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Politics / Re: This Punch Newspapper Cartoon Is Very Funny by tobechi74: 4:26pm On Jan 19, 2021 |
Funny |
Education / Re: What Is The English Name For This ? by tobechi74: 3:39am On Jan 19, 2021 |
Pyramid if Egypt ���� |
Politics / Re: CAN This is A Christian Member Of Boko Haram by tobechi74: 3:38am On Jan 19, 2021 |
Investigative journalism |
Celebrities / Re: Nigerians React, Call For DNA As Man Compares Semblance With Actor Kanayo by tobechi74: 3:37am On Jan 19, 2021 |
Someone says onasanjo look like a baboon. Should he do DBA test too? |
Romance / Re: From Whatsapp To Lovers, See How A Guy Won A Lady's Heart In A 31-Minutes Chat by tobechi74: 3:35am On Jan 19, 2021 |
A girl asking what did you have to offer in the relationship? The guy should be the one to ask that 2 Likes |
Education / Re: Kaduna Schools To Remain Closed Till Further Notice - State Governmet by tobechi74: 3:23am On Jan 19, 2021 |
Does this include ABU Zaria 1 Like |
Education / Re: Have You Seen This Animal Before, What's It Called by tobechi74: 3:22am On Jan 19, 2021 |
God created them wonderfully and fearfully |
Romance / Re: Ladies: Have You Ended A Relationship Before Because Of Penis Size? by tobechi74: 1:45pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
This one is strong 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Don't You Want To Have A Girlfriend Again? by tobechi74: 1:43pm On Jan 18, 2021 |
Achieve your goals first |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Govt Caught Buying "Free Software" For N1.6bil by tobechi74: 4:25am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Money is siphoned but Dem must claim tlit is used for something else 1 Like |
Politics / Re: FG To Build Six New Prisons Across The Country (see Locations) by tobechi74: 1:17am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Most of us are prisoners. Jailed by the society While we focus on external freedom like geographic freedom, financial freedom,and political freedom we neglect a fundamental freedin- mental freedom. …. Mental freedom is freedom from society conditioning, society expectation and need for approval. It is the detachment of oneself from society labels. It is the recognition that one is not ones gender. One is not ones tribe.One are not ones religion .These are roles assigned to us while we are young. They were neccesary at that time when we lacked the ability to think. Now we have a choice to examine them and not carry them through adulthood. Mental freedom begins by excersicing control over ones emotion. Ones emotion does not dictate what one does. Frequent outburst over little triggers signals one who is a slave to his anger. Theft and corrupt practices are signs of a slave to emotion of desire and greed. Whatever controls your emotion controls you. Men who are unable to cry in public for fear of being labelled a weakling are in gender bondage.He cages those tears,act tough ,engage in drinking and smoking and other maladaptive act to suppress those emotion. A free person would choose to let the tears flow. Women who abandon their career to cater for kids out of duty as a woman and not out of love and personal choice is a slave to traditional gender roles. https://tobechispeaks./2020/10/10/world-mental-health-day-are-we-mentally-free/ |
Romance / Re: Is This Love? by tobechi74: 1:15am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Confession |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girl Lose Interest In Me? by tobechi74: 1:14am On Jan 18, 2021 |
If you were a girl, will you date yourself 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: OMG: This Guy Mistakenly Broke His Girlfriend's Arm! (PICTURES & VIDEO) by tobechi74: 1:13am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Women no strong be dat? |
Religion / Re: Evidence That Atheist Are Peaceful In Nigeria by tobechi74: 8:15am On Jan 17, 2021 |
matrix199: Atheist society are representing the 13yr old dude who blasphem. He may not be an atheist though, but atheist Hired lawyersare representing him in court. You Religious holy group are silent. Atheist are pressing international body to pressure Govt to release Bala since your president has a reputation of neglecting court order. Atheist are using nonviolent legal means |
Religion / Re: Evidence That Atheist Are Peaceful In Nigeria by tobechi74: 8:10am On Jan 17, 2021 |
