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UniversalGee:
Can't believe I'm creating a thread about this. I'm in 200 level without a single female friend. I'm an introvert and prefer to stay by myself, but I'm starting to feel like I need to make female friends.
Is that a bad life, if it is, how can I change that?
Share your experience on how you made female friends in the university.
By the way, I'm in Engineering faculty and we don't have Feminine girls in my faculty.

A big YES. You're not doing yourself any good by being an introvert without a girlfriend. Here's the catch. Take good care of yourself to become likable physically and develop friendship skills. Then girls that like you will come around, then you select the few you prefer. Don't fall too in love with just one. Have many but be careful of your sexual health.
This will work more for you if you live in a mixed hostel with a lot of girls in it.

Now about those telling you that you'll spend. It's not true at all. You only spend when you're not likable and you have to compensate with spending. Campus girlfriend is entirely free, in fact it comes with other benefits sef.
It's only in the campus that you get the luxury of having a lot of young pretty girls at absolutely no cost.

Believe me, having girls in your life wouldn't make you have bad grades. I'm telling you from experience. Fine-tune yourself and enjoy all that the campus has to offer. AFTER SCHOOL, IT BECOMES A DIFFERENT BALLGAME.

Also have a lot of male friends, especially the type that less serious with academics but with sense. E get why!

teeninite:
Thank you for the suggestion, it won't be easy getting lands for cropping here.

Okay. If you live in the suburbs or a place that doesn't use to have light and most of the households can't afford a generator, then you can start a phone charging center, plus POS.

teeninite:
What business can I do with 100k as a stay at home mum who doesn't have a social media presence.
I need a good hearted person to put me through a business I can do to generate some income.

Find empty plots of land around you and cultivate them. You can start with 3plots and crops that mature quick, like corn, pepper, okra, and other veggies. Sell the produce within the neighborhood and make your profit.
Half of your 100k can cultivate 2-3plots of corn farm.

Any buying and selling you start with that amount will stress you out with little profit to show.

holocron:
Shit! That amount of time you gave is caused by preexisting mental health challenges, it's not normal. Normal person, a few months, maximum a year.

Well, the word heartbreak is being misused these days. A little disappointment and you will hear heartbreak. Real heartbreak takes a long time to heal. If you healed and moved on within months, then you were never heartbroken. It has nothing to do with mental health.

sync:
I had a terrible breakup last year December. It was a relationship of six years. My ex treated me very badly after all the sacrifices I made for him. He moved on without looking back.

It’s almost five months now, I still do not have appetite to eat, I can’t bring myself to listen to love songs as it saddens me, I still cry everyday and everything reminds me of him.

How long does it really take to get over someone and please how do I get over him. I am drained

If you're "really" heart broken. It takes an average of 4years to heal satisfactorily, but may take a decade to heal completely. No amount of being busy, and singing praises can help you. It will only distract you for the time being.
The only thing I know that can help is a paradigm shift. You must re-evaluate your reasoning, how you understand human relationships. Then you'd realise why the heartbreak happened and the roles you played in it.
Understanding the why, leads you to accept the situation and head for higher grounds.

Notorioustroll:
It pains me to the hell of my heart when ever my beloved girlfriend says I am weak. What causes this is because I am not violent. Anytime I say I will not beat my girl no matter what she did, she would say "it's because you are weak". It makes me upset.

I have told her several times to stop saying that but she won't listen. I just can't tell how to stop her from making that statement I hate it.

She said the same thing today. She always makes it sound as if my decision was born out of the knowledge that I can't defeat her using physical strength.

My guts are telling me something very painful😭😭😭

I don't know how to put this, but you're actually weak. I don't want to start explaining it to you because I believe you're grown up. Stop masking your inadequacies with "I can't beat a woman" platitude. Everything is not about beating.
Tell yourself the truth and work on yourself.

PS: there's nothing wrong with getting violent with anyone that keeps crossing the line. Be it man or woman.

kyber:
So this girl we live in the same compound
On this very day she washed her clothes and went out leaving her clothes including her pants on the line, I didn’t know she won’t be coming back that day
Well it started raining and she called me to help her pack her pants and i said okay,

I asked her if she was coming back she says no till tomorrow.

