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Education / Re: How Come I've Observed This Only In Nigeria? by tobechi20(m): 12:06am On Jan 12, 2021 |
Marriage na scam 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Just Noticed Something About Nigerian Men's Preferences by tobechi20(m): 11:56pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Human wants vary. A young man wants money. He will marry a woman that can manage money or saves well When he finally gets money, he becomes proud. He wants to show off. He needs a lady others will envy. Either the preety secretary or beautiful lady that speaks well. Polygamy to the rescue https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/04/sex-and-marriage-are-not-government-buissness/ |
Family / Re: I Just Noticed Something About Nigerian Men's Preferences by tobechi20(m): 11:43pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
NextD18:But nigeria men generalise alot and bash women on this forum 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: PLEASE AVOID COURIER PLUS LOGISTIC by tobechi20(m): 11:35pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Exposing thieves is very good 2 Likes |
Education / Re: What Is The Most Intelligent Question A Student Ever Asked You by tobechi20(m): 11:19pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
illicit: He wants to get you a better Job |
Education / Re: What Is The Most Intelligent Question A Student Ever Asked You by tobechi20(m): 11:19pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Tolexander: So Religion has nothing to do with science. . Hmm |
Romance / Re: The Skeleton In My Cupboard: My own type of scam by tobechi20(m): 8:40pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Congratulations |
Romance / Re: How Do I Approach This? Advice Please! by tobechi20(m): 8:36pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Some persons like to keep offline friends away from online friends |
Romance / Re: Do Ladies Find Men With Nice Firm Butts Attractive? Your Thoughts. by tobechi20(m): 8:35pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Women are attracted to words and touch not sight |
Romance / Re: How I Was Saved By The Scripture From Jezebel by tobechi20(m): 8:34pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Congratulations. |
Romance / Re: Is There A Problem Having Two Wives Or Loving Two Women by tobechi20(m): 8:33pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Marriage is an individual choice and not a collective one. The government has no business regulating how I use my genital. It is mine and mine alone. I decide who I choose to get married to . I can decide to share it with a single person or a married person. It is my freedom to choose to be a celibate or be married. While married, I decide with my partner whether to make it open relationship or monogamy. Marriage is not for everyone. There are people who are happier single. I mean those who are do introverted that they cannot tolerate a very long time without feeling drained. There are people who prefer long distance relationship with few visits and frequent absence rather than continued presence. those whose high attention sexual urge cannot be satisfied by any one individual. There are others who dislike the boredom of sticking to one partner scares the hell out of them. Variety is the spice of life.The fun of experimenting with various sizes and types thrills them. There are yet another group whose need for independence and freedom makes them dislike the idea of consulting with another before making decision. There is another group that love to be in motion. They wake up one morning and decide to relocate to another state only to explore another culture the next year. Traveling is their hobby and getting married with kids hinders that . Settling down is like a death trap. Flowing water is cleaner. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes and other microorganism. Human needs are various. the concept of getting married does not fit into their ideal future. They are better off single or in an open relationship. imposing monogamy marriage on them will choke them. Their partner and children would suffer . Cheating is bound to occur. The fact that cheating still exist means we should question the effectiveness of monogamy and possibility of open marriage. Investment experts would advice you never to put all your eggs in one basket to mitigate against risk. Economic expert suggest diversification and not depending on only crude oil. Why don’t we Apply the same analogy to our own emotional life. Risk is mitigated when we stop expecting one person to be our confident, sexual satisfier ,friend, mother of children etc. Can we consider open marriage and celibacy as alternative to monogamy https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/10/to-the-bestie-that-fell-in-love-with-me/ |
Politics / Re: Can You Do This With Nigerian Police? [picture] by tobechi20(m): 3:34am On Jan 07, 2021 |
He is baptising the police officer |
Education / Re: What Is The Most Intelligent Question A Student Ever Asked You by tobechi20(m): 5:10pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
why 1+1=2.?because the answer can be a big 1.he asked me to take a cable and connect to another one and then request me how many cable do you have not I said I have 1cable but big one. He said that the answer of 1+1=2 is false i also realised that 1+2=1000,000 or more Because God created only two people now how many millions we are in this earth? The best answer for this exercise 1+1=2 depends on the context it can be two as we know and something else in another way. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: What Is The Most Intelligent Question A Student Ever Asked You by tobechi20(m): 5:06pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
This happened yesterday: Teaching root words, prefixes and suffixes in grade 2. One of the words was ‘ungrateful’. Once they’d identified which bit was which I gave them synonyms and other words from the root. I showed them ‘gratitude’. One girl, Aiysha, asked, ‘Does ‘gratitude’ mean you have a great attitude?’ I thought it was brilliant 10 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: What Is The Most Intelligent Question A Student Ever Asked You by tobechi20(m): 5:03pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
