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Irupetepete:
I have been batling depression and thoughts of death for sometimes now...
I was trying to do a live sniper drinking show when my neighbor barged in with others, he was quick to see my update and since then, they've been monitoring me..
So many times, we are just overwhelmed and can't deal anymore..

This world is not my home
I'm just a-passing through
My treasures are laid up
Somewhere beyond the blue.
The angels beckon me
From heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home
In this world anymore.

Oh Lord, you know
I have no friend like you
If heaven's not my home
Then Lord what will I do.
The angels beckon me
From heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home
In this world anymore.

I have a loving mother
Just up in Gloryland
And I don't expect to stop
Until I shake her hand.
She's waiting now for me
In heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home
In this world anymore.

Oh Lord, you know
I have no friend like you
If heaven's not my home
Then Lord what will I do.
The angels beckon me
From heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home
In this world anymore.

Just over in Gloryland
We'll live eternally
The saints on every hand
Are shouting victory.
Their songs of sweetest praise
Drift back from heaven's shore
And I can't feel at home
In this world anymore.

Oh Lord, you know
I have no friend like you
If heaven's not my home
Then Lord what will I do.
The angels beckon me
From heaven's open door
And I can't feel at home
In this world anymore...

If you kill yourself, you won't see your mother " up in Glorylannd ". God is the owner of your soul, so you shouldn't take what you can't create. Pray and relay your challenges to God, and depression shall never be your portion in Jesus name.

FreeStuffsNG:
If the questions were not pedestrian, Jibrin Abdulmumin, PhD, won't have ignored his question.
The age of Asiwaju Tinubu is in public domain and Asiwaju Tinubu has already addressed the unnecessary politicization of his right to procure services to get a secured cash to his house as a private citizen. Ruffy should be asking questions on emerging and serious issues that help us know how prepared Asiwaju' s team is for the job. I know a few of such questions but won't state them here but asking a campaign manager for the age of his principal for such important interview is useless and unproductive use of time. Hence, he was ignored on that question.
Those whose only political strategy for winning election is by deploying lies, bigotry and tribal bitterness will lose las las. They always lose but still never learn because their hearts are filled with bitterness.
My appeal goes to the media to be serious minded. Nigerians rely on them to grill the candidates on serious issues of governance.

Please vote for Asiwaju Tinubu. Asiwaju Tinubu is extremely capable and competent to lead Nigeria to greater heights. God bless Nigeria forever.

I can see that you people forget history quickly; so is now that election is by the corner, that you know "deploying lies, bigotry and tribal bitterness " is inappropriate. But that's the strategy your boss adopted before dethroning PDP, so wait patiently for the return match.

vincentjk:
So how did you know all these?

I know the neighborhood and I have a friend resident there; so this is a concrete information.

post=109192767:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/pmnewsnigeria.com/2022/01/08/nasarawa-man-yakubu-beats-wife-to-death/%3famp=1

This world is terrible; don't let material things have a better part of you. As a woman, if your life is in danger, just leave and seek help than remain in perpetual abuse, just because you have contributed more, into building the house. May God console her family.

vincentjk:
Maybe the man has been suspecting that the carpenter has been the one shining his wife's Congo and thereby, making her disrespect him lately.

I think there's more to this story.

The woman actually contributed more than 60% into building the house, and he wants her out but she insists on her rights, so seeing a carpenter work in the house, that she was supposed to leave was provoking to Him. That's what happened...

Righteousness2:
There is no Doubt about the Hour in which we Live, being the Season for the return of JESUS Christ.

Chaos, Uncertainties, Confusion and Disasters growing around the World at record frequencies.

More than Ever! We should be Preparing for the event that will bring about the Climax to Human History.

Folks! JESUS is Coming back again!Prepare! Prepare! Prepare!

Keep it up Brother; the Lord is your strength.

Fr33born:
One account for searching and posting war, Death and disaster news, the other account for commenting and linking it to end time.

