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[quote author=Sisi_Kill]All these pastors who keep rubbishing the Nigerian Pastorhood. . .I mean a birthday celebration with CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS. . .breakfast not even dinner oh??!! Who does that??!! Seriously?!!!

Where is the must buy Aso ebi with his face printed on it for the congregation?

Where are the private jets and stretch limos?

Where are the world dignitaries and the musicians?

Why isn't the national stadium rented out?!!

. . .How are we supposed to know he is really a man of God?!! [/quote]Nonsense!

Princess1982: I guess my problem is how he brung it up to me. He basically said I have a list of things you will follow on your next visit. I guess I reacted the way I did because, of the tone don't tell me I will follow anything when you can easily talk to me and suggest a few things.I am not a puppy that needs to be trained. So anyway I finally returned his call after 17 voice mail and he's going to send text the list anyway he says what I don't like then don't change so if I see something to over the top I will definitely post them here. I love this man and I definitely don't want him to look bad in front of his family so I will compromise on somethings.

okay, see the list and let us know what u have issues with so we advise.It's good u are talking about compromise.

kambo: i read your post and sense discomfort from the artificiality expected of you. The insinuation you arent smart/sensitive enuff to adapt wtout rules. Its insulting. If he's giving you rules now, u bet more rules will follow and since you will hate being reigned in , friction will b inevitable in the long run. Think divorce no. 3!. Tell him to instead make his relations adjust to you. Your not marrying his mum or grand mum but him. You're not startg a family wt his relations. The bible says man and woman will leave parents (father n mother) to cleave together to become 1 (pardon this if u aint christian). I dont even know any verse that talks abt parental seal of approval 4 marraige. Compatibility shd b btween you and him,cuz that affects the survivability of your marraige. Every other party should conform to ur union not dictate it! Many wives are continually in a triad try to b all things to all groups of people apart from hussy:: mother-in-law, relations etc. If u have a loud mouth let him tell his relations this and let them prepare for this not the othrway round.

U don marry?

I guess u're not Nigerian.If u accepted him knowing the circumstances surrounding him,would it be too much to bend just a little?I'm sure u will be familiar with some African customs and how the extended family plays such a big role.It seems the biggest issue with u is that u want to express urself anytime and say whatever is on your mind.In life we should be able to adapt to changes especially when it's a new environment.I dnt think your guy and his mother are asking too much of u.

How do u know it is pneumonia?Why not visit a hospital,get tested to confirm and have appropriate medication for treatment.

A miracle indeed,all to the glory of God.

jp philips: Are you saying that it is impossible for the Nigerian Govt to trade his conviction for a favor from the SA authorities??

It's not impossible,but that theory will mean we start looking at all convictions as being politically motivated.Charles Taylor,boko haram leaders etc.

Your parents went to pray with which pastor?Is the pastor the pastor of your own church?
Why don't u take the time in prayer and see how it goes?

dominique: Did he give intructions for the bombings? Did he plant or detonate the bomb? All he's being charged for is witholding valuable information that could have saved lives. If he had dropped a hint about the mishap, would our authorities have taken appropriate measures to prevent it? True, he deserves some jail time but definately not life.

If the authorities take actions on hints is another thing.The most important thing is that he knew about it.I can't say to what extent and none of us can prove now or otherwise if he was an accomplice or even if he partook of it.
I'm not a lawyer so I don't know what sentence is appropriate for his case.It is left for the judiciary to decide.

obi2012: since when have your "authorities" done full investigation?

Me i know that no one that is guilty of a crime will fight with security guards like that.. Definitely the actions of a wrongfully accused person..

I guess u are just a learner.U haven't seen where people will do things wrong and act up such that u will even pity them.I've seen people do wrong things and u will even declare the accuser guilty instead of the real guilty one.No be today o.
The fact that Nigeria has issues does nt mean u can't at least have pockets of excellence.Why was Henry Okah convicted in SA?U think they didn't do any investigation too?

dominique: I just have this gut feeling he's being wrongly accused. Even if he's guilty, life in prison is pretty harsh since he didn't detonate the bomb. If his judgement is indeed political, then I'm afraid there's no amount of appeal that can help his case.

Madam,gut feelings or feelings have nothing to do with issues like this.There must have been an investigation which u know nothing about.I hope u also know that Osama bin Laden did not fly the planes that crashed into the WTC.Do u know what it means to be associated with an event that takes people's lives?U think life imprisonment is too much for that?

