter how menial, the home-front will suffer. It is very obvious that this is a young family except if all the kids are in school.
There is no allowance for clothes, shoes, baby foods, diaper etc.

Oga, Give me your address lemme arrange boys to beat the hell out of her. You should not soil your hands so that you will not be tagged a wife beater. Just 2k and a bottle of fake Jack Daniel will do.

sleit:
Sir this load is much na

Is your wife aware of this breakdown?

She's an helpmate, encourage her to help o.

Ain't she helping already by doing the unpaid work of a cook, cleaner, nanny, house-help, home teacher and a whole lot more.
Do you know what will happen if she starts working especially in this Lagos cesspool?
Let me break it down: someone else will be paid to do those jobs from both their pockets which they cannot afford now. The much they can do now is for the wife to get something she can be doing from home that will not be stressful or the home-front will suffer. At least until the kids are old enough to take care of the basics.

donstan18:
Aruba'm, okwu ndi Igbo n'akwukari oto ka cigar.

Odighi aro one side ka Ishi amu ndi Fulani.

Chaii!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
Onu nsi

Gandollaar:
How do you mean?

If buhari was even half of what an African head of family should be talkless of a fanatical Muslim head, how can a small unmarried maiden take to the Media washing dirty leanings in public without hinderance?

The girl in question too is a fulani Muslim girl supposedly draped in hijab to avoid sinning, but she damned all and is speaking to be heard by the world about the private business of her old uncle and his family who moreso is President.

Then on Aisha's part, whether she's been wrongly or rightly treated is no longer my concern.

I was appalled after watching the video, Fatima's interviews and presidency reaction on the incident, to discover Aisha buhari is a wild, belligerent woman and it's not fit for the toga of cool-cat cast on her by majority.

I mean this woman according to the reports hurled an iron chair to force open a door in the presidency. That's unladylike and unbecoming of a first lady!

Remember how patience Jonathan was hounded even by people like woke Soyinka for abrasive behavior.

I like what she did cos no sitting wife of an African president will tolerate such. For her to haul a chair shows that she has had enough.

Go to neuro-psychiatric hospital for help

genq:
Coming from a teenage pr0stitute just like LilllyVal. I'm not surprised.

OP so your wife cannot raise capital to open her own business? Nigg@s out here marrying liabilities

Frustrated fetal chauvinist.
Snail-skulled little rabbit. Choke on the queasy convulsing nausea of your own trite foolish beliefs. What meaning do you expect your delusional self-important statements of inexperienced opinion have on female gender? Your perpetual fantasies on women is inconsequential. It is baffling that you would believe that your tiny-fisted tantrums would have more weight than that of a leprous desert rat, spinning rabidly in a circle, waiting for the bite of the snake?
On a good day you’re a half-wit and a drool. You are deficient in all that lends character with the personality of a wallpaper soaked in dank and filthy water. Your reasoning are asinine and benighted. You are the source of all unpleasantness, spreading misery and sorrow wherever you go.

Next post from you will be completely ignored.
Thank you

Oh he grunts like a pig or stink like one

Vyolet:
One and half year with no child yet is too early for he to be withdrawing from sex.
You need to find out what the problem is, you may not be as good as you think or too rough.

So you were best of friends which is obviously the main reason why you guys got married, now you want to be a tyrant, a Nigerian monster Dude, you are funny!!!
Anyway, your life...your house....

If you desire respect that much, you should've waited cos the baby that will marry and respect you ceremoniously and unceremoniously is still crawling.

BEEJAY452:
@Theyoungmatron

Am sorry, your response is not clear to me.
How I wish you can reply according to my previous questions.

N.B: Am yet to send my details to CGFNS for evaluation.

oooh, So sorry. I mean i did 3-year RM and post-basic RN.
I thought you have sent your documents already. Send both RN and RM.

joungblood:
Thanks for ur reply.. So u mean that there's no hope for someone that studied art to learn nursing? No back door or nothing?

