₦airaland Forum

smalldoctor:
My @1.25 odd via ova1.5 don enta . 4 games remaining

NigeriaIsGreat:
She didn't chose her father and brothers but she can chose her husband

Very simple

Jovialjune1:
So stupid, we should believe you because you know her personally or what?

You can't even read properly, comprehension is also far from you

You sit in the comfort of your 2by2 to call someone you don't know from Adam a harlot, you were too blind not to see where she said she got pregnant months after marriage, your sense didn't tell you that if she actually did away match, she will not bother to do DNA herself because she knows what she did, your sense did not also tell you her case might be a result of wrong DNA results either from her or her husband wherever she did it and the country she resides, we all know the terrible mistakes Nigerian hospitals are capable of

Dumb, judgemental, loose, asswipe that did all sort of nonsense when she was young, now claiming saint who has seen the light because she is now in her 40s.

ObiLamba:
Why is this man always putting on a black attire?
Black stands for evil, death, grief, mourning, the occult.

maasoap:
You are still blaming hunger and bad leaders for being greedy, ignorant and too lazy to invest your money wisely? Zombiedients have been known to lack common sense

1Sharon:
Were you denying her sex at home?

adekolaelect:
Your level of bigot will make you to believe your enemy will come to your region to destroy it without you people approval. Na so you dey blame others for IPOB /ESN destructive activities until your eye was open . At least you always have some one else to blame for your worst as usual . But what I know is that Igbo presidency is sure virtually for your level of preparation towards election . Then you will still blame some else when reality set in.

naijapips04:
Peter Obi has never visited The experience in his life except this year that he is campaigning. Typical Nigerian politician.

The most disgusting thing about this man is that he has no respect for god and only sees the church as a means to attain his personal selfish ambition.

These are the charlatans Jesus chased from the church premises. The church is spiritual and shouldn't be used by politicians for things like this. You will never Muslims do this. No wonder the church is losing respect by the day.

lhordspy:
Hope not to see peter obi as usuall.

We dont want dubious politicians mixing religion with politics for their own unrealistic ambition.

Samantha123:
We also get lonely like them.

They can't neglect us and enjoy someone outside of the marriage, and expect us not to do the same thing.

I'm sure the wife knew about him cheating, and she decided to do the same thing.

mceze:
Not true. It depends on family. My wife is from Imo, I spent less than 200k. I can say that I am very lucky.

drizslim:
All these for her to come to my house and wreck me with undiluted pepper

LogicBomb8:
4 basket of pepper missing

Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

backnbeta:
Even if it's a Nokia 3310, I bought it with my money... however, it was an expensive phone but I've let go and moved on to better things!