He asked me why he should believe me. That’s a very good question and although you might assume he knew I was “smart” and “ qualified” it was my belief he was asking after my deeper more moralistic qualifications. This led to a brief discussion of “ consider the source” critical thinking. I liked the opportunity very much. Who was changed by this? I’ve no way of knowing who is ever ready for the insights I present. 3 Likes |
Education / What Is The Most Intelligent Question A Student Ever Asked You by tobechi20(m): 4:49pm On Jan 06, 2021 |
Culled from quora . One student asked a simple question that changed my life: “Sir,” he asked, “why are we learning this crap?” I reminded him about the use of appropriate language, then put down my chalk and walked to the back of the room. I looked at the drawings I had so carefully crafted and for the life of me, I could not think of one reason why these students should be learning this topic (even though it was in the curriculum). I responded, “well, you might need this if you take chemistry in university” but none of were happy with this reply. After school, I puzzled more about curriculum topics in science—why are students learning this or that? I felt that I should know the answer to this question 4 Likes |
Education / Re: "A Stitch In Time Saves Nine" How Many Of U Understand This Proverb by tobechi20(m): 2:56am On Jan 06, 2021 |
When you sow that small tear tear cloth under your ampit. It will not widen and you will save your self nine more stiches 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: What Will You Do If The DNA Result Shows You Ain't Your Father's Child? by tobechi20(m): 2:54am On Jan 06, 2021 |
It is a previledge to have two dads. |
Education / Re: ASUU Threatens ‘fresh Strike Action’ by tobechi20(m): 2:47am On Jan 06, 2021 |
FG cannot be trusted |
Politics / Re: Nnamdi Kanu Blocked From Facebook As Radio Biafra London Gets Kicked Out by tobechi20(m): 12:50pm On Jan 02, 2021 |
Lies 1 Like |
Education / Re: LASU: What is the problem with Nigeria? by tobechi20(m): 3:18am On Jan 02, 2021 |
Advert |
Politics / Re: Customs Northern Nigeria Muslims Must Abolish by tobechi20(m): 3:07am On Jan 02, 2021 |
Be specific.FULANI MUSLIM 1 Like |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Stopped Attending Catholic Churches In Nigeria Because ... by tobechi20(m): 3:05am On Jan 02, 2021 |
She is a humanist like Mubarak Bala who was arrested for blacksphemy Religion stains whatever it touches. Religion has caused division among senior advocate of Nigeria. Ignoring the problem of religion in this country never manages to push the problem away. Ignoring the problem often compounds the problem until it grows into a mountain . . An average Christian wishes everyone is a Christian. An average Muslim wishes everyone becomes a Muslim. Each tries to project his desire to the other. Whenever a Muslim is in power, Christians fear he is on a mission to islamise the country. Whenever a Christian becomes president, Muslims fear the same.This fear makes it difficult for them to cooperate amicably . Christian trust Christian leaders, Muslims trust Muslim leaders. Our education system is fueling this saperation. From primary school, children learn mathematics, English language, Basic science and other languages together. But when it comes to religious studies, Christians are divided from Muslims. This continues until the child finishes secondary school. The school saperates the children as kids and expect them to miraculously work together as adults. The academia should develop a general religious knowledge curriculum. At an early age, children ought to be introduced to all form of religion outside the religion of their parents. A growing child should have basic knowledge of Christianity, Islam, African Traditional Religion, Buddhism etc. Limiting him to one knowledge alone create a narrow mind and makes him difficult to tolerate and work with another Religion for which he never knew existed. When we delve into other belief, we become intrigued by the similarities. We become more accepting . Christian should not wish everyone were a Christian. If everyone thinks alike, the world would be bored. God created us different for a reason . Muslim should wish every Christian develop a greater understanding and acceptance of Islam while remaining firmly within their own Religion. https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/08/the-rise-of-religious-rebels-in-the-north/ 245 Likes 23 Shares |
Romance / Re: Drinking Bottle Water Vs Sachet Water. by tobechi20(m): 2:54am On Jan 02, 2021 |
Onendude camebto sell a water purifier system , he told us table water is less pure.he testedvit with one device that look.loke thermometer |
Romance / Re: Do I Look Better As A Petite Woman Or As A Chubby Sized Lady by tobechi20(m): 2:50am On Jan 02, 2021 |
You look beautiful. |
Celebrities / Re: I Wrote, Produced Aye For Davido – Runtown by tobechi20(m): 11:21am On Jan 01, 2021 |
If you both made an agreement in secret, why tell the world today. If you had sang the song, it wouldn't sell. No one will meet him again for songs since you will still write and tell. No integrity DavidOo has the cash to pay TV station to play it over and over again. He can buy YouTube views. Every upcoming musician has a pattern. Timaya had a pattern. Wizkid has a pattern .David Oo has no . He buys songs from numerous persons then dings them and market them. His songs did not make him a famous singer, his money did. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Dear 1993,1994, 1995...1999 It Time To Move Out Of Parents House! by tobechi20(m): 11:09am On Jan 01, 2021 |
This kond of pressure creates thieves, armedrubbers and yahoo |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Will You Do Differently In 2021? by tobechi20(m): 10:48am On Jan 01, 2021 |
Weed buisness will be lucrative |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Bitter Lessons Has Life Thought You About Friends by tobechi20(m): 10:46am On Jan 01, 2021 |
Friends leave when you are of no benefit again |
Family / Re: BE SINCERE If You’re Offered $1million To Slap Your Two Parents,will You Accept? by tobechi20(m): 6:36pm On Dec 30, 2020 |
I will tell my parents first, negotiatiate fifty percent deal with them after the slap |
Family / Re: The Married Man's Delimma.. by tobechi20(m): 6:32pm On Dec 30, 2020 |
Marriage is a scam |
Family / Re: How Feminism Will Help Men, Women, The Future Family And Nation by tobechi20(m): 6:30pm On Dec 30, 2020 |
You cannot be a feminist and be Religious. Focus on Religion, feminism will follow |
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