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CrimeRe: A Young Man Killed By Cultist In Ojota Lagos. by thorpido(m): 8:17am On Aug 20, 2020
Led on by the devil to follow a path of destruction.
CrimeRe: 3 Teenage Boys Arrested For Allegedly Gang-raping And Drowning 13-year-old Girl by thorpido(m): 10:40pm On Aug 19, 2020
They are minors but acts like this deserve a death sentence.
FamilyRe: I Beat My Husband Because He Orders Me Around, Woman Tells Court by thorpido(m): 3:42pm On Aug 19, 2020
Fokosobo:
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you are the one that is not intelligent. infact you are not just a simp but also stúpid
Idiota who is so poor with reasoning.
You just heard the word simp because it's been trending?


My last reply to you mo-ron.
FamilyRe: Please Help! My Marriage Is About Crumbling by thorpido(m): 12:39pm On Aug 19, 2020
It's a challenge you both ought to face but you both appear to throw in the towel too early.
Well,medical people have a phobia for surgeries generally and it is understandable.Your wife has to weigh her options.
FamilyRe: I Beat My Husband Because He Orders Me Around, Woman Tells Court by thorpido(m): 8:58am On Aug 19, 2020
Fokosobo:
simp

since a woman is the culprit now she is a strong woman undecided but if it was the man that beat her you will call him an animal and order for his arresthuh
For you to use the word simp here means you are not intelligent.
You need to learn how to read taking into cognisance figurative expressions.
FamilyRe: Bibilical Gender Roles by thorpido(m):
1)Gen 9:6 says man,meaning mankind was made in the image of God.Genesis 5:2 says male and female created He them.
This settles the issue of who or what gender is made in the image processing glory of God.
Apostle Paul's teaching in 1 Cor.11:7 has to do with cultural practices and dressing of Israel at the time.You will notice he dwelt more on appearance in that scripture.
However,man has spiritual leadership in his home and the 'glory of the woman' as spoken of in that verse is in the spiritual leadership of her husband.

2)For man to express the image of God in him,he doesn't need a woman to do that(as expressed by the author).You do not need to express God's image or glory through/over/in another being.
The woman being the helpmate(or helper) didn't mean she was surbodinate(this word was never used).We know a helper is not necessarily someone under you.

3)Genesis 2:18 shows us why God created the woman.He said it is not good for man to be alone... It wasn't because he was trying to model His relationship with the church.

4)Yes,God gave man spiritual authority in his home but not because he has to 'exercise authority' as you would have in the military.Jesus gave a perfect example of leadership when He washed the feet of His disciples.Man's image and glory of God is not about being Lord over the partner.

5)1 Cor.7:4 says,..'the wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife'.
This scripture shows who owns who.The husband has not in anyway 'purchased and owned' the wife.The traditional rites in marriage where a dowry is paid are man's rites and culture.

6)Wives are admonished to submit(meaning yield) to their husbands.The husband himself must be yielded to the word of God.Wisdom is also profitable to direct.

7)Yes,God made man the provider for his family.

8 )God made man physically stronger than the woman.God made the husband the protector of his wife.

9)Funny.....you talk about the husband loving the wife and sacrificing and end with 'rebuke and chasten' her? cheesy

10)Weaker vessel is in terms of physical strength.Mental acuity,intelligence,wisdom and knowledge is not in anyway gender based.

11)Well,men cannot bear children.It is the woman whose body was created for that that will bear children.

12)God created women beautiful indeed.The beauty is for her man and her own pleasure.

13,14,15 & 16.)Sex is enjoyed by both men and women.God didn't create the woman as a sex object.

17)Then this is rape.If the man is commanded to love his wife and sacrifice for her,the why would he want and enforce sex upon his wife who does not desire such at that moment.

18 &19) It is indeed God's desire that the man and woman should come together and marry.Both have complimentary roles in the union.

