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DontBullshitMe:
Promiscuity and gullibility are the main reasons for single motherhood.

I have no pity for them.

What of the. Bokoharam children kidnapped that were raped. Are they gullible or promiscuous

True

Only ALPH a girl will do this


Alpha male will never agree

I am curious about this intersex thing.though I have heard of haemaphrodite.

You are buying fake weed.
Your weed has no nafdac number

They are happier than our grandma

You want someone to submit to your wish. Alpha Female

Find a dominant partner

Sarah grew up in a society that trains women to be Simps. She should never look a man in the eye and must bow down after every conversation with him as a sign of respect. A young girl is a property owned by her husband. She could be summoned to entertain his guest however he deems fit. He can transfer his ownership to the highest bidder. He decides what she wears. . No one considered her opinion. . She is to be obeyed instructions given by the husband or father whether she agrees with them or not. She does all the housework and assist in the farm. A woman should never ask her husband to help her in the kitchen. . She is not good enough to be the leader of the clan. In essence, the society groomed beta women. These women do not take any decision. These women relied on their man to take the decision. She is a good girl only when she suppresses her feelings and submits to the traditional gender roles. Marriage is the reward for obedience. She learns to love guys that give commands. Such shy and submissive women admire Men who have proven to be confident and good decision takers. Stupid girls love Alpha guys.

The introduction of education into the society changed everything. Schools treat boys and girls as equal. Schools select the prefect based on academic performance. There were no gender based prejudice. Male and female clear the grass. Guys and girls sweep the floor. She speaks during assembly. She looks at guys in the eyes and talk. She completes her tertiary institution and gets employed. She graduates from a Simp to a beta woman. Experience has taught her that hardwork leads to promotion ., she gets promoted to a managerial position. She delegates some of the task to junior workers. Her duties involves cooperating with other head of departments to achieve a certain goal. She is sent to represent the organization in multimillion naira deals. She learns to be assertive, aggressive, dominant. She graduates to an alpha female.


Men are becoming more egilateral and less brutal
Professional achievement did not correlate with relationship success. Many men avoided her like a plague. Only the confident once are bold enough to approach her. The relationship hit it up at first but soon she noticed hitches. She loves to be the center of attention. He desires the same. He speaks more and listens less. She wants someone to listen to her. She is used to giving instruction and not one to obey blindly like the simp girls do. He wants to be the boss , to have the power, to make the decision . Both are involved in power struggle. Her previous four relationship ended for similar reasons. She got to undergo total transformation to make her relationship work.


Guys and leadership style
It is her birthday and her boyfriend did not call her. She is pissed off and goes to his office unannounced to yell at him. She meets him in a passionate kiss with his secretary. She tries not to cry.

She is in pain and looks for a shoulder to lean on. She remembers her beta friend. She hurries to her plays and breaks down in tears immediately he opened the door. With him, she is not ashamed to break down and shed tears when necessary He comforts her and listens patiently as she pours her heart. She didn’t know when she dozed off. She woke up and found herself in his bedroom. It is midnight, late to drive back home This is not the first time she would pass the night in his apartment. On each occasion, he would lie on the couch. He never touched her. She felt safe around him. Her exes would have attempted to sleep with her despite her mood. Maybe he did not find her sexually appealing she thought. She went to the couch and found him working on his laptop. There was her pics as his wallpaper. She inquired why and he opened up his feelings towards her. He had wanted to ask her out for a long time, but he was afraid she might not only reject him, but she might end the entire friendship since he was not in the same class as he was. The latter was a risk too big to take. He brought out a letter he had written to her expressing his intention to the next level. He lacked the courage to do so. This was before she met her last ex. She was speechless. That day marked the beginning of sexual friendship.


Alpha and Beta male
Sm What he lacked in aggression, he made up with attentiveness. He spends a high amount of time touching her slowly in an attempt to build the urge in her until she could not resist. Her previous Alpha exes who assumed they know what she needed in bed. Her beta friend was humble enough to ask her what her sexual cravings were. He understood that each girl is unique and has various need. He cuddles her after releasing, and they discussed how it went before they both clean up. . She does not feel used.

He knows all her sexual fantasies and deepest secret. He had been there for during her last five heart breaks. He had never forgotten her birthday. He knows her more than he knows herself. She has poured all her heart to him. He had never hit her . She could be Moody and provocative attimes, yet he never disrespected her. He sees her as an equal. He is a democratic husband. Alpha husband’s give out orders like a soldier. He would make an ideal father ;one the kids could trust and not one to be feared.

They have been involved in this sexual friendship for over two years now. She has learned from experience that Alpha Male is not suitable for her. With a beta male, she does not have to pretend to be who she is not in other to fit into the traditional wife role. He let her be herself .She considers marrying her best friend. But that could come at a cost. His laid back approach makes it difficult for him to get ahead in his professional life. She knew she would be the one handling the major part of thebill if she were to maintain her status. It would be wise to bend low to his status. A little price she is willing to pay. She had to close the deal now or risk loosing him out forever to another client.

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She got the wedding ring and asked for his hands in marriage. They are happily married.


