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I'll leave you in peace, thanks for the heated chat, enjoyed it!!

See, now you go an insult my country and im not supposed to lose my temper, I wont. Ill be good. Thinking i might stick to white guys, least i know where they are coming from.

@Tink_sh there you go again,losing your mind and to think a brother just said white woman can handle things, you got a temper you cant control and it wont get you far.
[quote][/quote]You seem like a very sensitive fellow so i apoligise if i offended you. You never said white women can handle things, you said we where no good in bed, so my temper deserved an outing. If i get 'nice' i respond with nice, if i get ' mean' then i respond the same. All depends on the arguement at hand.

MOBO444:
@Tink_sh what excatly do you want on Nairaland, why do you come here, what are your aim, objective,reason for been in Nairaland.

I came here cos i had a bf that is nigerian and wanted to learn about nigerian culture, family, tribes, language, food, etc. We where two very different backgrounds. Then i found romance section and i see that it doesnt matter what colour you are or where your from the issues are still the same. So it is all about learning. It interests me as well cos i am white (wether you believe me or not)and my culture is pretty boring and basic if you can say we even have a culture.

Huh?? No?? The doctor didnt mess her up? If she had a good doctor doing it properly she will be fine. Many women have more than one and conceive. I dont recommend more than one, i dont even advocate one but women can conceive after one is all i am saying. I do know of one or two that couldnt but thats because they had multiple abortions.

Yes, if the doctor didnt butcher her during the abortion.

MOBO444, i thought you loved black women from your other thread. Please make up your mind. I thik your a woman hater no matter what their colour. Some chick must of crossed you bad.

MOBO444:
@Tink_sh now i just saw your profile picture and those eyes aint blue they are grey, why did you said your eyes were blue, i have just found out your first lie now what else is a lie that you have told on nairaland.

Whatever, Silly man, my eyes are bluer than blue. Go get yours checked. No lies, dont lie but know you would never believe that so why bother telling you. Ill sit the lie detector! Havent got time for liars, life is too short and i hate it with a passion. Your derailing your own thread.

Mr Cork:
Tink_sh, sweetie, why dont we discuss this over candle light dinner.

By the way do u wear extra large thongs or pants?

Haha!!! I needed a giggle today, your suppossed to be offering me advice. This is serious for me, i am very confused on this issue and need some outside guidance before my head explodes. Extra large Please, how big do you think i am?

Mr Cork:
Tink_sh , Sweetie, how do u do. can u cook & clean and do u where extra large thong or G-string?

Am looking for a wife

Haha!! you guys crack me up. Yes i cook and i am a clean freak, but hell no on the g-string. The only thong i wear is on my feet. And why would it be extra large, im not that big, just curvy, geez!!!

If you had of paid attention you would of seen i was agreeing with you. That women can be evil if messed with, thats not a threat its an observation as a woman i have seen it many times. Nevermind, yes all women are evil and all men are cheats, there you go is that better? My friend sent me a sms today that said 'for every great bitch there is a man that made her that way' Come on, ya got to giggle at that!! It was hysterical and very true.

Wrong again on where i am from, Australia! Says it under my user name. Born and bred of white parents with scandanavian/american/english heritage way back to when the ships arrived here. So no black skin anywhere to be seen, sorry. Why would i try to get points by telling you that i am white when you just bagged out white women in your post. Wouldnt it make more sense if i was pretending to be black cos you said you like them better?? Am i making too much sense??

MOBO444:
@Tink_sh there goes the threat again, typical women stuff always threatening (stick to black women or you will lose), white women are even the worse in giving cheap threat, I get them all the time in England sometimes like come to my house tonight or I have you deported, it is sickening and cheap.
Now who told you that you have blue eyes and blond hair, how do I know this is for real, please I need evidence, maybe you just some black sister trying to score cheap points.

Cheap points?? Whatever. I dont need anyone to tell me the colour of my skin, i just look in the mirror or look at my hands while typing. White as the driven snow, lol! What proof are you looking for? My pic is on my profile but you will probably say its of someone else.

I wasnt threatening and please dont put me in the same catagory as the women you spoke of, Not cool! I was just meaning that to get what you want you have to treat a women right. Yes there are bad and evil ones out there but that goes for everyone. So all i meant was if you want a nice girl then treat her well. If you only want sex then be honest and upfront and protect yourself and you will be fine. But dont make the mistake so many do of saying 'all white women' or 'all black women. You dont kn ow that unless you have slept with all of us. And many guys will tell you if you treat the wrong girl badly you can pay for the rest of your life.

MOBO444:
@Tink_sh i dont know you too much, but i have a feeling you not white, your name sounds Asia,maybe one of the Asia countries,Cambodia,Vietnam or China as your name suggest,well anyway as for me saying things the white lady cant do it, it not just me it all the black Brothers here in England, i know the white male enjoy their white ladies but we black brother we just dont get our 100% groove with them white ladies (ask around).

