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Politics / Re: African Countries With Most Educated Population by tobechi20(m): 2:12am On Dec 09, 2020 |
If Biafra and Oduduwa were countries , they could have would have been number one |
Politics / Re: Buhari Cancels Scheduled Appearance Before House Of Reps by tobechi20(m): 2:10am On Dec 09, 2020 |
He did not take clearance from Army...maybe 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Politics / Re: Notice How Western Media Will Display Dead Africans With No Respect? by tobechi20(m): 2:09am On Dec 09, 2020 |
No African leader has complained for once |
Politics / Re: Man Pay Truck Pusher To Help Him From Flood Water In Abia by tobechi20(m): 4:03pm On Nov 30, 2020 |
Omo see sence 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What do you do when you do not like your partner parents by tobechi20(m): 8:01pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: ... by tobechi20(m): 4:34pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Intelligence diffees from wisdom |
Romance / What do you do when you do not like your partner parents by tobechi20(m): 1:18pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Typically a genuine life story I would like to share in a different way. Your partner is goal oriented and emotionally stable. He neither smokes nor drinks and he speaks slowly picking his words carefully in attempt not to use a hurtful word. Each time he struggles to talk about his family. He was quick to change the subject like they never existed. I could sense he is not comfortable whenever I insisted on paying them a visit. Finally, he agrees to take you home. You are nervous whether they will like you amour not. His own anxiety was thrice yours. Looking forward for the slightest reason to cancel the journey. He sees you were insisting on going. Finally,you arrive the place and noticed five persons packed in a little cubicle. You perceived an awful smell from the small apartment. His younger brother greeted you holding a wrap of wrapped weed in his hand. That should have been a signal but you overlooked it. Then you noticed their tone in speaking. The father yelling at the mum “Go bring an extra cup”. He gets angry over little or nothing and has no regard for his wife in public. You ask how your partner was as a child, each person used the opportunity to list their little achievement. They were competing for attention To say that I was shocked was an understatement. Your partner could see the shock in your eyes and tried to remedy the situation only to get a thunderous. His mum presented a keg of local alcoholic wine but he gently told her that I do not drink. She fumed with dissapintment like one whose marriage proposal was rejected. “Can’t you do something right for once’? This time, it was his mum yelling at him for using a fork to eat the EBA. She was trying to project her anger somewhere else.The household find it difficult to cope with rejection. He gently dropped the cutlery and used his hands in an attempt not to worsen an already terrible day. After what looks like hours, you finally take your leave earlier than imagined. You are glad you finally left. You are curious how your partner manages to turn out different from his family members. How he grew up in a difficult, destructive family to a productive compassionate young man. You love your partner nevertheless buy you know you cannot take his family as your family. You would never like to spend an hour near them again. They would drain your energy. You are willing to proceed with the marriage plans If he promises never to get them involved in your marital life physically or otherwise. Is that practical? |
Family / A Wonderful Partner From A Toxic Family by tobechi20(m): 10:46am On Nov 28, 2020 |
This is a true life story but. I would make it look imaginat Your partner is kind, respectful, goal oriented and emotionally stable. Each time he finds it difficult to talk about his family like they were dead. He was quick to change the topic . You could sence he is not comfortable talking about them. Finally, he agrees to take you home. You are nervous whether they will like you amor not. His own anxiety was thrice yours. Looking forward for slightest reason to cancel the journey. He sees you were insisting on going . Finally ,you arrive the place and noticed five persons packed in a little cubicle. You perceived an awful smell from the small apartment. His younger brother greeted you holding a wrap of wrapped weed in his hand. That should have been a signal but you overlooked it Then you noticed their tone in speaking. The father yelling at the mum "Go bring an extra cup". He gets angry over little or nothing and has no regard for his wife in public. You ask how your partner was as a child , each person used the opportunity to list their littoe achievement. They were competing for attention To say that I was shocked was an understatement. Your partner could see the shock in your eyes and tried to remedy the situation only to get a thunderous "Can't you do something right for once'? This time,it was his mum yelling at him for using fork to eat the eba He gentle dropped the cutlery and used his hands in an attempt not to worsen an already terrible day After what looks like hours, you finally take your leave earlier than imagined. You are glad you finally left. You are curious how your partner manages to turn out different from his family members. How he grew up in a difficult, destructive family to a productive compassionate young man. You love your partner nevertheless buy you know you cannot take his family as your family. You would never like to spend an hour near them again. They would drain your energy. You are willing to proceed with the marriage plans If he promises never to get them involved in your marital life physically or otherwise. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: The Family Is The Root Cause Of The Decadence Among Youths. True Or False? by tobechi20(m): 8:24pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
