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This guy no sabi say na oyinbo land e dey.No be like Naija wey things like this dey common.
It's unethical to have any form of romantic relationship with your patients.

barbiechick: No. You are wrong. I got pregnant after getting married.

okay,but your husband's relationship with you shows there must have been loose ends in your relationship before you tied the knot.

I hope you can get him to listen to you and both of you can become involved.You've been given good advice on this thread.I pray it gets better for you.

F00028: we, like our prophet (pbuh) believe in all the previous scriptures God gave to his prophets (pbut) before him. eg:
-taurat/torah to Moses (pbuh), and
-injeel to Jesus (pbuh)
BUT those scriptures, unlike the Quran, have not been preserved in their pristine purity!

e.g if you know your bible history you know Jesus Christ never wtote down a word, never asked anyone to write down a word, and while he was around nit a single word was written down.

so which 'injeel'then do you accept since as you say none was written when Jesus was here on the earth.Don't you think it's unreasonable to believe what you don't even know?

Ayatullah:
It shows how lazy you are, if you had google search as advised, then you will see she did not convert to Islam in captivity, but after 3 years, she spent less than 20 days with the Taliban, so for your information she was not forced, but she read the Quran, because she want to know and not a lazy fellow like you. For your information she was a Sunday School Teacher as a Christian.

And you don't know that in just one day a man can be fed with so much bullsheet that he will believe it for the rest of his life.

Being a sunday school teacher means nothing.There are sunday school teachers and CRK teachers who just take it as a job.

idnoble135: ^
you could have simply ignored him. He did not seem to speak in humily.

Yea I could have ignored him but he wouldn't know there's something wrong in the way he wrote if someone does not point it out.

lilbakar: BY THE WAY NOBODY HAS ANSWERED MY QUESTION; WHO IS THE JESUS REFERRING TO IN JOHN16?

Nobody has answered your question?I asked you questions concerning d scriptures u quoted and u went about telling me how Moses died and Muhammed died,you're not serious.

Cherry picking scriptures.The ones you can manipulated you accept,d others you say it was changed or it was by Paul.

^^^The guy above me wrote well.The bible may have different versions but they all essentially have the same message.The aim is to have it available to many people and to be easily understood.

The quoran was not put together until after Muhammed had died.That it has had the same words for years is not an assurance of it's originality.

After ttc for more than a year,my wife missed her period and we were so glad.Suddenly she started having serious cramps and then spotting.Finally,the mass of embryo came down.It was shattering,but my faith couldn't let me stay down.
I had to do a lot of preaching and exhorting to raise her spirit.I had no doubt we could do it again.I read on the internet that you can conceive in two months after a miscarriage.
Thank God she missed her period after the second cycle.

Look forward to the next opportunity and don't let this loss weigh you down.You can start to try after you see your next period.If you wish 2 talk u can pm me.Cheers.

^^^yes Op.Get engaged with more productive things.Begin to cut yourself away from friends with similar hobbies.Discipline yourself to stay away from brothels.

Most importantly,find a church and become active there.Develop a closer relationship with God.

He's not too old but i hope your motivation is not financial reasons.
If you are willing to discuss more you can pm me.

I no wan hear tomorrow say he no dey sleep for house,he never touch me for months,he no dey listen to me etc.

hardbody: Again you guys will quote the bible and say Jesus said he is the way the truth and the life. I do agree. But my question is, do you have versions of truths? why are all you supposed christians misunderstanding or misinterpreting God's word? Did you not all read that he is not a God of confusion? So why are you all confused or sounding it. Is it becoming clear now why neither moslems no atheists believe in your genuiness?

I am practical christian and i understand the Bible because i research. I do not rely in what one man of God told me. In Thessalonians, Paul said the people in Borea were constantly examining the scriptures to affirm that what they are taught is the truth. All you guys here writing rely on is what your 'fraud' of a Man of God said. SMH for gullible Nigerians

You could be a Christian,but from your post it shows you lack humility and you are low in spiritual understanding.Christians are not all at the same level of understanding of the word and spiritual matters hence the need for teachers as the bible says and opportunities like this one to learn.If you have reached the level of a bishop as you think,others are not and they are open to learn.Get off your high horse.

lilbakar: THE ANSWERS I HAVE PROVIDED, REQUIRES COMMON SENSE TO UNDERSTAND THEM, I DONT KNOW WHY SOME PEOPLE HERE ARE STILL ARGUING, IF I SHOULD GIVE YOU ANSWERS TO YOUR NEW QUESTIONS I WILL STILL BE REPEATING MY SELF.

