Family › Re: How To Avoid Vagina Injuries At Child Birth by thorpido(m): 6:00pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
There's no injury blueprint.The question of if there will be injury lies on the size of the baby and the size of the vagina the baby is passing through. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu: I Challenge Pastor Adeboye To Reveal What He Saw In Aso Rock by thorpido(m): 6:57am On Sep 02, 2020 |
Irrelevant talk!  |
Romance › Re: 22-Year-Old Man Marries His 48-Year-Old Oyibo Girlfriend At Ikoyi Registry Lagos by thorpido(m): 4:07pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
He looks lot in the pictures. |
Sports › Re: Manchester City Offers Messi A Bumper €750m - 5 Years Contract by thorpido(m): 12:56pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
He's 33yrs.Why offer him a 5yr contract? Dalil8: Massive risk for the club, paying too much for a 32yr old.
Lalasticlala do your thing Just what I thought. |
Sports › Re: John Felagha Dies At 26 by thorpido(m): 12:52pm On Aug 31, 2020 |
Sad loss to his family and friends May he RIP. |
Family › Re: Opinion : Parents Calling Spouses by thorpido(m): 8:59am On Aug 31, 2020 |
area74: Reading some comments here especially those from the women only made me to laugh. Some said jealousy, insecure, attention seeking and hiding something.
Comments here actually opened my eyes to the reality why there is no strong loyalty in most young marriages and thus leading to Marital problems. Women tend to trust and more loyal to their families than the new family they are to build together with their husbands.
I do not need to divulge everything that has happened in my family but pointing out the dangers of such experiences.
When I just got married, I thought they were normal and never paid attention to it but eventually, my in-laws knew and still know everything going on in my home as long as my wife has a knowledge of it.
To me, marriage fidelity starts from there and not until a woman ends up in bed with another man.
The discussions usually start casual but trust me, it will get to opening up everything in the home. It only requires a little misunderstanding between the couple to trigger such.
I wish everybody all the best especially those who made very mature and impartial comments. When I first saw your thread,I was like nothing is wrong with talking to your parents everyday.It depends on the bond the family has had before marriage. Your follow up comment especially the bolded is the issue here and it deals specifically with your marriage (and some others).There is a level of maturity required in marriage and everyone should have it before venturing into marriage.Such maturity entails having a level of wisdom and discretion.It's what your wife doesn't have here and you need to speak to her about it.Whether you talk to your parents everyday or once a month,if the discretion is not there,timing won't make a difference. Like notopile said,there are many issues you may need to discuss with you parent.If for instance she is alone(like my mum cos my dad is late),you need to talk about her health,her feeding,the care of the home,her househelp etc.So many things that will not even do with your marriage. |
Politics › Re: Karma Agagowei Is Dead - Assassinated By Gunmen In Bayelsa by thorpido(m): 7:55am On Aug 31, 2020 |
Bayelsa people and name.Which one be Karma again? |
Travel › Re: Opinion :why I Believe Qals Bell 206 Crashed Because Of Of Lack Of Fuel by thorpido(m): 12:31pm On Aug 30, 2020 |
GamalNasser: From the footage I saw By the time they were over Opebi the helicopter was already in Auto rotate and deep into its controlled decent ..I wonder why he didn't land in the Lekki area because that's where his flight plan will take him. Through but again these young pilots don't want any incident marked on their log and any AIB debriefing that will happen if you land your helicopter outside your flight plan and then they find out you made the emergency landing because of low fuel scare .. Hmm....... unfortunately,he took a risk that cost him his life. My question is,is it a hard thing to calculate correctly your fuel needs? |
Sports › Re: Eberechi Eze Signs 5-Year Deal With Crystal Palace by thorpido(m): 3:03pm On Aug 28, 2020 |
I hope he can play for Nigeria. |
Sports › Re: Segun Odegbami Celebrates His 68th Birthday Today by thorpido(m): 8:00am On Aug 27, 2020 |
Big Man.Mathematical Segun.HBD |
Romance › Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by thorpido(m): 7:59am On Aug 27, 2020 |
