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Romance › Re: Ladies Beaten By Guys They Took Transportation Money From And Never Showed Up by tobechi74: 9:39am On Nov 05, 2020
Evidence to be used to jail them
Romance › Re: Woman Left In Shock After Meeting Her US Based Husband-to-be For The First Time by tobechi74: 9:39am On Nov 05, 2020
Looks like movie clip
Nairaland General › Re: The Last Person You Blocked On Social Media Committed What Offence? by tobechi74: 9:37am On Nov 05, 2020
Do guys block people
Romance › Re: Igbo Couple Use 'Ukwa' Sauce To Make Their Wedding Cake (Photos) by tobechi74: 9:36am On Nov 05, 2020
Hardship breeds creativity
Romance › Re: Is It Normal To Divorce Because You Have Outgrown Your Partner ?r by tobechi74(op): 8:44am On Nov 05, 2020
baralatie:
like I said you attitude speaks only of absolute use and dump marriage phenomenon!
We should not just bail out of every relationship. We should be sure that the reason for unfulfimment in the union does not arises out of faults. Rather, we discover we no longer derive Joy in activitiess we used to . One partner has encountered a change in Religion and we cannot tolerate that .We feel lonely in the presence of our partner and alive in the presence of another without any reason . We should examine ourself to know whether we are in the union out of fear or out of love. Are we scared of what people we say when I leave? Am I scared of loosing certain previledges? We cannot truely grow in an environment of fear
Romance › Re: Is It Normal To Divorce Because You Have Outgrown Your Partner ?r by tobechi74(op): 6:35am On Nov 05, 2020
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Romance › Re: Is It Normal To Divorce Because You Have Outgrown Your Partner ?r by tobechi74(op): 12:19am On Nov 05, 2020
baralatie:
the golden speaks a lot of how insensitive you are when it comes to love and marriage.
wow!
The best relationship is the relationship where each promise to tell the truth even when it hurts. Cheating arises when one begins to hide the truth because our partner may not be able to handle it. Not all relationship are meant to last forever. Some relationship are meant to propel us to a greater height. Some relationship brings out hidden potential in us we never new existed. Another relationship improves on that potential. No monogamous relationship is a failure. Each has one lesson to teach us. It takes wisdom to know when a relationship has served its purpose and move into a new one.
Romance › Re: Is It Normal To Divorce Because You Have Outgrown Your Partner ?r by tobechi74(op): 9:41pm On Nov 04, 2020
fati2001:
NO.
Whenever one wants to be with the other person.we let them embark on the journey.We communicate our feeling openly and arrive at a mutual agreement of divorce than to live in denial with all it’s lies and betrayal. A monogamous relationship does not necessarily mean we own our partner.It is not a life sentence. It is a process for growth. Letting go can become a gain rather than a loss when it leads us to our higher self.we can still retain the friendship while taking time to grow . Sticking to a union that does not lead to a higher growth can be detrimental to our wellbeing
Romance › Re: Is It Normal To Divorce Because You Have Outgrown Your Partner ?r by tobechi74(op): 9:40pm On Nov 04, 2020
magkhan:
It’s not a norm but it’s not a taboo. But your focus should be on your personal happiness. If you are no longer happy in the relationship or marriage then take a walk.

P.S You are supposed to grow together. If you say ‘bored’ that’s more understandable.
A partner is one who embark on a similar journey with us. As our priority changes, that of our partner may remain the same or change in a different direction. One partner is taking a leap in one direction and the other partner is watching while giving her full support . There are other relationship where the other partner discourage you from keeping up to your new ideal.you no longer feel connected. You become incompatible . Just because you are in a union does not mean you must follow our partner as he/ she changes her priorities
Romance › Is It Normal To Divorce Because You Have Outgrown Your Partner ?r by tobechi74(op):
Just as a child graduates from high school into college, his priorities shift. The courses he takes become more narrow. He drops some classmates behind and retain few classmates who share the same college preference and same course. We do not go remain in high school out of loyalty to our friends.


As we age, our values, hobbies job etc changes. This is a sign of growth.one whose priority remain constant is stagnant like a child who fails to learn . Our choice of life partner also change.
Family › Re: When divorce is encouraged by tobechi74(op): 8:50pm On Nov 04, 2020
We feel guilty for cheating on our partner. This cheating arises because we do not totally tell our partner what is happening with the other person A committed relationship involves honest and humble individual who understand that their partner could fall out of love with activities and people one used to be with . When such happens, one absorbs the partner of blame knowing fully well that change is part of nature . Feelings are not always predictable. We may feel hungry at odd time.we may be happy one minute and sad the next minute for no apparent reason. We should feel acknowledge our feeling and express them to our partner . To get attracted to someone else beside our partner is not a taboo. When the partner understand that we are matured enough to emphasize with them as they express their pleasant feelings and experience with a new colleague without feeling jealous or judgemental, She/he would be more willing to open up her heart to you. This communication can make us understand our partner more,lead to greater intimacy and makes the other person feel safe and secure.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Military Put #endsars Leaders On No-fly List- Immigration by tobechi74: 6:15pm On Nov 04, 2020
You do not fight violence with violence
Family › Re: When divorce is encouraged by tobechi74(op): 2:26pm On Nov 04, 2020
partner is one who embark on a similar journey with us. As our priority changes, that of our partner may remain the same or change in a different direction. One partner is taking a leap in one direction and the other partner is watching while giving her full support . There are other relationship where the other partner discourage you from keeping up to your new ideal.you no longer feel connected. You become incompatible . Just because you are in a union does not mean you must follow our partner as he/ she changes her priorities
Family › Re: When divorce is encouraged by tobechi74(op): 2:26am On Nov 04, 2020
Just as a child graduates from high school into college, his priorities shift. The courses he takes become more narrow. He drops some classmates behind and retain few classmates who share the same college preference and same course. We do not go remain in high school out of loyalty to our friends.


