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^^keep at it.Help her with house work and massage her body especially her back cos she will experiencing back pain sometimes.
Make love to her cos her body needs it but do it when it's convenient for her.
Sleeplessness is a common occurrence so she should catch up on as much sleep as she can.
It's a worthwhile journey.Wish you the best.

fairygeh: Na o,why do almost all celebrity marriages crash? oh no,not ini,my baby

Cos they don't lay the right foundation.They jump into marriage like it's show bizness.

egopersonified: Gohome, this is se.xual discrimination, what about how to get pregnant with a girl?

The system works on probabilities but there's a higher chance of having the sex you want when used correctly.

For the girl,make love about four days before your expected date of ovulation and stay off sex till after your fertile period.There's a higher chance of conceiving a female that way as female gametes stay longer alive than male gametes and are the ones available to fertilise the egg when it arrives.

Psychological:Guys who grew up under strict religious background can have this issue.
The thought of sex as dirty also plays a role.There are guys who actually think of the vag.ina as dirty.
Fear of pregnancy can also cause delayed eja.culation.

Physiological:Chronic alcohol intake.Generally alcohol delays release.
Some drugs also have an effect in delaying release.
Chronic self-servicing can also cause this as most of these men release when they self-service but don't just do easily inside the Vj.

Rilwayne001:
SMDH

So you can only see drug in his comment?
How about others

LMAO

You are into drugs too..........and partially blind?

I wish it was compulsory to do genotype screening for intending couples and stop those who are not compatible.
The trauma most especially for the children is not worth it.

RIP to the innocent girl.

plaetton: You just made a fool of yourself by attacking the op without even making an effort to refute any of his points. The reason is simply because you cannot. You are suffering from the typical cognitive dissonance. It is a psychological attack on your feeble mind, so you have to lash out violently at the op. I wonder if you realized just how pathetic your response is. lol

I find it hilarious that when someone reads the bible with common sense, you religiotards lash out that the person lacks a certain unique kind of stupi.di.ty drug, a spiritual drug, to fully understand the bible.

The only retard here is you.You talk so easily about drugs cos you're an addict and you must be high right now.
Drugs can really mess you up.

khiaa: lol You are taking this personally. When I said YOU I didn't actually mean you the person I meant the person in the situation. No I am not a mother.

Good for you that you are not a single mother.You said the man and put you in parenthesis which was kind of implied.
Well,I'm married so single mother or not does not apply to me.

I have nothing against single mothers.

khiaa: Yes this is true there is no guarantee of a pregnancy because the new man (you) could be the one who is infertile.

You're taking this VERY personal.Are you a single mother?
You know nothing about my marital status and whether I have kids or not.

To those saying a single mother proves she is fertile,HOW WRONG YOU ARE!
There is something called SECONDARY INFERTILITY.That a woman has had a child is no guarantee that she can have another one.There are countless women struggling to get pregnant again after they already had a child.Every pregnancy is unique.

I'm not against single mothers,I'm just disputing the hypothesis that having had a child means fertility.

lanrexlan: The author is a christian like you that is 'drunk' in Holy spirit.

Read more
www.nairaland.com/1839178/problems-biblical-inerrancy
Written by a christian,he agreed the bible contains error but God wants it that way
This was not preached by Christ,Paul did(Romans 10:9).Jesus said Matthew 12:36-37 -''But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless work have spoken.
For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your word you will brother condemned

And the author of what you posted is also this that you have written in this post?
Keep deceiving yourself.Your intentions are clear.

And you choose to make a mockery of God's Spirit(The Holy Spirit)?One day you will give account of it.

lanrexlan: Don't mind him jare,attacking the op and not the topic.

Who posted it here?

tbaba1234: The article was not written by the op or even a muslim. There is no need to be defensive. It is a blog post ftom a news paper.

Okay.
The Op should not propagate it if he doesn't intend to promote strife.

Why don't you just stick with what you know instead of delving into what you don't understand?
The Op is a muslim and obviously lacks understanding of scriptures.

Jesus said,...' ye err not knowing the scriptures(Matt.22:29)

Why don't you spend more time pursuing the instruction that says you should kill the infidels(Quran3:151)

esof1: First of all, it was wrong for u to send that little boy to spy on ur husband. It wud av been better u didn't know abt the extra marital affair. Ignorance wud av paid u more.

