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Big alligator kwa?That's an Iguana.

Child that should have gone with the monthly period.smh

bukatyne:
I don't understand this post.

Your husband was fine with two girls.

An additional baby (girl) came and he is sad that he has changed at home.

Wasn't he content with two girls? What difference does the third make?

Or is his pain the fact that your finances would be stretched and he is not getting his male child?

Engage him on a tete a tete and make him see reason that it is God that gives children and all your children will be blessed and great whether male or female.

Point out late Dora Akunyili, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, Folorunsho Alakija, Ibunkun Awosika etc etc that have done great things and are still doing great things.

Children are like blank canvas, it is what you write/code you get.

Sorry for the pressure on you, sorry to him for the sacrifice he has to go through while not getting his baby boy.

Goodluck.

Obviously@bold.His attitude is that if he has to take on extra expenditure,then the compensation should be a boy.

Op,you have to develop for yourself a strong mental attitude.Going forward may not be a smooth sail.You will have to ignore your husband's tantrums and gain inner peace for your own good.
Talk to him about the blessing of having a new baby irrespective of the sex.Remind him that it is the man that determines the sex of the baby and it is what he deposited.
Most importantly,get on contraceptives that have high reliability if you don't want more babies.

Face your fear.
You're 37yrs old,women should not intimidate you
Forget about the N30,000 you earn.If you see a girl you like,become acquainted with her.You don't have to tell her you want to marry her on a first date.Just become friends first.

These words are not for Nigerian doctors and nurses,are they?
The seem to be vilified in Nigeria.

Preshieben:
this happens once in a
Her parents have anger issues

If her parents have anger issues,she should ignore them.Let her take their words as water off a duck's back.
She should bid her time,she won't be in their house for ever.She should continue to be of good behaviour.

Is she really of good behaviour?I know there are some abusive parents but it's hard for them to live that way with a good behaved child.
What of her uncles or aunts?She should talk to them to talk to her father.

Your sister is being foolish indulging him.A lot of Nigerian women tolerate a lot of nonsense just to stay in marriage.
Your sister is an adult,let her deal with it herself.

Poor girl.Stay home,stay safe.Hear word!

Discombulator:
You have no idea what it takes to be battling a life threatening pandemic everyday so you wouldn't understand.

Battling life threatening pandemic is to strip naked?
This your talk is discombobulated.

sassysure:
And u believed that?
Incredible if u are waiting for politicians to tell you what will not favour them.

I know there's some politics behind it all but lives are being wasted.

Up till now there's no clue to what is killing them?smh

Are they really doctors?It's extreme sha.

dingbang:
Guy try get sense na

Op,pls do.

When you are picking your clothes from a line outside the house,it is advisable to shake each one vigorously before taking them in.
I've always done that to avoid taking in grasshoppers,praying mantis,scorpions etc into the house.

Something is going on in Kano and the authorities are treating it with kid's gloves.

Eat the food.Let the children eat.
Look for a way to raise funds even in this Covid-19 period.
Have a discussion with hubby about the ex and look for a way forward.

You guys didn't cut the head off immediately.Snake meat eaters,food don done.

The problem with prolonged immobilization is that it leads to a loss of mobilization of joints.
You should keep doing mobilization exercises for your knee before you have access to a physiotherapist.
It will take time for the knee to bend.

May his family be consoled.It's emotional.

cole01:
OK sir......the teaching hospital close to me now is at gwagwalada abuja.....I'll try and check even with the lockdown

Ok,cheers.

cole01:
Thank you sir....please what kind of specialist and does migraine occur every year just like this.....I can barely hear on my left ear now

Ask to see a neurologist.You could see one in a private hospital but it will be cheaper for you in a teaching hospital.
The pattern of occurrence points to migraine.It does recur every year.

You're probably having migraines,Op.
You need a specialist to help you manage it.

It's too early to get an accurate result.Wait till next week and test again.
No need being anxious.

Marry first na!I thought you had experience.

Casalindal:
To think someone could subject a pregnant woman into this stress. Why are human so ungrateful? Someone who doesn’t know you from Adam sent you her hard earn money and all you could do after seeing the alert is to call her fake. Wow I’m done with human

Pele.You sent someone money and the person called you fake?
If you did it for a stranger, don't let it bother you.

I know some house helps can be stubborn but many couples are too hard on them.

The greatest reason this cases keep growing in number is because people are dishonest with their travel history and contacts and are too selfish to protect themselves from infecting others.

Labour is a time of apprehension,fear and emotional turbulence.
You can't expect the man to be smiling then.

Op,you dey share same Nepa meter?
Let her sleep as she wants na.

Idiots.mcheeew
What is all the gain with the cultism?
Death and hell.

Biafrareform:
If she has come on Nairaland to beg, You would have called her a scammer

She had to prove she's for real and she would get help.
Check my history.