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Nice one HRH M.Sanusi.A feather to your turban there.

sheunfemix: Please dnt try vaseline @ all. It will clog the pores in the baby's head leading to hair loss. I didn't have anyone to advise me on that. My baby got serious hair damage. Untill a Doc told me to simply use coconut oil and castor oil. Google them and u will see. The works of coconut oil in the hair is superb. Twill be shiny and bouncy. Thank me later

I didn't say petroleum jelly but the oil.
You're right though about the coconut oil.Natural products are better.

Jesus already said,....I will say unto them,I never knew you,depart from Me ye workers of iniquity'.

Again He said,' not everyone who calls me Lord Lord shall enter into the kingdom of heaven.(Matt.7.21-23)

Congrats in advance.Your children should turn out athletic too.

Vaseline baby oil is just ok.The kind of soap you use also matters.

Babies really don't need all the products overzealous parents want to use.

Afam4eva,otijah,sunshinelady and all those saying why her,what about the others?

She was not just a doctor,she was a consultant.She was the head of the medical team and was in charge of the patient.Her expertise and experience was the reason why they found out the patient had ebola virus disease.When he presented at the hospital,he was being treated for malaria until Dr Adadevoh took over and made further investigations.She also ensured he did not leave the hospital.The other doctors might have discharged him.She made calls to other institutions,other consultants and Lagos state officials to ensure the best outcome.

I'm not saying the others should not be recognised but she was the one who gave others instructions on management.She was their boss.
You can't compare a consultant to a nurse.

^^^You beat me to it.

blank: Hey, was just giving an opinion.

Issorait

blank: Probably because the boys would have been aborted or given up for adoption at birth.

Ladies feel that it is easier for a man to accept her with a girl than with a boy when going into a new relationship.

where did you get your theorem from?
The same men that may start flirting with the girl when she becomes a teenager?

How long has this been?
How old are you?
You might need to get screened for an infection or your blood sugar.

atbu1983: God is d same yesterday, today and tomorrow. What you are calling light is actually darkness. When d focus of our christianity shift from both spiritual and physical righteousness to just an assumption of spiritual righteousness as long as we meet our greeed. That is not a light shining brighter. it is a mirage. d true light is getting dimer.

The gospel is what I call the Light.You being the Judge of the universe has decided it is darkness.Please further explain to me how the true light is getting dimmer(if the true light can ever get dimmer)?

atbu1983: God is d same yesterday, today and tomorrow. What you are calling light is actually darkness. When d focus of our christianity shift from both spiritual and physical righteousness to just an assumption of spiritual righteousness as long as we meet our greeed. That is not a light shining brighter. it is a mirage. d true light is getting dimer

You've got it twisted.Your argument is from a position of your impression of some pastor's doctrines.

hifaif: But generally, Christianity is still a religion.

As seen by you and many others.
Like i said,it depends on what you use to view the Light.
The bible talks about '....shining brighter and brighter until the perfect day'.That means the way it is seen now is not the way it will be seen tomorrow because it would have appeared brighter.
It's all about the level of knowledge.

LMAO.You are not harsh.You have a responsibility as the head of your house to lead your family right most especially your daughter.

hifaif: So what is Christianity?

Christianity is a relationship with God.Jesus brought us into that relationship through His sacrifice that brought us into oneness with God and gives us the right to call Him Father.
No religion has God as Father(and rightly so because no religion can).

A simple way i can explain this is to look at what exists between an earthly father and his son.The son does some things for the father like greeting him every morning(if yoruba,going to prostrate),sometimes go and sit to chat with him,make requests from him etc.Is this kind of relationship called religion?The fact that some of these activities are cultural,routine and predictable,does it make them religious?