Image123: So a God cannot slap them in their closet. What an omnipresent And powerful God. A God that could not slap bandits. Hmm 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Evidence That Atheist Are Peaceful In Nigeria by tobechi74: 8:08am On Jan 17, 2021 |
DuBLINGreenb: Ask Google |
Religion / Re: The Truth About Sexuality by tobechi74: 8:04am On Jan 17, 2021 |
What about intersex, those haemaphrodite with both male and female genitals . Are they created in God image. Is it confusion 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Villagers Flock To Worship 5-Legged Mutant Cow In Thailand (Pictures) by tobechi74: 8:01am On Jan 17, 2021 |
Good 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Why Did You Stop Going To Church? by tobechi74: 8:00am On Jan 17, 2021 |
Covid,19 |
Crime / Re: Kano Kids Rescued From The South Say Their Peers Avoid Them by tobechi74: 7:27am On Jan 17, 2021 |
That is what Happens when we give birth to excess childrenn that we cannot train and turn them to beggars. South to the rescue Orphans in the south go to school. Now these ones will not go to school. Each time I look at every record released by any national agency, I notice a huge discrepancy between the core north and the south. Southern states top the literacy chart, number of successful WAEC candidate, number of jamb candidate, number of yearly graduates, etc. An outsider would believe the north are marginalized by other regions. This is not true. Our educational standard has been reduced to encourage the northerners to consider going to school. A pupil from that region needs to score fifty marks to get admitted into unity school whereas his counterpart in the south needs to struggle for a hundred and fifty marks. They are simply marked as educational disadvantaged state. I wonder how long they would continue to get pampered. Goodluck Jonathan initiated a free education system yet the same people massively voted him out. If he had done the same to the south, he would have been immortalized. I do not believe that God created them with a deformed brain incapable of assimilating the Western concept. The likes of Sanusi Lamido Sanusi and Nasir El Rufai is a proof that great brains can come out from the region. It seems there is a conspiracy not to educate the masses. The way the almajiri free education system died quickly is an evidence that the elites do not want her people educated. Education is dangerous to the political structure. An educated person can see beyond the deception of the elite. Western education is dangerous to the religious practice. Western education encourage curiosity and doubt. The elite prefers to control the thought of its citizen. They want them to read only books they approve of. Books that makes it easier for the citizen to comply to their directive. It is a sin to read non approved books. They may open your eyes to the Ill of the controller. To prevent this, they give you only Religion education. When Emir (Dr) Sanusi admonished his people against giving birth to numerous children beyond their ability to feed, there was an uproar. His ideas were against the status quo. He was exposing his fellow elite. Today, Emir Sanusi is no longer a traditional ruler. ,The Elite will g at iany length to shut the truth. The current Governor of Kano state,the man who dethroned Emir Dr Sanusi was quoted to have admitted that bokoharam recruit Almajiri boys into it’s fold. Educated persons understand that an increase in population would result to a struggle for limited resources. . In the western world, more children means more tax. Barack Obama had only two children. Good luck Jonathan had less than four children. A northern senator boasted of thirteen children. The Elites encourage them to continue to give birth to more children. God will take care of them. Those who are so poor that they could not afford to finance a wedding need not worry, the government used a public fund to sponsor their mass wedding. The leaders are not interested in educated people or a well-trained offspring. The leaders want more population to win votes. Poor people are interested in their stomach. They would do anything you ask them to do. They are easily recruited as hoodlums to snatch ballot boxes and commit other hoodlum. He may be told to drive into a park and press a button. He may be told that is what God wants him to do. He doesn’t know it is a bomb. A hungry, uneducated man is easier to deceive. In other words, they are advocate of pro birth, pro death and pro suffering. Religion is an easy tool to achieve their aim https://tobechispeaks./2021/01/04/left-and-right-thinkers/ 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Religion / Re: 3 Lessons To Learn From Mary And Martha by tobechi74: 7:13am On Jan 17, 2021 |
