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kokoye: Real names (I know this elderly couple): Dr & Dr (Mrs) Oridota. Both neurosurgeons - they met in med school.

Loosely translated, that name means 'fried brain'.

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Isn't it an irony that they are both neurosurgeons with that name?

She is supposed to marry a Christian in word and in deed.That is all that matters.
If however she chooses to be ruled by the doctrines of a particular church,then that's her cup of tea.
Her happiness in marriage matters most and not belonging to a denomination.

The mama don carry your name go meet her pastor.You have to wait for her response.
You ain't got no choices for now.

What would you need a condom in your wallet for if you don't plan on being intimate? Christian can use a condom with his iwife but if you are not married then why carry a condom?

Cool,portable ride.

Ujujoan: Thanks a lot betty . . I fee like a crazy person already. I'm glad someone gets it!

She no get am.The people wey get am don advise u already.

Don't cause unnecessary strife in your marriage.

maclatunji: Again your interpretation is wrong. I did not say you have to be perfect and you are not expected to be sinless to qualify. Avoid the major sins is the requirement. An explanation of major sins that lead to hell are given here-

http://islamgreatreligion./2009/07/03/evil-deeds-that-lead-one-to-hell/

If you don't repent of these sins as a Muslim, you risk hell.

Oh ok,now I understand the requirements for a muslim.

Will you accept N600k?

maclatunji: I also want to know why OP lacks comprehension skills. There is no where in the hadith that says all Muslims will go to hell.

Believing in the (oneness) uniqueness of God guarantees that one will enter paradise. However, it does not guarantee freedom from hell. Why?

You have to add good deeds to your faith. Faith is not enough to avoid hell. It is possible to have a Muslim that steals, fornicates, lies etc. This are serious sins that could get a Muslim into hell. Islam is not based on deceit.

You believe in the Oneness and indivisibility of God, obey his laws and do good deeds and enter paradise by his mercy (May God make us one of these). The hadith refers to those who fall short of these standards and will be punished for their sins before gaining access to paradise.

Stop copy and pasting from antiIslamic websites. Study Islam independently.

I have a question.If obeying all the laws and doing good deeds will get one into paradise,it then means a man must keep all the laws perfectly and his good deeds must be perfect too.If he doesn't give money even when he has,then it means he has fallen short of it.if he doesn't pray 5 times in a day at the right time,he has fallen short of it.If he breaks his fast inadvertently at any ramadan period,he has fallen short of it.Does it mean that kind of man will first go to hell before he is now brought out?

Your daughter came back with bruises,don't you think your husband is justified for not approving you taking the daughter in the first place?What if it had been a more serious injury?
You say your family is close-knit but you really don't know what is in the heart of a man(desperately wicked-bible).
I will agree with your husband that you don't take her to the village again except he is there too.

You say you don't want to budge and accept his own terms?Hmmmmm.Marriage is not run with each party trying to prove he's/she's right.

Aka Chineke mezie okwu.

Me sef go like know.Why you have to take the long route and go round in circles before you then come to heaven?

shadrach77: Don't mind the fool (lagbaja) that's him (LAGBAJA) with a fan in New York

It's not fair to call him a fool just cos of his style.He has not broken any law by covering his face.
Some of us have seen his face and even gotten so close to him.He moves around town without his mask and usually won't drive a luxury car when he does that so you won't know it's him.
I'm a bit surprised he has such a grown up daughter.Anyway,he looks like he'll be close to 50yrs.

That man in your pic is not Lagbaja.

A big lesson to parents.Children are very impressionable!Be careful what you expose them to.

Thank God for your life Shina Rambo.Your name and Anini's name sent shivers down people's spine back in the days.

yellowpawpaw: I will disagree with u dear.
Most men r d genesis of their problems.while dating,a man tend to behave like a super dude forgeting that he is sowing a seed unconsciously.he enters into marriage and continues,when alarm blow he will start blaming woman for his fuckups if the woman start bein silly
Whatever u sow u reap.our men r guilty of that.very very guilty.
Lay ur cards on d table,any babe that don't like it should give chance for another,simple.

I will agree with you a lot of men are guilty of this but it's like a vicious cycle.
If you lay all your cards on the table,u go jones well as a man.

OP,follow the advice of posters above.Be the strength your mother needs now.

On a side note,abeg if you are reading this,go to a family planning clinic before or when you get married.Having many kids now no be moi moi o.You just make the kids to suffer for nothing.

[quote author=baby_123]You obviously didnt know who you married. Now that you have hit hard times, you now do. [/quote]Most women will behave like this when things get tough.
Na make God no allow alarm dey blow man be d prayer!

Firstimer: Ok. I no now. Twas wile i was tryin 2 free my legs, i tink i fractured a bone or smtin at my hip. Stil feel d pain slightly thru my left thigh, hopin 2 get a drug 4 it.
He says we'l try again wen d pain subsides.
Hop d place wnt bcom too tight again sha. Cos wev jus don it once. Docs in d house pls.....

If u fractured a bone in your hip,u'll probably not be able to walk.What I think happened is that you sprained a muscle while twisting or something.Get a painkiller,u'll be alright in a couple of days.

Growing up,I had a neighbour who was an only child,a girl.I remember when she started getting too friendly with me.my mum called me aside and asked if we were dating.She said she doesn't dig getting married to an only child(dnt know her reasons).

At 23yrs she got married.Apparently she got rushed into it.There's always pressure on an only child by the parents.The choice of a partner and timing is heavily influenced by the parents.

Is it still available?

What is wrong with an Ipad?
It's an electronic device that can be used to store information.You can download bible into it and better still have different versions for better bible study.You can also take notes with it which makes it a very effective device.

^^^ tres bien.

You've got more eternally worthy reasons to believe in Jesus Christ beyond marital reasons.
Didn't you and your husband discuss this before your marriage?It's always important for a couple to go in the same direction.The bible says,can two work together except they be agreed?'.

Both of you should have a discussion and reach a compromise.You also should have a lot of patience.The man is the head of the home.

Initially I didn't understand what u wanted,but now I think I do.
You want to get pregnant and you heard,u should not make love after ovulation to increase your chances?That idea is wrong.I guess the person who told you that was speaking about sex selection.
If u want to get pregnant and your period is regular,start making love from the day you expect your period for the next one week.You can do that every alternate day or everyday if you can.You don't have to stop after that but that is the period you are most likely to conceive.
There is no reason why you should stay off sex if you are trying to conceive.

Can it go for N450k?

Una dey use car dey dry clothes?Anyway show more pics 4 d car make we see.

I don't think any CSO has ever oppressed as you did in Nigeria.

Can it go for N450k?

How much?

Smartie gurl: I only said her dad ain't interested in church, her mom tries all she can to make sure they go to church, sometimes she allows them to ride to church with her neighbor, each time she knows she won't be around...so you see, she is just doing her best.

I hope her job will let her properly monitor her child.It seems the father is passive in all this.

Smartie gurl: in as much as she is a Christian, she hardly goes to church because of the nature of her job, she is a nurse though. So she only goes to church when is less busy, there dad ain't even interested in church matter...

Idokay.The parents are not interested in church and they want to raise morally upright children?Let them keep trying it their way then.