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Seriously, i have dated a lady that behaved exactly like your wife, once she discovered any money with me, the next thought or idea that will come from her is to spend the money, even if i protest that the money should be save or put to investment, she rather prefer the money being spend on buying flashy items such as expensive cloths or items.
But amazingly, when she earned her own money, she will never spend it she will rather prefer to save it and lavish my own money, and when you go broke and asked her for money she will never agreed that she have, i had to called off the relationship so i will not die young.
On several occasion i had to stamped my authority as man and it will lead to quarrel as she is also authoritative.
My advise to you since you are already married, talking will not help, ladies dont listen to talks, they prefer action, stamped your authority, talk less and act more, stop given her money, give her money for only items you approved of, and if she add up her money fine, but if she spend lavishly without your approval punish her and let her know the reason, never raised your hand on her, the punishment here is a coded one, either u cut down her next allowance or when she ask for fund let her know you are broke.

The guy has not done anything wrong, your post only indicate that you expected him to throw his hard earned money at you, you did not get that and you were disappointed, girls with money, go and work and earn your own money let see how you spend it.
Times are hard, people now spend with caution, it is not easy making money this days.

A state governor is greater than a minister.
1. A governor is elected, while a minister is an appointee
2. A governor has constitutional immunity, a minister has none
3. A governor can not be remove, except impeach by his people, a minister can be hire and fire
4. A governor control his state, a minister head a ministry.
5. A governor control state allocation which is constitutional and large, a ministry allocation is not constitutional, it depends on the executives.

did u watched the video at all or you did not go to school.

PEREP: The issue on NGF is subjudice and till the final outcome, maintaining a position does not hold waters. He should explain what made him renege on his words after agreeing to present Jang to other governors. He is just showing that he cannot be trusted.

The ballot papers should have included the signature of every one as they vote if there is no hidden agenda by the acclaimed winning faction. If the DG, I am sure the NGF secretariat DG will be required to produce the ballot papers in court and hope that will be enough to proof that 19 Gov actually voted for Amaechi.

If the ballot papers were only ticked, then all the governors that attended the inaugural meeting of Jang's fanction can petition the courts that they voted Jang or DG, NGF proof otherwise through the ballot papers.

Plateau State
Kogi State
Katsina State
Bauchi State
Taraba State
Benue State
Gombe State
Delta State
Bayelsa State
Akwa Ibom State
Enugu State
Anambra State
Abia State
Ebonyi State
Kebbi State
Cross River State
Kaduna State
Kwara State

fkaz: http://www.leadership.ng/nga/articles/51677/2013/04/08/presidential_directive_police_detain_four_leadership_staff.html

I am not for jonathan, but the truth must be told, it is a serious offense to forge or falsity state document, a document from the highest office of the land, the journalist should prove them self free by stating the origin of the document.
Every body with common sense know that the document was false for the following reasons.
1. NO ANY RECIPIENT STATED ON THE SAID DIRECTIVE
2. NO ANY SIGNATURE ON THE SAID DIRECTIVE
3. NO ANY OFFICIAL STAMPED ON THE SAID DIRECT
4. THE DIRECT WAS TYPE ON A SHEET OF PAPER ONLY WITH THE COAT OF ARM
So how come the editor do not notice that it was fake and went ahead to publish the fake document against the highest office of the land,i smell a rat here, the journalist must have be compromised by opposition, they must answer and clear the name if they are innocent this is worse than boko haram, u do not expect the presidency to be quite on such offense.

fkaz: http://www.leadership.ng/nga/articles/51677/2013/04/08/presidential_directive_police_detain_four_leadership_staff.html

I am not for jonathan, but the truth must be told, it is a serious offense to forge or falsity state document, a document from the highest office of the land, the journalist should prove them self free by stating the origin of the document.
Every body with common sense know that the document was false for the following reasons.
1. NO ANY RECIPIENT STATED ON THE SAID DIRECTIVE
2. NO ANY SIGNATURE ON THE SAID DIRECTIVE
3. NO ANY OFFICIAL STAMPED ON THE SAID DIRECT
4. THE DIRECT WAS TYPE ON A SHEET OF PAPER ONLY WITH THE COAT OF ARM
So how come the editor do not notice that it was fake and went ahead to publish the fake document against the highest office of the land,i smell a rat here, the journalist must have be compromised by opposition, they must answer and clear the name if they are innocent this is worse than boko haram, u do not expect the presidency to be quite on such offense.