Haha!! Your so funny and very mistaken. I am as white as you can get. Blonde, blue eyed white as white. My user name has nothing to do with it. Its from a childhood nickname. Stick to black women then but treat them better than sex objects or you will lose.

Im in Melbourne. Thanks for your comments, appreciate it. You make an excellent point, thanks again.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]The moMent i saw long distant relationship i just started SMH*[/color]

Umm, dont know what SMH is, but ill assume its not good.

Im not a nigerian women but as for what you said about white women, maybe its you! Maybe your no good in bed and dont know how to get a women going no matter her colour. Maybe you dont excite them enough to do anything, maybe there bored and dont want to make an effort. Did you think maybe they want to do it in the dark so they cant see you? Your generalising which is a big mistake. Good luck with your 15. Any women who meets a guy on facebook and sleeps with them asap is a bit scary!! How many others have been in them before you. Stay safe.

Can you block sms? Im pretty sure you can block calls. Anyway, maybe you could find out. If not as another comment said, ignore all contact and he should give up eventually. Its such a hassle to change your number then inform everyone.

hax:
If you feel bad and if you can't do it in the presence of your lover, then it probably is.

Absolutely agree, if you wouldnt do it in front of your bf or gf then its cheating. Kissing can easily lead to something else so definately its cheating. Just my opinion.

Hey everyone, i need your advice on a situation. I am in a long distance relationship which recently became an even longer distance when my bf went to the US to study. I am in Australia, so a bit far. Since he left we hardly have any contact. Online chats have become almost non exsistant, he says its a connection problem. Sms has become less, maybe a couple of times a week if im lucky. I have tried to ask and talk to him about the lack of contact but all he says is i dont understand what he is going through (whatever that means) and i am being unreasonable. He says he doesnt call anymore cos he cant call international and i should call him. Doesnt make sense to me but maybe it does to you. He says he is trying but i dont understand which is a bit hard with hardly any contact and he doesnt tell me anything. I am doing my own head in trying to figure out whats going on but would really appreciate any advice. He insists he still loves me and will come for me but am worried i am wasting my time and that more is going on than i know. My friends say im crazy and should walk away but i wanted some opinions from people not involved with either of us. Thanks for your time.

Run as fast as i can in the opposite direction!!!

MOBO444, You are not my brother and i am not from Nigeria. I do give respect where it is deserved, but where is your respect for women and the marriage commitment. Two wrongs dont make a right. Some real men can handle strong minded women with an opinion. I am sorry that your so bitter and twisted but please dont lead the poster down a road which he can never return from. Im sorry if i upset you personally, was just my opinion. Relax, we are allowed to have opinions.

MOBO444, you sound like a fool!
Marriage is more than just sex. REAL MEN handle their business and dont run away like spoilt children to get what they want. I wasnt talking about nigerian specifically i was talking about marriage in general and women in general//doesnt matter where they are from.
A real man could handle his wife without using her as an excuse to cheat.
The phase i was referring to is after 6 years they may be settled into the unexcitment of everyday. He wanted a womans percpective and he got it. So pull your silly head in, you obviously have no clue about women.

if it seems to good to be true it probably is. Just wait a few months to see the real him then decide. Its always sweet in the 'honeymoon' period. So wait, keep your wits about you and your eyes open.

Yep all good thanks. As i said, was just my opinion. Just the way i would see it.

Nope, I have too much self respect to let myself be shared around by friends. Not cool, but thats just my opinion. Whatever floats your boat.

Please dont go elsewhere, you will definately destroy what you have spent 6 years building. She may just be going through a phase, women have lots of phases, lol!! Just romance her. Be nice to her, love her, spoil her without wanting sex, if she wants it say 'no thats not what i was looking for' Trust me it will drive her nuts till she has to jump on you. The effort will be worth it. 6 years is a fairly long time, you guys may of just got into a rut and need a little spice. Go for it, what you got to loose?

Hehehehe!! This is the funniest thing i have read in ages! So needed the giggle. Who cares and who could tell. What if she goes through the replacement thing and doesnt bleed on her 'first' night?? So funny! Too much deception!!!

Oh my God!!! That poor girl!! She cant possibly feel safe around you with people like that after you. I cant even imagine the horror for her. No one deserves that no matter who they are with. Please leave her as other comments have said, to heal. You seem determined to get revenge, then where does the revenge end. They will come back for you, then you for them and it keeps going around. If you need to revenge then move far away so they cant find you. You need to leave that girl alone for her own safety and well being. Set her free, unless you have been raped you will never know what it has done to her, possibly forever!

Get your life together before you involve anyone else. Please!!!

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=487157.msg6493667#msg6493667 date=1280721432]poor kids[/quote]Amen!!!

The Cork:
Her Nyansh was becoming flat

What did you do to the poor girl, hehe!!! Silly!

Oyinda is a very smart and wise woman! Great words!!!

MRbrownJAY:
@think_sh
sorry, my bad, i must have misread what you wrote.

Thank you,