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He had all the time so he got bored I guess.
The poor woman has just been relieved of catering for a paralyzed man.She has her kids to face.

The bible says,' iron sharpeneth iron' and again it says,' not forsaking the assembly of the brethren'.How will you grow if you try to go it alone?
When you remove a piece of coal from the fire,after some time,it'll burn out.It only keeps burning if it is in the heap of burning coals.
If you have issues with a particular church,then look for one you feel at home with and if you think there is none,then start a small church yourself.

If I understand your thread,you don't like the fact that hubby doesn't seem to wrap his life around you.

mrvitalis:
There is a condition to speak in tongues in public and that is there must be an Interpreter

So what are u saying

In public here actually means 'in a church gathering'.It is expected to find someone who can interprete it in such a gathering.

mrvitalis:
If there was an interpretation u won't be asking the question. .. she spoke to all of us and we all should get the interpretation tho or don't u think?

Interpretation comes as a gift too and not everyone has it.Do you have the gift of interpreting?
The few ones who have it can interprete it.

EVILFOREST:
Don't mind them.
They just killed her.
They would have allowed her in that position.
She wouldn't have died.

It was a very poor desicion .
I believe her leg wasn't tied before cutting.

Those Guys that did such must be products of JUNGLE JUSTICE.

Exactly.I see people pull accident victims anyhow and sometimes make their fractures worse or cripple them in cases where there may be spinal injuries.

mrvitalis:
I thought the Bible said if u speak in tongues and there is no interpreter shut up

And also speaking in tongues actually means speaking a new language u never have spoken before. .. A language understood by someone there

Do u people read ur Bible at all

The thread is about Sinach who spoke in tongues in her recorded song which I believe she did at her recording in the studio.How does this comment of yours relate with that?

The bible says when you speak in tongues in a gathering,let there be an interpreter or you should keep quiet.The question is,do you first check if there will be an interpreter before speaking in tongues?

Do you understand the bible when you read it?

OlawunmiPraise:
Am not running Sir, I need help from a private clinic with sound doctors. it is an operation we are talking about.
I don't just like anything Government hospital, I don't mean to be rude but they are quack. I did my appendix operation In general hospital warri and i regretted it.

Quite a no of doctors you will find in private hospitals are actually working with government hospitals so I don't know what you mean by quack.Government hospitals are actually where you wouldn't normally find quacks but you may meet an inexperienced doctor depending on the location and personnel employed there.

Go to DELSU as advised and it's way cheaper than N150k if done at a government hospital.

They just cut the leg off anyhow.She bled to death.Poor woman.

Him wear cloth,na the woman no come wear.smh

Op,where is your location?
If you're for real,we can do the verification process?

Onegai:
Eh, I was mad that night. How can you do something wrong and take me to the police station to have me accused of an even bigger crime? And you are there, trying to be emotionally manipulative to my mum, playacting Confraternity of Christian Mothers when your plan backfires?? Nigeria can run a sane person mad.

If they had taken that boy to the station, 5 days later he would be back on the street. I don't support Jungle Justice, but I understand where it is coming from. We as a people and the govt must strengthen our Judicial and Justice system. Almost the entire Police Force don't even know Nigerian laws. If you cannot trust the police, you will take the law into your own hands. Until it consumes you one day.

That's the sad situation in the country now.

Onegai:
Same state. But I married one, a fake one. He's so polite and mild-mannered

Lol

Onegai:
I don't agree in theory with Jungle Justice nothing works in Nigeria, especially when you are dealing with someone uncivilised. Someone taken to the Police station will be bailed by the leader of his gang and come back to mess you up. Bariga, Somolu side is a mess and yet the Police cannot fish out the cult members killing themselves (even though they live in their midst). A lady hit my car at night, instead of her to settle amicably, drove me to the Police station and started speaking Hausa to them (she is not a Northerner) to sway them into charging me with something and scaring me off. They started insisting only I write a statement and were ready for trouble. Until I showed them my madness is descended from a long line of hot-tempered people and I knew what was right legally. Then the police insisted on seeing the owner of the car that night and told my mum "your daughter has a bad mouth", meanwhile the lady had gone from accusing me of attempted kidnapping (I shi.t you not) to sitting down mutely. When my mum came around, she started deploying "Christian Mother" technique and my mum and sibling were forced to drop the matter. If I had a big stick covered with nails and a chain in my car (like I used to plan on having ), I would have broken her windscreen in retaliation. Because the NPF that was supposed to be objective took a side before I had opened my mouth. We live in a jungle, sometimes you do not have the luxury of being civilised all the time. No matter how much you want it.

Onegai,you be waffi?
Jungle justice is bad but people have just lost faith in the Police and now the judicial system.
These thieves(and thugs)maim their victims sometimes and that's the main reason people are quick to brutalise them too when caught.