Luckysbab: No. Petty men listen to one side of the story and jump into conclusions like idiots. The idiot here should bring the other side of the story. Onye iberibe. |
Romance › Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by thorpido(m): 10:30pm On Aug 26, 2020*. Modified: 8:58am On Aug 27, 2020 |
Aabheaven: why must u degrade the man because u want to pass a statement. U guys are the reason ladies abuse men just see what u wrote. Kiddo So if a guy(or girl) is wrong,I musn't say it because I'm a man? You're the kid here.Men call a spade a spade. |
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Romance › Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by thorpido(m): 8:04am On Aug 26, 2020 |
Localchampion: . I know, his happiness is the most annoying to me, when I cooked and all, as if I didn't wanna do it, as if he wasn't the one that was broke, since he gave me the money for the food, he has been complaining he has no money again. He wants his bread and cake same time. Till now, he hasn't given me the money to make my hair and frowning that I'm asking him money when I know he doesn't, he said he would be more than happy to do them for me bla bla bla. That you told him you lost money and he didn't even sympathize with you shows he cares just about his own happiness. Talk to your feet o. |
Romance › Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by thorpido(m): 7:54am On Aug 26, 2020 |
Localchampion: 29, I'm 25 He's not a kid at 29 but is acting like one.You don't have a matured man on your hands now. You either quit or wait for him to grow.........if he does. |
Romance › Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by thorpido(m): 7:48am On Aug 26, 2020 |
How old is your boyfriend?He's acting like a kid.You sound like it's a campus relationship. To be honest with you,he is not the kind of man to marry.........at least not yet.He needs to grow. What you have as you rightly defined is a 'roleship'. |
Autos › Re: Nissan Serena by thorpido(m): 11:10pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Why do people post adverts on cars and say 'clean first body' when the appearance is nothing to write home about? |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kill Man After Withdrawing N446,000 In Ibadan by thorpido(m): 11:07pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
What business does he want to do that he can't do a bank transfer? Carrying much cash is too risky nowadays. |
Family › Re: N30000 Feeding Allowance by thorpido(m): 8:27pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Just buy cheap staple foods.Try to buy in bulk and from major markets so you get good quantity. Most importantly,manage your rations. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Prostitutes Beat Evangelist To Coma For Preaching In Their Premises In Lagos by thorpido(m): 3:24pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Wisdom is profitable to direct. |
Romance › Re: A Girl Spent The Night At His Place And I'm Feeling So Bad About It. by thorpido(m): 3:03pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
You want to get played? |
Health › Re: Akin Abayomi Tests Positive For COVID-19 by thorpido(m): 11:15am On Aug 24, 2020 |
Beverlyjean: 700 000 out of 7 billion ...with the way media outlets sold it to the public... they made it seem like once u get it, its certain death and infection will b as easy as sleeping when tired Will it make you more satisfied if the figures were more? The media had to do all that publicity so people could be aware and prevent themselves from getting infected or spreading it for those who are infected already.All that publicity is why we do not have figures more than we have presently.There are about 1.8m people infected world-wide presently and still counting. Coronavirus is highly infectious.Being in a room with someone infected who coughs is enough to make the occupants infected too.Not everyone who catches the virus dies but no one knows the course it will take for every infected person.The young have died just like the old.Even seemingly fit people without background health issues have died. That's why there's the aggressive publicity in the media.It is very important in a pandemic such as we have. |
Health › Re: Akin Abayomi Tests Positive For COVID-19 by thorpido(m): 9:26am On Aug 24, 2020 |
mvem: paid by who...I know someone that tested positive who is a Doctor and was fine in a week or two, he wasn't paid by anyone...I don't get this narrative that someone pays you to say you are positive... Some of these people have no idea.Probably a teenager posting for likes. |
Health › Re: Akin Abayomi Tests Positive For COVID-19 by thorpido(m): 9:24am On Aug 24, 2020 |
