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Politics is a game of survival of the fittest. Oya INEC register my own party called Aficionado Paragon Collabor (APC) This party remains the intellectual property of our great party. |
Looking for ways to make relationships work or going an extra mile to ensure things are in place is an indication you are willing to do your bit for the sake of love. This process of harnessing financial, emotional and material resources does not promise to be an easy journey but like they say; “what is worth doing, is worth doing well”. To achieve a reasonable level of success, certain words and what they really stand for should come to play. Attitude: We keep hearing people say “Attitude is everything”. Indeed your attitude towards your spouse determines to a great extent what is going to happen to the relationship sooner or later; would you be able to cope with each other? Will someone be willing to sacrifice for the joy of the other? If corrections come, how would the affected party react to it? How would matters of care and concern be handled? As a matter of fact, attitude defines your entire daily dealings with the one you love. Simply put, it is who you are and what you do; how you treat others and your expectations of them as well. If you have the right attitude, your relationship is likely to groove well. Approach: Up to a certain point, people are not really sure whether there is any difference between ‘Attitude’ and ‘Approach’. Your manner of approach has a part to play in the way your spouse would respond/react to you. Soft answers have a way of calming down rage while annoying words keep flames high. The way you approach a person concerning an issue determines whether you’ll get what you expected or not. Learning to use polite words is not old fashioned at all; it rather reveals you have understanding of the need to show respect to your partner. When people feel they are not respected as expected, they become difficult to love and get along with. Apologise: There are more wounded lovers today than in past times; the desire to flow with a jet age has made people feel too cool to say ‘I’m sorry’. Some people would rather close down a shop, buying all the gifts, flowers and perfumes when their partner seem offended than to offer clear simple, heartfelt apologies. The second issue with apologies is your ability to do it convincingly. The one you are apologising to should be convinced that you mean every bit of what you just said. When accepted, a total turnaround tells the world you were truly sorry or probably would have done what you did in error. So if you are truly sorry, please change your bad ways, then there will be peace. Allow: Allowing your loved one some personal space to breathe and think independently might sound like some kind of controversy but this could really be healthy for relationships. Say it to yourself repeatedly that your spouse deserves to exercise his/her mind on issues you might not want to comment. Giving a free hand in relationships shows that you trust each other’s sense of judgment and appreciation of things. A man that still wants to go shopping with his wife because he believes he has been buying things for himself for ages and understands the techniques of big saves will end up frustrating his wife who had spent all her life looking forward to that time of independence when she would be the woman of her very own house. A lady who is looking for the duplicate of her father in a husband will not only look for long but would be shocked to discover that every man wants to be himself and not to act like his father in-law. If your wife comes with her unique style of cooking different from your mother’s cooking method; why not simply relax and enjoy the variety? Checking on your wife to be sure no one talks to her on the phone; whether at home or work might not yield much result after a while. Allowing each other some level of freedom and privacy is good but let this be done in understanding; make sure you don’t hide behind this to commit atrocities; transparency is good but spending some time alone to think clearly and refresh is the secret of most successful marriages. Young lovers believe talking and chattering is an expression of deep love but as they grow older, mature silence that says “staying by your side is enough comfort for me” replaces busy, restless attention seeking moves. Acknowledge: Getting to a place where you acknowledge and esteem your lover above you is the zenith of true love. Discovering each other should not only be limited to physical/ emotional contact. The gifts and talents you see in your darling should be celebrated. You do not need to bruise the ego of your spouse before they submit to you. Destroying his/her own ego or personality will make them detest you, feel unloved, turn arrogant or desire to trust a stranger who encourages them to grow. Identify the areas your partner is good at and delegate responsibilities connected to them without interference. Look for those things that will make them feel important and needed; comment nicely on how they have brought shine on the relationship with this special touch. Always remember to tell them ‘you would not be who or where you are today without them’. Everyone loves to know they are contributing something good to life; go ahead and give them that reassurance and validity. It’s your responsibility to strengthen your relationship in every good way possible. Enjoy! |