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Only a primary one pupil will believe this nonsense, is this how a presidential directive look like without a stamp and signature. nigerians u na try ooooo, we don pass this level abeg.

ayswags: All these for one girl i dey craze

You are wrong this time, all that women want is money which you did not mention.
I have seen ladies abandon guys that have all this qualities but no money, to date guys that have none of the listed qualities but have money.

eagle,eye:
I believe am a very lucky guy when it comes to relationship, or is it that Internet babes are different from the ones I meet in real life.
Wait ohh.... You call yourself my babe, you dey visit my abode but you know wan know whether I dey cook or not 9(you no even wan know the direction of my kitchen).
Sometimes you go fit come weekend for my place, and when we wake up from sleep you go wan go palour go watch nollywood or carry my lappy or your phone begin dey browse..... we no go chop breakfast, you no go sweep room....
Abeg where all these Agaracha babes dem dey? I wan meet them.
It's either you are just my fuc,k mate or you are not. If you are my babe, and I do those things expected of me as your man and you come with the op's mentality... omo na bye bye to bad rubbish ohh. Na only small boy wey never date REAL WOMAN dey fall for this kain trick.

you are right on point,ladies are just selfish, they dont want do house chores because they claim they are not legally married and yet they expect the man to take responsibility of a married man.

favynikky: I have a friend that does it and it is quite disturbing.

What are your thoughts on this?

LADIES ARE ALWAYS SELFISH, IF U CLAIM U R NOT HOUSE WIFE AND CAN NOT BE DOING HOUSE WIFE CHORES, ALWAYS REMEMBER THE MAN IS NOT YET A HUSBAND AND STOP DEMANDING OR EXPECTING A HUSBAND RESPONSIBILITIES, SO THE EQUATION CAN BE BALANCE, STOP ASKING FOR MONEY FOR UR HAIR, UR CREAM AND OTHER OF UR NEEDS WHICH IS A HUSBAND RESPONSIBILITY.

@VICLOV, clap for urself, the condition of plane use in Nigerian are not the same with those used in Europe, so you are the one that manufactured the one use in Nigeria abi, infact you are a big MUMU.

A WOMAN THAT CAN NOT COOK AND DO DOMESTICS WORK AND SHE IS NOT INTERESTED TO LEARN, GUY FORGET ABOUT HER IMMEDIATELY.
THIS ADVICES IS ON THE BASIS OF EXPERIENCE OR ELSE YOUR LIFE WILL BE FRUSTRATED, EXCEPT IF U CAN TAKE HER PLACE AS THE WIFE AND DO THAT WORKS IN HER PLACE, JUST IMAGINE COMING HOME FROM WORK AFTER A HECTIC DAY AND VERY HUNGRY AND TIRED AT SAME TIME WITH THE HOPE OF COMING TO YOUR HOUSE TO EAT A DELICIOUS MEAL ONLY TO DISCOVER THAT NO MEAL HAS BEEN PREPARED OR BEEN SERVED ONE PORTY IN THE NAME OF FOOD, HOW WILL YOU FEEL, JUST REFLECT ON THIS.

CAN SOME ONE ASK THIS PEOPLE IF THEY HAVE WATCH THE FILM THEY ARE PROTESTING AGAINST.
CAN SOME ONE ASK THEM WHY HAVE THEY NOT PROTESTED AGAINST THE KILLING AND BOMBING OF INNOCENT SOULS
CAN SOME ONE ASK THEM IF THEY ACTUALLY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING, I THINK THESE PEOPLE HAVE NO HEAD AT ALL.
CAN YOU SEE THE YOUNG ONES, THEY ARE CATCHING THEM YOUNG TO TAKE OVER FROM THEM, THESE ARE THE FUTURE BOKO HARAMS.

WHAT R U GUYS SAYING NO BI NINJA WE DEY, DONT BE DISCOURAGE IN NINJA EVERY THING IS POSSIBLE, SOME PERSON ARE JUST SCARING U.
DONT BE SURPRISED THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH 3RD CLASS WORKING THERE, IT ALL DEPENDS WHO IS FRONTING 4 U. TELL ME WILL ANY BODY ASK GOODLUCK COUSIN OR THE PETROLEUM MINISTER RELATIVE THE GRADE OF THERE RESULT.
ABOVE ALL, REMEMBER WITH GOD ALL THINGS ALL POSSIBLE.

@diluminati, you are a boko haram suspect, and have no thinking faculty on your head, please stop commenting on issues.

THOSE OF YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT THE KILLING OF THE SUSPECTED BOKO HARAM LEADER AND WIFE, WOKE UP.
IF THEY ARE NOT KILLED, THEY WILL ESCAPE FROM THE LAW AND CAUSE MORE HAVOC, AFTER ALL THEY WERE SHOOTING AT THE SECURITY AGENT.
YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF WHERE IS KABIRU SOKOTO THAT WAS CAUGHT ALIVE AND HANDED OVER TO THE POLICE, WOKE UP NINJA,