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Highcuerayte:
You are not worth my time. Meanwhile you can watch vooks and me as we discuss

No intelligent person actually should waste his time with you.You thread and arguments are juvenile.

cococandy:
So a gentleman is different from a gentle dude ?

It's one thing to be a man,it's another thing to be a dude.

yoksy:
thank u he had d accident last yr and we dated for close to 2 yrs b4 getting married it was only distant cos he works in d western part of d country while am in north central

You both didn't really know each other and that explains why he's really not into you.The marriage is just about 2 yrs.
He saying the pregnancy is not his just further explains the disconnect.
Just take care of yourself and have your baby first.After you put to bed,re-evaluate your marriage.

yoksy:
he changed I would neva have married such a man, I've tried talking to him severally to no avail of recent I went to see his uncle n as u know d advice is continue to b patient n prayerful

For now,I'll say you should concentrate on yourself.Take care of yourself and wait till you deliver your baby.After your baby is born,you will re-evaluate your marriage.

NewBorn2:
Don't ever argue with him. Ask him for regular upkeep, if he refused, look for work and take care of yourself. Don't despair dress well and look delicious. People around him will draw his attentio n to his stupidity. Remain a good wife. Remember don't argue with him. There is no good husband out there.

What planet are you from to come to this conclusion?
There are bad husbands but there are good ones.

Ginaz:
Men and their wahala, God pls give me a caring husband

'Men and their wahala',yet you want a husband.Is she going to be female?

yoksy:
I've not really reached d point of being suicidal cos I know my future is bright n d baby in my womb is more of a comforter to me. am married for close to two yrs now my hubby has not been very healthy for close to a yr now, we just leave like roommates hardly any sexual activity but it was a blow to my face wen I came back from church on Sunday n saw a pill of Viagra 100 on my matrimonial bed n wen I checked his phone I saw his chat wit a girl inviting her to his guest house n denying he is married. after confronting his there was no remorse not even an explanation he is just pretending to b nice ( meanwhile am heavily pregnant but he cares less I care for my pregnancy n buy my babies stuff he sometimes even tell me he is not responsible for my pregnancy) please I need candid advice on wat to do. thanks.

The first question I'll ask you is,do you really know the man you married?Was he this way when you were dating or did he change?
I'll want you to sit with him when the atmosphere is most conducive and have a frank talk with him about your marriage.It seems like he has not 'settled' even though he is married.
Does your hubby have someone he looks up to or listens to?Even though 3rd parties are usually not encouraged in marriages,if your hubby is uncooperative,you may need to talk with someone he respects.

Highcuerayte:
You speak out of ignorance, I won't bother to enlighten you.

Ignoramus speaking of ignorance.#ilaugh
You're giving so much attention to date of birth while ignoring purpose of birth.You are like those who Jesus described as spending much efforts to keep the outside of the cup clean while the inside is dirty.

missyadorable:
Father rapes 2 month old daughter while bathing her

"Devil pushed me" says Father

Many fathers are not that way.

Highcuerayte:
The Scripture provides the condition of the coming Messiah,his timing, life,death and resurrection.

Of his timing he was to be born during the feast of terbancle

Of his life,to be lived in accordance with the Mosaic law

Of his death should die on the Passover

Of his ressurection, spend three days and night in the heart of earth.

The Friday lie doesn't agree with this thus disqualifying Jesus as the Messiah.

You're getting yourself confused.Is the problem with men who fixed the birthday in December or Jesus Himself Who never ordered that His birthday be fixed for December?
The most important thing is that Christ has come and fulfilled His purpose on the earth.Whether July or December does not matter as much.

Harbosede02:
Dah baby is still too small to be handled by a guy........that's a woman's work

What's there in a man that makes him incapable of bathing a new baby?
When my first child was born,we got home and there was no MIL around yet.The baby had to take her bath and my wife couldn't because she had C/S.She said maybe we should get the neighbours,i said maka why?I did the job!

Highcuerayte:
but it denies he is the Messiah!

How?

missyadorable:
Hope the baby is a boy o

if not..Hmmmmmm,story that touches the heart n tickles the bom bom may be heard

What story?

Brandnew2:
Because opposite attracts..

As simple as that.

Yes He wasn't born in December but the celebration of His birth in December has come to stay.
It takes nothing away from the main purpose of His coming.

colossus2:
School fees can be paid online.
Accommodation depends on where she is staying or wants to stay.

She told me she has accommodation close to the school and rent is N70k which is due at the end of Dec.She says she has to stay off campus cos of the baby.The baby stays with her.

pickabeau1:
thorpido


Have you verified the case?

I did a bit of investigation.At least i can confirm she's a student of Uniben and she has a baby.

I don't know what is wrong with all these youths and the need to get high.Just a few days ago,a young guy was brought in dead(BID)to the clinic where i work.He had taken TRAMADOL(probably with other things).

I created a thread for this but someone referred me here.Here are the contents of my thread;

Hi everyone,
Please i have a project that I want to see come to fruition and I need your partnership.There's someone who posted on the suicide thread and i want to help out with her situation.
Her story is that she got pregnant as a student and that obviously affected her academics and she has an extra year in school.
Her parents have their hands off her situation and has told her to sort herself out.I want to help out here and see her clear the extra year and graduate.She needs N82,400 for school fees and accomodation.I'll be paying part of this but I can't raise all the sum now and needs the help of anyone who is willing to partner with me.You can pay money into the account below;

**tope Olu***
Stanbic Bank
Acc.no:

Thanks.

