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You need more male friends in your life. The type that has something going on in their lives and are not woman wrapper. Mix them up. The good bad and ugly.

Limit the number of hours you play games alone. Try hubbies that gets you interacting with real people.

Get involved in other people's lives. Reach out to family, both close and distant ones. It makes you like your life more and this reduces depression.

You must open other new paths of life. Try new things, because it seems you've outgrown the old things that once made your life fun.
It happens to most people.

MadamVanessa:



Whatever emotional and psychological damage you have experience and currently going through, I pray may God see you through. This your madness is at another level, but I know it's not your fault

This is no madness. He speaks the truth and real-life fact.

fortune1894:
Finally

The op said you shouldn't disclose the location.

What kind of nonsense propaganda is this. What is a child still doing in a war zone?
Any right thinking person is already sick of the watery propaganda warfare.

I saw it

It's of two colors. The color at the upper part of its head is spotted and darker than the rest of its body.

Should I give more clues?

First mistake you made is trying to make her life better by the whole shop thing.
The second mistake is SLAPPING HER LIGHTLY. You should have made it a heavy bone-shattering slap.
Third mistake is actually begging her. You don't beg a girl for things like that.
Don't let anyone tell you she left because of the slap. She simply prefers the other guy and I don't believe any charm is involved.


Just kill any thought that tells you to go save her and move on with your life. In your next relationship, learn that investing in a girl won't make her choose you. I know it's a hellish hurt to separate with someone you dated so long, but you have to let go.

siofra:
It's not the same in every woman but I know that first pregnancies are always very difficult.

Besides would she tell you everything?

She tells me almost everything. She's kinda ex turned relative.
It's not the same experience for everyone. But I haven't witnessed a sad story of pregnancy or childbirth. I only hear or read about it.

Here's is another experience. When I was a teenager I once escorted my mom to the next compound in the middle of the dark night to go help a woman in labour who prefers to deliver at home. The husband was a gardener or should I say housekeeper, and they stay away from hospitals because of bills.
The delivery wasn't as bad as I heard in the stories. It was smooth and quick, though I didn't like the sight so I faced away when it got messy.

I don't think anyone should be afraid or worry about childbirth. Except there's a problem that disqualifies the woman.

I think your cousin is simply weak or has other health problems. Someone I know is currently pregnant, and already has a daughter. I'm close to her but her pregnancy and childbirth wasn't as grim as you want us to believe.

A woman's body is designed for childbirth. But if any feels unfit for the role, they are free to go for adoption.

Nonexisting:
Then what are you waiting for, [b]you fat racist white pig?/b] Fuccking tell him to stop the invasion now and I mean right now.

Everyone is a racist. Even you.
And what's with all the labelling?

Yesterday was women's day. So one of my girlfriends came over and was telling me about how women should be worshipped. The talk escalated and I had to tell her this same thing that the op just said women are too selfish to handle any form of power or resource.
Sadly she couldn't understand it and I stylishly steered the wordplay to another direction, and we had our normal lovey dovey moment.

But that is the reality that civilization doesn't want to admit.

It's only a matter of short time before nukes will become so common that even terrorists will acquire and posses it with ease.
By then the world would have discovered a deadlier weapon that would make nukes look like lollipops.

oilPUSSY:
Politics is a very dirty and very complicated game.. You can't even predict the next thing that will happen..

My mind is telling me that Supreme court might sack Buhari on the eve of presidential election in 2023 then order for Atiku to take over

I thought I was the only one thinking this. This is Nigeria where anything can happen in power tussle.

Classickj:
Thanks
Any alternative I can use aside xender

I don't really know. Like I said before, it's been long I shared files with phone.
You could search the internet for xender alternatives

Classickj:
Pls I need ur help with My xender

If I click on send, it will connect with the other phone

But once i click on Receive, it will not connect.. It just hang

It's been long I used that app.
Try and update it then try again with different phones. If it continues then I think it's your phone acting up.

But why worry, since it connects with send. I can remember once connected, you can send also receive. So that shouldn't be a problem

Classickj:
Thanks
Although it not showing any thing

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Maybe it's damaged or cleared by the last person that used it.

If it's not damaged. You could use "easeus" to recover most of the deleted content if you are so curious.

Classickj:
I saw this small device in my compound early in this morning. I don't know the name, if you have any idea what this is pls let me know.

It's a 3way flashdrive.
You can connect to iphone, Android and PC through a USB chord.

It's okay to call back a flasher, maybe there's an emergency. But if it becomes a regular then you should cut off such people. Or simply warn them never to flash you except it's something very important.