You are correct. In another development, where one or both parents are toxic, staying at home will affect child negatively |
Celebrities / Re: Neo Throws Party To Celebrate Ozo's Deal With Juventus (Video) by tobechi20(m): 7:58pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Good |
Romance / Re: Lady Makes A Shocking Announcement That She Is A Professional D*ck Svcker by tobechi20(m): 7:40pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
She has discovered her talent |
Romance / Re: Why Do Ladies Av Dis Mentality? by tobechi20(m): 7:39pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Tell her you have no interest in wooing her. If you count the number of people who woo her daily,you will understand |
Romance / Re: Most Men Lives Are Messed Up Because They Married For Breast & Yansh. Blessing O by tobechi20(m): 7:31pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Making sense Why are men so obsessed with boobs? Scientist has it that we desire what we lack. Men crave for boobs because men lack one. We do not crave for eyes or nose . We have them . Men are curious in nature. They want to know what is that that makes her chest bigger. As man desires to explore, women wear bra to cover them. Covering boobs with bra makes it impossible to be seen. This is like a resistance. Men love challenges. By covering then, men are challenged to see them the more. This makes men want to see them more. The act of covering bra creates more boobs desire in men. While sane men use subtle legal approaches to uncover them, others use force to see them. https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/13/october-13-no-bra-day/ |
Romance / Re: D Danger When A Girl Is Expose To Sex Too Early. by tobechi20(m): 7:31pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Parents should educate the girl child on sex 1 Like |
Politics / Re: #EndSARS: CNN Clarifies Its Tweet About ''38'' Nigerians Killed by tobechi20(m): 3:38pm On Nov 27, 2020 |
Neddyogu: The same way I do not need an evidence to proove that people died. There are men who sleep with their teenage daughters and erase all evidence. Difficult to proove in court but It happens |
Crime / Re: Five Men Inscribe '50K' On Teenager After Raping Her In Enugu by tobechi20(m): 4:11am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Is that the bride price or debt she owed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Youths In Ghana Give Energy Drink To Thief So They Can Beat Him Again by tobechi20(m): 4:11am On Nov 27, 2020 |
We care for you enough not to let you die But to be alive to receive more beating |
Crime / Re: If Dr. Onyema Ogbuagbu Were Still In Nigeria, He Would Have Been Treating Malari by tobechi20(m): 4:09am On Nov 27, 2020 |
His father was a former VC and professor. He would be working in CBN |
Crime / Re: Man Hangs Self In Kano by tobechi20(m): 4:05am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Sad |
Crime / Re: Nigeria Ranked 3rd Most Terrorized Country In The World by tobechi20(m): 4:05am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Most especially northern nigeria |
Politics / Re: I Am Interested In The Economics Of Sports”- Soludo by tobechi20(m): 4:02am On Nov 27, 2020 |
If Ifeanyi Ubah says this ,I will believe.you don't even have a sport jersey shop. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Australian 'war Crimes': Troops To Be Fired Over Afghan Killings by tobechi20(m): 4:01am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Here, soldier are gods |
Crime / Re: Lady Caught In CCTV Stealing 200k Worth Of Hair From Shop in Abuja by tobechi20(m): 4:00am On Nov 27, 2020 |
writetopoker2: Person go Sue you for slander |
Politics / Re: BREAKING!!! Another Umahi’s Appointee Refuses To Join APC, Resigns! by tobechi20(m): 3:56am On Nov 27, 2020 |
His Religion does not accept APC |
Politics / Re: Throwback:Nigeria Problem Is Not Money, But How To Spend It- Gowon by tobechi20(m): 3:56am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Lah Mohammed said It was a lie and if he was in government then. The way we are quick to deny |
Politics / Re: BREAKING: President Buhari Increases Police Salary by tobechi20(m): 3:53am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Money is not the problem m greed and power are the major problems |
Politics / Re: Throwback Video Of Bola Tinubu's First Day As Governor Of Lagos State by tobechi20(m): 3:52am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Congratulations |
Politics / Re: The power of people in your circle. by tobechi20(m): 3:51am On Nov 27, 2020 |
Kudos, keep it up 1 Like |
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