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carefreewannabe: What about STDs??

Are boys immune?

Yea STDs too.More men are presenting with low sperm count so boys have responsibilities too.

The 10 footballers on a field can wander around the field but the goalkeeper can't really do that and always must watch the goalpost.
The burden of pregnancy on a teenage girl far outweighs that on a teenage boy.Nevertheless,boys ought to be taught too so they don't mess up some young girl's life.

Get people around you to correct him.Also get them to call you mummy bomboy when around him.He'll get the message with time and change.

Very shall position to take,Prof.Ishaq Akintola.Look beyond your nose.

Marriage is very much worth it.The bible says two are better than one.It however depends on the kind of mindset you have going into marriage.To say there is no man that will not end up cheating or resort to violence just shows how wrong a mindset you have.
You can't use your background or even other people's experiences to judge marriages.
The most important thing is to first make yourself the marriage material.Then look for someone who shares similar orientation as you are.Look at the person's background,his relationships with family members,friends and colleagues/neighbours.Explore his mind to see where he is coming from and his life goals.Have an insight into his person.
Marriage shouldn't be as bad as people make it.Just lay the right foundation.

Scyllapatron: christianity and confusion

The only confusion there is the ignorance of those who do not understand.
The bible says,'......with all thy getting get understanding(Proverbs 4).

If indeed,this is real,it's madness.
That church joined in the madness.

Yanshin is reputed as the greatest goalkeeper ever.My best is Dino Zoff.

Your mother's relationship should be different from your relationship with your dad.Your mother is hurting, hence her instruction.
Do you have a relationship with your dad?The choice of giving him gifts will depend on your heart of forgiveness.
Follow your heart but be discreet.Your mum won't take it lightly.

JENMAUCY: That's not true, I have seen a girl that lost her husband to be, 2days to the wedding day,the man was buried on that suposed wedding day. Till date, the girl refused to allow men come close to her,not to talk of getting married, if you raise the issue she will tell you that she is married and she don't want to destroy her marriage

Why is she doing this to herself?She should grieve and move on with her life after a short time.The guy is never going to come back.

Except there is some spiritual covenant somewhere that she is hooked on.

The guy knows what to do.He can put a stop to it if he wants.The girl is disillusioned.

Young man,it's psychological.Your mind has been put in a wrong shape by the thrills of other women and self-servicing.It's like having the mindset that I don't have to study hard for an exam when I can cheat.The 'options' you have is behind this.
First,you need to start working on your mind.Stop seeing other women and stop self-servicing.Tell your mind that your wife is the only option you have.
Secondly,discuss with your wife so you both can work on it together.She should be more receptive whenever you need her.She should also make herself sexy.Nice underwears,perfumes etc
Also you will need to change some things.Explore new styles that she is comfortable with.Try to change location sometimes.Familiarity can dampen some things.
I don't think you have erectile dysfunction so you don't need drugs.

ayodeleakinadew: This is the difference between the church of Christ and any corporate organization. Corporate organizations has specific and tailor made modus operandi but the church has only one "The word of God"

The word is still the standard.According to them,she was partaking in 'subversive activities that were against the scriptures'.

And what is wrong in suspending a pastor whose activities are subversive to the church?Are you going to leave the person alone to cause division and scatter the church?

There are rules in every organisation and individuals in such organisation must not partake in activities that will bring down the organisation.

2years?She's still a toddler.What does your husband want her to study?Calculus?
Let him take it easy.She will outgrow this stage.Just guide her....

It's the responsibility of adults to keep things that can be destroyed from toddlers.

It's unethical to treat your own family member.Usually,doctors also have family doctors.
I know someone who performed a C/S on his wife sha.

Why dem come do birthday cake like wedding cake?
Anyway,maybe dem use am as point of contact.

So sad this is all the life of some are worth.
Religion has made it so worthless.

^^^crapity crap

germainediva: my dear I have been married for 13years with 3kids.......whots on ma hubby's mind s how t make enof money t take kia of his kids.........when I tok about attention he makes it look as if am not considret

I wish all married men will read this quote.WOMEN NEED AND WANT ATTENTION.They feed and thrive on it.
Lady,if your husband will listen,have a talk with him.Let him know you want his attention.Better still,get that attention from him.Be the one to dress nice and smell nice.Make yourself hot.Get nice undies and look tantalizing to him.Arrange getaways for two if the opportunity presents itself.

Don't neglect to pay for grace and wisdom too.This phase can pass.

donbenie: He's neither mocking the dead nor the injured,but rather those who rather than look the facts on the ground,prefer to spew off some cock n bull story,which frankly is an insult to our collective intelligence,you don't need a degree in civil engineering to suspect that extra stories on top of the building is the most likely cause of the collapse..not this tale by the moonlight..or does he being your pastor makes him immune from just criticism..

He's not my pastor.I don't attend his church.I'm just concerned about people who are dead and injured and not mockery as the focus.

Idrismusty97: Your other picture is the best. The building was blown down by a large angry wolf! www.nairaland.com/attachments/1701100_tatafo_jpeg46b60563106d77134d4f89de3aa1337e

Are you mocking the dead and injured or the pastor?

Sometimes you can't help but admire someone of the opposite sex even when married.However,something is wrong when you allow it to dwell in your heart just as you are doing.
I think the bigger problem is that there is a disconnect with your husband.You are not getting the attention you need from him.Why don't you get your husband to pay more attention to you?Perhaps,he's been too busy lately.

It's a good thing the man is not the one trying to hit on you.Do everything possible not to get him to notice you.

MarvellousGod:
You don't have teachers or guardians kinda

It's a boarding school.The act was done in the dormitory. He was expelled when the authorities found out.

The most notorious guy in my secondary school is dead now.Many of them like that don't last long.
He wrote his name on the back of a junior student with a blade.

Is this true or you just want to start a thread?
You said you have changed the status to married and that should end the whole saga.

But erm......e be like say your wife na still a kid sha.

Why didn't you google some of the courses you listed so you can have more knowledge about them?
I speak of physiotherapy especially.

Wetin come concern Ramsey Noah for the matter na?

........but deliver us from evil.....

RIP lady

My birthday mate.Your birthday is in a few days Harry,stay safe.

Unibenstudent: U need to get your computer and start your research because yeshua is Christ real name

Whatever.You can go away now.
I saw what you said about your parents.It's true.

Unibenstudent: Ok, i think my father and mother are a disgrace to humanity because they brought up an slowpoke who has head but no brain

Unibenstudent: Ok, i think my father and mother are a disgrace to humanity because they brought up an slowpoke who has head but no brain

okay