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Sirniyeh: na wa o! This your option scare me o. I dont think I can do that. It is just a matter of going to my village. A single leaf is what I needed to eat and balance the whole issue. I thought there should be orthodox medicine for this but now I'm disappointed if only surgery is the option.
No be me! Back to the village

There is a leaf you can eat to make you sterile?wao,never heard of that.

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Sirniyeh: pls what is the meaning of vasectomy? Can you put more light. God bless

The tubes carrying sperm from the sacs will be cut so that sperm does not get out and therefore make your wife pregnant.It is a surgical procedure and usually irreversible.If u are sure u will not plan 2 have any more child then,u can consider that option.

The family planning you can do is to have a vasectomy.If however u dnt want that option then consider the use of condoms.

Are u sure she doesn't have a fibroid,which is why she has an enlarged tummy?
Let her go to the hospital and do a scan.

mysticgal: am a busy person so i eat a lot of junks and sorry of all i leave home early 4 work.

Can u pack food when going to work and discipline urself to take only that.Also if u feel like snacking take fruits and vegetables.Garden egg,cucumber and carrots are good examples.

What is your diet like?Stay away from fatty foods and junk foods.Eat less of carbohydrates.
Try and exercise.U can start by walking long distances instead of taking a ride.Also start doing sit ups or double leg raise to burn stomach fat.

Hummingbird: bout dat teaching..criously ma dad wnt alow dat,he's very popular in ma area,xo he wudnt wnt me to do dat..so mayb u'l sugest any oda tin I can do dat he wil b apy wit...plus m I rily ok?eva since I brushed ma teeth dis mawnin,av bn trowin up,evrytn I eat sims nt to setle in ma tommy even til nw..I dnt fil comfortable until I trow it al out..tnk u

Pregnancy symptoms u're experiencing.It's normal.If u however feel any severe discomfort,see a doctor.

I always blame women when I see things like this.You are involved with a man and you don't know what plans he has for you and u throw your legs wide open having unprotected s.ex with him.
She wants marriage now and she's pregnant for you,while you don't want marriage.
Go ahead and do whatever u want.She will sort herself out.

Stroke is the general term used to refer to a cerebrovascular accident.There are different causes of it but the most common is hypertension.Often people are undiagnosed(ie they don't know) or they know but are not compliant with their medication.You can prevent it by checking your bp regularly and use your medication faithfully if u av been diagnosed with high bp.

Dyt: Dats u gal
I had dis frnd ehn, on her intro day, she wz preg and d guy asked her abort it
Ofcus she did
And dat wz makin it d 4th time
A very sociable babe o
So wat are we talkin

That's d stupidity we're talking about.Being sociable is not about wearing brazilian hair.It's about using dat white/grey matter in d headbone under the hair.

freecocoa: Nna eh stories like this one dey annoy me I swear.

How can you get pregnant 3 times for a man you are not married to? Even abort it thrice, na wa oo.

A lot of girls/ladies need to use that grey/white matter in their skull and stop thinking what is on their chest is what makes them women.

nikkykay: Guys please dnt condemn her for unprotected sex.
She had a 3yrs rship with a guy. Am sure whn dey started dey were using condoms but later on dey stopped using dats y she could get pregnant thrice.

@OP
I think he has seen anoda person since u r far away from each other. Regardless of ur age u have to b strong now.
I will advise u dont beg him to come back to u cos he is gone for good. Just make up ur mind and b strong cos u r about to start a very tough as a single parents esp during the cause of the pregnancy. Be strong and call him dat u r pregnant but dnt have it in mind dat he might come back cos of dat cos dat guy doesnt love u any more please.
If he tells you to keep it dat he wil b responsible, fine. Just relax till anoda man who wil accept you with ur child wil cme.
If he says no dat u shld abort it, fine. Just tell him u cant abort again and dat u wil take up d responsibilities.
Then the time to involve ur mum comes in now. She may have offended u in d past but like someone said u shld thank God that she didnt abort like to did thrice. you are going to be a mother 2 very soon so try to see ur mum as ur confidant now and tell her the situation of things. She is the only one who can stand by u now.
I hope u have ur job. Let ur job keep u busy my dear. Make urself happy and dnt let anythg weigh u down. It is not easy but am telling you dat ur baby wil bring you joy later on. Emotionally u wil suffer but its for a while am telling you.
Ask God for forgiveness of fornication and for bringing an innocent soul to the world in a wrong way. And begin to pray for a man dat will love both of u.

Am talking from experience my dear cos it happened to me. A guy left me with 3mths pregnancy. I was devastated during the pregnancy but God in HIs mercy saw me thru. My job helped me as well tho it was rough. My mother stood by me all thru and my brothers /sisters never left me till now. it was even my eldest sister dat stayed with me in the labour room all thru the nite. My baby clocked 1yr recently and am telling you she is still the best thing that has ever happened to be. Now I hv met a man dat loves me and my child more than anythg in the world. A fantastic man indeed. When God began with me, i had diff suitors that were ready to accept both of us but i had d chance to even choose.
For now dnt look @ man but focus on God cos he is d only one who can sail u thru>

it is well

Nice words of comfort.

