₦airaland Forum

dolema:
You are right. I knew his kind of person but was desperate to settle down as I was already 30. He wasn't this bad then though, things just took a downward dive.

Thanks for the tips and for everyone else that advised. I'll really look into adopting them.

Make sure you don't get pregnant again for now.

To be honest with you,you knew the kind of man you were getting married to but you decided to marry him all the same.He stayed in his parents' house till he was 41 ?
What kind of person will not accept a job of N200k because he doesn't want to answer sir while owing debts and can barely fend for himself?

As it stands now,you either decide to maintain the status quo or decide to stand on your own to take care of yourself and your baby.Don't leave your hubby just yet but let him understand if he still wants you,he needs to shake himself up and face reality.

Let whatever income you make be for yourself and your baby Don't lend him or give him any more money.Stay with your parents and try to save up.

Something dey worry him brain.
No wonder he couldn't stay in the Super Eagles.

Na wa with this Tramadol o.

I hope some people won't hear this and head for the lagoon say money dey there.

keepingmum:
You cant buy drugs. Take him to see a neurologist. It might be parkinsons or other degenerative illnesses. Its likely he wont get better but the treatment will slow the progress of the disease.

Unfortunately, thats the full cycle of life

She don talk am finish.

Your grandad has a neurological problem causing the shaky hands called tremors.

There are drugs that will reduce the tremors and probably slow down the progress of the illness but most times,there's no cure.

Paedophiles sha.Their brains must be awkward.

Charlatans everywhere.

Kidnapping should be dealt with more seriously and carry maximum sentence.They just wasted his life.

'Deeper life' doctrines.
Nothing is wrong with it.It is a seal of their marriage.

flyca:
What a great joy for the mum

I also “flew” my mom to Great Wall in Beijing this summer. She was sooo HAPPY

You're still in China?Hope to visit there in the near future.

The guy don watch Nigeria videos.

Village girl.

Fearnot kwa?Is he from Bayelsa?

Congrats to them in advance.

Smartwin:
you don't blame them because that is how it has always been they would do all this things when they ain't on the post yet or will you see buhari or Gokowa come down to do this now that there re on their post

It's a good thing to do it even if it's because election is drawing near.It creates an awareness and could spread till it becomes part of us.

Richdad50:
You are nigeria's biggest problem. To confuse 'fake' for laudable is laughable. Your IQ is quite low.

Your English teacher didn't do a good job.
Oh,I assumed...........you're still in school.I hope you come out well.

Richdad50:
You are nigeria's biggest problem

I'm sure you're a youth.

Nigerian followers are the greater problem of this country.
Someone does something laudable and most of the comments are saying fake,staged etc.
So when will you produce the real?

kunleweb:
It.should.be before.parenting. it Shows even the parent's ( here meaning the oP) development is.incomplete and the OP's lack of grounded development is being perpetuated to the nest generation. The op can't give what she lacks it.needs to be learnt or received from a different entity entirely. Its a case of total lack of awareness.of.one's condition

You're right about leaving it late but it's not too late to change.
I hope the Op takes counsel.

Mercielove:
I am surprised at u running online to seek how u will handle ur little kid. If u cannot handle them now that they are little I wonder what u will do when when they are older. Seriously, parenthood is not for everyone.

That's why he came online to seek for counsel. Abi no be somewhere person dey learn?

You need to do more Op.You need to train your kids. Be present,spend time with them.Enforce discipline.Teach the younger ones to respect the elder.

It's a good thing to be open to your spouse in marriage.However,families the individuals grew up in are different.There are some where a son or daughter like in your case has to support the family.
I believe you should have shown her this part of you when you were courting so she should have expected it.
Meet your financial obligations to your wife(household) and give whatever you want to your dad without making it a topic of discussion.
Since you know it's an issue,then stop bringing it to the table or do you share a common bank account?

negz1:
How would a patient be awake when performing a surgery

It's not every surgery they need to put you to sleep.

Lazy youths.See as dem pack rubbish together say na juju.

The woman don put her husband for gobe.Now he can't go around without people making reference to the incident.

Hmm...ka Chineke mezie okwu.

Na wa o.You for just leave house na no be leave earth.

There are several other options she can use apart from injections.
You can also use a condom(properly though).

So police dey send man away from the house too for Naija?
Naija don dey upgrade be that.

Very inhumane treatments some widows still suffer.
Why seize the husband's properties?No be wife she be or dem no get children?