Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...
While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility
Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care
Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you
Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .
The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.
A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you
Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart
Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky
Obi claim Peter Odili was his senior boy In school
*How exactly is a 6 year old in Secondary school, to have a senior boy as Peter Obi in senior class form 5 or SS3?!
* He also used the pronoun "We couldn't have played"
Question remains how does a 6 years old in primary knows Odili a senior boy and graduating student of SS3 to use we as a personal pronoun
This is why SouthEast have ridiculous Governors since 1999, from drunkard like Obiano, to Statue molder like Okorocha, to Hopeless Uzodingba, to Kerosene Ikpeazu, to chronic lair Obeer
Nobody would allow such charlatans near Aso Rock
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After I left secondary school, some of my fame was still there long after me.
Shane on you people. I dey see comments and I am disappointed that people just decide to become stupid just because they want to support something stupid. You just intentionally become stupid? How else do one make a statement. Dollar rose to 920 for days...isnt that a thousand? Isnt that how anybody would talk.
Blackmailing tinubu or obi or atiku won't solve our problem at all..
But asking what they intend to do when they get to the reins of power should be our first priority. .
Let them minister our needs to us .simple
My friend, past record or antecedents, is a pointer to somebody character. Somebody's character is an indicator that tells us how somebody will commit to a cause. Knowing who a public servant is really is absolutely important
I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.
At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.
And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.
Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...
pls I need advice, prayers and support.
You have been deceived by the lying spirit of satan through your pastor and spiritualist. Draw your wife closer, reassure her that you have confidence in the marriage. Plan things together and pray. Throw away negativity from your heart You will start seeing difference
Life2020: Hi, first I want to thank you all for your advise the last time i was here.
The last time I brought up my problems here, I vented out about how my husband is being a total pain in the ass.
The problem is one, he's cheating on me with several girls and still want to have sex with me but i refused stating that until he does a full STD test we are not having sex, simply put i need to Know that he is STD free before we have sex again.
Two, he's never at home, sometimes for two weeks he stays in hostels with girls, partying and spending his money, at first i tried to understand him because we did marry young, i felt that maybe he misses having his Independence, so at first i said nothing until it got worse. I now feel like a single mom, i do everything, the children don't even know anything about their dad, they see him as a stranger now, he's always cool towards them and i don't like it, have told him several times that i want the children to bound with him, i need them to have a good relationship with their father and have even advised him to take them out, maybe to a theme park or anything really but he has refused stating that he's busy.
Thirdly he body shames me, telling me that i look like a clown, I'm fit, it's not like I'm dirty or anything i take care of myself, i know he's lying because i have admirers, like a lot of them, ever since i started making money and could afford to employ workers, i have done everything to make myself look good, i go to the gym, do facials and i make sure I look beautiful, honestly I don't know what's wrong with him.
I have come to the conclusion that he is only saying it to be mean to me, maybe as a means of control, honestly i think he thinks if he makes me feel less than i am, to make me think i have no where else to go.
Thirdly when we first got married, we both agreed that he will go to the university first then later, i will also attend, after finishing his university education he couldn't find a job so i gave him two of my lands to start a business, he because successful in the business and his now lavishing the money. I have a farming business, it's very successful, with it i have many lands and i built the home me and my husband live in, ever since he started making money i advised him to build his own house but he has refused, instead he bought a fancy car, i want to build an estate so that i can have another source for revenue but for one reason or other, my husband is advising me against it.
Now back to me wanting to attend the university, i want to study accounting so that i can take my business to a new level but my husband has refused saying that he wants more babies, we already have twins (two lovely girls). i told him later, after I finish my university degree and our girls are a little bit older, we will have more kids
Now back to the present day, have decided I'm kicking my husband out. Recently, I noticed he was always at home, I was happy but surprised, I thought he had changed. I decided we need to spend time together as a family, I was even planning on us going on a vacation, give my children a life I wasn't opportune to live, I talked to him about it, we made plans, he agreed to go for a full STD test. I was happy little did I know that my so called husband has fathered another child outside our marriage, he told me this himself, saying all sorts of nonsense on how I should advise the girl to abort it so that we can be one big happy family, I just looked at him, I haven't said anything to him in days. But I have decided that I'm kicking him out. I want to do this in a way that it doesn't affect my children, I really want them to build a relationship with their dad but as for me I clocked out of this marriage a long time ago.
I was advised by my a friend to make a video while I kick him out but I'm not going to do, he's till the father of my child, and I don't want my children to grow up and find those videos honestly I just need emotional support while I go through this divorce.
