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Romance / Re: Courtney Tillia: God Put Me On Earth To Enjoy Sex - God Fearing Porn Star by Thugaa: 4:21am On Apr 27, 2023
She has a point
Car Talk / Re: Acura ZDX, Honda Crosstour And The BMW X5 by Thugaa: 9:04pm On Dec 29, 2020
paix:
The SUVs or the sedans?
Both
Car Talk / Re: Acura ZDX, Honda Crosstour And The BMW X5 by Thugaa: 3:49pm On Dec 29, 2020
Have you considered a lexus? Luxury and durability guaranteed

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Health / Re: My Experience With Sleep Paralysis by Thugaa: 10:46pm On Dec 11, 2020
Get yourself a good mattress, hard mattresses are good, if you can get a premium spring mattress much better and always try to avoid sleeping on your back. Then come back and thank me.

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Politics / Re: 5G: Dino Melaye Says They Are Threatening Him by Thugaa: 11:50pm On Apr 05, 2020
Okay
Health / Re: French Doctors Say 'Test Coronavirus Vaccines In Africa", Eto’o, Drogba React by Thugaa: 9:01am On Apr 04, 2020
They must be bastards
Health / Re: Help: I Have premature ejaculation. by Thugaa: 12:45am On Feb 20, 2020
Go watch ‘Mantak Chia’ videos on youtube and thank me later
Autos / Re: 2005 Lexus Rx330 (REGISTERED) Grey & Black Available @2.3m by Thugaa: 8:59am On Dec 08, 2019
Remove those bling bling abeg, makes the vehicle uglier

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Romance / Re: I Need Friends by Thugaa: 8:47am On Nov 27, 2019
I smell a scammer
Romance / Re: I Need Friends by Thugaa: 1:30am On Nov 27, 2019
Are you a he or a she?
Nairaland / General / Re: If The Pyramids Are As Old As 12000years by Thugaa: 4:10am On Nov 26, 2019
computermouse:


I have been wondering also but it doesn't add up too

You haven't read the full history, you should
Health / Re: What Shouldn't You Do When Someone Has A Seizure? by Thugaa: 1:53pm On Nov 25, 2019
Its better if you mention what should be done also
Nairaland / General / Re: If The Pyramids Are As Old As 12000years by Thugaa: 1:40pm On Nov 25, 2019
It is believed that our makers aka sky daddies whom we call yahwey, allah etc (those that engineered our dna to become homo sapiens with higher thinking faculty/consciousness) were the ones responsible for building the pyramids. They are called the "anunnakis"
Romance / Re: When A Relationship Is Coming To An End, Mention Signs by Thugaa: 10:58pm On Nov 24, 2019
Irritation, disrespect and reduced interest

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Religion / Re: 7 Question every Atheist Should Answer by Thugaa: 10:57pm On Nov 23, 2019
Op your level of reasoning is very clear judging by your post and i can say to you that it is very low. You have a long way to go but i wish you well on your journey.

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Romance / Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Thugaa: 2:59am On Nov 23, 2019
OladimejiRufai:
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP

From this moment, stop looking for true love

I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it.

Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life.

See, in most cases, love is transient.

Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost.

sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually.

sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away.

"oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away.

So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love.

So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage.

That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing.

this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc.

But for someone who fulfils that criteria;

- someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get;

- someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation);

- someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life)

- someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done;

- someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done.

- someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values;

So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end.

So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce.

If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it.

My piece!
i doff my hat. well said

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Celebrities / Re: This Lady's Flexibility Is Too Extreme (photos) by Thugaa: 2:35pm On Nov 20, 2019
Giving her a dick in that position will be heavenly
Autos / Re: »»» Neatly Used Golf4 05 @ N580K Negotiable ««« by Thugaa: 2:32pm On Nov 20, 2019
Barely used indeed

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Autos / Re: 2011 Model Lexus IS 250 Sport Available Forsale by Thugaa: 9:48am On Nov 19, 2019
Nice ride by the way
Forum Games / Re: Riddle - What Can Travel Around The World While Staying In A Corner? – ANSWER by Thugaa: 6:56am On Nov 19, 2019
A person's mind

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Family / Re: International Day For The Prevention Of Child Abuse by Thugaa: 6:52am On Nov 19, 2019
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Autos / Re: 2011 Model Lexus IS 250 Sport Available Forsale by Thugaa: 5:12pm On Nov 18, 2019
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Phones / Re: I Need Clean Use UK/US Used Iphone 11 Before 20th. by Thugaa: 5:06pm On Nov 18, 2019
Phone that just came out when
Politics / Re: Buhari Congratulates Yahaya Bello On His Re-Election by Thugaa: 4:52pm On Nov 18, 2019
Birds of the same feather, no such thing as fight against corruption we decieving ourselves in this country. We are in deep shit
Politics / Re: Masked Security Men Attack Makinde In Lokoja Hotel by Thugaa: 8:16pm On Nov 15, 2019
amstardi:
Can I get a name for my country? Some call it a zoo.. please one word from you guys ...
Barbarians land
Politics / Re: Oyetola Presents N119.5 Billion Budget For 2020 by Thugaa: 4:40pm On Nov 15, 2019
etrouble:


You are the shit in the shit hole.
Your entire family are morons, your mama cunt is decayed and shitty and your unborn generations are imbeciles. If you want i can pick a date and venue and we can go trash it out physically, i ll make sure i disintegrate you slowpoke that come online and jump pples post
Politics / Re: Oyetola Presents N119.5 Billion Budget For 2020 by Thugaa: 6:33am On Nov 15, 2019
We live in a shit hole country with a president fighting a fake corruption fight. All the budgets with huge sums gets passed each year and nothing is seen of it at the end of the day
Politics / Re: Senate Approves N10 Billion Loan For Kogi Amidst Protests by Thugaa: 9:40am On Nov 14, 2019
My gawd!! That money was specially approved to fund and rig election. This country is totally in mess i tell you
Sports / Re: The Squirrels Of Benin Training Ahead Of Today's Game With Super Eagles by Thugaa: 9:36am On Nov 14, 2019
But really ? Squirrels?
Car Talk / Re: What Is The Highest Speed You Have Ever Hit While Driving Or Riding? by Thugaa: 9:25am On Nov 14, 2019
160-170km/hr glass was fully wound up i only noticed when i looked at the speedometer
Celebrities / Re: ₦1.8b: Hamza Koudeih House Rent Will Buy 100 Toyota Corollas by Thugaa: 9:33pm On Nov 13, 2019
Aint we all tired of efcc's diezani and mompha news every now and then. They keep repainting and sugar coating it. Pls catch us some politicians biko. I strongly believe there are no 3 bedroom rent for 5 million dollars in a Eko atlantic or whereever in said lagos

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