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I give him my account number, 20 million or ?

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coogar:
the OP must be infinitely stüpid!
there's no iota of truth in all the heresies he printed up there. matter of fact, 90% of rapë victims know their attackers. they willingly opened the door for him, or they willingly went to his house just before the attack.

all those pointers up there would just guide the ever-gullible women to the true räpists. men mostly involved in sëxual violence don't even talk about it - you don't see them coming. he's quiet, he keeps to himself until he cops the red mist & target his prey.

so that makes me stupid? You cant disagree with me without insults.

Not all parents deserve respect

plaetton:
^^^

NdiliMfumu 54 minutes ago

Corruption infects every aspect of life throughout the African Continent, in particular. So, too, it infects the Churches and the Mosques. Clergymen of all stripes are far more interested in aggrandizing themselves than in helping the poor. But we know this, already, for organized religion lives from the mesmerizing of the poor and the illiterate into giving over their wealth to the clergy, rather than saving it and utilizing it to their own advantage.

What is particularly egregious, though, is the Christian Evangelical practice of "laying on hands" and self-proclaiming one's status as a "prophet". These preachers are merely attempting to make demi-gods of themselves, thereby to suck more money from their congregants and by all available means. Congregants wish to believe in "mystery and magic", that they, too, can be immediately freed of their life's problems, their ill health, their economic misfortune and yet other grievances. They will submit themselves to the "miraculous powers" of such clergymen, trusting in their righteousness. But they will regularly be disappointed and, rather than learn that the clergy have defrauded them, they will apologize for the ineffectiveness of the clergy's incantations by blaming themselves for their loss: "If only I had believed more fervently", they will say to themselves.

No amount of fervor can make a charlatan into a proper clergyman, and no proper clergyman would claim to be a demi-god, capable of miraculous cures by "laying on the hands". That was something which Jesus had laid claim to, and even then, only as a matter of legend. Modern clergy have no business laying such claims, and their congregants would be well-advised to abandon them, as soon as they begin to stake such claims. "

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Dem go du u juju

A man is a potential rapist if…



*.He has ever sexually engaged with any woman while she was underage, drunk, high, physically restrained, unconscious, or subjected to psychological, physical, economic, or emotional coercion.



*.He has blamed a woman for “putting herself in a situation” where she “could be” attacked.


*.
*.He threatens to patronise prostitutes when patner says no to his sex appeal defends .

Defends men accused for rape in court even with glaring evidence


*.He watches pornography in which women are depicted.
*.He watches any pornography in which sexual acts are depicted as a struggle for power or domination, regardless of whether women are present.


*.He characterizes the self-sexualizing behavior of some women, such as wearing make-up or high heels, as evidence of women’s desire to “get” a man.


*.He tells or laughs at jokes involving women being attacked, sexually “hoodwinked,” or sexually harassed.


*.He expresses enjoyment of movies/musicals/TV shows/plays in which women are sexually demeaned or presented as sexual objects


*.He mocks women who complain about sexual attacks, sexual harassment, street cat-calls, media depictions of women, or other forms of sexual objectification.

For every penny he gives you, he indirectly expects girl to pay back in kind

*.He states or implies that women who do not want to have sex with men are “inhibited,” “prudes,” “stuck-up,” “man-haters,” or psychologically ill.



*.He argues that certain male behaviors towards women are “cultural” and therefore not legitimate subjects of feminist attention.


*.He ever subordinates the interests of women in a given population to the interests of the men in that population, or proceeds in discussions as if the interests of the women are the same as the interests of the men.


*.He promotes religious or philosophical views in which a woman’s physical/psychological/emotional/sexual well-being is subordinated to a man’s.


*.He describes female anatomy in terms of penetration, or uses terms referencing the supposed “emptiness” of female anatomy when describing women.e.g calling girls holes.



*.He defends the sexualization or sexual abuse of minor females on the grounds of “consent” or “willingness.”


*.He promotes the idea that women as a class are happier or more fulfilled if they have man, or that they “should” have man.


*.He argues that people (or just “men”) have sexual “needs.”


*.He discusses the “types” of women he finds sexually appealing and/or attempts to demean women by telling them he does not find them sexually appealing.


*.He defends these actions by saying that some women also engage in rape.


Are you guilty of any of these?


Www.tobechispeaks./2014/11/21/identifying-potential-rapist-by-their-words

Coughs

Answer blog

Is virginity is just a state of mind? or most of the time just a word of mouth and people keeps on killing the true essence of it everyday. Let’s digest the real meaning of being virgins, by defining first the term virgin, What isVirginity, we all know that it’s a state of being pure, unsullied, chaste and untouched. It is derived from theLatinvirgo, which means“sexually inexperienced woman”.Are all Virgins, Pure?. How much we can consider a woman, virgin. Let’s not overlook the real meaning of it, it’s not just because the woman/girl hasn’t broke her hymen you’ll still consider her as virgin, it’s a misconception that would be misleading to the fact.



This should not be our basis here, I totally disagree with this standard, this is disgusting and it’s a fraud, for me virgin means pure, untouched, so if the girl had kissed a guy it simply states then that she ain’t virgin anymore it doesn’t matter what kind of kissing it is, as long as there’s kissing, she has been touched already.Virgin is also a sexually inexperienced woman meaning she doesn’t have any experience in sex, if she performed oral and anal, don’t tell me she will still fall to virgin class just because she hadn’t bleed yet for she used another form of penetration?