I am a man. There might be other angle to your narrative. However, if what you have said is true, you have allowed many rubbish over time. There are a tions you should have taken. If your husband has started body shaming you and wouldn't want you to grow your business, he has become wicked and insecure. Bible based advice supersede our (sometimes stupid) traditions and cultures. Nobody, the man or the woman, has right to any marriage once you start having extra marital affairs. You have seen one result already, a bastard child. There may come other results like STDs. You should not ask anybody to abort oh, unless you ate one of those that think there is no God. The bastard child is his decision. For your growth and safety you can end the marriage. Abusive home isn't good for even children. Except your husband changes sincerely immediately, you can leave and seek remarriage. You may show him this message
I wanted to help a friend meet up with a medical appointment, just as she entered the car, I heard somebody call her 'Chisom, Chisom, wait first'. She at first dismissed the person and said 'see, I can't wait'. But just before we drove off, she urged me to make a U turn. As we got to the guy that called her, I could see clearly from the unkempt nature of the guy and the dreads that had turned dirty and brown that the guy is a 'mad man'. wow! Chisom parted with some change. The 'mad man' even looked into the car window and hailed me saying 'bros weldone oh', I answered him as I would any other person. Just as we drove off, I asked her what was her relationship with the obviously 'mad man'. Chisom answered that the guy is her immediate elder brother. He was into music but started using drugs. He has been mad for two years. The family have spent millions and the father even left them because of the case. She went on and narrated the many ill and even bad experiences the family have suffered even from pastors. She have even stopped going to church. She is exhausted. The love for her brother was still very palpable and raw. She couldn't even hide him or deny him. The whole thing broke me. I have had many similar encounters and experiences like this. I am a lover of people and God. Injustice touches me to the very bone. And I try not to lie to myself. I have made a lot of mistakes in the past too. I, a very long time ago experimented with drugs too. There are facts lying around that if we try deny, we may not be any different to a mad Man. I do not like Atiku because even his boss till now attested to the fact that Atiku looted our common wealth. If I can't even proof that, I at least know that Atiku's handling of the nationwide privatisation of companies was a disaster that affected adversely many families. However, consider Tinubu. This is somebody that was accused of assassinating his major political opponent some years ago. I was in lagos then, and I remember how everywhere was tensed. Well, it might just be nothing more than an accusation, however, we see how 'agberos', that any honest person knows Tinubu has control over, go about with impunity. Any honest person also will agree that Tinubu's government didn't do so much in terms of developing the state compared to many of the other governors and administrators of lagos. I was in lagos. What we only hear now is that he laid down some blueprint (which nobody has seen or have access to). Now, documents abound to the fact that Tinubu was a drug baron. With the way drugs are pervasive and accessible in lagos, who knows if he is still very much in the business. And we otherwise, good and normal people, for some reason have just dicided to corrupt the society by not only rewarding these men but also empowering them the more to go about their immoral ways. Some say Tinubu commands respect. What respect will somebody that the world knows is a criminal command in the community of leaders? Some people say he is smart. But he is frail now! Atiku and Tinubu have destroyed families and even cities. Bacita sugar company that was the heart of a thriving town got destroyed by this type of men. There are family breadwinners, husbands and supposed future of the country roaming about the streets mad from drugs. And you people do not consider this because, JUST F**KING BECAUSE, these men belong to your tribe and religion? Even God is disappointed. Or just maybe I put too much importance on family and justice. I am concluding, that it may be because I have abused drugs in the past, I may be mad and unable to analyse and appreciate issues well, or its you people that are mad and have lost it from the daily abuse you suffer from these people. One thing is clear though, I am different. Obi is a thief, but he is just a petty thief, compared to these armed robbers and kidnappers of future. Is Obi smart? Completely! He is an accomplished business man. Is he an igbo man? Well he has the shape of head that looks like the one you will find in Alaba market, importantly however, he is a humanbein.
Una never see anything, Shebi una think say you can just elect anybody just based on tribe and religion Una think say bad people on government do not have effect on the common people. Na one effect una see so
Honjoshy4u: You can only work out peace for someone who is ready. Wike never liked Atiku. He is trying to destroy Atiku through the call of Ayu to resign. Ortom spoke their mind.(vowing never to support Atiku). Their plan is to control the party and if their wish is not granted, they will destroy the umbrella completely but Atiku knows better. Ati will resign after election. Let the do their worse
Let's all try to always tell each other the truth. Somebody that wouldn't resign now when it appears he has a lot to lose will now resign after election victory when he should be enjoying?