SO READ THE PREVIOUS ANSWERS AV GIVEN CAREFULLY, AND OPEN YOUR MIND, AS I HAVE SAID BEFORE, ALL PROPHETS FOLLOW SAME GOD, WITH ONE SAME MESSAGE BUT THROUGH DIFFERENT CHANNELS, MAJOR DIFFERENCES BETWEEN ISLAM AND CHRISTIANITY ARE THE INVENTED DOCTRINES BY PAUL, WHICH LEAD TO WHICH LEAD TO THE ALTERATION OF SOME VERSES TO SUPPORT HIS CLAIMS.

IF YOU ARE STILL NOT CONVINCED LETS MEET ON FACEBOOK www.facebook.com/lilbukar FOR MORE COMPREHENSIVE DIALOGUE.

Rather than give me direct answers to the questions u're going about in circles and you talk about common sense.I guess common sense now means going in circles by your definition.
It's obvious you came here to raise questions that only exposes your ignorance thereby shooting yourself in the foot.

F00028: @thorpido
the Prophet Muhammad (saw) never had a copy.
and what original are you on about?

Very well said.
If Muhammed didn't have a copy and muslims also didn't have a copy of the original message of Jesus,then how do you prove that the message of Jesus in the bible was not the original message as muslims claim?Don't you think something is wrong?

You say this is not true,i ask you to bring the original true copy,you say you don't have it but u just know this one is not true,don't u really think there's something wrong with that?

lilbakar: YEAH, YOUR SO CALLED TRANSLATORS OR INTERPRETERS OF THE BIBLE TRIED TWISTING THE VERSE,SO THAT IT WONT LOOK PLAINLY TO BE REFERRING TO MUHAMMAD (pbuh),(YOU KNOW WHAT IT WOULD DO TO THEIR BUSINESS) I THINK YOU GUYS SHOULD ASK YOUR PEOPLE IN AUTHORITY, TO REDUCE THE DISTRIBUTION OF TRANSLATED BIBLE, BUT TO START TH DISTRIBUTION OF THE ORIGINAL ARAMAIC BIBLE, TO SEE THE NAME THAT WAS TRANSLATED TO THE COMFORTER), I MEAN CHRISTIANS SHOULD ALSO LEARN THE LANGUAGE OF THEIR BELOVED JESUS CHRIST (PBUH), JUST LIKE MUSLIMS EVEN NON-ARABS AROUND THE WORLD CAN READ THE LANGUAGE OF THE PROPHET MUHAMMAD (PBUH), FOR BETTER UNDERSTANDING OF THE MESSAGE.

THEIR ARE MANY VERSE CONCERNING THIS TOPIC

WE ALL KNOW THAT THE BIBLE WAS NOT ORIGINALLY REVEALED IN ENGLISH LANGUAGE IF YOU DOUBT THAT VERSE, THEN PLEASE TELL ME WHO JESUS IS TALKING ABOUT.........PLEASE!

THEN SECONDLY IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN WHAT JESUS SAID THEN SEE WHAT GOD TOLD MOSES. AND THESE ARE REFERENCES FROM YOUR OWN BIBLE
"THE LORD SAID TO ME(MOSES):"WHAT THEY SAY IS GOOD. I WILL RAISE FOR THEM A PROPHET LIKE YOU FROM AMONG THEIR BROTHERS ; I WILL PUT MY WORDS IN HIS MOUTH, AND HE WILL TELL THEM EVERYTHING I COMMAND HIM. IF ANYONE DOES NOT LISTEN TO MY WORDS THAT THE PROPHET SPEAK IN MY NAME, I MY SELF WILL CALL HIM TO ACCOUNT" (DEUTERONOMY 18:17-19)

SO LETS ANALYSE THE VERSE:

*FROM AMONG THEIR THEIR BROTHERS:
THE PROPHET THAT GOD IS TALKING ABOUT CANNOT BE AN ISRAELITE PROPHET, BECAUSE THE VERSE DOES NOT SAY "FROM THEM" BUT IS SAYS FROM "AMONG THEIR BROTHERS", THE BROTHER OF THE ISRAELITE ARE NONE OTHER THAN THE ARABS WHO ARE THE DESCENDANTS OF ISHMAEL THE SON OF ABRAHAM AND THE BROTHER OF ISAAC.