As we age, our values, hobbies job etc changes. This is a sign of growth.one whose priority remain constant is stagnant like a child who fails to learn . Our choice of life partner also change.
Politics › Re: I'm Contesting for the post of Councillor by tobechi74: 2:22am On Nov 04, 2020
mcdokwe:
The best place to change the course of a game is on the play field.


I'm contesting for the position of councillor in Umuhu ward in Umuahia, Abia state. Please show support.
How old are you? Are you a youth
Politics › Re: INEC Begins Signature Collection For Mojisola Alli Macaulay Recall by tobechi74: 2:20am On Nov 04, 2020
wizzyrich:
Pete Edochie, I hear you sir
from proverb to poetry
Politics › Re: Anti-France Protest Erupts In Abuja As Shiites Burn Country's Flag (Photos) by tobechi74: 2:12am On Nov 04, 2020
Can Muslim Shiite do this in China
Family › When divorce is encouraged by tobechi74(op):
Have you ever heard of a saperation where partners were happy during the process and remained wonderful friends afterwards
Romance › Re: What Is The Best Rumors You Have Heard About Yourself by tobechi74: 8:34pm On Nov 02, 2020
Any guy that has no time for a guy is a gay. Rumors spread by girls
Christianity Etc › Re: Onitsha Church On A Prayer Walk For Trump (Pictures & Video) by tobechi74: 2:49pm On Nov 01, 2020
As long as you claim to be a Christian, your sins are forgiven
Romance › Re: Who Has Tried Jelqing Before? by tobechi74: 9:22am On Nov 01, 2020
TheGenius001:
Well you're right, you should have no shadow hanging over you especially when you know you have a good tool and you can use it properly. This implies that a girl will leave you for some other reasons other than sex.
There is more to life than girl and sex . If she leaves me,many fish plenty for water. Jini big deal
Romance › Re: How Do You Rewrite Your Life by tobechi74: 9:04am On Nov 01, 2020
Yahksbiz:
(from a friend)
I am 28 still in university, I want to start a fresh life.
please people who struggle against all odd and made it through should help.
it is becoming harder.... all I do is to listen to music, watch films and browse while my time is going.
I want to kt how to rewrite my life. school is locked and the hope is clouded
my age is going up and my time is coming down. but I believe my have some time so I want to write my life. I had a strong believe that education was my only hope but seeing how things are going I need to rewrite it.

ask me any questions I promise to provide answer in due time.

thank for your help.

SALAMAN KUFA
. whatever you do, think about how it affects humanity
Romance › Re: Who Has Tried Jelqing Before? by tobechi74: 9:03am On Nov 01, 2020
All forcsex
Christianity Etc › Re: BBC- Controversial Religious Practice Known As “pleasure Marriage” by tobechi74: 8:26am On Nov 01, 2020
Take this to Islamic section
Christianity Etc › Re: There Is Nothing Like 'Safe Sex' For Children by tobechi74: 8:20am On Nov 01, 2020
Have sex when you have responsibility
Christianity Etc › Re: The Bible Is Fiction: A Collection Of Evidence by tobechi74: 8:14am On Nov 01, 2020
Seeker of truth
Christianity Etc › Re: Organized Christianity by tobechi74: 8:12am On Nov 01, 2020
Anything organise is prone to abuse
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Is It Easier For Men To Be Humble Before Their Fellow Men Than Before God? by tobechi74: 8:11am On Nov 01, 2020
Bible asked us to be kind to our neighbors whom we see before our God we do not see w
Christianity Etc › Re: The Name Of The Holy Ghost? by tobechi74: 8:09am On Nov 01, 2020
That is what you get⊂((・▽・))⊃ when founders remove woman from Trinity.
Father mother and son
Christianity Etc › Re: The Core Essence Of A Christian Lies On 5 Kinds Of ‘F’- Rev’d Tony Akinyemi by tobechi74: 8:07am On Nov 01, 2020
No morals
Christianity Etc › Re: The Most Embarrassing Moment You've Experienced In Church by tobechi74: 8:06am On Nov 01, 2020
When I was seen putting #5 as offertory

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