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Romance › Re: Why Do Most Men Drink Alomo Bitter Before Sleeping With A Lady by tobechi74: 11:38pm On Oct 28, 2020
Many women kinky taste very bitter.
Do you take a bitter drink to avoid knowing the difference
Romance › Re: What Changes Would You Like To Be Made On Nairaland? by tobechi74: 11:35pm On Oct 28, 2020
tnerro1:
Since we have a like button, why can’t we have an unlike button?
Hate button
Romance › Re: Jacob Odulate, The Man Who Invented Alabukun Powder Over 100 Years Ago by tobechi74: 8:43am On Oct 27, 2020
Yoruba man with an Igbo brain
Politics › Re: Vulcanizer Boss Force Apprentice Boy To Work Under Rain While He Takes Cover by tobechi74: 12:25am On Oct 27, 2020
In elders it is training and discipline

To youth, he is Sars
To foreigners, it is child abuse
Crime › Re: Buratai – ‘I Am Not Worried Of Visa Ban, I Will Remain In Nigeria’ by tobechi74: 12:24am On Oct 27, 2020
Why are we hyping America
Romance › Ladies, How Will You React To This Proposal From Your Guy? by tobechi74(op): 12:23am On Oct 27, 2020
There is something I have been wanting to tell you but do not have the courage to look you in the face . I guess the best way to go about is through the pen .

The first time I set my eyes on you, I fell in love with you. I never believed in love at first sight until I met you. We have been dating for sometime now.

I brought out my lovable side, my strength to you so I could win your love in return.  In the process, I hid my weaknesses from you.   you do not know the real me . I am scared you would flee if I do reveal my true self.  Our relationship is getting serious and it gladdens my heart. At the same time,I feel true friends deserve to be authentic to each other. Morever, I may not be able to conceal my less appealing side any longer.

If you are expecting an ideal partner, I am afraid you got the wrong guy. I will not always be the one to dry your tears. Yes I would hurt you but It would never be out of malice but oversight and ego.I would make you cry attimes.you should take me as I am not asyou desire me to be.

I may look  always self sufficient and  confident, underneath, I I am insecured. I have learnt to conceal my true feeling like a man. I have this ability to sweet talk you and promise you heaven in other to make you feel better or get you to do something for me. I may not be able to deliver.

I am working on myself to be a better person. I will try to make you happy by trial and error . I  need your feedback to tell me how you desire to be loved as I may not be able to read your mind.

Never expect me to apologise to you in public . I got my ego to protect but I will always achnowledge my wrong while I am alone with you.

Attached are the phone number of my former partners. You may contact them for more information about me. Review my history and decide with your eyes wide open before we take a step forward. I will not disappoint you if you know me as a falliable person. I would be extremely glad knowing you would accept my flaws and fault. I would not hold it against you should you decide to call it off though. I expect your feedback in two weeks time.

How would you respond to this letter?

A) take the phone number, ask questions

B) end the relationship, this one na weak man

C) accept. Your past no concern me.
Romance › Re: Wud U Still Wnt 2 Make It 2 Heaven If U Found Out Sex Is Allowed In Hell? by tobechi74: 7:26pm On Oct 26, 2020
BadRadio:
The only thing u will be doing in heaven is to sing songs of praise from morning to night !grin
Is it not boring
Crime › Re: Since The Banning Of SARS By Federal Govt – Have You Seen Any On The Road? by tobechi74: 7:17pm On Oct 26, 2020
What you saw is RRS
Family › Re: Hypocrisy And Nigerian Self-styled OPEN MARRIAGES. by tobechi74:
Family › Re: Most Family Don't Know Why Hospital Bills Are Very Expensive And How To Pay Less by tobechi74: 5:43pm On Oct 26, 2020
Tactical advert
Family › Re: The Hate For Single Moms by tobechi74:
Some women hate the stress husband give. It is choice

Marriage is not for everyone. There are people who are happier single. I mean those who are do introverted that they cannot tolerate a very long time without feeling drained. There are people who prefer long distance relationship with few visits and frequent absence rather than continued presence.  those whose high attention sexual urge cannot be satisfied by any one individual. There are others who dislike the boredom of sticking to one  partner scares the hell out of them. Variety is the spice of life.The fun of experimenting with various sizes and  types thrills them. There are yet another group whose need for independence and freedom makes them dislike the idea of  consulting with another before making decision.  There is another group that  love to be in motion. They wake up one morning and decide to relocate to another state only to explore another culture the next year. Traveling is their hobby and getting married with kids hinders that . Settling down is like a death trap. Flowing water is cleaner. Stagnant water attracts mosquitoes and other microorganism.