Her post below in d suicide thread.

MommyD24:
I don't even know where to start from...
My story is way too long. I can't even believe how I got here, I just know that four years ago, I was a very bright intelligent student with so much dreams, aspirations and ambitions...but I've lost my way and can't seem to find it back.
Failed relationships, a 2year old son, an extra year in school, accommodation expiring next month, no idea on how to raise the extra year's school fees or how i'll even survive.
Was it all worth it?No...
I've made terrible choices and mistakes..
I just feel is time to pull the curtains.. where do I go from here?

Please I'll like to know if TeHN can take up this case and I'll send my own contribution?
Thanks.

cc:r231 and OAM4J

Young boys who let evil rule their hearts.If he is one of the 3mopols,good job Nigeria Police.

It's not strange.There are food substances that act as aphrodisiacs either by stimulating sexual desire or enhancing libido.Pineapple is one of them because it contains essential vitamins that enhance libido.
For some it's banana,lemon,sweet potato or chocolate.

PasD:
but diabetic patients don't drink a lot of water____do they?

They do.They become very thirsty like you experience and urinate a lot.
It may not be diabetes in your own case but you should get tested.

Why do you think you are still too young for something related to diabetes?If you urinate up to 5-6times in the night,something is definitely wrong.
I will advise you go to the hospital and get tested.

delishpot:
Hmnnn, OP this is a tricky one o.
Anyhow, those that are willing to help the said girl,
I sugest heplers contact TEHN. contribute the money and give to tehn(if they will want handle it) .
They will investigate the girls claims via the school management and if true pay the donated fees for her directly to her school and give her any excess cash.

I don't know if TEHN would want to handle this though I never asked them.I'll send them a mail.I've done a bit of investigations myself.

cc: The e-helpers network(TEHN)

agarawu23:
Just like that

What questions do you have?

Hi everyone,
Please i have a project that I want to see come to fruition and I need your partnership.There's someone who posted on the suicide thread and i want to help out with her situation.
Her story is that she got pregnant as a student and that obviously affected her academics and she has an extra year in school.
Her parents have their hands off her situation and has told her to sort herself out.I want to help out here and see her clear the extra year and graduate.She needs N82,400 for school fees and accomodation.I'll be paying part of this but I can't raise all the sum now and needs the help of anyone who is willing to partner with me.You can pay money into the account below;

T****** O******i
Stanbic Bank
Acc.no:9201****22

Thanks.

Her post below in d suicide thread.

MommyD24:
I don't even know where to start from...
My story is way too long. I can't even believe how I got here, I just know that four years ago, I was a very bright intelligent student with so much dreams, aspirations and ambitions...but I've lost my way and can't seem to find it back.
Failed relationships, a 2year old son, an extra year in school, accommodation expiring next month, no idea on how to raise the extra year's school fees or how i'll even survive.
Was it all worth it?No...
I've made terrible choices and mistakes..
I just feel is time to pull the curtains.. where do I go from here?

The main problem is not that he re-married but that he obviously doesn't have a good relationship with the sons and didn't raise them well.

anna5:
my idea but the way he just kept mounting pressure on me made it worst. I only said I wanted to do medicine because my senior bro also said he wanted to do it and everyone was proud of him so I wanted the same thing. I can change to anothe department but my dad said if that should happen I should get married

So marriage is another department?Your dad must be joking.
If the rule of your university demands that you leave the department,wait a while and have a talk with him.Let him know the school rule is that you have to leave the department.
The choices you have is either to enrol for UTME and try to gain admission into another school or you change to another course in the same university.Talk to your mum about this or any of your dad's confidants and let them talk to him.He will eventually calm down.
The reality of life is that a lot of people fail in the university but many later pass and are doing well in life.You on your part has to be very focused.Medicine and surgery is not for people who want to play

anna5:
hi as I write this now I don't know if I will be able too see tomorrow. if nt because of my mum I would have popped the pills a long time ago. I gained admission for medicine last year but our second semester result came out and I failed maths which means I will have to leave the department. it happened a month ago but I just told my dad today. and as I expected he told me that if am nt able to fix it then I should get married and leave his house or he will sell all his properties and pack out. he said it as if I wanted to fail. he has always been like this, always driving me to the edge. I don't even know y I wanted to study med in the first place, I wish I had gone for something else atleast I would have rest. I don't know wt to do with my life, ending it seems like a gud choice but my mum will be greatly affected as for my dad I would want him to feel great pains knowing that he is the reason y I did it.
he has so tormented all of us in the family if nt for the fact that he pays our school fees we would have put him in his rightful place a long time ago. he acts as if haveing us as children is his greatest mistake. he treats other people's kids as gold but us as dirt

Who's idea was it to study medicine?Yours or your dad's?
If you have to leave the department of medicine,can you change to another course?
If I may ask,what is really your own desires as per academics?

You chose to do deliverance for a girl alone in the room that has a bed and you are not wise enough to know that you're inviting trouble?
Devil was outside,you brought him in.

Source?
I'm sure this is not Nigeria.Blogger's story!

cococandy:
Yes. I'll be in the bathroom every second of I try that
Plus it doesn't taste awesome anyway.

I'll do my best. I promise.

Alright jisike.