I feel this story is fake.Just a random picture and a sensational story attached to it.

elevatedbeing:
Hi all, now, lemme drop a bombshell:
BF had a dream two days back and in d dream, he wanted to buy stuffs from an elderly man, the man did not have what he wanted, he moved to the next man, the man had what he wanted and money was collected from him but the item was not given. The elderly man then commanded that he kneels down. He did as commanded and in no time other people gathered round him and wanted to judge his actions..someone in d crowd then asked that they need to recognize someone's presence, the person that stood up to be recognized was me and then I sat back... When he relayed the dream, I told him we wud need to ask the H/S for interpretation.. In my closet i got the meaning that he had offended me and that some people were ready to avenge for me.. This dream is really scarring BF and he had since been asking for forgiveness..I did not front o as per d whole dream ish but am just pretty confident that whatsoever he has been doing in secret with this woman, whether before we met or now,( cos I had been waiting on the lord concerning the issue) the H/S wud expose them.
I feel BF is scared more than ever, he's close to confession but feels scared to do that to me. he's been avoiding the woman, this morning, we got talking on phone and he just told me that the woman had asked him last weekend that he wud be spending this whole week with her cos of the exams (BF took leave for exams) and that he hadn't even seen her this week. He was saying it regretfully o...and I was like what does this woman even want from u and he said 'I don't know o". And I said a prayer that God will give us total victory over her and he replied Amen...

You know even though some people here feel you are insecured and people can have close friends of the opposite sex,my opinion has been that the relationship your boyfriend has with this woman is not 'normal'.He needs to break from her.
It's a good thing you're involving God and as long as your heart is right,He'll bring all things to light.
It's just a matter of time.

20yr old in SS 3? Seems there has not been proper training from the start.
Op,your sister is an adult now and counselling will help especially safe sex education but you can't force anything down her throat now.
The right parenting should have been done well before now and seems a bit late.
You should meet her and have a serious word with her.You could decide to speak to your parents too.

Irresponsible 33yr old sleeping with an underage.
Make police pepper him y**sh.

cococandy:
Was a seven year old child really beaten and burnt to death for stealing garri in Lagos? Somebody tell me it's a lie. Pls.

A man was beaten and burnt to death for stealing but reports say he wasn't a seven year old.
It's barbaric anyway.

Don't worry about painting you black.You're black people already

If the father can't work and at least raise some of the money,let her get a job and later register for part-time studies.

Person wey never see another person papa farm go say na my papa own be the biggest.

elevatedbeing:
Thanks for contributing. I'll go on my knees again to God. BF claims he's a friend of the family and that her husband knows him well. The hubby impregnated someone according to the woman who narrated the story to my BF. she shares her pains with him and prolly BF too does likewise of his past hurts and she keeps 'advising' him.

Hmmm................until they find solace in each others' arms.The fact that her husband impregnated someone else is a 'good reason' for her to seek solace somewhere else.
He may be a good man as you say but he's as good as his commitment to your relationship.
If God says he is your man,He will separate them and make him focus on you.If however,he is not the 'one' it is better to let him go.His relationship with this woman is toxic.

Talk to God about it.Ask Him to reveal to you if this man is His will for you.If you get a conviction about him,ask God to shatter the relationship between them.

Tell your boyfriend you might be stepping back from the relationship if he won't put his acts together.

I asked if the woman's husband knows about the affair and his passing the night in the house?

No two ways about this.Your boyfriend and this woman have an emotional attachment that goes beyond just being a 'school mother'.
If I may ask,does her husband know about this relationship?His passing the night in her/his house?
There's no doubt this relationship will take a toll on your own relationship with your boyfriend.As it stands now,it's a love triangle.Your boyfriend will be struggling to divide his attention.

You need to have a talk with him and threaten to quit the relationship if he will not put a stop to this relationship.I wonder how he sleeps in the house with a woman whose husband is often away for days/weeks and 'someone is not knocking on the bedroom door deep in the night'.

If he won't put a stop to this relationship,I'm afraid all you have is a love triangle that won't end until the relationship ends.Can you wait till then?

lisa5:
Hmmmmm. Where do I start from? Just a year into marriage and my husband can't find succour in me asking for nudes from his girlfriend,telling her I love you,calling her baby,gisting about my own child. He's become so mean towards me wiith a 2month old baby I use my salary on the family. This is not how to pay me back. Am thinking o a divorce after having another child because he disgusts me now. I really need everyone's advice. Please help and push to homepage mods thanks and God bless.

Why do you want to get pregnant for him again and then divorce?
You said he has become mean,why did he all of a sudden or has he been that way since you married him?

^^^With what you have written above,you should let the relationship end.I don't think the feeling will come later.He can't be more than that brother to you.

I hope you're not the type that gets a kick from the 'bad boys' which might explain why they've all been breaking your heart.

God will not give you someone you won't feel a thing for though sometimes there may not be that initial spark.

Farmerforlife:
So that his father will help him take his life. Good advice.

Talk wey we say make baba no hear,na baba go still sort the matter.

Don't take you life and don't let the frustration get to you.

You need to tell your parents what's going on.They will be upset but they will help you sort out this.

ShaqFu:
My mind is mentally set to reason with facts, than just belief.

So, whenever I read or hear anything that doesn't make sense, or smell fishy, I become suspicious and ask questions.

There's more in this life than the mind can comprehend,eyes can see,ears can hear or hands can touch or feel.
Believe that!

ShaqFu:
Been there done that. All I ever saw were fake peeps interpreting what they don't understand.

It's your set mind towards this thing.

naijadeyhia:
And you somehow knew they were fake by understanding that they were interpreting what you did not know.... Chai.

Abi o.

So how old was he here then?

freshcvvs:
You're more confused than I thought!

So what's the issue IN what I typed and IN what's in the quoted scripture?

Is it the (s) I didn't add to the tongue or the language you have issues with or what exactly?

Chai

Poor you.It's your understanding(or rather lack of it)of the written word.