1. Love and honour your mother. Learn from her mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache in your thirties (30s) and beyond. 2. You are more talented than you’ll ever know. You don’t need to sleep with your Boss/ supervisor to get a promotion at work or better grades at school. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill. 3. Women can build a strong support network. Don’t let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from cultivating true relationship with your female friends. 4. When a man you meet for the first time babbles about how much he earns working for an oil company and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He is either a married smooth- talker who just wants to sleep with you or he is childish. Walk away from deceit. 5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a stable bank account. It will keep you out of trouble. 6. When you meet your Soul mate, don’t forget to wear your most priceless ornament- submission and humility. But while waiting for him, don’t cling to any man to rescue you. Some men these days are also seeking for who will rescue them. 7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front of a full- length mirror at least once a week, naked and after clothed. Know your body and how it works. 8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into nurturing your gifts/ talents and skills. Start early. 9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing away with childish behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget to have fun. You can catch fun and not be dirty. 10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow- from how to keep your underwear clean, cook, socialize, and network to how to drive a car. 11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read books, it fortifies. Dance as often as you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body. 12. Partnership builds bridges. Don’t ever forget that. 13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don’t rely on noodles alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future. 14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try again and again. Don’t give up on education/ learning. 15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind you must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull the carpet from under your feet. The Holy Bible tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind. 16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward if you keep looking back. Holding on to bitter experiences and regrets will stale your future. 17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to others, especially those of low estate, and the lowest of low. 18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t compare yourself to others. 19. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in God and always have the courage to use your voice wisely. Dream big today. Fear simply means False Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy the highs and lows that come with being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow older. Live life to the fullest and don’t forget to smile always! |
Collins0609: .i believe she is lying.what if she lose d virginity b4 married wil she expect the man to marry her still.pastor who preach against sex wil they deny a prostitute from getting married y referin 2 men who refuse to marry non virgin as bin childish.she should hav wait til after marriage to start milkin d guyWrong believing leads to wrong living. |
byne: virginity is lack of opportunity or confidence to have sex..This is the greatest delusion that I have ever heard. The philosophy of those who lack self control. Please, don't deceive others if you have been deceived. |
Walexsammy: , and who told u that a certain woman is the right one for u......................... Guy even me, can't marry a virgin, cuz have tested and seenThen go and eat the remnant of others. |
Our tradition supports virginity including the holy book (Bible). In those days, when a woman marries and she is discovered to be a virgin, the husband will take gifts to the parents of the lady for the good work they have done on her. But if she is not a virgin, the husband won't be too happy with her, and she would be seen as a slut. But reverse is the case today, the good moral of those days have been rejected by the people of this generation in the name of civilization. If one is still a virgin at 20, he or she will be seen has uncivilized person. If she is a girl, they will say she is not beautiful, and if he is a man, they will say he is impotent. Just to discourage them, so that they can give a way their virginity and become wayward like them. I read an interview of charly boy yesterday, where he said that he lived in sin with his present wife for 2 years before they married. This means that they have been sleeping together before marriage. I was shocked to hear that from him, if he acknowledged that sex before marriage is sin, then what else do you need? The bible also frown at this immoral act. Read below: Hebrew 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undifiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. If you are still a virgin, keep it. Don't be intimidated by the words of some sluts. Remain focus, let the bible be your guide. If you have lost your virginity and you are still messing around like dogs, don't condemn yourself. What you need to do is to repent and all will be well with you. NOTE: HOW WILL YOU FEEL IF THE FOOD THAT BELONGS TO YOU ALONE IS GIVEN TO EVERYBODY TO TASTE AND THE REMNANT IS BROUGHT TO YOU TO EAT? |