Then I thought of it where could this girl be by this time of the night,she must be in a guy’s house Collecting brother john Cina and pipping some lollipop down her throat while she wants another man to help pack her pants,

Omo I didn’t pack it oo,then she came back the next day to see what I had done and got furious and told me that I’m wicked and never to talk to her again .

So I don’t know what to do ?
Did I do wrong or right?
Should I go and apologize ?

I see you're a very soft person when it comes to women. How did you even bring yourself to accept packing the pants. You should have said a clear NO.

First, you accepted. That's weak of you.

Second, you accepted and didn't do it because she's fucking another person. That's petty of you.

I put it to you that you're neither disciplined nor reliable. Stop pestering her with your apologies, and save whatever is left of your self respect.

OneNigeria1960:
Please house which samsung or Xaomi budget phone can one get for 100k?

Check redmi 10c

Truthsoldier:
I have come to hear some people say that they would never marry a virgin,with funny reasons for that, some said they would bleep any girl but when they come to marriage they will surely marry a virgin,but that's funny too.
Virginity is good but that's not the only thing to look out for,infact it is not the primary reason when looking for a wife as some religious people paint it,it is nice but not the major thing, what I think that a man should look out for in choosing a marriage partner is CHARACTER,sound character.

I wonder where you people pick this line from. Nobody said virginity is the only or the ultimate quality a woman should possess. Even the character you talk about is nothing if it's the only good thing about her.

Let me ask you.
If you are presented with two good ladies in their mid 20s that are identical in every way, except for one aspect. Lady A is a virgin but not naive, and Lady B has been having sex since she was 16 and has accumulated an impressive body count.
Which of them will you choose?

First, I hope your Payoneer is verified.
You will be able to receive and withdraw the money if the purpose of payment tally with what you told Payoneer during account creation.
Take for example. You told Payoneer you're a freelancer in the IT industry. The purpose of payment should match a service from the said industry.

That's a centipede. I heard the sting can lead to progressive nerve damage in humans (not confirmed). And poisonous to lethal levels, if ingested or eats a food it died in. (There's been news supporting this claim)

I recommend you fumigate your house, and the whole environment with urgency. Also close every crack in the sewers walls and floors.

Babisha10:
Which part of the country do u live-in?
I'm not getting marriage anytime soon oo just kidding corn3 hard

I now live down south. A capital city close to the river Niger.

Babisha10:
I'll soon invite u for my wedding...

I've been looking for an opportunity to revisit that part of Nigeria, but the rate of insecurity especially for road travellers is a big discouragement.

Thumbs up for ever finding the courage to get married. It takes a lot of balls to make that decision.

Babisha10:
Yeah u just clearly defined my place.. The juju is a mere talk cos I have been hearing it but I haven't seen nor heard something complained of such.. What exactly took u to the town?

I served there back in the day.

Babisha10:
Ok I know the place very well.. What purposely took u to my town, hope my people where nice to u over the period u stayed.. Hope u also enjoy our cheap foods, eg yam, groundnut, corn, pepper, tommatos etc

Most of the people where very nice and friendly. Imagine a bike man can leave money for you if he doesn't have chance and tell you they'll collect it next time. The city I first experienced men giving other stranger men a lift in their car, something that I've known to only happen to girls.
Was it the steady power supply. I didn't know nepa can give light for straight 5days without blinking and never recorded anything beyond 2hrs outage.
The foods were not only cheap. They're also very fresh, just straight from the farm.
Not to forget the naturally beautiful vast lands and mountains of boulders, where one could always take a walk and connect with nature.

That place is just beautiful. The only downside is the extremely low pay of most non governmental jobs there. And some of their elderly can do you juju because of woman

Babisha10:
where in zing did u stay that's my town..

Do you know the school named GSS, the one close to local government secretariat?
I lived across that school. Just like three compounds away across the road.
From my place you can leisurely trek to that first bank across the field, the Panti palace.

Messi1:
You once lived in Jalingo? I live near Taraba State University first gate.