AmazonTopaz:
They have better moral standards than Nigerians who are mosty corrupt and cannot even love their next door neighbour.

I love my next flat neighbor, and I'm a Nigerian

I believe everyone is as corrupt, just that their system over there doesn't allow low grade corruption to thrive. Americans is also corrupt just that it's not that low level for citizens to notice.

Truthsoldier:
Good Nairalanders
I have this friend of mine(name withheld),he used to be a teacher in a secondary school,but late last year he was given an employment opportunity through connection from his dad because the manager has this mutual relationship with his dad,my friend is intelligent,smart and humble,that's his character.

When he got a job in that company it has made him not to have enough time for himself, according to him,he works from Monday to Saturday,even risking his life by going to work on sit-at-home days since he's in the East of Nigeria, this has also affected his church activities, and he closes by 5 sometimes 8pm everyday, because the director I.e the owner of the company has mandated everyone to.

The company pays him moderately but he is loosing his peace,he doesn't rest well,stressed out,and according to him the director uses people slavishly in the company,the few months he has worked there the company pays lately and quickly deducts money in ways that are quite unfair,they give no leave to workers,they give you just two days to attend to some emergency like death of a loved one,you come to work even very ill and with a doctor's report.

My friend told me that he has been observing it ,the director is so bossy and talks down on people arrogantly and disdainfully, working there one day a worker lost his dad and had to attend to it,but unfortunately stay for 4 days, but when he came back, instead of to be sympathized with,he was insulted by his boss, queried and sent home, just for the day he arrived.

Now my friend is thinking of leaving there,but they promised him of juicy offers,in terms of salary, but being also affected by this,he thinks that that's not the right place for him,a place according to him has no medical officials incase of dangers or accidents,a place of no welfare package for workers,now he is in between trying to please his dad or quit the job no matter what,because he just told me that his heart is no more there....

But my question is;
Why do some companies treat people as slaves?

Most of today's bosses saw shege before they got to that level. So they tend to vent off a bit.

Secondly working under someone is not ideal for everyone. If your friend feels overused he can find other means of income.

AmazonTopaz:
It feels amazing living there compared to Africa you people criticising are mostly confused and don't know what you are talking about

I'm talking about moral standards, not standard of living. But I think I understand your point.

qekng40:
That's your opinion, I'm not going to oppose it. But personally, I'm not gonna say he's the best though.

I'm not the type of person that takes sides. If you have anything that discredits him, you can say it.

Among all the politicians we have presently. I'll rate him number one if we're talking about who can save Nigeria.

qekng40:
Are u saying he didn't acquire personal wealth using his office while he was Governor? what about the Pandora reports stuff??

I really don't know how true the Pandora stuff. But I know he reduced cost of governance, cost of many other things that the government pay for during his tenure.

Now coming to corruption. Everyone is corrupt. No one is perfectly good, but some people are good enough to be regarded as good. Just like no colour is perfectly white, but some colours a white enough to be regarded as white.

From what I know about him. I think Peter is the best candidate that can save Nigeria at this point. I can trust he will make a lot of positive changes in our mode of governance, that the past administrations dreaded.

What Nigeria needs is someone who is not wasteful, not tribalistic, will make decisions in disfavour of the high and mighty, will do the right thing without fear or favour, who believes in functionality over flamboyancy. And Peter Obi is all that, and more.

Why is the USA so obsessed with this gender thing.
The same people that said gender is only a social construct, that gender basically doesn't exist. Then they'll turn around to talk about gender equality.
I can't even imagine what it would feel like, living in such a country.

qekng40:
They all sound sensible till you give them a political position.. Then the real them will start manifesting!

No. He actually did that when he was a governor.

I'm surprised to hear this. I'm AA and O+ but I hardly get sick. I can go for close to 2yrs before I get malaria. When I was younger, mosquito always show me shege, but I seldom get down with malaria then.

Your girlfriend likes you, but you hate yourself. It's only a matter of short time before she'll start feeling disgust for you, if you continue like that.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
Wow Look at how brilliant and intelligent u guys are!

Why can't u guys use this high level of intelligence being displayed here to develop Nigeria.

olasha1:
No relay.. I checked the battery and its, well connected....

I need any direction to where they are selling it as they will know more

You should include your location so people in your area can direct you.
You can find shops that sell it close to the mall and close to the big Slot shop. If we're in the same you'd know the two places I mentioned

The question is not even clear enough. Let me say there's nothing wrong with moaning, but why have sex at inlaw's house. Just wait till you return home.

I think the battery is disconnected. Check for faulty relays if there's any.