20)The issue of male priests and disciples in my opinion was not because of patriarchy.I guess it was fir convenience and holiness.Imagine if one of the disciples was a lady and had to stay in the midst of the men on some other outings.
FamilyRe: I Beat My Husband Because He Orders Me Around, Woman Tells Court by thorpido(m): 9:44pm On Aug 18, 2020
Strong woman.
CelebritiesRe: Ibrahim Babangida Celebrates His 79th Birthday by thorpido(m): 8:05am On Aug 17, 2020
This man wants to die without apologizing to Nigerians for his annulment of June 12 elections and subsequent plunging of Nigeria into abyss.
HealthRe: Must Every Marriage Between AS Couple End In Regret? Advice Needed by thorpido(m): 7:55am On Aug 17, 2020
zeenaman:
There's this very close childhood friend of mine who is AS and considering marrying an AS lady. I have been trying to convince him to give up the relationship as it may end in regret, but my friend is not interested in any of of that. Even the lady doesn't care about the incompatibility. But I really like my friend and I don't want him sad in life.
To the experts here, does every marriage between AS couple end in regret, or there is a bit of hope that things will turn out perfect? Are there cases of AS couples having healthy kids?
He will be interested when the time comes and she will care too As the woman she will even 'care' more because she will be the one spending more time caring for a sick child.
If they are having just one child,they may be lucky if the child turns out without SS.If they plan to have up to three children,the risks are too high.
Christianity EtcRe: Does Money Ever Disappear In A Thin Air? by thorpido(m): 11:21pm On Aug 16, 2020
yomi007k:
You don't keep a budget...


Everything is spiritual in Africa.
I don't think so.I had this experience when I stayed alone.The only possibility was that someone broke into my apartment.....but there was no sign.
TravelRe: Is Migrating To Canada With 5m Worth It? by thorpido(m): 9:40am On Aug 15, 2020
It's worth it but you have to have a plan going forward when you get to the country.
What are your qualifications?What do you plan to do there when you get there?
FamilyRe: A Married Woman For Friendship by thorpido(m): 11:09pm On Aug 14, 2020
Sixfit:
Hi, Im a Married young man for about 7 years now, straight to the point, I need a Married woman to be friends with. Such a person can share real life experiences with me as what a woman wants and goes through in a marriage. In general we can talk on any topic. Send me a pm for my number
I can connect you with my grandmother.You need her no?
RomanceRe: Update On My Wife & I by thorpido(m): 11:00pm On Aug 14, 2020
The way you're both handling your marriage isn't right.
If you can't talk to the mother for reasons you stated what about an older sibling is a close elder in their family?
RomanceRe: Lady Rejects ₦66.6m G-wagon Car Gift From Boyfriend, Says She Wanted Another Col by thorpido(m): 12:01pm On Aug 14, 2020
Well,he should have bought pink.tongue
FamilyRe: Autistic Child: Please Help by thorpido(m): 8:39pm On Aug 13, 2020
ststyreal:
Don't worry your child will definitely grow out of it. From experience, just ensure your therapist is a good one and make sure you confides in the class teacher so that they can gently follow him up in class and also to avoid harsh reactions towards him as a result of him not coping faster like his mate in class. Remove sugar from his meal and follow up with folic acid. But most importantly, call upon our God who alone can correct every anomalies in our system and I believe he will heal your child and make him whole in Jesus Name amen!
Do not be afraid, encourage him, get him a lesson teacher also from the school. Surround your house with educational materials, so as to enable him constantly see them and memorise them gradually.
PRAY AND CONTINUOUSLY PRAY TO GOD AND BEFORE YOU SAY JACK, YOUR BOY WILL BECOME THE BEN CARSON OF OUR TIME. GOD BLESS OUR CHILDREN IN JESUS NAME AMEN
Op,this is the way to go.

You have already started on the right part.You just need to keep on giving that suppport.
He needs patient people around him too.
FamilyRe: Jj by thorpido(m): 8:04pm On Aug 13, 2020
bukatyne:
Pregnant next dayhuh?
I was just teasing him. cheesy
FamilyRe: Jj by thorpido(m): 8:55am On Aug 13, 2020
How will your company book two officials of opposite sex in the same hotel room?