A father is busy in office Makin money for family Another father spend time with family and I'd poor. The second father will be loved by family 7 Likes |
Religion / Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by tobechi74: 7:12am On Jan 17, 2021 |
What’s Wrong With Sex? Is there anything wrong with two people coming together and just having sex — for fun — without first having an emotionally intimate relationship (assuming safe sex is practiced of course)? I was raised to believe the answer to this is yes, that there is something wrong with it. As a sophomore in high school, I had to write a school paper on why premarital sex was wrong. I did the assignment and regurgitated what I needed to get an A. Privately I had doubts about what I was taught. And of course I went ahead and had premarital sex anyway, which turned out to be a lot of fun with no guilt or regret. Looking back, I think I would have preferred to get an F on that assignment and had more fun instead. Your sexual orientation does not define you Today I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for fun, as long as it’s done safely and consensually. I think those who feel that sex is wrong, dirty, or immoral are terribly repressed. I’ve never met a genuinely happy person that felt this way about sex. Perhaps if such people just got laid more often, they wouldn’t be so grumpy. Prerequisites for Sex What prerequisites do we actually need to engage in sex? A willing partner is really all that’s required. If you have a willing partner, you can have sex. Serious rocket science here, eh? Just to be clear, let’s assume your body and your partner’s body are physically capable of having sex as well. All other rules, constraints, and requirements arise from social conditioning and are therefore unnecessary. You don’t need to be married or in a committed relationship. You don’t need to be dating. You don’t need to be in love. You don’t need an opposite-sex partner. You don’t need to be exclusive with your partner. Your partner doesn’t need to be exclusive with you. You don’t need to be programmed in multiple techniques. You don’t even need to have met the other person first. All you need is consent. Technically speaking, even your partner’s consent is a socially conditioned prerequisite, but I think it’s one we should maintain. The alternative is illegal, unethical, and hurtful. We can certainly enjoy sex without resorting to rape. Acting out your kinky fantasies, on the other hand, can still be completely consensual. How many extra rules do you have in your head about what’s required for you to have sex above and beyond the most basic? https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/ 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Tiktoker Claims Married Nigerian Women Are Top Cheaters In The World (video) by tobechi74: 7:04am On Jan 17, 2021 |
Unverified statistics |
Family / Re: How I Stop Greeting The Elderly People Especially Women Irrespective On Age by tobechi74: 7:04am On Jan 17, 2021 |
How much does greeting add to ones bank account |
Education / Re: Meet the woman who had the Noble peace prize stolen from Her by tobechi74: 7:00am On Jan 17, 2021 |
She is not veryvfamous |
Education / Re: Mechanical Or Mechatronics Engineering? by tobechi74: 6:59am On Jan 17, 2021 |
No foreign university will reject you for having a first degree in mechatronics. It is not stated in their entry requirements because only few university offer the program in first degree |
Education / Re: Reps Oppose School Resumption, Propose Three-Month Postponement by tobechi74: 6:50am On Jan 17, 2021 |
73 Likes 6 Shares |
Religion / Re: Stingy Men Association: What The Bible Says by tobechi74: 6:45am On Jan 17, 2021 |
But the Bible advises women to be stingy with their puunny until marriage Men too should be stingy until marriage https://tobechispeaks./2021/01/13/our-village-people-are-not-heartless/ 79 Likes 4 Shares |
Religion / Re: Japanese Town Worships Giant Gorilla In Desperate Bid To Scare Off Coronavirus by tobechi74: 6:45am On Jan 17, 2021 |
They for mold virus na God of covid 19 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Crime / Re: How A Friend Lost a fake Child by tobechi74: 6:44am On Jan 17, 2021 |
You tried for not adding DNA to the fake story |
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