*LIKE YOU:
THERE ARE MANY SIMILARITIES BETWEEN PROPHET MOSES(PBUH) AND PROPHET MUHAMMAD(PBUH):
THEIR BIRTH-BOTH NORMAL BIRTH

MARRIAGE/CHILDREN- THEY WERE BOTH MARRIED AND HAD CHILDREN.

THEIR DEATH- THEY BOTH DIED NATURALLY AND WERE BURIED

LAW- THEY BOTH BROUGHT NEW LAWS

ACCEPTANCE BY THEIR PEOPLE- THEY WERE BOTH ACCEPTED BY THEIR PEOPLE


JUST AS YOU HAVE SAID "THE TRUTH IS THE TRUTH", THEIR IS NO NEED FOR TWISTING, IT ONLY REQUIRES HUMBLING OF THE HEART, AND REMOVING OF PRIDE AND ARROGANCE FROM THE HEART TO UNDERSTAND WHAT IS TRUE .

QUR'AN 17:081 "And say: "Truth has (now) arrived, and Falsehood perished: for Falsehood is (by its nature) bound to perish."

Instead of answering my questions,you keep jumping from pillar to post and using the cheapest excuse in Islam that the bible was translated by men and therefore could not be correct.Okay please provide the original for us let us see.I'm not talking about Muhammed's copy!
Those words in John 16 are in plain english and you quoted it which means you agree with it.Unfortunately for you don't understand it and expose your flaw cos u can't address the questions I raised.

The Prophet Moses spoke about referred to Jesus and he called Him a prophet because as at that time,no one had the revelation of the Christ.
If you are comparing Moses and Muhammed,you forgot to say Moses was a man and Muhammed was too.Moses had a beard and Muhammed had too.Tell me what all these comparison have to do with salvation?

idnoble135: And you said this:

Oh yeah? Acts? A transitional book? No! I disagree. The book is filled with principles and patterns that churches everywhere should follow. Its not a transitional book. You might as well try calling the four gospels transitional books. But Acts of Apostles is not.
I do not argue that the anointing is is within us. I already explained that but you still dont seem to accept it. But could you then explain this scripture,
"The
earnest (heartfelt, continued) prayer of
a righteous man
makes tremendous
power available
[dynamic in its
working]." James 5:16b AMP
1. Why is prayer necessary here?
2. Why does it use the word "available"? Does that not mean it was not at available at first?
3. Why did the Bible use the word "continued" in the prayer there?
4. Why is it that its this power that is dynamic in its working?
5. This scripture is in the new testament. But from the context, does it refer to the anointing within?
6. If yes, how?

idnoble135...all these guys believe in Jesus but they have not yet yielded themselves fully to the Holy Spirit to experience His diverse workings.They still like nominal Christians want to box Him in a corner and think they know all He can do.They have not yet understood that with the Holy Spirit anything can happen!

Ayatullah: Indeed some will depart and they have departed for the REAL Eternal Life, like Yvonne Ridley, a British Journalist who converted to Islam after being held captive by the Taliban during the USA invasion of Afghanistan, working as a reporter for the 'Sunday Express' in September, 2001. For her very interesting story, Google search,YVONNE RIDLEY: FROM CAPTIVE TO CONVERT.

Listen to yourself....she was held captive and she converted.
How was islam spread by Muhammed and how was it spread by Uthman dan Fodio in northern Nigeria?Was it not by the sword?Holding people captive and subdueing them to accept islam?You don't expect people to convert under such conditions?

Ayatullah:
If you want to know the secret of what happened to you that day, get the VIDEO CD of former Pastor Mathew Oyewole, now a Muslim with the name Moshood Oyewole. The title of the VIDEO CD is ISLAM, THE ONLY WAY TO SALVATION.

It's not a new thing to turn from Christianity.The bible already says some will depart.
'They went out from us;but they were not of us:for if they had been of us,they would no doubt have continued with us:but they went out,that they might be made manifest that they were not all of us.'(1 John 2:19).

