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Basicend:
You are a very wise and deep man sir.

From experience, I agree with you 100%.

Thank you.

But, u can have sex with only ur wife and not with any woman as you like.

Thank you.

I was only trying to be clear on the fact that being a woman wrapper will bring a man down from any level of grace, except he retrace his steps before it's late. Regardless if they're only having marital sex or not.
I wasn't encouraging promiscuity. Me sef I be God pikin.

[quote author=Lucrativress post=116344071]What kind of talk is this
The kind that is packed with truth. Remember today is Sunday, so we speak truth.

Chimera30:
You can only sell or give what you have.
And no, i am not a Chimera, i just like the scientific concept hence the moniker.

You showed them honesty and hard work, that means you have it. If you didn't have it. How were you able to show those qualities?
You see we're saying the same thing.

I believe everyone is hardworking and honest. There's no dishonest or none hardworking person, only those unwilling to show it in the socially acceptable way.

spyroet:
Am in luv with a dump girl she is beautiful and hard working about 24 years of age also a virgin, am planning of marrying her but the problem is how will my parents and friends react that why do i settled for less. she is a wife material very homely and hard working not those olosho of a girl we have today, so am realy considering the issue
Opinions are welcome

I wouldn't advise you to marry her. All those qualities you listed were a result of her predicament not that she's different. You can find a normal girl that is satisfactorily wife material.

Have you considered how your kids would feel about it or you're just bothered about your interest.

You were lied to.
Honesty, hardwork and loyalty pays only when you sell them. Not when you give them.

Are you a chimera?

There's a reason Jesus was called the "most merciful son of God." There's nothing broken that he won't provide the mercy required for God to restore.
If you can. Move to a place you can be alone without people's interference for a week. Go there to fast and pray.
Pray to God through Christ and ask for His forgiveness, restoration and power.
Don't allow guilt to weaken your spirit. Understand that Christ was sacrificed to redeem the guilty (which is the state you're right now).

Make a selection worship songs with deep meaning and hymns that you can listen to. It can speed up spiritual connection. Not all those new generation gospel songs o. I mean the type with boring beat, but rich and deep lyrics.

AngelicBeing:
Hian, your argument is terribly flawed, having sex with several women will completely destroy your glory, sex from the Bible perspective is meant for Husband and wife only in Marriage, any other sex done outside marriage is a Grevious and wicked SIN BEFORE GOD, and God will bring all those breaking his commandments to severe judgement ..

I'm not talking about what is a sin and what is not. Two of those men have been having sex with other women and nothing happened. What brought them down wasn't because they sinned. But because they became woman wrapper.

Those men would have retained their glory if they didn't listen and obey a woman, regardless if they had extramarital sex not.

Take Job for example. If he had listened to his wife. What do you think would have become of him. Do you think he would be preserved because he was having marital sex?

The lesson here is clear. DON'T BE A WOMAN WRAPPER!

Only a woman is capable of pulling you down even when the gods have blessed you. But that can only happen when you love them, which eventually turns you to mumu.

Adam, Samson and Ahab were brought down by a woman. What do all these men have in common?
They all loved, listened to, and obeyed a woman.

You can have sexual affair with as many women as you want without entirely loosing your glory. But once you hand yourself over to a woman in the name of love, then prepare to be traumatized.

Politicians should stop this nonsense. Why is it that it's only towards election that you see them dress in ethnic attires difference from theirs and pose for a photoshoot?
What point are they trying to make sef?

uchechefaith:
Okay thanks but my debit card doesn't work on AliExpress.

I think gtb card still works. Check it out or make research here on this forum for more options.

Maybe in the West. Most people still get mind produce more than two kids here in Nigeria.

uchechefaith:
Am confused

Redmi 10c or Redmi 11E. But you'd have to buy it from AliExpress.

Ertugrul:
I have always been wondering, what is the source or origin of fair skin in our DNA as black Africans...there are lots of yellow skinned people in Nigeria that makes me wonder...even in families with dark skinned parents, you might see one fair skinned child...

Didn't you know our colonial masters had (mostly nonconsensual)sex and impregnated lots of our women in the past. I believe that's how it got in the African gene pool.

Very true and verifiable, but some people will always choose to reject this reality.
More of this type of teaching should get to our young male children.

Dorcas23:
I want to buy a phone this week and my budget is 100k - 150k.

I need an Android phone with good camera, good battery and good & fast processor. I don't know much about phones so please I need informed suggestions.


Thanks.

Get Xiaomi mi 11 like 5G. It's the best Android device you can get with that budget.
Poco F3 is also nice with slightly higher spec, but I prefer the former.

Delacroix6:
I'm like him.
It's not that simple.
But mine is caused by CPTSD.

Sometimes, I talk to myself like hell no. I'm in my mid 20s and I have never dated a girl. I just chicken out when a lady start feeling something for me. Which is mostly due to my being super flirty and cute... I just can't help self-sabotaging.

At least you know why yours is happening. So it doesn't bother you.
The op seems not to know what causes his'
I'm certain it must be linked to a traumatic experience. But it's a good thing all the same.

I think you are perfectly normal. You have a nature that would have saved most men if they had it.
If it's not caused by PTSD, then you should be feeling lucky.

What to do:
Stop backing out if you're really interested in the girl.
Keep the disgust for her love language running in the background. It will make you less clingy and she'd like you more for it.
If you're still struggling. Avoid serious relationships for now.