You don't learn nursing, you study and train to be a nurse.
There is no shortcut.

BEEJAY452:
Hi,
Did you do 3-year Basic Midwifery (RM) first before 18-month RN program?
If yes, did you submit both RM and RN transcripts or only RN to CGFNS for evaluation?
Am interested because that is my situation. And, I will be glad if you can update me on CGFNS final response. Thanks.

I did and also my BNSC. What exactly were you told? Every other thing is ok except the " unusually high hours"?

joungblood:
Please house, some questions, can someone who study art be a nurse? O level student, which place is the best nursing school in lagos, what's the duration and cost. And mostly is it possible for a art study o level to just go into nursing?

You need sciences to study nursing. English, Maths, Biology, Physics and Chemistry.

fendorf:
Finally got our I-140 approval 10weeks after filling by OGP.

Congrats sir.
CGFNS told me that the hours on my transcript in unusually high for an 18 months RN program. I laughed so hard because it is funny. My question is this, if it is that high, does it mean it is not acceptable? I thought more is better. My school sent the correct info but they seem to like nibbling on crumbs.

Still waiting for their response anyway................

Emaprince:
Garbage. Only a foolish and naive man will believe this crap

See your mouth. As if women don't like sex or able to live without it.

Tell the truth as it is... The woman have found another man, hence the sudden warning of no sexual attraction towards the man.

This OP is a foolish man sha. Do you need anybody to tell you whats been going on behind you...even the woman is giving you a clue, yet you chose to be foolish.

She knows he is foolish and easily manipulated, hence the boldness in making such unbelieveable statement.

Are you a woman?

Acidosis:
Read the bold again and juxtapose with the topic. Can you see how senseless this thread is?

Why want children when children make you unhappy? Better search yourself and define what happiness means to you.

Marriage makes women unhappy not children. Or do you equate children as marriage? Do note that you can have kids without marriage but you'll be stigmatized.

khia:
This woman is full of crap. Feminism didn't destroy the black family because it didn't/doesn't affect the black woman. White women are the one who started feminism back in the late 1950s 1960s. They were tired of being housewives, they wanted to join the workforce. The black American woman was always part of the workforce. We didn't have the luxury to lay our asses around the house. We had to earn money for the family just as the men did. We were always united in holding the family together. These are the things that destroyed the black family, Systemic Mass incarceration on Black men, drugs pushed in our neighborhood by the CIA, absentee fathers, children out of wedlock among others. This woman has always been controversial and would say anything to sell a book.

Tell them.
What do you except when black men are incarcerated for crimes, run-off after impregnating their girls, become deadbeat fathers, and black women are subjected to work their asses off to carter for their families. Who do you think will call the shots...the dad in prison or the run away dad or the absentee fathers?.
Nigeria is slowly getting to that point, where young men and women opts to have baby-mamas instead of establishing a family. They cites inability to cater for their family, some ludicrous reason like not needing kids, not willing to have a man or woman in their life. In the next 20-30 years, they will tag it feminism instead of stubbing the root cause.

eni4real:
According to who??

Are you married?

genq:
Unfortunately the family section is still very much dominated by sexually frustrated misandrists who can't handle the truth. The likes of zeb04, lolo24, cococandy, pocahontas, mstick, baby124, theyoungmatron etc.. and of course that fat, black elderly spinster called CHoccolaTE.. family section is where this group of babymamas, single and unhappily married women gather to console themselves.

There are a few reasonable ladies like bukatyne and missjo who try to be fair and reasonable but sadly, they are often victims of mass bullying by these so called 'feminists'.

Romance section is where it's at! I'm so thrilled that men are waking up. Keep taking those red pills brothers.

Cheers to the future.

Your advise is clearly non-existent cos you lack the intellectual capability to think of one. Your whole life revolves around trolling women. Being stuck in the apron strings of the women in your life and your inability to break free is really taking it's toil on you.

Get a life and stop feeding your troll instinct