During the time of Jesus on the earth,some people turned away from Him.'From that time many of His disciples went back,and walked no more with Him'(John 6:66).
Nevertheless,one of them said,..'to whom shall we go?thou hast the words of eternal life(vs 69).
Jesus has the words of eternal life no prophet had.
Jesus is Lord.

I asked you questions you failed to answer.You quoted John 16 and you admit that is the true word of God by Jesus.
Jesus said He(Jesus)will send the Comforter and He will glorify Him(Jesus).Did Muhammed come to do that?If he didn't then that verse was not talking about him.You can go and show it to your imam who taught you if he has another interpretation.

The Truth is truth.I wonder why some people try to twist it.

[quote author=baby_123]He will my dear. It will get to him that he doesnt satisfy her enough and an ordinary machine can do the job. Guys dont like to feel inadequate and their manhood challenged. Except OP was forced on him via pregnancy and he is just tolerating her. If he truly chose to marry her, he will feel bad and make changes. She talked to him and he said he would change. No matter how untruthful the statement may be. He has said it, that is a first step to know he actually pays little attention.[/quote]she said he said so just to end the conversation.
Like you said,i have a feeling they didn't have certain things sorted before marriage,like the reason for marriage was cos she got pregnant.

[quote author=baby_123]Lai lai. He will feel inadequate and start asking her what she likes and how she likes it. He may even throw away the vibe. OP, make yourself happy let him hear it well. If he doesnt want to try, you sef try well well. [/quote]baby_123..you really don't know some men.

Op,u will have to keep discussing with him and praying that he listens.

I dislike men who just won't put their spouse into consideration and let ego get the better of them.Your husband saying he has had a lot of women is to me an empty boast.He has probably had this issue with the girls he had met.
Since you can't discuss this with family or friends,how about getting him to see a doctor?

LewsTherin: I really admire your person. Your posts denote a strength of character that is very rare.

One more piece of advice. When "he's gettin his groove on" and "ignoring your needs", try a simple trick. Moan and writhe like you are having the best sex of your life. Probably fake an orgasmm now and then even. This may help him feel that he's finally doing the job right. It just may prompt him to want to try harder.

naah.He doesn't care and I don't think this will do it

kulyie: .wetin concern pastor fot the matter

Like seriously kulyie?Wetin concern pastor for this matter?He is a check in a church that everything goes right and has that responsibility and authority.There are all sorts of churches and the one you probably attend might allow that but a good pastor should stand his ground and not endorse such immorality.

Like someone was saying why should a pastor refuse to join a pregnant woman in marriage?
Immorality has filled the earth but some still choose what is right.

Yes i have.It increases your appetite and also enhances food absorption.
I did gain some weight when i used it.However like I explained above,the effectiveness is based on what types and quantity of food you take while using it.
Your genetic constitution also determines how much weight you'll gain.

Since you chose to quote John 16,we will look critically at the words there and ask some questions.

Jesus NEVER fortold about the coming of Muhammed.None of the prophets before Him did.I have found out that muslims who quote the Bible intentionally deny scriptures in the Bible or are just ignorant of what they quote.From the words of Jesus in John 16,I will ask you these questions;

Was Muhammed sent by Jesus?
Did Muhammed come to glorify Jesus?
Did Muhammed receive his message from Jesus?

Go back and do a careful study of that chapter taking note of what Jesus said the Comforter will do.
Then if u are honest,tell me if your answers to the questions above will be yes.
Jesus did not speak about Muhammed,He spoke about the Holy Spirit.
Anyway Jesus said if they had known the One Who sent Me,they would believe,but they don't know the One Who sent Me......how then will they believe His Words?

Shekau's end is nearer than he knows.

milad4love: Can you please tell me who Jesus christ is ?

The Christ is not just a title but a position Jesus occupies.Christ means The Messiah,The Anointed One.He's not just one of the anointed ones as you think but 'The' Anointed One.He is The Spirit that came from God to bring redemption for mankind.

No I'm not saying that.It enhances weight gain but you have to eat more and burn less energy if you are going to see results.

That's why it was written 'that He made them male and female' but men in their lust have chosen to take more.

The underlying thing about weight gain is your genetic composition.However,the difference between energy intake and energy expended determines weight gain.Wate on emulsion will enhance your body's energy uptake but will not in itself determine how much weight you put on.