Anyway, she's pregnant for you Don't deny the pregnancy.

Your naivety no be here.
FamilyRe: He's married and she wants him back now after dumping him 8 years ago. by thorpido(m): 8:50am On Aug 13, 2020
What's there to think about? angry
Tell your friend to get sense.
CrimeRe: Lady Reveal She Is Hiv Positive,urges Men Sleeping Wit Her To Go Get A Test(pics by thorpido(m): 8:33am On Aug 13, 2020
Na real 'hanyad'.Carry hips dey wound them.

Stay safe.
FamilyRe: Signed, sealed delivered. by thorpido(m): 11:23pm On Aug 12, 2020
Op,what of male?You should provide equal opportunities.
TravelRe: Tipper Crushes Lady At Addo Road, Ajah (extremely Graphic) by thorpido(m): 6:26pm On Aug 12, 2020
Really really pity her.I hope she survives it.That left leg is gone.
HealthRe: Doctor Forgot To ‘sew Up’ My Pregnant Wife’s Wound, Bereaved Husband Laments by thorpido(m): 3:15pm On Aug 12, 2020
If this story is true,then it is a case of negligence.
Those involved should be sanctioned.
We are having many health workers negligent.
FamilyRe: My Husband Has Been Lying About His Age For 8 Years by thorpido(m): 11:00pm On Aug 11, 2020
While it's bad that your husband lied about his age what surprises me is how people date without ideas about some things.
How can someone be 10 yrs older than you and you don't know?His friends,his siblings,time he finished school etc should give you a clue.

Well,you can't change 'age' now.You have to accept he lied and need to know he's not lying about other things e.g his certificates.
Forgive and be at peace.
FamilyRe: How My Husband And I Have Kept Our Sex Life Exciting For 24 Years by thorpido(m): 6:52pm On Aug 11, 2020
This one get as e be.
FamilyRe: What Will You Do by thorpido(m): 8:00am On Aug 11, 2020
You say she is staying in 'her own dad house' and then you say the 'dad is having sex with the wife's?

Your story sef.
FamilyRe: She Cheated on me and now desperately want me back by thorpido(m): 11:25pm On Aug 10, 2020
Well,she is begging and ready to make amends.You can forgive and give the marriage a second chance.
If however you can't forgive,let her go.

You have to seek a formal dissolution of the marriage and work out how you can both have shared custody of the children so you can play your part in their lives.
PoliticsRe: LASG To Revive Badagry Food Production Centre, Commitment To Food Sufficiency by thorpido(m): 8:55am On Aug 10, 2020
Won't they do the road first? huh
RomanceRe: Love At Oyo COVID-19 Isolation Centre: Discharged Lady Goes Home With Soldier by thorpido(m): 11:20pm On Aug 09, 2020
Wetin we go call this now?
FamilyRe: Guys Please Advice, What Should I Do? by thorpido(m): 8:01pm On Aug 09, 2020
Tell your wife to see a psychologist and she should get counsel too from an empathic gynaecologist.
There's no doubt she's having some mental issues which is manifesting as frustrations in life.
It's not easy to TTC as it can take its toll on couples' relationships.
FamilyRe: Issue Resolved.. by thorpido(m): 8:34am On Aug 09, 2020
Ask Iya A but do it in a polite way.
Sorry,for her loss but business has to continue.
Christianity EtcRe: Olumba Olumba Obu Hands Over To Son, To Be Coronated As ‘King Of Kings‘ by thorpido(m): 12:54pm On Aug 07, 2020
ethicallyright:
I know much about the organization and understand that the founder died.

My only problem is that a person who believes the Jewish and European version of the same concept should not castigate those who choose to believe the African and more recent version.
Not when you got proof you can see with your own eyes.Even if you criticize Jesus' story,at least I cannot prove it but this one I can.

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