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So sorry about your dad's death.
Honestly,you guys should have pooled funds together and moved your dad abroad especially because the doctor he was to see was not around.You should have convinced him it was the best for him.
Getting an early surgery date at UCH is difficult and most times you may need to use a private hospital to get it done on time.I won't lie most government doctors take advantage of that.
Surgeries generally are not a 100% safe.Anything could go wrong even with the most experienced hands.Your dad's case just happened to be one of them.
On the issue of suing,you could go ahead but the chances of getting anything out of it is slim......the time lag,the fact that it was a qualified doctor who did the surgery and in a registered hospital,the fact that some colleagues could cover up and the slow court system in Nigeria.

What could have happened to her?Shocking!

The pastor is left single again.

This is called 'stabbed in the back' indeed.

Anuohia.

Naked he came into the world,naked he will return.

Joycekkh:
A father shouldn't bath a daughter.

Oh yeah.If there's no househelp,the mother should be left to do it all the time with other chores?
Not all men are abusive and you don't even need to bathe your daughter to become abusive.

@Op,it will be right when she can start to do it herself,like 6 or 7 yrs.

Rubbish talk.

Abasi akan.

What do you mean by 'three sets of twins',Op?
They are called sextuplets.

Really when you see the prices of these cars,you are tempted to say vanity.
N900m for just one car?

PastorFire:
Abortion is not safe for a sickler.

It's not the sickler that aborts,it is the woman carrying the foetus with her SS genotype.

Louisboy22:
like how much?

Could cost between N800,000 - N1.2M.

C

usj:
Same question I wanted to ask! It must be a gay shrine. Or is the OP confused about his/her sexuality?

OP forgot to edit the story from where he copied it from. Is this how low you can stoop for cheap like and nairaland front page?

Don't mind all these people with copied or fake stories.

In this day and age,you didn't know your genotype and your wife too didn't know?
No one that is up to 25yrs now shouldn't know his or her genotype.It's almost unforgivable now.She also thought she was pregnant and you couldn't go to a lab and just run a test to confirm kwa?
That being said,why didn't you stick with calling off the marriage when you found out.It was the best option then.....shame or no shame!
As it stands now,you need to. decide on what you want but as a baby is on the way,you have to prepare for the birth first.If you are lucky the child turns out with a genotype that is not SS,then you weigh your further options.

Ejenavi18:
Cancelling the marriage when you discovered your genotype incompatibility could have save you a your spouse from the heartache you're going through now
But all the same, the deed has been done already, you have to face it together.
You have a 25% chance of having a baby with SS genotype, let's just pray it turns out your first baby isn't SS.
Just try and support your wife now that she's pregnant.
As for this, there are tests that can be carried out to determine the genotype of the foetus in utero..
Amniocentesis and Chorionic Villus sampling.

It's actually a 100% probability for EACH child conceived.It is a 25% chance for every four births.

janvier27:
I thought there is now a test that can be done at a stage in pregnancy to determine the genotype of the foetus, and know what options are there before birth if it turns out to be SS.

These tests are expensive and if it turns out the child is SS,the ONLY option is ABORTION.

nonny1212:
Does diabetes cause weak erection too?

Yes.

highcliff:
Am 25.. You think it could be because I have high blood sugar?

Yes, let's rule that out first.

highcliff:
Good evening everyone. Pls doctors in the house, I need help on something that is really getting me depressed at the moment.

Six days ago I discovered that I pee more frequently than usual. This happened for two consecutive days. Just two days ago I woke up with very weak erection and it has persisted for about three days now.

Please I need advice on what could possibly be the cause. Thanks.

First thing to do is to go and do a blood sugar test.
How old are you?

Why is Mr Eazi standing like that?

Well,keep your money and invest it.
Decide what you would do with the cheat.

It's a python.

bbeautylik:
I am a lady with 2 sets of twins under 5 years

Get a car but get a cheap car(not problematic car o).
You can get a good Honda Civic for about half a million and use the remaining money to set up your business.

bbeautylik:
If you had saved up to a million naira, you work with the federal government and earn 60+ would you rather buy a car for family mobility or venture into businesses first?

I thought of buying a car for family mobility and later save up again for business. is it a wise decision?

How large is the family?
If you have just a kid,maybe you could put the money into a 'good' business and buy a car later.

Titi03:
Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to speak low of his disabled son.
However, it's glaringly obvious that Otedola only shows off his female children (Cuppy and Teni).
I'm sure most people don't even know he has a son and if we are honest with ourselves we know why!

His son is challenged.It's not about showing off or not.Cuppy and Teni live their lives and are obviously not mentally challenged so you expect them to be in the limelight more.
It has nothing to do with who Otedola wants to show off or not.
He does not in any way love the son less.

Titi03:
@OP please consider the below examples:

The great Muhammad Ali had a whole bunch of girls and one son who didn't amount to much (sorry to say). Laila Ali is the only child of his that kept up her father's legacy - she's a girl child!

Kobe Byrant - known for greatness all over the world. had 4 girls and not a single son. Did that tarnish his name or image in anyway?

Barack Obama - two girls only. Need I say more?

Tony Elumelu - again, a whole bunch of girls. Did that dampen his success?

Femi Otedola - clearly more proud of his female children than the one disabled son he has.

Honourable mentions: Chris Rock, Jamie Foxx.

Your points are valuable except for the bolded@ Otedola.Don't know what you mean by that.

It's unfortunate you were raised by your mother so you grew up in a state of poor self esteem that events in your life now are getting you worried.
Why would you be bothered so much with the sex of the baby you're having?You should be happy with the blessing coming and get prepared.Do your shopping and all.

You mum has her issues but they are her business not yours.You have to begin to stand up to her and give her her space.You need to make your own world and be happy.
I do hope you don't have a lily livered husband with a wrong mentality too.This one that he is beginning to show signs too.

Be strong(build yourself strong) and don't let things beyond your control overwhelm you.

I see all these surgery bodies but still prefer the saggy naturals.

Your uncles obviously are not straight forward.Whatever you do,just be careful with them.

Is this a gay story?

Six months is too early to be worried.For now just try to make love often,like every alternate day.
You may need to see a gynae who can ask both of you to run some tests.

ThatFairGuy:
Exactly. That's how they will put the owner in another problem.

The owner should have reported.

bukatyne:
@Bold:

For a bouncing baby boy abi?

Abi na.

Op,I think you should go back to that hotel.Hang around there.If you see any tall,fair guy with a big head there,go with him to his room and spend time with him.
You might find the guy if you spend enough time there.