If you are really a Christian that you claim to be, better pray to God for wisdom on how to preach the gospel and win souls to him than this rubbish you keep doing on Nairaland, deceiving yourself.

What he's doing, is also part of preaching the gospel please; do your part and stop discouraging Brother " Righteousness" . Note, if you are a Christian, at least you know that,'a house divided against itself can't stand,but will surely crumble' ; so be guided please.

Ikpeyi:
Gov. Ortom,you are also expected to do more for the good people of Benue.

Criticizing Buhari shouldn't be your only achievement for 6years..

Hon. Chukwuemeka Nwajiuba for 2023...

You, what have you done for your people?

ismodiwa:
Innocent people were killed and this all you can say!
We agree the Muslims are out for revenge, and as long as the life of Muslims are threatened, we will make plateau inhabitable for everyone..

You are going to be the looser at the end of the day; no one fights the living God and wins.

lalasticlala:
Afghan Army getting Training from US Army live from Kabul Funny video


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPXwSe4B8dQ

to

No wander they run away.

BafanaBafana:
Though I understand the hate campaign against Fulani tribe in the country, it's still won't do is any good to be tagging crimes to tribes.
If I get robbed by Igbo boys, I shouldn't go about the media shouting igbis have robbed me, neither should I start stopping vehicles to search for Igbos on the road to kill

Say the truth and shame the devil; tell me one single tribe, that have perpetuate killings more than the Fulanis in Nigeria since Buhari assume power. There is no hate campaign against the Fulanis. God is certainly going to judge this bias Government.

Sirjamo:
Attacking innocent travelers is always the consolation for people of plateau state whenever they are grieving.


You left the real killers for innocent travelers, that's cowardice in my opinion.

Next time never support evil; this is a backlash of Government failure and biasness. When there's fairness, equity and justice all this counter killings will vanished.

FarahAideed:
Eko and Ikeja Disco are the worst discos in the whole Nigeria ...they both have PHD is criminal extortion of customers through that fraud called estimated bill and little wonder they don't want to give people meteres

Add Abuja Electricity Distribution Company to (AEDC) to the list. Jos Electricity Distribution Company (JEDC) is far better in terms of meter distribution.

OscarJaden:
I will rather have all this vanities on earth here cus i no even sure if heaven or heal sure for me

You are on your own friend. Nothing compared to eternity, for it's real.

TheRareGem1:
Just like Biden,having an experience of a VP will give you a sense of direction on how to govern a country, you won't have to think of where to go, what to do, you already known what's to be done, hence, this man is fit and capable for this job really.

He's the best option for Nigeria today.

The truth is, the Italians are a more formidable team than Spain in this tournament.

NwaNimo1:
https://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2021/05/18/el-rufai-sacks-nurses-warns-kasu-lecturers-over-strike/

Surely,Evil that men do lives after them;Their innocent generation will pay for it.

RIP great one; may our good Lord comfort the entire family in Jesus name.[color=#000099][/color]

PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?

As long as the act wasn't repeated, and both parties have changed; carry on with the Marriage and sin no more.

Don't give up Brother, expect better days ahead.

NGpatriot:
DJ Swisharound is broadcasting live, dead bodies and massacre everywhere.

We must report this to Canada, to the UN and even America the now unfolding shithole.

Because your relatives were not affected in the end sars palava, so the truth shouldn't be told to the world?

[quote author=NGpatriot post=97796975]DJ Swisharound is broadcasting live, dead bodies and massacre everywhere.

We must report this to Canada, to the UN and even America the now unfolding shithole.



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Arrewa:
Bishop Kukah resides in Sokoto with his entire Family, none of them have been forced or coerced into Islam, none of them have been attacked or mistreated in Sokoto, yet his hatred towards Muslims North makes him restless.

Even the Hausafulan Christians had rejected and disowned him!

Hausafulani Christians have wisen up...

They no longer fall for religious business men!

They now know their real enemies.

The only people celebrating the animal are the ipobs, PDP and some brainless bigots.

The only thing that matters to Arewas right now is development and peace!!

