The box looks new. Seems it's not been long it fell in the water

Amudeneogu:
I met this lady something in july this year and we started a serious relationship but i have never asked her for sex, how do you see it?

I don't understand this kind of thing that some men do. If you are dating a girl with sexual intentions. You shouldn't allow a week to pass before making your move.
Wanting it and waiting this long without making your move is a mistake which she will interpret as weakness. That will make her lose most of the attraction for you. Women like brave men that makes their moves to take what they want.

When it's time for action, we won't see the claimed readiness.

But why are most of them looking so malnourished. Is it the effect of the fires they fought in the past. I don't understand.

indadi:
A lady just lost her fiancee because his parent found out that they have a sibling who is not too normal...

So can you marry someone with an abnormal sibling

No you shouldn't if it is hereditary. Don't jeopardize the happiness of your kids because of your selfish interest.

Never marry someone your kids will not be happy to have as a parent, and someone that can transfer a serious health challenge to your offspring.

DON'T BE SELFISH

Favfables1:





We are each other's responsibility...I do my best to make you happy and vice versa... And when I can't meet up I communicate it to you. I won't turn you down

Good to know there's still ladies like you out there. If you meet a reasonable man with this approach, he will do the impossible to keep you happy.

SO HUMANE and FEMININE!

chatinent:
Mehn.. that's over 500volts.

The way wires are littered in Nigeria tho. The power holding company too bi hanging substandard wires!

What are you saying it's 500volts. That thing is usually 33kVA, or 11kVA. With that we're looking at something in excess of 10,000volts.

Klass99:


Lol @ your last paragraph. What will you do, if she tries it?

Just make sure whoever you get hitched to, is pretty much on the same page with you and you guys are not worlds apart in your thinking, values and general outlook on life.

I don't even start that kind of relationship with anyone who doesn't like doing. So I'm likely to marry someone who is my match.

But if later in time she decides to use it as bargaining chip, or denies me as show of defiance. Under the guise of "I don't owe you".

This is what I'll do:
I'll join her in the game. I'll become a total stranger to her and she'll has to convince me with good reasons before I do anything for her. Because I don't owe it. I'll start with asking her to leave my house because I don't owe her shelter. No money for upkeeps, nothing at all for her except I'm doing it for my benefit.
I'll plan my withdrawal so it will hit her well, and make her leave.
I can't be living with an inconsiderate somebody.

Klass99:


My personal ideology of marriage has always been two adults taking good care of each other. And that means in every way possible - sexually, financially, emotionally, physically and otherwise.

In marriage, our bodies belong to each other, it's about giving and receiving care, being there for the other person even when you don't feel like it, but they need you.

Very simple!! That is how it's supposed to be, but the woke generation has turned everything to battle ground of logics. We do things to make our partner happy, not necessarily because we owe it.
I just pray my future wife won't play that nonsense game with me, because she'd be sorry if she tries.

If everyone starts to do things only when they're in the mood or only when it's owed. How do you think the world would be like.

What do you think will play out in the family if the man wakes up one morning and decides he's not funding the house for a whole month because he doesn't feel like, or not in the mood. Or decides that he needs to quit his job and get a break because he's depressed and stressed out.
He's been doing like 3 side hustles, plus his main job. Things he entirely doesn't feel like doing. He needs a break, but he's not taking it.

If a woman naturally turns cold. A reasonable man would understand. But most times women just use it to show defiance.
The same woman that has 3kids and now cold, is the same woman that will go and be feeling kinky with a colleague in the office. Even when the said colleague is not doing anything to attract her.

Have sex with your partner is one of the simple things someone would do if there's still a tiny bit of attraction left in the union.

Men do a lot of things that is actually against their will. They go through biological changes too. All those stuffs you wrote up there has a masculine version of it. But if everyone starts making a long case out of simple things just like you did. Then nothing will ever work out and happiness will elude everyone at the end.

I wonder how people think like this sef. Simple something

A married woman with 2kids from this nairaland once told me that her husband is not giving her enough sex. That she wants it more now, than when she was without child. And she is a busy woman.
How come she's not cold?

Adetola456:


Lol

Na true or na lie?

0taPiaPia:


Chairman I wouldn't ask for body count except she tells me. The ones I have heard so far has been giving me nightmares.....
**** Some truth are better left untold*****

Let me start by telling you that the bolded is false. How some people cherish the truth, no matter how ugly.

If you're not okay with some truth, then it's your personal preference. The truth might bring you nightmares, but give peace of mind to another.

FiverrTutor:


Very stu.pid question

Now, that's the problem. Where is the stupidity in trying to know someone to your satisfaction.
That you're not comfortable with such enquiries doesn't automatically classify for everyone.

MummyD2020:


Ok so only women get to answer while the men listen. Weldone sir

No. I never said it's a one-way thing. The lady can also ask questions about things that matters to her.
I've met ladies who asked me questions about personal stuffs, and I never thought it to be offensive.

Weldone ma

Here we go again.

Maturity, respect, not necessary, doesn't matter, past, doesn't owe you

These are the words you hear when it actually does matter, but they want you to believe otherwise.

If you don't want to answer, simply decline like a sensible person:

Guy: So, what's your body count like?

Girl: I really don't want to tell you, but you can be rest assured am as good as new.

This is far better than trying to make a huge case out of a simple question.

There's nothing wrong with letting your partner know about your past, if they want to know.

elated177:
El Elohe Yahshrael!

The idea of non binary is satanic. It came straight from the deepest part of the pit of darkness.

How is it that a person born with sex organ will turn around and claim he/she has no gender or does not want to identify with his/her normal and natural gender? And parents and those in authority just flowed with it? Wow!