Hummingbird: yeess I grew up witout a mentor..my mum ws neva dia for me or ma siblings..but av long forgiven her..m nt holdin anytin against her again even if she's d archeitect of al dis

what of ur dad?
U can pm me.I need to talk 2 u.

Hummingbird: if u r truly in love wit smone u loose every comon sense u av..u dnt realise it until d deed hs bin done..d only person dat can undastnd me nw is smone who hs bin dia,smone who hs xperincd dis

That u are in love is no reason for a lack of sense.What u obviously lacked is education and probably a kind of mentor in your life,someone who could have guided you right.

nyere84: This is exactly wat my frnd is passing tru rite now. Their introduction is suppose to be by march dis yr, but the silly guy just realized she is not good for him again.

And, she is already pregnant for him. The ediot(guy) ve the guts to say she cnt satisfy him on bed. therefore, he cnt go into marriage with her. Can u imagine?

U said the guy is an ediot but it's both of them that are(ur friend and d guy).
The fact that a guy wants to marry u is no reason to spread your legs and get pregnant for him.Let him take you to the altar first.

I'm shouting loud and jumping up as I type this:

YOUNG GIRLS WHY DO U ALLOW UNPROTECTED SEX?

You said you've aborted three times.Didn't u ever hear of condoms?Don't u know how to calculate ur period and know when u are not safe?
I dey tire for girls o.Why don't u always apply common sense and understand that u need to protect your body cos at the end the female suffers more?
Anyway I wish u all the best with a life of single parenthood.It's not going to be easy but u have to keep your head up and make the best out of your life.

Did u have a proper courtship before your marriage or u just went into it to be married.
Anyway you need to find a way to sit with your husband and have a heart to heart discussion with him about your marriage.If possible both of you should go for counselling.
It seems you married a mama's boy and that means u will have to endure a lot to make your marriage work.
Whatever you do,totally erase the thoughts of suicide.Give your marriage your best shot and if it doesn't work,U can start a new life on your own.
Lastly be prayerful.Prayer changes things.

Can u get a proof reader or editor to help u put your words right?

I av always said he looked like Mr Latin to people around me.He seems to have a comical side too like Mr Latin.

Emenike and Victor Moses are both ruled out due to injury.

There is a deeper issue behind the reason why you have to indulge in self service all this years.
Are u shy?
Do you meet with people of the opposite sex and make friends with them?
Do you have a place of worship and do you have a personal relationship with God?

To keep masturbating will leave u with some psychologic issues and probably physical/physiologic issues.

It's a free world.One can say anything he or she wants.
They said Jesus was casting out demons with the spirit of Belzebub(demonic spirit).
The bible says a man(woman) shall eat of the fruits of his(her) lips.Again the bible says by thy words u shall be condemned or justified.

Time will tell...

It happens in some families.There are cases of fathers sleeping with their daughters.There are serious psychiatric or demonic reasons for that.I think the girl in question must be possessed.I've had female friends whose fathers saw their unclothedness even till they married and left the house.I just wonder how on earth one can be attracted to his daughter's unclothedness.

degamonn: is not evritin that must be discussed on social media. It is good u consult a doctor.

..And what do u think is going on here ?I am showing her the path to go.Do you know what my profession is?

Childbirth does not stop menstrual pains.However if u experience painful periods,u may need to undergo tests to rule out infections.

busolayemi: Sumtyms I wonda aw dis men cope b4 dey got married...its ppl like dem dat kip a dirty room nd patronize mama bash's stupidly prepared meal...gosh!

I do a lot of stuff around the house and is ever willing to help.However,the day my wife begins to talk i'll get pissed off.You are giving a bad impression of you anyway.

JallowBah: He works, I works.
He pays, I pay ( house, food, bills. )
I buy my own beauty-things with my own money, he buys whatever he needs with his money.
I clean, he clean.
I cook, he cook.
I get up with the kid in the night, so does he. ( After breastfeeding stopped.. )

And for me, that is how I want it. I do not wish to go to my husband and ask for money for clothes, shoes, or a coffee for that matter. And I do not wish to put the whole responsibility for bills on him either.

I would do all these for my wife but I'm not sure I'll marry a woman who talks like this.

[quote author=Fifty-Fifty]One more reason why Islam will remain the best religion on the planet earth. In such a situation u have an option of either marrying another wife or just divorce her “after all efforts to reconcile among u prove abortive“. But that applies only to Islam.[/quote]What you have written up here makes very good sense?....oh I forgot,u're a muslim