₦airaland Forum

Orkpekyandega:
Does every body have a dirty past?

dirt does not have to be sexual relationships....dirt has to do with the standards we set. i might be a perfectionist who believes my babe has to ve 100% intelligent...i might meet a babe whom wen we converse speaks fluently, has diff degrees etc, however, if decide to sniff around, i mightdiscover she had a carry over in her first year in school, for a perfectionist i might feel irritated, or betrayed...in reality however, that result has nothing to do with our relationship....it might be trivial to some people, but its dirt to me. dirt does not have one common answer. everyone has a 'coma'.

HARDDON:
in English?

wish i could...lemme try though.

if he i s disco tented wit the situation, he should move on. if he can find happiness within the situayion he can so decide to stay. whateve decision he decides to make, he owes nobody explanation. it is not a by force something.

hope this is better understood.

ogaprime:
I agree with you on this...

thanks, enjoy the rest of your day.

agurza:
Do men ever get tired?

yes we do get tired...no b food. Even food sef dey tire person.

ogaprime:
De first paragraph is for you, the rest is for everyone else to read. In relationship, one must open his/her eyes very well and that also includes "sniffing for dirts". If there is/are no dirt(s), won't the trust increase and if any found, won't it indicate that someone isn't loyal??

you are stil missing the point o, and it hurts my guts. i av conclude by saying the ball is in his court! if he so wishes to continue with her, nsogbu a di, if he decides shes not good enough, nsogbu adi stil. go back and read my posts. i never took initiative away from the person involved. we are the choices we make.

valencia25:
Hian! What sort of thrash did you just shared sir, receive sense.. No apologise

Or are you the man knacking his girlfriend, put yourself in OP's shoe or what if it was your brother, uncle or close friend.

if it was my brother uncle or close friend, i will tell dem to suit themselves. only the wearer of the shoe, knows where it pinches. if he so decides he doesnt like d shoe again, oyo, if he decides he likes d shoe but will amend, oyo, if he decides he can manage d shoe with the pinching, oyo. like i said before...it is not a by force something, afterall, cele people no dey wear shoe!!!

ogaprime:
Mr.man, can you put a burning firewood inside your boxers and start smiling If you can, sorry I can't. I will sniff for dirts until I am sure there is none. Than for me not to sniff for dirts and allow someone to put fire inside my boxer.

We all can't be de same but that doesn't mean we shouldn't live a responsible.


No matter what, pre-marital sex is wrong and if you must have sex protect yourself and if you still want flesh wait for at least a year and half before having sex with your new partner.

If sex na food, dead body go still dey chop am...

nowhere in my post will you find me promoting pre marital sex, let alone unsafe sex. That i made comments about happiness does not mean i meant sex, wen a woman makes you happy enough that your heart tels you, u can marry her, then it has to be more dan sex...the op described her as his fiancee, hence it is more than sex. my last sentence in the previous post was and is stil, it is not a by force something.

Its tough enough finding who to give that kind of commitment to....many parents who have never traveled beyond their geopolitcal zones will be passing judgement anyhow...sometimes dey av lead their children into a life of bitterness denying them what could av bin their true happiness. Let God guide.

sailors?

rexkexmilan:
Okay. Underground.... For Now.

low key! no lele.

rexkexmilan:
Ah! Baba, Work Na work.

dude wheres your pharmacy?

NoLoveNoPain:
I keep my post short to avoid unnecessary talks but trust me, I did not deliberately sniff on her.

For 10 months, I did not know her phone combination and never for once wanted to know while she knew mine. I deliberately don't add it that she sometimes receive calls from men to spite me whenever she ask when will I be ready for marriage and tell her to be patient. I deliberately don't add it to the post that she's an "early leaver", she has no formal qualification, she feel insecure with me, there was a time she asked if I can marry her even without her formal education and told her I was just fortunate myself and education is not the only qualification for a marriage to work fine. If I had considered some factors, I wouldn't have started anything with her in the first instance.

the message is still the same..... after knowing all her short comings you choose to continue or not to continue....there are people whose girlfriends are proudly ashewo dey know, but thats their own happy pill, there are people who will never have anything to do with ashewo dats their own path. your initial post says it all, theres a guy that they both make jest of you....it means the guy knows hes not the only one, but hes happy with what he gets. find your hapiness wherever it maybe.

Two adults....e af nor consign me! weather dey marie or north, he is dier own biznes.

Babangida70:
!the hustle is real

Only you and the babe know of the scam o! virgin kwa?

And God dey watch as people dey destroy the one true religion! or is it just our imagination?

Mods Ahan na! se ko si informative story gidi ti e le fi si front page ni? ki ni eleyi wa ko wa nisinyi? mtchew!

version 1,2,3 has one common denominator....a naval rating wanting to reap where he did not sow! Truth remains that only jungle justice can provide reasonable justice for some situations. This naval rating will most likely get transfered, and the case will die off. R.I.P to the humble guy who just wwanted to work for his daily bread.

whats Buhari up to with 15 more names? I thought one of the reasons for the delay was to reduce the number of ministeries we have. Buhari behave o! Afterall, na your body language we dey watch since. Get this over with, the honeymoon is over.

so stephanie is just 33?Gerarra here mehn! you know warram saying!

ephemm:
she works as a hotel receptionist - that's a very difficult career path for even a decent lady in the first place.

then on a 2nd thought, u got what you looked for, if u sniff the privacy of anyone, u will certainly find a skeleton in their cupboard.