God please help us in this country. We are not an honest people
MissLeslie: All political party in Nigeria are the same so as the politician, b4 in 1999 we only know of PDP and AD and some other party but what is the gain,
They may look the same, but no two things are exactly the same. The point is to be honest enough to identify the least bad and support him
THE SINCERE UNBIASED TRUTH. There may be more brighter minds and more honest people than Obi among the presidential candidates, however, there are three frontrunners, and among these three Obi appears the most honest. He has less baggage. Obi is the only candidate among the other ok candidates that has more chance of winning. I personally prefer him because I feel he will show more commitment and operate more independently because he doesn't really owe is candidature to any vested interests, political elites and groups. He is the only candidate outside the established political parties that has a chance. To put it very simple; Atiku has the overwhelming sentiments of the north-west states and north-east states (11 states besides Bornu and Kano), Tinubu has the sentiments of the south-west states and Bornu (7 states), while Obi has the overwhelming sentiments of the south-east states and south-south states (11 states). The battle ground will be in the north-central states. There are 7 of them including the FCT; Kwara and Kogi will definitely be won by Tinubu. Atiku will win Niger and Nasarawa. The sentiments in Benue and Plateau is favouring Obi. The FCT has most of the time voted for PDP, and this is because it has many resident igbos and Christians. Obi may very well inherit these support bases. Factors I want you to note: *on paper, Atiku appears the best placed out of all the candidates as he has support in ALL of the regions. This means, he appears the most likely to get the 25% in 26states or so that is needed to win. *This election may be the very first in the history of Nigeria presidential election that will need a second round of election to get a clear winner. *Obi enjoys far more support of the whole demography of southern youths compared to Tinubu. *Kwankwanso is the great disruptor of the northern votes. He will win Kano and also do well in Kaduna. It will favour Obi if Kwankwaso go through to the very end in this election, and importantly, you all should know that it will be hard for Kwankwaso to step down now has he would have calculated that it will favour him in the grand scheme of things if Obi wins this election. *Igbos are the only tribe that has significant population in ALL of the regions in Nigeria. And they feel it is their time now. *BVAS is a great equalizer in this forth coming election. Votes cast successfully will count now. Osun is a case study. INEC is doing well so far and the recent CBN policies may also disrupt some established politicians and their age old tactics. * Obi has a good chance. Has almost (if not more) a good chance as Tinubu. The chance is brighter if as much as 80% of all the people that believe in him come out to cast their votes. About 90% of the support bases of the other veteran politicians will cast their votes that day.
An accountant afraid of questions from accountants. Afraid of scrutiny from lawyers. Afraid of pressure from press people. Afraid of answering to the common man. All these fears in his backyard, lagos. Shouldn't we all be afraid of this man? #blackMarket
Nobody could see just some few days to the future after this video. While knows what will happen to me before today's end? Who knows what will happen to you seeing this?
lhordspy: I think i am the only one in the world that think this man is wasting his time.
I think he knows that too. But i just dont understand why he still keeps trying hard.
Outside the maybe 5 people pushing atiku's news down our throat here for his dollars maybe. I have never seen or met any Atiku's supporter outside this forum.Not even by mistake.
adioolayi: Labour Party leads about 23% women representation..
APC with 8.8%
PDP 8.3%
The old guards are not ready to do anything different...
But, can Obi win That's the 1Million question
I swear he can. He has two regions on a lock down. Atiku has two too. Tinubu has one. It is the person that wins the north central that is going to become the president. Please don't just resign and sit at home that day. Votes now count. The bad elements of the society are more enthusiastic in voting. We the good people should not be hiding. 1 person that sits at home will affect.this election will be tightly fought
Macphenson: I think they are. I innocently once dated a HIV positive girl and narrowly escaped being infected. Then I was in depression and she came to my rescue. She was so nice, loving and caring. When I was coming out of depression, we were already fuckn raw. I even was even planning on settling down with her since she was there for me in my challenging moment. She was so pretty, tall and fresh. Her plan was to infect me so that I can settle down with her.
One day, I came across her medications and googled it, only to find out its an anti retroviral drugs, with lots of immune boosters. I confronted her and she confessed. I broke down in tears and told her if I go for test and its positive, I will simply commit suicide.
I went for test at CDC in Yaba, it was negative. After three months I went back it was also negative. I tried about seven different hospitals and Labs, it cane out negative. Even when I travelled to east, I checked with several hospitals and lab it also came out negative. There was evwn a time I delibrately went to donate blood so that my blood will be thoroughly screened, the result also came out negative.
I explained my ordeal the doctor there and he was talking about people who are naturally immune to HIV.
U didn't contract it bro because she was taking her meds judiciously. She had zero count
Onetenth: So tell me d fucking reason I should tell a lie about something that never happened? If u are really worried and u wanna hear d truth. Some families have been selected to go to were he was buried for some prayers and confirmation of God knows what. So u can pm me I will give u d details. Oponu
I believe u are also lying. If it happened in orile in this year 2022 and the guy actually disappeared, it would have gone viral. Send me numbers too, I want to confirm this issue once and for all
1. Atiku Abubakar's visit to United States has exposed some ignoramuses that are using Tambuwal’s presence in the trip to spin narrative.
Sadly, they don't know that only heads of Sovereign countries enjoy cross-border immunity.