Sotty05: This is a political motivated case,he's actually innocent from my perspective but u knw as e be...na who u knw.Nigeria"s judicial system is sth else...wat eva happened to ndume's case,aluu4 to mention but a few.The families were actually hoping he wld be freed,his only crime was being a one tym associate of d "henry okah".This goes a long way to remind us to mind the kind of coy we keep as friends and associates

How do u know he is innocent?I'm sure the authorities did a full investigation and there's proof he knew the bombing will take place.

So person go carry mouth dey blow like butcher wey dey blow slaughtered ram?

Anyway,I don't know about air in the privates causing death.

[Decryptor]I don't know why u seem to have so much tribal poison in you but I'll like u to know it will eat u up from inside out.

Gboliwe: Yes, but in the midst of the fast, we get to eat food to satiate us. If lovemaking is what he desires, by all means let him go ahead.

u dnt understand.During fasting,there is a stipulated period of time.Within that time,u don't eat.The same with lovemaking,within the stipulated time,u dnt av it.
That's the whole essence of fasting,it is to say no while it lasts.It conditions your body and helps to keep ur body under control.

The whole essence of fasting is to deny your body.If u still have to be intimate,then what is the essence of the fast.One thing about Christianity is that you receive grace for self control.Even the bible says for the sake of fasting couples can be separated.

People celebrating moral decadence.....and most of you are young.Why don't you do the right thing and then make your babies?

We all have a responsibility to make the world a better place!

If I marry four wives,how will I be able to satisfy all of them with these qualities?Any experienced man to teach me?

And how does this.........never mind.

U want a controversial thread right?
Let everyone keep his/her own belief.

OP,did u guys have a courtship before settling or u guys just got to know each and shortly hopped into marriage?What was ur relationship like before marriage?I need 2 know so I can offer advice.

Thanks for all you've shared.Iron sharpens iron.
Be a blessing always in your constituency.More grease to your elbow.

Abrantie: That's definitely not a hospital in Nigeria.

YANKEE!

[quote author=o'boy]His brother's son's name is cameron,why is this one not Gana ?[/quote]His son,nt his brother's son's.

[quote author=A.Y DOT]where do people get all this kind of idioms or what do i call it?Can angels ever be blind?

Guy, take tym, let him speak his mind, say hw Ʊ feel instead of criticising wat oda pple say. I don't like guys like Ʊ.[/quote]So u prefer ignorance? If someone expresses an opinion and it's not correct or doesn't make sense,it should not be criticised?

Are u sure u learn in school?

[quote author=A.Y DOT]where do people get all this kind of idioms or what do i call it?Can angels ever be blind?

Guy, take tym, let him speak his mind, say hw Ʊ feel instead of criticising wat oda pple say. I don't like guys like Ʊ.[/quote]So u prefer ignorance? If someone expresses an opinion and it's not correct or doesn't make sense,it should not be criticised.

Are u sure u learn in school?

S.ex for a man is more than love or even intimacy.Sometimes it's just for a release....like going to the toilet(pls understand i just used a comparism and don't mean something is a toilet).Being beautiful is not enough to make a man faithful.
The deeper things that will make a man faithful is the fear of God,sense of commitment,sense of responsibility and friendship.

[quote author :tellwisdom]na this ugly thing with white bears be ladies man??[/quote]when u av a better understanding of what some ladies want,u will call him a ladies man.

U know how many women are in his life?I personally know 5.

Me I no know wetin he find go Nike side.Dat kind woman.

Multcolor: it is just an adage or do u need explanation?

Shouldn't an adage make sense?

This guy,u sure say u dey do law true true.

Originalsly: n the point of 'good Muslims' being silent...that is not the case. The media is the problem. If a Muslim should ever prevent a terrorist attack the media would not let you know that... that would not fit in with the brain washing agenda....terrorist muslim muslim terrorist Islam terrorist muslim muslim terrorist Islam... It's no difference when it comes to Blacks in America...killed by a Black man a Black man killed drug related Black drugs kill drugs drugs...and no difference when it comes to Nigeria...Nigerian scammers scammed by Nigerians don't trust Nigerians scammers...so much that some of us Nigerians now believe there are no good Nigerians.

Why do muslims blame the media?