What is next?

You can as well say you are neither a living thing nor a non living thing.

What a world!

El Elohe Yahshrael! Hallelu YAH!

Welcome to the woke generation, where everything has been redefined to fit the mischievous ways of the world

JackDaAlienz:
I went to pick her up from uni then drove her to my house.
We chilled drank wine then bleeped well
After sex I decided to drive her back to school.
On our way my back tire brake just lock
The wheel stopped rotating.
I had to Shell out 10k to repair

2nd time with this same girl yesterday night we had sex
This morning I got a message that the items I planned to ship from Canada was cancelled.

Why do I experience these badluck events after having sex with this girl

It's likely she's a cast. That has happened to me before when I was a teenager. Don't mind those people saying it's coincidence.

I'll advise you stop getting intimate with her. Except you don't mind dousing the clan spirit in you.

Is that percentage not too one-sided?
What about the men?

Ardar:


And I am saying that those are not valid reasons.

Reasons for what exactly? Do we need reason to speak true words?

Ardar:


"Never strike a woman because she bruise easily"
so if women don't bruise easily it's okay to hit them and you say there's nothing wrong with what he said?

Anyway I don't expect anything sensible to come out from an average nigerian mail.

You turned away from his exact words and focus on the inverse.
Looking at this from a more neutral ground. He's simply giving reasons why you shouldn't hit a woman.

Is it wrong to say things the way they are. Political correctness now matter more than plain truth

This woke thing has finished our society. I don't see anything bad in what he said.

Reflect7:


Divine Intervention will stop these evil world leaders pushing this.

This is going on all over the world.

World leaders are clearly taking their orders from a highly sinister central authority of indeterminate origin, nature, and agenda.

Australia now is a police state.

There, people are arrested and jailed, just for posting online support for anti-vaxx protests.

Across France, UK, Germany, Switzerland, Turkey etc, there are very frequent street protests involving thousands of people strongly against the 'covid' tyranny of lockdowns, masks and 'vaccine' mandates.

In the USA, hundreds of thousands of workers, including doctors, nurses, soldiers, and civil servants, have quit their jobs over the 'vaccine' mandates introduced by Joe Biden.

The US economy is in free-fall at the moment due to these mandates.

People would have willingly taken the shots as time progresses. But the way they push it makes it seem like they're running out of time. Maybe something will be revealed about the shots (maybe within 5yrs or so) and they want everyone to take it before it starts.

I've never seen where they force people to take vaccine like now now.

They have also managed to come up with a lot of theories on how the unvaccinated is a threat to the vaccinated. Which is still very unclear to me

yusluvad:
Can it realy get to this stage/level Well, let's watch and see...

It will pass this stage sef. It will get to the same stage of face mask. Where police will block major highways and request your vacation card. If you don't have it you'll be arrested and detained.

You won't be able to make interstate travel within your card. You won't enter big malls without it.

And I'm sure they won't stop at that.

Hallabee1:
Aje.....


i talk am, soon to even enter market go be problem if you are not vacinated....Bank will soon start there own, enen CAC(coperate Affair Comission) go soon start and others will follow

You missed a few. Telecom companies would block lines that did not take the vaccine. Banks will demand you renew your BVN with vaccination cards or they suspended your account.

Then big churches would be directed to allow only the vaccinated to worship, else they'll be closed down. Then schools would mandate students to get the vaccine or they won't write exam.

Non governmental workers would be next. Another avenue for staff downsizing.

What kind of unsafe practice is this?

Milesbillions:
There is this female colleague of mine I like very much, although she is a corper just like me too. We are kind of getting close to each other and hugging each other to the extent that people around us have started thinking that we are dating each other but truth be told we are not dating. Deep down my heart, I want us to date each other but don't know the best approach to use to tell her, although some of her female colleagues have told me that she have a boyfriend but I still like her.

So, please gurus and professors of romanceland of nairaland, what's the best approach to this? My friends have told me to make my feelings known to her but I'm afraid that if I tell her my feelings directly, she might leave me. So I'm just asking the best way to approach this. Should I make my feelings known to her on WhatsApp or should I tell her face to face.
I'm an introvert who normally doesn't know how to express my feelings to girls that I like. I have missed countless girls who love me because of this.

Please, nairalanders, I need your help

Don't tell her any such shit. Simply go for the pussy. She'll be the one to come for dating if she can do that with you.

Telling her anything about dating is likely to get you a resounding no.

Young girls don't want any relationship with a struggling copper. You can Bleep if they like you, but you can't really keep.

Ogundex:


My thoughts exactly. Op should collect his daughter from her ASAP least she grow up to become like her mother. He can train her by himself or better still look for a responsible relations who can. I fear for the daughter's future

Yeah just that the woman is likely to mount resistance. She would see it like he wants to disarm her.

You are not doing God's work. Don't bring him into your drama.
Why not take your daughter and raise her yourself. How can you entrust someone like that to raise your child, or you want your daughter to become like her?

All I can tell you is that you're not too far from express

so I feel its better to just pick up someone you know you can endure her attitude and enjoy life once she is supportive caring and loving every other thing doesn't matter.
So I'd like to hear you guys opinion please.

The quoted shows you already pitched your tent. What advice do you need again.
But let it been known to you that this continuity you plan with her would not be like the first time. The both of you are very likely to get dissatisfied with each other within a short time.

Most times when people say the bolded. It means there are a lot of other things that matter, but they're trying to ignore because they're too tired or unable to do better. I hope that's not the case with you

By the way. Why did you break up in the first place?

The leg looks somewhat masculine. Are you sure that's your leg