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Wasn't he spending time with her while they were dating?She should have known them if he is someone that will give her that attention.

Anyway,the husband is acting like a bachelor and is yet to know he is married.
She should keep talking to him about it and also be patient.

DenreleDave:
Really? How come I hardly hear of Muslim marriage Dt lead to. Divorce


Welcome sir thorpido

It's because it comes with less drama or fanfare.Babangida's daughter is in her second abi third marriage.Gumsu(Abacha's daughter) is in her second marriage.
Even Buhari divorced his first wife and married Aisha.

Op,why do you think divorce is more common in Christian marriages than in other religions?It's even easier to get a divorce as a Muslim than a Christian.

Saintmary:
Subjection of women can never be the solution, go and see threads made by people from predominantly Muslim countries, and see the deep resentment expressed by their women for the concept of polygamy and infidelity. You'll see that they hate it, but they are expressing it the wrong way.

This is the thread
https://www.polygamy.com/articles/75131698/why-does-a-man-look-for-a-second-wife

I'll suggest you move your thread to religion section so you can get more contributors.
Since you're so adamant on getting answers, I'll oblige you.

Christian marriages are crashing because they are engaged in by people who profess Christianity by mouth alone, not in deed.
The Bible said the man should love his wife just as Christ loves the Church and gave Himself for it.
How many men can give themselves for a woman who has done them no favour?
The trick is to love first, then the woman will submit to you, but these crop of men expect women to take the place of Christ in their lives and give themselves to them, that is the wrong way.
If you desire to be the head of your woman, just like Christ is the head of the Church and the church is submitted to Christ and adores Him, give yourself.

True that.If the love starts from the husband,it flows through the home.

She no longer wants to reason with him.

dgagar:
So the proverb of money is not everything is really true.
My question is........ Wetin women want gan sef?

Of course money is not everything.There could be other issues eg domestic abuse,constant infidelity etc.

Story.Which doctor is keeping you in labour for four days?

It's a careless generation where you become live-in-lovers and start breeding children without your parents even knowing your partners.
Making enquiries about your parents/family background and meeting them would probably have revealed you were siblings.

Na death certificate come end am. His fight was worth it.

Your name don turn ball kwa?

Being physically challenged doesn't mean you can't find love.

These snakes no dey stay their bush wey dem suppose stay.

FashionCookie:
Una 4 tell d other one make she throway her breast finish 4 outside.

I don't understand why a young girl or any girl for that matter has to wear something like this.

Faber:
Ogbeni shift one side. At least he wifed the two. Paying their bride price absolves him of any wrong doing.

Who don marry wife without test running the toto. At least not in this modern age.

The guy is an honest man. If he no tell us how he came to marry them, will you come out now to condemn him? I gbadun his honesty and sense of responsibility.

Can't you read?
I said if the women accepted,then I can't condemn him.

See all his yeye talk.
You were cheating on the first woman and she was already pregnant when she found out and accepted.The other probably got pregnant too.As long as they accept their position,who am I to condemn you.

Jacob and Solomon were not Christians so you can't compare yourself with them.

Raalsalghul:
If you truly believe the bold, then no need arguing with you.

Okay then.

Raalsalghul:
Why are you contradicting yourself with this statement?

You say a woman is less likely to pick a poor man and then go ahead to say she can pick a "working, ambitious, disciplined and morally upright man who is far less successful than her."

[b]What if it's a poor man who's hardworking, ambitious, disciplined and morally upright?[b]

You might need to articulate your thoughts here.

That aside, your second to last statement is just pure fantasy and I'm with Seatrade on this one.

Women are hypergamous (if there's any word like that) and will likely go for a partner whom they can look up to in most facets of life.

It's just their nature.

There's no contradiction here.You might have to consider the word 'poor' again.No one who's hard-working and ambitious can be poor ............ i.e 'living below a standard considered normal in the society'.
Poor can't afford food and can't even think of where the next meal will come from.A hard-working man can get food even if not immediately he is hungry.

Kfed4ril:
You don’t get it, they’re denying that he didn’t even have any surgery and that he’s hale and hearty and only went to UK to relax.

That's a big lie then.It'a obvious he is recuperating for some treatment.

Hope he is changed for good.If you can move to where he resides outside Lagos,you should move and be with him.

Didn't he just have a surgery? What's strange about using an assistive device after a surgery?

Family is bae.

So they can be friends now?

Commot that Star Wars shirt first before taking his picture.

pezeji:
The question I keep asking myself is how do these animals that rapes get erection

Simply because they are animals.The animal instinct in them.

Originator101:
Will the pill prevent pregnancy even if uou cum inside

Yes

Whoever came up with this test must be a pervert.Very demeaning.
What purpose is virginity supposed to serve in getting recruited to the army?

mabea:
Then choose a better platform for your counsel not mocking the dead.

You know the meaning of mock?Learn to read right.

mabea:
You talk anyhow

Na the ignorance dey make people lose their lives anyhow.
Pay attention to your health.

Did he die of a health issue?RIP to him.
He was obese sha making him prone to health issues.

Jigolo.He can run but he can't hide

dominique:
It was yesterday I was pondering the sudden steep gas prices when I remembered that the gas marketers enjoyed a 2 year tax holiday. The tax holiday has since elapsed and they have to resume paying taxes which of course will reflect on the price of the product. It happens everywhere in the world. I wish they didn't have to do it now that everything else is so expensive. There's no cheaper alternative of anything in this country

Na wa o.Can't they give another tax holiday?
The government is looking for money everywhere.

Date responsible women then.

Put up a picture on your profile.It would help.

Realest99:
You are acting as if the no 10 is what would play the ball for him....by the way for your info that is his first squad number at Barcelona.....also he declined Neymar offer of the No 10 jersey

No 10 has a significance starting with the great Brazilian footballer called Zico.

Can't imagine Messi wearing a jersey that is not no 10.