2. These ignoramuses don't know that Tambuwal's only enjoys immunity within Nigeria & holding a diplomatic passport doesn't exempt one from cross-border arrest. Even in the United States sitting Governors are arrested & prosecuted not to talk of Governors from a third world country.
3. The ignoramuses don't even know that as a former Vice President of Nigeria, Atiku is entitled to Diplomatic passport for life - which he uses for transnational trips. They don't know that the passport doesn't grant him immunity anywhere in the world if he breaks the law.
4. These ignoramuses don't know that if Atiku was a US fugitive, UAE government would have extradited him long ago just like they did Hushpuppy (USA) and James Ibori (UK).
Ignoramuses don't know that USA has never for once sought extradition order on Atiku like they did Abba Kyari
5. These ignoramuses willingly refused to come to reality that Atiku Abubakar has no criminal indictment in the USA, Nigeria or any other country - hence, he freely moves around.
Thankfully, Majority Nigerians know these facts and are fully with Atiku Abubakar for #PDPRecoveryPlan
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We can't believe anything you say. You are infamous for spewing lies shamelessly
Jones4190: If Peter Obi, who is a gentlemen, cannot influence his followers to behave like gentlemen and ladies, how can he influence the entire country to move in the right direction? If he cannot manage his most loyal supporters, how will he manage the muslim north?
Clearly i responded to what the op posted. Am i the one that clipped the video?
that shows, u are a brainless chemical. Just reacting anyhow. If you are ever a serious and patriotic person in your life, you should have even seen the video before now. I for example, take my time to listen to almost all the media sections of the leading candidates, why? Because I don't want to help chose a disaster for the country. If you are just always reacting like this without taking time to confirm the truth, then you don't deserve a phone and I so pity anybody that sees you as a partner...u will definitely mess up that persons life
lafuria1: A video of what actually happened should have been posted by you guys that support obi.
You guys should be leading the short clips video of your candidate not been defensive.
Why the mischief in the first place? I have the full video saved on my phone. I listened carefully to almost all the interview and media sections of the main candidates. A guy has posted the link in the first page. This mischief and lies against obi should really show anybody smart, that he is the good candidate out of the candidates
Blazebond: Mr IMPORTER Sabi dodge question well well o,last last he go say "I won't let you know my secrets now" hahahahaha,this man na JOKER sha and Nigerians are the biggest clowns taking him serious,this man that couldn't turn a whole ANAMBRA state into something good is asking Nigerians to go and verify, this was how we stupidly believe all the garbage from the mouth of buhari and his paddies during the 2015 elections and it is the same track that we are towing again.
Mischief maker. Peter Obi actually answered the question perfectly some seconds after the prison remarks. The response he first gave was for a previous question that Rufai asked together with the consumption own. He answered everything in order This OP has only mischievously cut the clip so it doesnt cover those prior questions and the answers. It shall never be well with u as u do not want it to be well with the nation
SmartyPants: It is to sow you that Peter Obi really doesn't much substance. He was asked a simply question about his main campaign point and swiftly diverted to talking about prisoners.
Obi says he will take us from consumption to production, a feat we have not been able to achieve for 60 years. So don't you think it's important that we hear how he plans to do it?
Mischief maker. Peter Obi actually answered the question perfectly some seconds after the prison remarks. The response he first gave was for a previous question that Rufai asked together with the consumption own. He answered everything in order This OP has only mischievously cut the clip so it doesnt cover those prior questions and the answers. It shall never be well with u as u do not want it to be well with the nation
ATLIEN2027: Pandora pathological liar Obi tuary is clueless buffoon trying to masquerading as a smart ass. May be he has early stages of dementia. He was asked a simple question yet he's talking about something else simply be has no idea and clueless on how to solve the problem.
Mischief maker. Peter Obi actually answered the question perfectly some seconds after the prison remarks. The response he first gave was for a previous question that Rufai asked together with the consumption own. He answered everything in order This OP has only mischievously cut the clip so it doesnt cover those prior questions and the answers. It shall never be well with u as u do not want it to be well with the nation
ATLIEN2027: Trash So people should vote for a clueless pandora pathological liar that just throws figures around and is incapable of answering simple questions.
Mischief maker. Peter Obi actually answered the question perfectly some seconds after the prison remarks. The response he first gave was for a previous question that Rufai asked together with the consumption own. He answered everything in order This OP has only mischievously cut the clip so it doesnt cover those prior questions and the answers. It shall never be well with u as u do not want it to be well with the nation
Mischief maker. Peter Obi actually answered the question perfectly some seconds after the prison remarks. The response he first gave was for a previous question that Rufai asked together with the consumption own. He answered everything in order This OP has only mischievously cut the clip so it doesnt cover those prior questions and the answers. It shall never be well with u as u do not want it to be well with the nation