What a blatant lie? What an insult? it’s so shameful and humiliating for the“real virgins”

this beliefs is such a thrash if we will stick to this one. Do you want to stay fool all the time? Hey wake up, don’t let someone screw you up by this phrase” I’m virgin “. Just remember that“LovePeddler was a virgin once too”Hehe. Next time when you hear about this cliché just get her fact straight,


How virgin are you?mostly this type of woman just wanted to get some attention, she is using this term“virgin”to put herself in a higher level, so that she would stand out from the rest, or she just wanted to be talked about, that’s why she is claiming her lie as a fact, but I cannot alter the true meaning of being a real virgin, for me virgin means totally being pure, well if the world would be creepy ignorant enough to welcome those who had kissed, had done oral or anal sex under virgin category, If this will be the case then I can’t tolerate to seen as one with this junk and bs, this is very hurting and degrading to my morals. It’s senseless and pointless to discuss this matter because no one cares anymore.


But no matter what I cannot just shut up and close my eyes and agree to their wrong perception. I don’t want to belong to their silly crap. For today, real virgin is fading out and being virgin is a just a lie now a days, sooner or later it will totally die out











http://tobechispeaks./2014/11/20/are-today-virgens-really-pure/

avoid ugly girls

u must first convert to a muslim

oyedepo didnt study theology.you cant teach what you dont know

missbronze:
There is nothing bad in it.

For example, I am a Catholic by birth. Redeemed by adult.

and deeper life by marriage....you are confused

a black dude

wearing black top and down

with black specks

at night

must be......?

unless he crammed and poured during exam

i will turn the other cheek so she can slap me again

stop growing

first clas graduates no sabi teach

yoruba bigot ..y was he speechless when obasanjo ruled

“Academic excellence is overrated! Did I just say that? Oh, yeah, I did.
Being top of your class does not necessarily guarantee that you will be at the top of life. You could graduate as the best student in Finance but it doesn’t mean you
will make more money than everybody else. The best graduating Law student does not necessarily become the best lawyer.


The fact is, life requires more than the ability to understand a concept, memorise it and reproduce it in an exam. School rewards people for their memory. Life rewards people for their imagination. School rewards caution, life rewards daring. School hails those who live by the rules. Life exalts those who break the rules and set new ones.
So do I mean people shouldn’t study hard in school? Oh, no, you should. But don’t sacrifice every other thing on the altar of First Class.


Don’t limit yourself to the classroom. Do something practical. Take a leadership position. Start a business and fail. That’s a better
Entrepreneurship 101. Join or start a club. Contest an election and lose. It will teach something Political Science 101 will not teach you. Attend a seminar. Read books outside the scope of your course. Go on missions and win a soul for eternal rewards…
Do something you believe in! Think less of becoming an excellent student but think more of becoming an excellent person. Make the world your classroom.

I am sure you get the drift of what we want to focus on today. Now for the ground rules.


1. Please 'stay in your lane'. Today's topic is focusing on your ethnic identity, not that of other groups. You may make references to other groups only to the extent to which they have directly contributed to your identity.


2. You are allowed to respond to comments from any, and everybody. If you disagree on historical facts etc, by all means, argue about it, but decorously.


3. As much as you can, avoid using the word 'tribe'...that is if you can, but its not cast in stone.

4. Do not insult, denigrate, and/or question the intelligence of any participant, nor insult any group of people. Today, talk about YOUR ethnic group, not about others

TOPIC. THANK YOU. NOW FOR TODAYS TOPIC...
PART I - ETHNIC IDENTITY

1

Which primary ethnic group do you belong to/identify with?


2
What is the primary language/dialect of this group?

3)
Does your ethnic identity matter to you as an individual?

4)How closely 'connected' are you with your ethnic identity? Are you proud of your ancestry

5)

Are you proud of your ancestry?


6) Do you think 'modernization'has 'diluted' your ethnic identity?

7) How do you think your ethnic identity has shaped you an individual e.g. in your attitude to life, family, work, spirituality?

Understandably,discussions revolving around ethnicity is a very touchy subject in nigeria. I would hope that as we begin the series, each contributor will be mindful of the objectives we have set for ourselves, and shall conduct him/herself according. The series will start with 'easy' topics, after which we'll ease into more difficult areas. PLEASE TAKE TIME TO CAREFULLY READ THE GROUND RULES BELOW, AND THE TOPIC FOR EACH SERIES: STICK BY THE RULES, AND STAY ON TOPIC

Good morning my friends,
.
Today, we begin a series of discussions on ethnicity, dubbed "Ethnic Dialogue Submit


The primary objectives for the series are:
1. To provide a platform for nigerians on nairaland to open up on issues of;

(a). Ethnic identity - Origins/history, Pride, Dilution/De-Construction etc

(b). Inter-ethnic relations in Ghana - Fears, Prejudices, Biases etc

(c). Ethnic Politics - Politicization,Positive Mobilization, Misuse/Abuse, etc,

2. To foster inter-ethnic understanding, and hopefully at the end of the series, help build bridges among our many ethnic groups

Most religions care more about how big and wealthy , or how popular theiir religion is.

Others focus on doctrine issues


which religion pays more attention to yhe needy

Thank God