Saintp: I cant beleive some guys are anti virgin. is it not someone like you disvirgined that one that is good in bed you want to marry? Is it that u guys cant disvirgin a lady? I dont understand this anti virgin sentiments among guys. So u guys now like girls dat have slept with many guys and when they start comparing you with other guys, u start complaining.This is sensible and encouraging. I just wish other guys will learn from this. |
adconline: Why bother knowing my genotype? You can find out once we are married? Why bother knowing my family? You can find out once we are married. Why bother knowing my fertility count? Why not wait until we are married? Why bother about my job and finances? Let's wait until we are married! Why is it that it's only S3X that can wait until we are married?Are these questions from a humanbeing? I doubt. |
[quote author=Prebaby.G.]God hv mercy for those that dnt like virgins[/quote]Amen |
otokx: University of Port Harcourt, Choba, Aluu, Alakahia and all surrounding areas No Light. It has gone from bad to worse. We saw light last on thursday.Thanks for this info, something will be done about it. |
[quote author=Yeske!]Went from good to bad in Onitsha save for the GRA recently, really don't know what happened. From 18-22hrs before now to 12hrs daily though condition improved yesterday and today sha. Reporting from Oguta road.[/quote]Thanks for this info, expect an improvement soonest. |
Ijeoma Okeke100: hell if i were a man i would rejoice if i got me a virgin to marry. that fool that dumped the girl had no intentions of marrying that babe in the first place. he just wanted to get into her panties and when he saw that he was gona have to commit in order to get inside her, he pulled a fast one. The virgin girl must never ever try please no man with her gift. she must stay with her prinscipls and wait for mr right coz honey blv me there are plenty of brothers out there who would kill to get a pure girl since it seems all the sister are getting spoiled to quick nawadaysYou are right! That is what I told my fiancee. I also advised her to tell her friend not to accept the man if he comes back to plead. |
[quote author=starlight®®]imagine cooking a soup n not testing if there's salt or maggi innit....sex is a key ingredient in marriage so what if she turns out to someone with a low sex drive. have anyone ever wonder why most couples that divorce always comes up with the word "irreconcilable different nothing wrong or right in marrying a virgin to me[/quote] |
starlightHow can you compare a woman with a soup? Do you think the only thing that brings joy and fulfilment in marriage is only sex? If that is your view, why not go and marry an already made sex machine (slut) instead of looking for a woman to be tasting like soup. So, if the soup is not sweet, you will not eat it. Continue tasting soup (punny) ups and down. Olorun ma je o shi je. nothing wrong or right in marrying a virgin to me |
achina boy: but make sure shes a virgin,because my first girlfriend fooled me for many years claiming she was a virgin,and no chukuku until wedding night i duno who teaches them these tricks,but after sometime,her own cousin told me that my babe was sleeping with one guy,and for the past five years she kept telling me she was a virgin,and being the mugu i was then,with my childish love,i was hoping that am gonna marry the chic,any way,there is no problem in marrying a virgin but if u are the kind that loves s,,e,,x,,bear it in mind that she might not give u what you want,,,,and also she might open her eyes tommorrow after one or two kids and realize what she has been missing since and how sweet it is and then,she might start to test around your neighbourhood,u know life got stages,any stage u miss,will always wait for u along the way sometimes,and thats why it`s good to experience life before talking about marriage,,,,,,,it may not happen to uIf you marry a responsible woman, she will not flirt. |
[quote author=Red-Light]i cnt marry a virgin either[/quote]Even when she is the right woman for you? Can you give your reasons for this please? |
