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Big congrats to her.It must have taken a lot for her to get to that position.

U1:
Huh, what if she was already on fire? You think the strength and coherence of thought to do that would be there?

That's why it's a risk but the only option left.

So emotional.The mother too could have jumped.She might have lived though with some broken bones.

Na penis wake you up this morning?

It's a poor way of reasoning.If you've got issues with your sexuality,beards or no beards won't change that.

Unnerve:
Lol, like are there actually people who can sleep in cuddle position all through the night and still be comfortable?

I've had live-in partners for many many years and I can't remember a single time when we go to sleep cuddled up and still wake up cuddled up.

Some of these chics have been watching too many movies. Lol

As the sleep progresses,the couple will naturally separate but there are women who start their process of sleeping that way.
There's nothing wrong with it, people are just different.
It's about finding someone who meets your needs.

@Op, there's nothing wrong with her needs,just that she's being too dramatic about it.
I can't sleep with a body touching me too but you need to give some minutes to hold or face front before you drift away to sleep.
You say you are both just friends with benefits though.

cococandy:
Nice.
Not bad for a full month of care actually. But it would be unaffordable for some families.

It's really for those in the upper echelon of the society.

cococandy:
Okay like home health. That’s good to know. I wonder how expensive or affordable they are though. Thanks

Well,they are not cheap.The cost range is about N100k - N150k a month.They provide 24 hrs services or you could have only day service.

cococandy:
I don’t know how real this story is because a man posted it but it actually made me ask myself a question.
Do we have long term care facilities or skilled nursing facilities in Nigeria? That’s something I don’t remember coming across but does anyone know?

@thorpido, merahki etc
I’m very interested to know. Thank you.

Long term care facilities don't exist in Nigeria.Just short term ICU stay and then the patient is discharged to be nursed at home.
There are organisations that provide skilled nursing care but they are home based.Their personnel are sent home to nurse people in their homes.

Juliusmomoh:
How did u knw E happen to u 24

I work with people who have suffered such fate.

Aurelius1:
What of a woman with the same problem, will she be able to get aroused?

She will suffer the same fate.She will be frigid.

Juliusmomoh:
What does penis has to do with spinal cord ....

Innervation from the nerves from the spinal cord is what gives erection.If the spinal cord is damaged,there will be no erection.

You've done it,you need to forgive yourself,make peace with God and move on.
Learn how to use proper contraception if you still want to be sexually active.

XXLMANDIGO:
Never been married.

What happened with your baby mama?You do not want to settle?

Could it be that what you're missing is a loving partner?

Your wife nko?

1)It is not a must.
2)You can go for what is called marriage blessing if you do not want the 'marriage ceremony' itself.The Church will still accept that.
3)They are mutually exclusive.Church wedding is important as long as you belong to a church.Traditional marriage is also important as long as you have 'roots'.
4,5 & 6)) Traditional marriage is a complete marriage.However,you will still need to go to court or registry to be recognized by the law of the land as married.However,you do not have a complete marriage yet if you BELONG to a church.If it is about spending a lot of money,you don't have to.Quite a no of people have married low-key this Covid period.
7)Nothing bad happens.The Church is for a blessing,not a curse.
8 )&(10)It is a personal decision between intending couples.
11a)A lot of things came from Europe that has influenced our lives;education, science and technology etc.The democracy we have today came from Europe.White wedding is one of such.Is it bad?I'll say no.
11b)1 and 2 answers this.

The well behaved woman can learn to cook.
The badly behaved woman may change but it's a hard thing to do when she's already an adult.

People should be well educated on contraception.If you don't want pregnancy,there are many ways to prevent it.
They obviously were foolish to think no one would see them at 11am.They didn't even do in the midnight.

You should have sought advise before quitting your job.It was a very wrong move.
It's a key strategy for men that are manipulative.

You should have even taken your time before settling with this man.First he says you are sleeping with your bosses and then says he thinks you would sleep with them.Confused and insecured being.I don't know where some of you find men like this.

Well,going on to have the baby seems like your realistic option so you have to prepare yourself mentally.
You also need to decide what you want in this marriage and your long term future.Seems you've got a hard one to deal with.
I hope you find your happiness.See a therapist/psychologist as needs may be.

That second round,what do you think comes out?Serum?

Of course you have potent spermatozoa in any release capable of impregnating a fertile female.

bukatyne:
Why na?

Was he the one that told the girl not to test

The girl doesn't need to test.
The guy himself brought his report card showing F9.

Well,I believe your mother dated your father enough to know what kind of man she was marrying.She has also chosen to stay even in the face of all these provocations.
As much as you want peace for your mom,she is the one to decide for herself.
Your business now is to make a way for yourself and move out.You can then bring your siblings with you

Ultimategeneral:
Me too.. thinking in the same direction.
The young man seems to be an ingrate. Some people don't value what the have until they lose it. well him clear don eye!

Indeed.He had cheated on her,was jobless and the girl supported him financially,yet he's still thinking of a rubbish test.

To the lady here,I hope you know what to do
I think your boyfriend is a fool.

Such a sad case.

Anyone raped should present at a health facility and get post sex contraceptives and post exposure prophylaxis for HIV.You don't have to keep it to yourself.

Maybe both of you should break up.
Ok,maybe not yet.

You both need more emotional maturity though especially as you wish to settle down soon.You shouldn't have slapped her,you should have just left the scene.
She on her part needs to cool down to settle issues if not she'll just be boiling everywhere.She ought to have known your kind of job and what it entails in the first place.She should ask questions.

Try to make peace.Apologise to her but most importantly,talk to each other more and I mean communicate.

Juliusmomoh:
No woman can try that with me sha.

You don't say!
You think she wrote him a letter prior to that saying she was going to do it?
Just pray evil never finds you.

Just a rant.

I wonder what happened to him.I liked him in Man City then

How old are you?How do you mean they are 'overprotective'?