We can infer that Alpha women date their fellow Alphas but end up settling down with a non-Alpha. Alpha guys propose to beta women. Alpha women propose to beta guys. She has learnt to discard the traditional notion that women marry higher up. Such union is ticking time bomb waiting to explode . The competition for power and dominance is second to none . The world is changing in gender roles and Alpha male are yet to realise that. Men must not be the bread winner. Men must not confront situation outrightly. Certain problems require careful thoughtful dialogue

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/20/girls-propose-to-this-kind-of-guy/

Is shekau responsibile

Now
Arsenal
In
Relegation
Ambition

ASUU ,NOW YOUR STRIKE CONTINUE.
Many students want the strike to end but do not want to go back to school the same way we do not want to die but want to make heaven.
We do not like school. We pursue certificate.

Why do student dislike schooling?

Many years ago, people gathered to share their ugly academic experience. In the midst of their discussion, some said

” All thermodynamics lecturers are wicked”

So many people nodded in aggrement. I mean people from various tertiary institution studying chemistry,physics, and all form of engineering. My own thermodynamics lecturer was given an alliance of a popular terrorist. It was as if all the thermodynamics teachers had a meeting and took an oath of wickedness. This got me thinking .

” does subject create terrible teachers ?” That is

Will a good teacher suddenly turn terrible simple because he is assigned to teach a particular course ?”

I examined the course in question and realized the subject itself are difficult to understand. Mathematics for example is dreaded by student. These students manage to learn enough to graduate and forget a large amount of what Is learnt immediately after graduation. Because of the unemployment problem in the country, these students find themselves as teachers and lecturers and are asked to teach the subject they once hated. The hatred for the subject resurfaces coupled with the fact that they do not know much. As a teacher,they have to maintain the illusion that they know. They do this by putting up a wicked looking face to scare students from asking much question so as not to expose their incompetence.

Secondly, some subjects are difficult to teach. Some phenomenon can be explained best using computer stimulated teaching aids which are unavailable in most academic institution. It takes a genius teacher to use an a better concept to relate the subject to the student interest for better comprehension.

But terrible teaching is not just a function of subject. Teachers personality. have a role to play. Highly Temperamental teachers make terrible teachers.impatient teachers do not give students enough opportunity to make mistake. They expect students to get it right at first attempt and would rush the scheme of work despite student slow comprehension ability. People who do not enjoy being around children make terrible teachers.

Becoming a better teachet requires a great deal of effort to know and understand the subject more,and be willing to change bones behavior in the classroom.


https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/01/making-mathematics-more-interesting-and-practical-to-students/

Envy + selfishness is the other of the day. We want our friend to be a little bit lower than us. Whenever we have a chance to help lift them higher, we back out.

I have seen foreigners who pick up unknown strangers and link them up to better condition .But in Nigeria, our orientation will never allow us.
The only person we can send link abroad is our son. Every other person must pay us.

This mindset is mostly from the south.Highly competitive region.

A friend once asked me to pay connection fee so he can link me up to a senior police officer when I got Involved in a thrival case. He wants to cash out from my predicament. .This is someone that we I normally help in emergency situation. . I gradually withdrew from the friendship.

What makes one a friend if you cannot help lift me up.

The world is becoming more logical and less emotional.
Everybody dey crack brain.

Fake a suicide scare. Write a letter expressing how you feel and put it where they would see them with a sniper close by.

Are you willing to improve

Did you see the part that non abias cannot be the head of university in Abia.

Igbos are not united

Instead of giving injection, the school wants you to produce remote control injection

You never get the medicine admission self.

Go Russia

Chibok international School

AASU national exco have no right to call off strike

11!/3!4!

Curie246:
Thanks but the job prospects is high for welding engineer

What is your first degree?
Do you intend pursuing career in lecturing?

Curie246:
Hi beautiful people please I need your advice,

I got admission at Cranfield university for Msc welding. Engineering and also Msc in Nuclear and Environmental Physics at university of Glasglow.

Please I don’t know which school to accept.

Choose nuclear , bokoharam will employ you to make bomb for them

I sure dey ba woman get this kind handwriting. If you go school wey Dem dey dictate note, your handwriting go dey fast.

donbachi:
Fg will soon proscribe ASUU..just wait and see.

Another protest await them.

The nation can survive without cow. Many eat food without cow. Here we value cow over education. A 7yr old fulani guy controlling twenty cows when his mate is in Rwanda schooling

I remember when UNN VC made it compulsory for all students to have laptop. Someone reported him to national assembly.

Freestainworld:
Which of the country do you want to cry for? Uganda is even more dictatorial than Nigeria, our economy is better than theirs, the president of Uganda have been on power for more than 30yrs if am not mistaken, cry more for Uganda.

Compare nigeria to smaller countries to show your point. Don't think big. Think dnalk

Aonkuuse:
What is here to be crying? Olodo. Did you care to check how Nigeria was booming economically when it was agricultural driven economy until the discovery of oil You will only see the cow on the note because your tribalism won't allow you to see other agricultural products.

What has education given to us rather than training lazy bigots like you who buy data to come online and say rubbish you have no idea of just because you can read and write.

So farm product is valuable than education.

How much is cow contributing to national income.

hollah123:
did they wash away their blood too?.

It is possible.

May be that was where they met.

Who knows, she may meet a minister there

We want youth. Old things shall pass away

Army is yet to give him clearance