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If Biafra and Oduduwa were countries , they could have would have been number one

He did not take clearance from Army...maybe

No African leader has complained for once

Omo see sence

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Intelligence diffees from wisdom

Typically a genuine life story I would like to share in a different way.

Your partner is goal oriented and emotionally stable. He neither smokes nor drinks and he speaks slowly picking his words carefully in attempt not to use a hurtful word. Each time he struggles to talk about his family. He was quick to change the subject like they never existed. I could sense he is not comfortable whenever I insisted on paying them a visit.

Finally, he agrees to take you home. You are nervous whether they will like you amour not. His own anxiety was thrice yours. Looking forward for the slightest reason to cancel the journey. He sees you were insisting on going. Finally,you arrive the place and noticed five persons packed in a little cubicle. You perceived an awful smell from the small apartment. His younger brother greeted you holding a wrap of wrapped weed in his hand. That should have been a signal but you overlooked it.

Then you noticed their tone in speaking. The father yelling at the mum “Go bring an extra cup”. He gets angry over little or nothing and has no regard for his wife in public. You ask how your partner was as a child, each person used the opportunity to list their little achievement. They were competing for attention
To say that I was shocked was an understatement. Your partner could see the shock in your eyes and tried to remedy the situation only to get a thunderous.

His mum presented a keg of local alcoholic wine but he gently told her that I do not drink. She fumed with dissapintment like one whose marriage proposal was rejected.
“Can’t you do something right for once’?
This time, it was his mum yelling at him for using a fork to eat the EBA. She was trying to project her anger somewhere else.The household find it difficult to cope with rejection.
He gently dropped the cutlery and used his hands in an attempt not to worsen an already terrible day.

After what looks like hours, you finally take your leave earlier than imagined.
You are glad you finally left. You are curious how your partner manages to turn out different from his family members. How he grew up in a difficult, destructive family to a productive compassionate young man. You love your partner nevertheless buy you know you cannot take his family as your family. You would never like to spend an hour near them again. They would drain your energy. You are willing to proceed with the marriage plans If he promises never to get them involved in your marital life physically or otherwise. Is that practical?

This is a true life story but. I would make it look imaginat

Your partner is kind, respectful, goal oriented and emotionally stable. Each time he finds it difficult to talk about his family like they were dead. He was quick to change the topic . You could sence he is not comfortable talking about them.

Finally, he agrees to take you home. You are nervous whether they will like you amor not. His own anxiety was thrice yours. Looking forward for slightest reason to cancel the journey. He sees you were insisting on going . Finally ,you arrive the place and noticed five persons packed in a little cubicle. You perceived an awful smell from the small apartment. His younger brother greeted you holding a wrap of wrapped weed in his hand. That should have been a signal but you overlooked it

Then you noticed their tone in speaking. The father yelling at the mum "Go bring an extra cup". He gets angry over little or nothing and has no regard for his wife in public. You ask how your partner was as a child , each person used the opportunity to list their littoe achievement. They were competing for attention
To say that I was shocked was an understatement. Your partner could see the shock in your eyes and tried to remedy the situation only to get a thunderous
"Can't you do something right for once'?
This time,it was his mum yelling at him for using fork to eat the eba
He gentle dropped the cutlery and used his hands in an attempt not to worsen an already terrible day

After what looks like hours, you finally take your leave earlier than imagined.
You are glad you finally left. You are curious how your partner manages to turn out different from his family members. How he grew up in a difficult, destructive family to a productive compassionate young man. You love your partner nevertheless buy you know you cannot take his family as your family. You would never like to spend an hour near them again. They would drain your energy. You are willing to proceed with the marriage plans If he promises never to get them involved in your marital life physically or otherwise.

You are correct. In another development, where one or both parents are toxic, staying at home will affect child negatively

Good

She has discovered her talent

Tell her you have no interest in wooing her. If you count the number of people who woo her daily,you will understand

Making sense
Why are men so obsessed with boobs? Scientist has it that we desire what we lack. Men crave for boobs because men lack one. We do not crave for eyes or nose . We have them . Men are curious in nature. They want to know what is that that makes her chest bigger. As man desires to explore, women wear bra to cover them. Covering boobs with bra makes it impossible to be seen. This is like a resistance. Men love challenges. By covering then, men are challenged to see them the more. This makes men want to see them more. The act of covering bra creates more boobs desire in men. While sane men use subtle legal approaches to uncover them, others use force to see them.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/13/october-13-no-bra-day/

Parents should educate the girl child on sex

Neddyogu:
Nothing orderly and beautiful ever existed out of random chance. Even a work of art needs an intelligent Craftsman to design and u think something as complex as biological systems don't need an intelligent creator just cos u can't see him? I believe u know the clothes u are wearing now was designed by someone. Would you say that designer doesn't exist simply because you don't know him or see him. Man was made in God's image and u are surrounded by 7billion specimens of his craftsmanship. Need more evidence?

The same way I do not need an evidence to proove that people died. There are men who sleep with their teenage daughters and erase all evidence. Difficult to proove in court but It happens

Is that the bride price or debt she owed

We care for you enough not to let you die

But to be alive to receive more beating

His father was a former VC and professor.

He would be working in CBN

Sad

Most especially northern nigeria

If Ifeanyi Ubah says this ,I will believe.you don't even have a sport jersey shop.

Here, soldier are gods

writetopoker2:
I think I know that woman, yea her face looks familiar.

Her name is Mr. Fumilayo Abiodun from Lagos state.

Person go Sue you for slander

His Religion does not accept APC

Lah Mohammed said It was a lie and if he was in government then. The way we are quick to deny

Money is not the problem m greed and power are the major problems

Congratulations

Kudos, keep it up