Anonanton:
Please help I ordered this for over two months now I haven't received it and it is a mouse wireless one
And I will also be ordering pc ram 4gb ddr3 and Xiaomi phone very soon please I need guidance I already ordered Redmi 9c screen before no issue I don't know why this is happening

Pls which card are you using to make payments. I have a few things to order but my first bank card won't work.

siofra:
It will help combat paedophilia because if you break this law, it's death sentence for you

I'll take that as a joke. How do you intend to enforce such law. People start having sex as early as 13. They only get public with it at 17 or so.

Assuming this joke ever becomes real. Then prepare to wipe out 60% of your citizen.

siofra:
For both men and women.

Let's cultivate a a culture of sexual morality please.

We are not animals.

What problems would that solve?

lonelydora:
As a man, the moment you raise your hand against a woman, you cease to be a man.

But, women can run their mouth sha.

What kind of statement is this? Don't teach this to your son if you want him to really be a man.

Go to a good hospital or laboratory and do the following:

Check for HIV
Check for infection
Check if your organs (especially liver and kidneys) are in good shape.

Avoid all these two minutes lab test, and mushroom hospitals. Do these tests before taking any other treatment.

LokoH:
Ndi beanyi ka uche unu di ya o. Cheta izu river 2012. Oga aka mma kanyi wuo onye a n'ala chobakwa ihe anyi nacho - nwere onwe.
Peter Obi aburo uzo. Peter Obi agaghi egboro anyi nkpa.

All I feel for you and the person that did that translation is disgust.

You that is talking have you condemned it?
I nacho nwere onwe. Did Peter Obi becoming the president stop you from ichobakwa ihe unu nacho?
Why would you still want that if the country picks a good leader and everything becomes fair for all?
Thank God Peter Obi is not a fan of whatever stupid ideology you're having.

Don't joke with everything please. Critical situation doesn't require such childish talk.

imagrg:
womanizing is wrong.

Wrong on what basis? What makes it wrong aside morals?

imagrg:
Remember you are cheating on a faithful wife.

Not married yet. More reason I'm meeting a lot of potential wives. I wouldn't want to marry a total stranger.
And know this. If I finally get married I wouldn't be among those that cheat on faithful partner. I'm not that insensitive.

imagrg:
Assuming it is the reverse, how would you feel?

You can't compare it like that.

Allisgud:
what will somebody be doing with almost 1000 women i know before u condemned this act u are guilty of it,this is how hypocrite humans are,by defending the ones u but condemned the one u don't do

There's no hypocrisy here and I'm not a fan of 1000 women army. I'm more of a 4girl squad.

I'm not defending anybody here, but it has been in our nature to have as many sexual partner as our substance can carry. I believe that 1000 is probably his body count. How can one man actively attend to 1k women. He might not even get to talk with a lot of them after the first sexual encounter.

Hassanmaye:
What's woman wrapper please

A woman wrapper is someone who does everything and can do anything so a woman will like him. They can even risk their lives to please a woman.
They worship pussy. Anything that has pussy can control them. No matter how ugly.

They're always eager to do things in favor of a woman regardless if it's right or safe.

Take for example: you ask your good friend to loan you 300k for someone important. He declines you because he only has 500k in his account, and can't take out such amount. The following week a poor jobless girl he's trying to impress tells him to pay her parents house rent and her hostel rent totalling 700k, before she agrees to date him. That your friend puts up his car for sale at a clearance price, so he could raise the money for her.
Such person is a typical woman wrapper.

pocohantas:
Lmao! Abeg leave me o.
See analysis na! King David nko?

His case is different. His ego grew out of proportion probably because of his serial conquest. He couldn't bring himself to call the woman's husband to negotiate a possible win-win outcome.
His problem wasn't the thing he did with the woman, but how he handled the outcome.

King Solomon would have had that woman without all the evil and killing attached.

Amarahobu:
My girlfriend said i should beat her up sometimes when she bleeps up.

What could be her reason for this Statement?

Is it ever ok to hit your girlfriend?

She's not being immature. She's trying to teach you attraction. She needs to be dominated and your too scared to do that.

Girls likes it when their man can rough-handle her once in a while. They see it as exerting dominance and it's attractive to them.
Being calm and docile all the time even when you need to get aggressive is not manly.

Try to get aggressive with her when it's required. She's probably bored to stupor by the over peaceful relationship.
Don't beat her the type that leaves her scared and all. But don't fail to raise your voice and your hands on her when she strays out of line.

Womanizing doesn't ruin a man somewhat. What ruins a man in being a woman wrapper.

Take Solomon and Samson for example. The former was a womanizer and the latter was a woman wrapper.

If being a woman wrapper is in your list. Then I can tell you it ruins a man 100times more than betting and drugs combined.

truthsayer009:
People online always preaching what they can't practise.
How many women have you heard that willingly got married to an HIV positive man? Tell me.

The way you people think online is just crazy, unheard of. An advise you cannot give to your own brother, you come online to drop it.

If he wasn't Jazzed, then he is foolish. In fact, I would have been happier if he was Jazzed because that seems like a lesser problem to being foolish enough to do this.

Thank you. I'm happy to see another realistic person here.

ghettochild:
You are wicked n heartless

I don't understand. What made you conclude such?

Newself22:
Thank you ibechris. I appreciate your advice, but I'll prefer a less malicious solution...

Thank God you didn't even consider the option. Go with your parents suggestion and save yourself the regrets.