What is wrong in marrying a virgin? I am asking this question because of what my fiancee told me about her friend who lost her relationship because she is a virgin. The man asked her for sex and she told him that he should wait till the wedding night because she is a virgin. The next episode was that the man ended the relationship, saying I can't marry a virgin. Is it a crime for ladies to preserve themselves for their husbands to be till the wedding night? Which is better?: to marry a lady who has not messed up herself like a biitch or to marry a lady that has gone into convenant with different men thru sex? Look, I am not saying that it a must to marry a virgin, but if the right woman for you happens to be a virgin, will you reject her for this reason? |
[quote author=nwabumal@yahoo.]I personally prefer Prof Bart Nnaji than any other person as minister of power, he honestly did very well[/quote]Please don't derail the thread. Thanks. To others, please lets know what is happening in your area. |
Nuryn: Absolutely NO! less than 1hr in a day, that's if they bring it. angwa ukwu area of kano.Thanks for this info, something will be done about it. |
[quote author=Raggedy_Ann]Location: woji, PHC Power improvement: YES We used to go weeks without light before last year, but now we have Power everyday 12-18hrs. Huge improvement![/quote]Thanks for this info. |
Please, don't derail the thread. |
"Many Nigerians are now enjoying stable electricity supply". ~President Goodluck Jonathan We want to know if this statement is true or not. Kindly respond as follows: Location - Yes or No Here is the example of the response we want from you: Ikeja - Yes, electricity is stable |
sheedy407: Oluwaseun osewaNa gay u b ni abi oluwaseun osewa na woman? |
SPIFF: 10: Every atom of our body is said to be billions of years old and our body is 70 percent water. |
SPIFF: 10: Every atom of our body is said to be billions of years old and our body is 70 percent water. |
SPIFF: 10: Every atom of our body is said to be billions of years old and our body is 70 percent water. |
[quote author=SPIFF]10: Every atom of our body is said to be billions of years old and our body is 70 percent water. 9: By the age of 18, the human brains stop growing. It even begins to lose more than 1,000 brain cells after such age. Your brain comprises only 2 percent of your body weight but uses up to 20 percent of your body’s energy. Your brain never takes a break even when you are sleeping; the brain is busy working to replenish the brain processes needed to function normally while awake. 8: An average human produces 10,000 gallons of saliva in a lifetime. 7: It is impossible to sneeze without blinking your eyes. The highest recorded speed of a human sneeze is 165 kilometer per hour. 6: The human body sheds about 40 pounds of skin in a lifetime. Our skin produces antibacterial chemicals to keep germs at a bay. It also produces antimicrobial peptides that protect the body from infection. 5: You can’t swallow and breathe at the same time; however babies can do this but until they are about nine months. 4: Yawning helps you cool your brain. It is an involuntary behavior. When you yawn, the influx of cool air may ventilate your sinuses and facilitate brain cooling.I advise Mathematics teachers and professors to adopt this method to cool their brains when they are hot. 3: Your heart is said to beat nearly 3 billion times if you live an average life span of seventy years. 2: Your lungs need a lot of breathing room. The total surface area of the lungs is approximately equal to the size of a tennis court. 1: Each person has a unique tongue print just like the fingerprints. http://factsnmyths.com/facts-about-human-bo |
brixton: pls op answer des questions...dont like wen people try to tke advantage of oda's kindnessHow do you xpect the poster to see and answer your questions now? The thread just made it to the frontpage after three months. The poster might have gotten solution or accepted his fate. |
The Book of AFCON 13: 1- 13. 1.And the day came, even the day of the Lord, this Sunday. 2. That the adversary of Nigeria, these Burkinababes came threatening 3. And Stephen, the son of Keshi, the commander of Nigeria Army entreated the praying Nigerians to pray 4. And in churches and mosques, in mountains and camps prayers were offered 5. And behold on the battle ground, the army, these super eagles fought forcing the Burkinababes to retreat 6. But their champion, this Goliath called Bance came flanked by his generals 7. But the Spirit of God stirred one son of Mba, even the one called Sunday, the least in the Nigerian camp 8. And thus he said to the commander, Who is this uncircumcised Burkinababes that he should defy the armies of the giant of Africa, 9. And he was told to sit down that even Mikel, Victor, Yobo, ..... these warriors that have done battle in far countries cannot dare this Goliath, Bance or Pitropia 10. And he told the commander for this purpose was I named Sunday, to do battle on the day of the Lord, 11. And the commander, Keshi urged him go 12. And Sunday arose and caused havoc in the camp of the Burkinababes 13. And the armies Burkina Faso, these adversaries of Nigerian was utterly destroyed. |
The Super Eagle is flying higher. Keep on flying and get to the highest level. Shame to the unpatriotic citizens. |
Make #300 000 in one month and smile to the bank. If this is true, why is he still selling e-book every month.? He should just go into the business. |
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