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Crime / Re: N2m Credit Alert Sends Ilorin Driver To Prison by tobechi74: 5:41am On Jan 22, 2021
Whoose fault
Foreign Affairs / Re: Twin Bombs Explode In Iraqi Capital. Many Feared Dead. by tobechi74: 5:41am On Jan 22, 2021
Nobody should blame Trump ooooo
Education / Re: My OND Result Without Any Expo by tobechi74: 5:40am On Jan 22, 2021
Because you did well, you wan show us abi

Where is your Waec result

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Crime / Re: Willie Amadi Leaked Sex Video: Court Jails Mastermind by tobechi74: 5:39am On Jan 22, 2021
Sex sex sex..why the obsession

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Politics / Re: Police Constable, Serving Soldier Arrested For Armed Robbery In Ondo (Photo) by tobechi74: 5:38am On Jan 22, 2021
Security robbing us

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Politics / Re: Please If You're A Traveler Avoid Ibarapa Axis by tobechi74: 5:34am On Jan 22, 2021
Evidence or
Romance / Re: She Took My Man And Still Fired Me, I Want To Expose Her Pls Advise Me by tobechi74: 5:32am On Jan 22, 2021
The man too will soon fire you
Romance / Re: . by tobechi74: 5:31am On Jan 22, 2021
You enjoyed the fling. Congratulations
Romance / Re: Do Olosho's Have Retirement Plans ? by tobechi74: 3:15pm On Jan 21, 2021
One girl I know is sells self- made soap in the day time and does olosho work at night since she have to diversify our income.
Olosho is her retirement
Education / Re: FUTA Is Frustrating Me!! by tobechi74: 3:08pm On Jan 21, 2021
MuhMubRaj:
I sent my transcript from unilorin to ui since last November e still never reach, like say the transcript dey waka go ui I believe say e go soon reach e destination. Just be patient
Even if na camel, e suppose don reach by now

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Education / Re: New Retirement Age For Teachers Approved By FEC by tobechi74: 1:48am On Jan 21, 2021
Sad
Romance / Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:43am On Jan 21, 2021
VanDerWaalforces:
Greetings to you my brother! Trust you had a good day? I'm not here to judge or condemn any of you; I've only come to state clearly that what both of you did is a taboo and forbidden in any sane society, most especially in an African Traditional Society. The unholy relationship between you and the other lady is distasteful and should be condemned by every well meaning individual. The fact that non of you had shown remorse about this dispicable act still beats my imagination. I had expected you to tell us how this is one of the mistakes you've made in the past and how you wish never to go that way again, but that wasn't the case. I will strongly advice you tow the path of repentance and restitution and never go back to your old ways. "What you would not have others do to you, do not do likewise to them"; I have only spoken to you as a friend and a brother. You may think about it.
You are not here to judge but that is what you just did.
Her husband is not satisfying her in bed and she is depressed of sex starvation. Rather than commit suicide, she tried to cope by looking outside.

What If the husband knew he was not capable her his it from her in under the disguise of virgin till marriage as you churcheous people do..?

How should a wife satisfy her self sexually? Oua answer

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Education / Re: Kidnappers In Police Uniform Abduct Lagos University VC by tobechi74: 1:34am On Jan 21, 2021
Is this true
Romance / Re: Pleae Help What Type Of Breast Shape Is This? (video And Picture) by tobechi74: 1:33am On Jan 21, 2021
Intersessory angle

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Romance / Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 2:22pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
I will tag the OP of that thread and a few other contributors.
Adulteressss
Pierocash, Hathor5, Imalma1, Graxie, LadySarah, Takotsubo, Adukpe19, Ladylite, FruitCakes, Kuns84, bukatyne, VanDerWaalforces, Liposure, JOACHINpedro, Ubunja, Vyolet

I was the second person she had an affair with. I'm just wondering why she decided to come here and chronicle her memoirs. So far, she has been truthful. Just that she left out a few details... Including the fact that we met here on Nairaland a couple of years ago.

She also has another moniker here like someone rightly pointed out on that thread. It took a while for me to figure it out and connect the dots. I had been wondering how she could've quit Nairaland when she deleted the account she was using after she broke up with me.

Anyway Auntie Adulteressss, congratulations on getting to your number 7 man now. I knew you were moving on to another man when you quit and never because you wanted to go and fix your marriage like you told me your mum advised you to do. How come you refused to tell your readers our relationship wasn't all about the sex?

Anyway for those that might want to know, the lady in question is an extremely beautiful woman, quite young at the time we met and very intelligent too. She operates on a frequency higher than where most of her age mates would naturally be. There's no man that wouldn't want to wife her. She's a complete package.

I won't disclose any personal details here but I will take any questions as regards the character and person of our philandering heroine and the relationship I had with her.

You're all welcome!

This is the link to her original thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/6372936/re-coping-impotent-husband-journey#98245510

I only read the first page of her story but so read yours up til third page. I can arrive at this conclusions (I might be wrong)

1) She is well far smarter than you. She has a very high Intelligent quotent

2);she is also a very emotional girl . It is rare to find a girl with that Combination. She must be a melancholic-sanguine. Google the meaning

3) reading her post, she used to be a good girl. Yes,she was honest to tell you of her marital status from the beginning. Many women would not do that

4) she was both emotionally and sexually starved. She needed an ear to listen to and you were there for her. You were her friend, she poured all her heart to you. No player does that.