I can understand where you are coming from.You have issues with some pastors especially Pastor Chris as you mentioned.I want you to know that the gospel is bigger than pastor Chris or any pastor.It's about the light of the gospel.That light shines but everyone does not see it in it's true brightness.Some see it as dim while others see it as a bright light and yet some see it as a burning light.We do not all see it the same way.

atbu1983: All u said is just academic argument. I am a christian. Christianity is a religion. Because d decision to accept Jesus christ as our lord and savior is an active individual decision. That is y every believer is referred to in d bible as brother and sister. Which means as christian you are in a fraternity led by christ. You are separated from d world. You belong to a group. thus makes christianity a religion. What do u want to achieve by saying christianity is not a religion. What does it change apart from self serving gradiosity of superiority complex which is not of God but mere rhetorics

Many go to church,yet do not understand what they believe.
The disciples of Jesus were with him but did not even understand his doctrines and what he stood for for the greater part of His earthly ministry until Jesus told them the Holy Spirit will make many things clearer after He departs.
It is not about a superiority complex,it is about the truth that it is.
Christianity is not a religion.

Christianity is not a religion.Those who understand it know it is not,those who don't think it is.
No prophet ever said,'I give eternal life'.Jesus brought 'something'no prophet had.

Mstik's words further buttress the point.

ephee: tanks

i just finished my ond prog in bus admin at yabatech

okay.I know you can get a fairly good job with that.Keep hope alive.Send your CVs out.

No matter what you have been through,make up your mind the future will be nothing like it.
Getting a job and raising enough money to get an apartment for yourself is the best bet now.It will take you away
from all these troubles you face with your mother.

Do you have any degree?

chemystery: Bro, i have been to close to 20 states in Nigeria and i have never seen anything of this sort up to the extent of happening in quick succession. I know it is overhyped but i believe there must be an element of truism in it. Moreover, i met a female friend yesterday alongside with her friends and they were telling me to be careful after i narrated my experience to them. They said if calabar girls pamper me, say i no go leave Calabar again. She even told me most of her friends sleep around even after getting married. Now imagine this coming from a lady.

The thing be say dem jam the wrong person cos i my eye deh up. Na to do wetin carry me come waka go. No time!

LOL.Element of truth fit dey there.
Carry your face up as you talk o,make e no be say people go dey wait you for PH,you go put them for 'is coming'.

Op,you didn't say anything about what got you to this point.Perhaps if you share,we will be able to help you through some of your challenges.You spoke about experiencing loneliness,you won't be lonely on this forum.
Hope to hear further from you.

chemystery: that means you are saying it's my doing and not the "calabar girl" syndrome...

The calabar girl syndrome is over-hyped.You will still see this kind of thing in other parts of the country.

So only two girls in Calabar?Do you know how many ladies are in Calabar?
I think this is just a stereotype.

Pavore9: l asked because l do not know what happened in 1960 that is connected with a passworded phone!

I know.I guess he just put that statement related to 1960 as some kind of joke.What kind of phones existed then not to talk of passwording it.

Pavore9: OP, what happened in 1960?

The colonial masters handed over their authority.

crystalballs: You spoke my mind, someones wife may just be thinking something else because of these thread.

Some men should be reading this and thinking of how to live right.

How can you not make love to your wife for months,leave the house for days and impregnate another girl somewhere and if your wife raises hell,she gets a slap and you expect to be mourned by this same woman?(True story).

Strong strong......una dey body build?
You have been with this guy for more than a year,what strength do you need to build in your relationship again?
You are 32yrs and it wouldn't be good for this guy to be stringing you along only to change his mind later and go for a younger girl.
Give him an ultimatum of 3mths to fix a date.If by December,he can't make up his mind,I don't think you should go into a new year with this.
A MAN sets a time to marry and does so.You are dating a boy who is unsure.

I can't blame a woman who doesn't mourn her cheating spouse when he dies.I know a guy who treats his wife terribly.I wouldn't bat an eye if tomorrow I see her painting the town red if her husband passes.

...as long as she has no hand in his death.

She was killed by death.
Her autopsy report showed she died of intracerebellar haemorrhage due to hypertensive heart disease.
What other story are you trying to tell Denrele?

carefreewannabe: Low sperm count is not the only issue.

STDs can kill or leave a person with lasting and serious health issues.

We're in the same direction.

rozzay: Thanks dear, some do but its not working

You didn't start early but it's not too late.