Beverlyjean: I never said it hasn't claimed lives...it is overrated.. .tot that half of the world's population wud hv gone It's not about thoughts.A lot is being done to tackle it and many have been lucky to survive it. A disease that has claimed over 700,000 lives cannot be said to be overated. |
Health › Re: Akin Abayomi Tests Positive For COVID-19 by thorpido(m): 8:59am On Aug 24, 2020 |
jamalnation: Behaviour can be decieving. He dey cashout too Critics never see good in what others do.Do you know how much hard work has gone into managing this Covid crisis in Lagos? |
Health › Re: Akin Abayomi Tests Positive For COVID-19 by thorpido(m): 8:57am On Aug 24, 2020 |
Beverlyjean: This coro stuff is overrated Tell that to those who have lost loved ones to it. |
Family › Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 5:07pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Abdunzhaleel: mtcheew. Fall off my mention! and stop nauseating me. It's your ignorance and the bile in you that's nauseating you.When you stop the hate,the nausea will go. |
Family › Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 5:03pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Abdunzhaleel: . Mtcheew.! You're not even a Muslim yet you meddled with an islamic affair. Why did u even quote me in the first instance? Cos you spewed ignorance calling some people 'polytheistic women'. |
Family › Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 4:52pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Abdunzhaleel: I tendered a proof for the statement i made so back yours too with proof or bury your cranium in shame. 2 Samuel 7:22 — Wherefore thou art great, O LORD God; for there is none like thee, neither is there any God beside thee, according to all that we have heard with our ears. Joel 2:27 — And ye shall know that I am in the midst of Israel, and that I am the LORD your God, and none else: and my people shall never be ashamed. James 2:19 — Thou believest that there is one God; thou doest well: the devils also believe, and tremble. This is why I said you should seek knowledge rather than just propagating ignorance. |
Family › Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by thorpido(m): 4:43pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Klass99: My classmate's story when we were @ University. I'll call her Nengi because she was just as hot as the BBN housemate (if not hotter sef) 
Nengi was dating a working class guy off campus and would often visit him at his crib, she had some of her stuff at his place as well. She visited one weekend and all her stuff were gone (clothing, toiletries, etc) When she asked where her things were, dude said his crib had been broken into and the thieves made away with her things.
Thieves broke in but somehow only her things were missing! This was the first sign that things weren't right but none of us saw, what was to come. Mike (not his real name) did a 360 degree turn afterwards and started dating one of Nengi's close friends and eventually married her. I don't think they did proper marriage rites cos Nengi's friend got pregnant and moved in with Mike (not his real name) I hear they are still living as man and wife, several years later.
Nengi was devastated because she truly loved Mike and wasn't playing games on him, she also had a good character as far as, I could tell. So, I didn't understand the switch he made either. The shocker for me was the friend he went for. Adams Oshiomole will best describe the girl he ended up with.
Mike had proposed to Nengi prior to all this drama and if I remember correctly, he had gone to see her parents about his intentions. Some people say jazz was involved. I didn't know what to think back then or even now, except, fear men  How about fear women.....who could do anything to rock the boat? |
Family › Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 4:24pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Abdunzhaleel: I care for my self-esteem and would never stoop low to confabulate with a vacuum-skull person with no formal education of Islam and its tenets. Just stop the rubbish of name calling.If you had the 'pseudo-intelligence' you claim you would get knowledge and just stop propagating the ignorance you learnt from someone who didn't know any better. |
Family › Re: Muslim Girl In France Shaved By Family Over Christian Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 3:40pm On Aug 23, 2020 |
Abdunzhaleel: Ignorant imams taught who? I'm sorry i can't engage you in a discussion! Am off! ,Yes you deficiently CAN'T. Stop labelling people in your ignorance! |