5) she is(was) not one to sleep with a stranger without feeling something for the person. She was trying to control her emotion all along until the seventh month, she could not resist the urge. She fell in love with you

6) For a girl to divorce a guy is harder than you can ever imagine. She also has feelings for her husband. The fact that her husband had seen her messages makes it worse. The stigma of a good girl labelled a divorcee or is hard for her. Until society learns to respect a failed marriage.

7) As one gets involved in the act, her emotion are disconnected from them. She was in love with you yes .but the frequent guys she slept with,she did not love them as much as she loved you. As an intelligent girl, she learnt to disconnect her emotional involvement from next guys. That was what she meant by it was a sex thing. She used her present feeling towards the latter guys to summarize all other guys. That was her error. Women do this attimes. A woman may happily allow a guy to have sex with her yesterdayonly to accuse the guy of raping her tomorrow because she now regrets it.

6) she wrote the story not to diss you or tell the world how much she used guys.No, she said that because she has first hand experience on what can make a good girl turn bad. So society will understanding that no one wakes up morning and decides to commit adultery.
Your story confirms the fact that she never really wanted to do so initially ,like must cheats out there.
After listening to her story, I had great respect for her. It takes great courage to tell the world your story because you feel someone might benefit from it. You on the other hand decides to share a story so as to get back at her or for other personal reasons.

She respects you so highly that she would not subject her to argue with you publicly. Once she had feelings for someone,it lasts for a long-time despite the person shortcomings. That is applicable to both you and her husband and the few others she truely loved before bthe sex.

7) she has sexual needs. She got to get them satisfied. If not for the seven of you, she might have done something worse like commit suicide. Congratulations,you saved a life

cool If her husband had died somehow naturally, she might have considered you. But I doubt that would happen after this outburst

She got my resp

Meanwhile,you need to update your IQ on women . I suggest you read this article to help you

https://tobechispeaks./2021/01/11/the-beauty-of-divorce/

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Romance / Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:41pm On Jan 20, 2021
BlackMamba69:


Ride on boss.
Please reveal her main account or at least give us a clue. I'm dying to know!! cheesy
If you do this, she will reveal you identity. Someone hinted you are a moderator. The news will make headlights.
Nairaland Moderator Involved in sex scandal.
Things will get worse never do this
Romance / Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:36pm On Jan 20, 2021
thebosstrevor1:


Why are you so proud of being number 2?

How does it feel to be used and dumped like a tool? For Godsake you are a Guy ooh.

Wait aminute? dumped!
Were you expecting her to promote you to a husband overnight? Or you wanted to continue to be the side dude?
She made it in the first post that she left when she discovered the other person wanted more
Romance / Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:27pm On Jan 20, 2021
DilatedPeoples:
Read well. I was number 2 and I stated that clearly
You even know there was a number one before you.
It seems she confided in you very well and told you things no girl would tell another.
She was really emotionally and sexually starved and you were a good friend.

Did she really say anything In the first thread that annoyed you enough to open a counter thread

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Romance / Re: Re: Coping With An Impotent Husband And My Journey Into Adultery by tobechi74: 1:22pm On Jan 20, 2021
HarunaWest:

Thread when don derail tey tey....You are a simp period...When you can't get over a b***, you are a simp, when you can't get over a pum pum, you are a simp, when you can't get over been used and discarded, you are a simp, when you eugolize a hoe, you are a simp....You tick all the boxes SIMP

You don't know the meaning of simp

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Family / Re: How Do You Feel When Your Wife Suddenly Starts Looking Older Than You? by tobechi74: 3:08am On Jan 20, 2021
You are not inserting (enough sperm ) life inside her

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Romance / Re: This Is Not Photo Shop by tobechi74: 3:06am On Jan 20, 2021
Strong breeze no dey blow for this side abi
Romance / Re: Scissoring After Sex by tobechi74: 3:03am On Jan 20, 2021
You mean, they should insert scissors inside the em,em,em
Health / Re: COVID-19: Nigeria Lacks Space To Store Pfizer Vaccine, Says NIMR by tobechi74: 2:59am On Jan 20, 2021
His temperature is enough to store it
Celebrities / Re: Woman Kneels Down In Tears, Curses Lady Who Snatched Her Husband From Her by tobechi74: 2:51am On Jan 20, 2021
What if it was her character that chased people away

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Education / Re: The Cheapest Private Universities In Nigeria 2021 [TOP 10 BEST] by tobechi74: 2:50am On Jan 20, 2021
No private uni in the north?
Education / Re: NOUN Virtual Convocation: Graduands To Pay N15K For Gown by tobechi74: 2:49am On Jan 20, 2021
So the gown department will not make money abi

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Education / Re: 6 Reasons Why I Decided To Study In Cotonou Benin Republic by tobechi74: 2:45am On Jan 20, 2021
Any school in West Africa apart from Ghana and Nigeria should be scrutinized well. Even Nigeria law school reject them.they are not accreditedd in their own country

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Romance / Re: This Guy Has Seriously Disrespected This Woman, See Illegal Packing!! by tobechi74: 2:34am On Jan 20, 2021
He pressed the chest until it got inside and came out in the stomach
Romance / Re: "If My Husband Tears My Expensive Lingerie, He Will Pay For It" - Twitter Lady by tobechi74: 2:31am On Jan 20, 2021
Who will buy it for her in the first place?

Definitely a guy,
Romance / Re: These Tinder Girls Are Something Else! by tobechi74: 2:30am On Jan 20, 2021
Social media is best way for girls to carry out prostitution without being caught at the roadside until govt legalise it


https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/25/any-hope-for-the-LovePeddler/

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