Most times, what you don't know, may not hurt you.

wish U best of luck with the next girl.

to calm your heartbreak, don't tell her your findings, buy a trailer load of condom, and straph her 4 times daily till u finish it and walk away.

i tire for people o....i wonder why people cant just be happy for who or what they have, the moments they have , and let life move on the happy note....they always av to sniff for dirt eh? who doesnt have dem? its either you accept her for who she is or you leave her to find your preference....it is not a by force something!!!

Bonethugss:
I love this, will you marry me

well, pick a date i can come see mum and dad with my dad.

rionel:
THE COMING GENERATION SCARES ME...REAL HARD! While we have been busy talking about Nigeria of today, I wonder if we have spared a thought about how this country will be in the next TWENTY-FIVE years. On October 1, 1979,when Alhaji Shehu Usman Aliyu Shagari was sworn-in as
President, Goodluck Jonathan was just a 22-year old undergraduate of University of Port-Harcourt. Shagari was 54 years old. Ayo Fayose was 19 years old. Bukola Saraki was 17. Yemi Osinbajo was 22. The generation of the likes of Shagari, Richard Akinjide, Adisa Akinloye, Sabo Bakin Zuwo,Ifeanyi Nwobodo, Ume Ezeoke, Akin Omoboriowo, Olusola
Saraki, Sunday Awoniyi,Garba Nadama, Awal Ibrahim and so on have gone for good! Some of us in our 20s and 30s, when in school, either in the university or secondary school, had lofty dreams, both personal and societal. We were always motivated by nationalists and inventors who had impacted positively on the cause of humanity. We were voracious readers of novels and other books. Nelkon for our Ordinary Level Physics, Lambert for Chemistry, B.O ADELEKE and Goh ChengLeong for our Geography, Phebean Ogundipe for Practical English and others like that. We were always flaunting our knowledge of current affairs. Inter- school quiz competition was the in-thing.Fast forward 35 years on and you are shocked and disturbed. Have you ever spoken to or engaged a 20 year-old boy? Ask him what motivates him and he is likely to mention music,hip hop to be precise. He has hundreds of downloaded songs on his phone. He can sing all of them off hand. He knows all the singles of Nice,Neato C, Timaya, Davido, Whiz Kid off had. But he does not know anything about history of nationalism in the country. Ideas about good society, responsible family and good conduct do not motivate him. He just wants to make money because his friend who does yahoo is rich and rides a good car, an SUV! The things that interest him are things that do not add value. He has google but never uses it for advancement of knowledge but to download porn and other inanities. Yet, in TWENTY years time, they are the ones that will be contesting to become Governors, Senators,Reps Members and even President. They belong to a generation that does not care about morality. They belong to a generation that is motivated only by money and it's acquisition. By 2035 to 2040, they will be our Senators,Reps, Governors and so on. I wonder if we have ever spared a thought how this country will look like under them. I told a man recently and these are my words: IF A GUY WHO IS IN LAGOS COULD USE FALSE PRETENCE TO OBTAIN $20,000 FROM SOMEONE IN UNITED STATES, WHAT DO YOU THINK WILL HAPPEN IF SUCH A GUY BECOMES A STATE GOVERNOR AND IS IN CHARGE OF AN ALLOCATION HE DOES NOT EVEN HAVE TO OBTAIN UNDER FALSE PRETENCE? WHICH HIS STATE IS STATUTORILY ENTITLED TO. I am worried, deeply worried. Are You? Forwarded as received from a friend.

i am not worried! The previous generation that cared about morality, general knowledge, nationalism....what is their positive contribution to this country? They are obviously worse than yahoo boys. criminals, the majority of them. when tomorow comes, there will be the few good eggs amongst the many bad eggs! so it has been since the time of adam and eve, so will it be till the end of time. The mistake we kip making is to always assume that morality is static. morality to our fore fathers was a woman walking bare breasted, but wen a woman walks with alittle cleavage showing today she is ajugded to be immoral...,when God created adam and eve, he was ok with them walking naked, the say they knew they were naked, was the day they became immoral...the standards for 2035/2040 are not yet set, i am in the least worried! if the europeabs were worried about the actions of their youths, they wouldnt have the better countries they have today....their youths raided african lands for slaves that wotked their lands, enriched their lords and provided foundations for capital accumulation. here we enshackle the youths and expect them to do exploits. I am worried about the remainder of 2015 and not 2035 afterall, ther might not be a Nigeria in 20years!

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you nigg*a is dirty....keep your room neat, wash your plates and kip your floor clean! If you need house help, get one, if you need wife get one, dont confuse both as the same!

lonelydora:
Ma bi mi ni Jamb Question................







Gerarra here Mehn.......... geh warram saying?

i geh wah ya saying o!

Gherharhahear mehhn!

KeriBaby:
Obviously the dude is still a learner!

very obvious...not just any type, one who would rather be doin something else but is pushed to the wall by some of his friends.

ItsMeAboki:
See the hypocrites, even though some are condemning the act; none seems motivated to insult the culprit's region/tribe/religion - it is obvious that the attack against SLS is purely based on bigotry.

let their hipocrisy devour them.

I am sure the truck driver ran away...dem for beat am like who thief!