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Chelsea had him trapped all these years.

Him dey try.

pride4legacy:
The girl is an Igbo girl

Frontail:


Yoruba and Hausas too like Igbo Kpekus

She is not Igbo.Make una dey learn geography na.

Lizzyangel:
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He just said" hey! Come here, I saw your thread and read all the quotes, I'd advise you to follow every advice right away, it's either you pack everything that belongs to you here before noon or I come back and throw them out for you" I replied okay.


But within me, I thought, this is "see finish" he knew I had no dime in my account and have no friends or relative here in Ore, talking about packing right away, where do I start from, all the kitchen utensils are mine, I furnished the bed and chair, lots of clothes and shoes for myself, Diye and Kiishi, we're presently living in a room self-con ,no sitting room,only kitchen,store and we share bathroom and toilet with neighbors. I'm sorry for going deep, but he's letting out some spirit in me that I can't believe I'm courageous to to this, I guess I've been pushed to the walls.


Countless times have I been humiliated by foodstuff sellers, and people I borrowed money to feed from, I always receive salary to pay debts and the cycle continues the next month, any day I don't cook or wash ,he'll will be let loose with his gibberish which I'll still beg him to lower his voice, I've been belittle to nothing before our neighbors, at times Diye sleeps on an empty stomach when I'm extremely broke and he'll come in, not ask if we've eaten or not then he'd buy bread and egg, at times indomie and there was a particular time he too his time to cook, grinded pepper and kept the food away from us.


What have I not seen so far?


Note: none of my family members are aware of this thread, I started the thread yesterday with a heavy heart and weeping mood, I only informed his one and only sibling(a girl) whom have always wanted me to leave, she's studying guidance and counselling in the Uni. I've been a project she had been working on.

You should go to the police station this morning and inform them he is making a threat to your life.If there's a female gender support section near you,inform then too.
Please go and do that right away.

FOLYKAZE:
It is really hard to respond in a 'civil manner' right now. I will even take it that I am a 'Beast'. But hey man, did it started like this? If I was all beastly, how did she got to a whooping 9yrs relationship? What changes?

You see, she did a good PR, nailing all her points and blackmailing me. While some of what she said are truths, she never mentioned what sparked those reactions. I took lotta shots, emotionally, and should be expected to respond in equal capacity, physically, even if the society won't see all the backdoor abuses.

It is good she brought it here. I will prepare a civil response maybe later in the day. She will tell the larger end of the story. Thanks

You had to send her out in the night with an infant on her hands?That was beastly.

mariahAngel:
They will always be brothers.

Even Psquare too?

Lizzyangel:
a boy and a girl, I'm working in a private school,to some extent my salary can pay our bills, if I'm to leave, I wouldn't like to be in the same state with him to avoid further abuses but I'm scared, I don't even have savings, my salary always go for household needs.

Start saving now.Put away as much as possible.You will need to move eventually for your health and mental well being.

With all you have written here,this marriage is a sham.How can a husband send out a wife with a little baby to sleep outside without caring where they end up?
Only you can make the move.Discuss this with your family so they can suggest the best position to take.

The baby is cute and will draw attention.

For how long na?

How many kids do you have?Do you earn something substantial to take care of the kids?

This marriage is toxic and you will have to take a break from it in the first instance.
Plan your exit;where will you stay?What income and savings do you have?

Gucciboy1:
You should study his mood, and call him privately when he's in a good mood. You should have a heart to heart talk with him, let him know you feel bad about the relationship between both of you. Let him realise how much you need him (not financially, but emotionally) and always be respectful at all times. No matter the consequences. You father will always be your father. You need to bring your ego down and just be humble

Try to do what this commenter has said.

However,have it at the back of your mind that your dad may not change.Don't let it bother you.Develop that relationship with your mom and don't worry about your dad.
Bid your time with him in his house until you can be on your own.
Some dads change as they age and the kids leave the house.They begin to value the relationship then.

Na game the guy dey play.
This one never wanted marriage.

All that money will become a stranger's money.

Is blue a dress code?

He's on a loooooong thing.

@Title,do you have to generalize about men?It is your friend that is proud.There are women who are too.

If you are close to the fiancée,let her know what's going on or give her hints.Let her make him dust himself up and do something.

Which one come be 'uninterrupted years'?
Happy wedding anniversary to them.

Chai.Is this not one of the recently acquired trains?

She really hooked up with a bad gang and everything happened so fast.
Now she's got murder/manslaughter on her hands.

doggedfighter:
She's got beautiful tits and nice body for a pregnant woman.

Or is this picture edited?

Cosmetically edited.

Lol.How is this woman different from the alleged killer?

Why would someone come up with this 'story' about a case as serious as murder?The writer should be arrested too.

Foolish man.Which one come be to run away?
Speak with the Social Health workers in the hospital and try to work something out.
Drop what you have and go out and hustle for more.
Why run?

Wetin the wife do?

Cobra.
You gave the snake multiple blows.

Cobra

She looks innocent.She just destroyed her life and another man's life for filthy lucre.

This is a display of tyranny.

mariahAngel:
"Do not desire thy neighbour's wife"

Mind your business!
If ever they need anything from you, they'd ask for it!
Don't go giving gifts to a married woman.

Simple.@Op.
The husband already told you not to visit when the hubby is not around.
A simple thank you(whenever) you see her is all you need to say.

He has that look.

Sexual perversion.smh