Yea,ignorance indeed pays more.There are quite a no of ignorant women who find out they are HIV positive when they come to the hospital for routine antenatal screening.

ayinba1: @Topic
What a way to honor your late father!!!
SMH

He is a motivational speaker.The best way to teach is by your own personal experiences.

aisha2: As usual we take responsibility away from the person who committed the act and pour it all on the " strange woman".
I used to think Fela was a smart sound and rational man till this.
Blame it on the strange woman, on jazz on everything except the man who decided to leave his wife and kid for another woman.

Trust Nigerians to always find scape goats to blame for their wicked inconsiderate acts.
Fela your Dad died of diabetics, he fell into a diabetic coma it's common kills even in hours nothing strange or jazzy about it abeg. Next

He didn't absolve his father of blame.

bukatyne: Thanks

For love jazz to work, the man must have slept with the woman or eaten her food once

It does not just fly in the air

That's how I know it works too.

She should tell the wife.What kind of lie is that just to get some side action?
Wifey needs to know the kind of man she married.

MARKone: My brother this looks like a script from all these Nollywood movies. It happens in real life.

I am not holding brief for the man, but It could have been a very innocent gesture that lead to all these problem, it may not have started with a lustful desire.

Bottom line is for couples to be prayerful, very prayerful.

Yes one has to be prayerful not to fall.Some ladies out there are diabolical.
However,I don't think a nursing student will just jam a professor like that except he gave the hint.

MARKone: Going by what his son wrote, don't you believe that the man was not in his right senses. Don't you know that some women are very diabolic, and would go to any extent to "chain" any man they target.

A lot can be learnt from this man's life's story.

He wasn't in his right senses only after he had followed the lady.

prissyluv: My dear,it is not as if I want to get pregnant or that my guy does not want to man up. He has made efforts to come but I am the one postponing the whole thing.

Ok,he told me that he will help to carry my properties home and use the opportunity to see my people just for me to inform him few days back that he should not worry again that I have sought an alternative.
My guy wants to see my parents as I have seen his. His parents accepted me and his mum even want me to spend some time with her.

Just do the needful.The earlier the better so you don't turn out to be the one that loses out.

Augustbreak: How do you know ?

Clinical examination of people is in the line of my duties.

The change starts with you.Be the voice of evangelism and raise people whose hearts are after the Lord.

Augustbreak: ;DOlder women are shameless abi?

Nah,they are just less inhibited.

Augustbreak: At all.My last baby was delivered through a male Doc.I feel so shy to even pass close to that hospital.

Na wa for you.He may not even remember your face.You know how many have delivered after you?
Anyway,you will overcome the shyness with time.I hardly see shy older women.

For every fake there must be a true.

Whao poster,this issue has been close to a year and not only are you not married,you haven't even introduced yet.What are you waiting for?You said you want to do it close to the wedding?Won't they be the one to approve the time of the wedding?Are you trying to get preggy?

I think you should do the introduction now.Maybe you should look for an elderly person in your family you can take into confidence and hint the person.Try and prepare the ground.
Why is your guy too holding back?He should man up and go and see your parents.

Keep praying.If it is the will of God,he will soften your parents' hearts.

From experience,males are more patient with females than with females with other females.
There's just a beef thing between females I have observed over the years.

One breast is usually slightly bigger than the other in every female.However,it is significantly different in some.
The main solution to it is surgery(implant).If you don't take the option of surgery,you can make use of padded bras to balance out your breasts.
Usually,the size of the breast won't stop milk production so you can still breastfeed.
The most important thing............your self-esteem.Be confident with your body and be around a man who will take you just the way you are.

I don't know how it feels not having parents.It must leave a gaping hole for some people.
No matter the circumstances of your birth,just make the best of your life.

critique101: ramsey nouah is not serious o. Did his father marry his mother? Didnt she just get pregnant for the oyibo guy? He should be annoyed with his mother and not his dad. The man didnt rape his mother and it's possible they just had a fling

Both parents had an intimate relationship outside of a union and should be blamed for it.However,that intimacy produced a child that is here now.
The mother didn't leave but raised him.The father didn't look back and played no role in his growing years and that is why he takes the rap here.
There are parents(fathers)who don't marry the woman who bore them a child but they play every fatherly role in that child's life.