Days of religious intolerance among Arewa Christians and Muslims is gone.

When Arewa Christians or Muslims get killed in any village in the north.
Same people applauding kuka would come online to celebrate.

The Hausa and Fulani Christians can never unite with the enemies of the north just because of religion.

The north reject kuka!!

Northern Christians had already made it clear that kuka is on his own!!

Let him continue entertaining his ipob and PDP audience.

Hausa Christians and Fulani Christians are not Fools.

They stand by their region and their tribes not religion.

Stop the propaganda, lies only bring curse not blessings; we are solidly behind Bishop Kukah, you are on your own here.

Arrewa:
First of all there's nothing like middle belt!

Christian Benue don't represent the whole of North Central.

Nasarawa is 70% Islam with a Muslim governor with an Emir

Niger is 80% muslims with a Muslim governor with an Emir.

Kogi is 60% muslim with a Muslim governor.

Kwara is 60% muslim with a Muslim governor.

The only full Christian state in the north central is Benue state!

Benue is the only Christian state you can carry along with your religious bigotry.

Even the Hausafulani Christians have rejected kuka!!

Kuka can only be supported by ipobs and religious bigots from the south.

Where on earth do you get this fictitious data from? Stop spreading falsehood and face the reality on ground. Lies no matter how much can never never never surpress the truth.

SilverNorGold:
Lol.. Personally, I would prefer President Mohammadu Buhari to go for third term.. But I fear he might not want to, considering the fact that it took the intervention of God, international communities and cries of patriotic Nigerians before he even accepted to contest the 1st and 2nd presidential elections.

However, if that fails, then Professor Osinbajo is the man I'll root for to continue the great works of PMB.. If he too refuses to contest, then Governor Dave Umahi will have my support...

Nigeria will be great as it's already on its way to greatness.

God bless Nigeria.

You are not serious; no sane Nigerian is proud of how this country is been run, and you here fooling us as about third term? Repent Man from this spirit of hypocrisy and bondage.

CallMeDrino:
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www.nairaland.com/attachments/12528092_img20201017100917_jpeged9402dad205fd81c332695a9ef46c5b




https://www.instagram.com/p/CGb9LGADLcC/?igshid=pvk0isysubbl

But my opinion is that, if the documents presented here are true, then we can't castigate her nor her mother, for the crime of the convicted police officer working under Her. My opinion please.

wittyt98:
you're such a clown
why are you fond of using people's predicament to advance your own selfish mission? why not worry about your own soul first? all this nonsense you constantly type on nairaland doesn't guarantee you a slot in heaven yunno? you're not even sure you'll ever see what heaven looks like

you go about mocking people's predicaments in disguise of evangelism and converting souls for a Jesus that couldn't save himself from hammer and several nails. (I'm sorry to say)

but who told u they need Jesus in the first place? what if Muhammad or Buddha was enough for them just like Jesus is enough for you?

how would u feel if u died and a Muslim cleric start using you and your predicament to expand his Jihadist propaganda. using u as example of how your soul will burn for choosing Jesus over Muhammad and how he hopes you gave your life to Allah before you died. just think about it

I'm not saying u shouldnt preach the gospel, but u need to learn how to let people be with their lives and focus on yours bro

Bros, make your comments and stop antagonizing Righteousness89 perpetually via every post. Freedom of speech and the choice of religion is still active in Nigeria. Please leave Him alone, for he's doing the right thing; for what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and loose His soul?

kikero:
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In a way, the information minister is right

Of all African countries, only Sudan (53 naira), Angola 102 naira and Algeria 138 naira are cheaper than Nigeria.
N162..