I once lived at zing town, but visited jalingo a number of times. It's been like 4yrs I left taraba.

Messi1:
I bought these soft drinks to celebrate my promotion in my work place and it cost me 9290

Whenever I hear jalingo, it brings some good memories.

Next time, try to avoid all these drinks in plastic bottles. Most of them are made in someone's backyard. Congrats on your promotion though.

sukkot:
so africans like to stupidly copy trends from other cultures without understanding why such trends exist. its like a parrot that just mimics anything without understanding what it is saying. the western hemisphere has a valid reason for having a red pill culture. in those climates they have structured their society such that women can thrive without men. a woman can get section 8 housing in america or housing benefit in the uk and foodstamps and child support and alimony. women can get good jobs. women have it good in those cultures so a woman in that culture still trying to ' leech ' from men induces anger in struggling men under these cultures

now africa on the other hand has no structure rolled out for women to thrive at all. absolutely no structure. if you and hubby fight and its his house ? he wee throw you and ya 2 bags out of his house. you dont get alimony or child support and the government is not giving you a house or paying for your house if you are homeless.

so basically in africa these women are at the mercy of men. they are helpless creatures at the mercy of men and must survive by their wits and by transacting what they have.

so in a society where the women are helpless and defenseless tell me why a brain dead copycat negro would introduce redpill ? CASE CLOSED. DISCUSS

MYND44 this frontage material if you see fit. compliments of the season to you

This whole write up shows you're biased and you have no understanding of the redpill.
The redpill is not targeted at women. It is targeted at men to become better versions of themselves, and not waste away chasing women all their lives. To help men rediscover masculinity that seems to be dead among our men.
How is this a bad thing.

Talking about African culture. It's no news that most of our culture has been thrown away. We have modern women now. The type that has long shifted away from African culture, and embraced western culture.
Why do you only complain about the redpill that only seeks to create a balance and a generation of better men?

And I strongly disagree with your position in the second and third paragraph, but I don't have strength to type long.

immanuelsize:
wonderful...!!!
a man witnessing the pains of childbirth. Lai Mohammed, continue...

Do well to check the difference between experienced and witnessed.

I have witnessed child delivery means I've watched a woman deliver her baby.

Ilamina:
child birth pain

That's not a problem at all. You can adopt or pay a young girl to carry your fertilized egg and deliver the baby for you.

The later can be quite expensive.

Let me also mention that childbirth is not as painful as people paint it. I've witnessed it twice

Ilamina:
I don't want to experience that pain

Which pain are you talking about

Single for life is not for everyone. If singlehood doesn't satisfy you anymore, then find a man that will still take you at your age and marry him.

OurTruth24:
I'll be posting some never seen before pictures that prove that Giants Existed in humanities recent past. By giants I'm not referring to deformed men and women like you see in Hollywood movies. I'm referring to normal symmetrical humans who just happen to be way taller than normal humans.

Let's proceed.

Do you know about the Betz Sphere? I once stumbled on the story but didn't get to the bottom of it.

Was it a hoax or a real life story?

This is grotesque to say the least.

OyeofIkoTuN:
I thought Russia was losing and their weapons have Ben depleted.

Why are you trying to get them to withdraw from ukraine? Withdraw what exactly

Maybe withdraw their millions of dead soldiers and empty ammo shells

But I still wonder how Russia is still going with all the sanctions, because I know finance is crucial to this war.

Reach out to people that you know. Ask their plans for the Christmas, maybe you'll get someone who's also looking for a new environment to spend their Christmas. Then you can invite them or go over to theirs.

This will surely work if you know a few single and independent people.

This is nice. I love plant agriculture

If we follow BODMAS the answer is 113
If we go linear then it becomes 125

The dark wine = 3
The green wine = 5
The wine glasses = 2

One dark wine + two wine glasses × one green wine = 3 + 22 × 5 = 113

hopefulLandlord:
I would say most people aren't doing evil because they live in a society that frowns hard upon those things

People can do great evil in secret and cover it up to avoid societal punishment. Most people don't do so because the they believe hell waiting.

hopefulLandlord:
This is a lie

You mean most people fear men more than hell?