Our neighbors charge as follows

Ghana: 327 naira
Togo: 298 naira
Benin: 354 naira
Chad: 363 naira
Mali: 470 naira
Senegal : 543 naira
Niger 377 naira
Liberia 255 naira
Lesotho 262 naira
Sierra Leone 276 naira
Namibia 301 naira
Tanzania 304 naira
South Africa 339 naira
Mozambique 347 naira
Guinea 359 naira
Cameroon 441 naira
Ivory coast: 420 naira
Uganda 415 naira
Madagascar: 410 naira
Burkina Faso 427 naira
Burundi 479 naira
Dr Congo 392 naira
Maroc 396 naira
Kenya 377 naira

Also some other countries
Saudi Arabia 164 naira
UAE 188.75 naira
Egypt: 206 naira
Ethiopia 230 naira
Iraq 242 naira
Guyana 290 naira
Swaziland 275 naira
Argentina 311 naira
Jamaica 378 naira
Canada 370 naira
China 394 naira
Turkey 349 naira
Cuba 462 naira
Zimbabwe 430 naira
Brazil 299 naira
Cambodia 324
Mexico 340

And some high ones

Israel 655 naira
Norway 703 naira( Norway is the no 3 oil producing country)
Central African Republic: 771 naira(what?)
Hong Kong 864 naira( I am not moving to that city in my life)
France 617 naira
UK 591 naira.
Poland 466 naira.
India 446 naira

Cheapest
Venezuela 8 naira ( not a lie)
Iran 25 naira(also not a lie)
Qatar 132 naira
Kuwait 132 naira
Kazakhstan 159 naira

Lai for once is not lying.
Source.. the internet.

All prices in naira and per liter as at August 31 2020

What is their various exchange rate to a dollar?, Are they oil producing countries? Was the increase initiated during the COVID-19 era? Stop supporting this Unsympathetic Government. Other countries are alleviating the suffering of their people, while ours is the opposite.

This is scam; the comparism our Government is making is shameful, what is their various exchange rate to a dollar?, Are they oil producing countries? Was the increase initiated during the COVID-19 era? Unsympathetic Government. Other countries are alleviating the suffering of their people, while ours is the opposite.

RichBoy247:
Will El-Rufai die if he does not speak at the Conference? He may even clse down COurts in Kaduna State and Lawyers in Kaduna state will go hungry. Nonsense without Ingredients.

We must learn to stand for the truth in this country. Sha the truth is always bitter; if you like invite even your enemies/unsympathetic people to your family meetings.

caprini1:
I think Channels TV brought the wrong guest on sunrise today,because the expositions the two retired military guys gave ,is more than what Mailaifa was arrested for.

True talk oh; I watched the program, it's probably there greatest mistake for the year.

A soldier serving with the 202 Battalion of the 21 Special Armoured Brigade, Bama, Borno State, has shot dead his adjutant, Lt. Babakaka Ngorgi, for allegedly refusing to give him a travel pass to enable him resolve his inability to access his salary account, which had been frozen for about eight months.

The private, whose identity could not be ascertained, was said to have fired some rounds at the officer, who was making a phone call in front of the unit headquarters on Wednesday.


The killer soldier was immediately taken into custody at the scene of the incident, while the remains of the officer were evacuated to the 7 Division Medical Services and Hospital.

The shooting reportedly threw the officers and men of the 202 Battalion into confusion.

Military sources said the suspected killer’s bank account was frozen by the authorities because he went AWOL (away without official leave) for six months.

He was said to have returned to his unit in Bama and had been pestering the deceased to give him a travel pass so that he could sort out the problem, but Ngorgi reportedly refused to accede to his request.

But the matter took a tragic turn when the soldier went to the deceased’s office and gunned him down.

Ngorgi, according to reports, got married last December.

A source said, “The tragic incident occurred at the 202 Battalion, Bama, when a soldier shot his adjutant. They had a disagreement over an undisclosed issue.

“In addition to that, the adjutant refused to give the soldier a pass to go and solve his problem after eight months without salary and allowances. The soldier had gone AWOL for six months and his account was frozen.

“So, on Wednesday morning, he emptied his magazine of 30 rounds on the officer. The soldier was arrested and handcuffed immediately.”
https://punchng.com/soldier-goes-berserk-kills-senior-officer-over-frozen-salary-account/