Human needs are various. the concept of getting married does not fit into their ideal future. They are better off single or in an open relationship. imposing  monogamy marriage on them will choke them. Their partner and children would suffer . Cheating is bound to occur. The fact that cheating still exist means we should question the effectiveness of monogamy and possibility of open marriag

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/04/sex-and-marriage-are-not-government-buissness/
Family › Re: Married To A Jehovah's Witness? by tobechi74: 5:42pm On Oct 26, 2020
Husband don finish for your area.? Marry someone with similar thinking like you
Family › Re: What Is The Weirdest Thing You Did To Rip Off Your Parents? by tobechi74: 5:41pm On Oct 26, 2020
Dad's truck us most
Politics › Re: Policeman Caught On Video Carting Away A Bag Of From Abuja Palliative Warehouse by tobechi74: 11:33am On Oct 26, 2020
Police self need parliative
Politics › Re: #EndSARS: Aisha Yesufu Reacts To Death Threats by tobechi74: 11:31am On Oct 26, 2020
She is 46, not a youth. Yet join youth protest. She get mind
Politics › Re: Nigeria Governors Forum Speaks On Hoarding Palliatives by tobechi74: 11:29am On Oct 26, 2020
Big grammar
Romance › Re: So Romance Is Dead... by tobechi74: 12:24am On Oct 26, 2020
Take it abroad
Romance › Re: See The Actual Truthful Reason Is Difficult To Stay With One Partner by tobechi74: 12:23am On Oct 26, 2020
Christianity Etc › Re: Why Muslim Must Be Calm Before Acting. by tobechi74: 10:05pm On Oct 24, 2020
Killing an infidel. Me, I go ask questions taya
Christianity Etc › Re: Natural Law And Homosexuality. by tobechi74:
Homosexuality is biological. God did not make a mistake creating one

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.
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https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/04/sex-and-marriage-are-not-government-buissness/
Christianity Etc › Re: As A Catholic, Do You Agree With Pope Francis' Position To Legalize Gal Marriage by tobechi74: 10:00pm On Oct 24, 2020
As a Catholic, would you remain a Catholic should pope legalize gay wedding inside the church
Crime › Re: Watch The Heartbreaking Video Of The Girl Who Lost Her Boyfriend To The Lekki Sh by tobechi74: 1:41pm On Oct 24, 2020
Sad
Crime › Re: Police Shoot To Disperse Citizens Trying To Bust Abuja Palliative Warehouse. by tobechi74: 1:40pm On Oct 24, 2020
Not good
Crime › Re: Lady Shows Off The Expensive Drinks, Others, They Looted From The Mall In Ilorin by tobechi74: 1:39pm On Oct 24, 2020
This can be used as evidence against her
Politics › Re: #End SARS: Buhari Reveals Regret Over Not Working With Ex-ig Of Police, Arase by tobechi74: 1:32pm On Oct 24, 2020
You were removing all Jona structure na
Politics › Re: #endsars Protests: Okorocha Urges Nigerian Leaders To Sacrifice 70% Income To Pa by tobechi74: 1:31pm On Oct 24, 2020
Let him lead
Politics › Re: Emotional Moment Thugs Distribute Palliative Loot To Beggars by tobechi74: 1:17pm On Oct 24, 2020
Noo single individual is inherently bad. Even Hitler had a moment of compassion
Romance › Re: What Should You Do If Your Girlfriend Continues Denying You Sex In Your Relation by tobechi74: 11:06pm On Oct 23, 2020
funkmrflexx:
She always gives excuse like she's tired , she wants to sleep, she's not in the mood blah blah blah. We haven't had sex in a very long time . Sex creates a tighter bond in a relationship but now I'm no longer feel d vibes anymore. I talked to her about it but she said sex is not food and it's not important in a relationship. I even threatened to cheat on her but she's no budging. She does everything else well . Cooking and cleaning. But the sex part is dead . I don't even feel it for her anymore.
What do I do and she's not ready to get married now before some people say i turn her 2 slave o
She's in school and I'm basically the one sponsorship her . So she's gaining more than me in the relationship
cheat on her in her presence
Romance › Re: Whatsapp Group STRICKLY For The Married by tobechi74: 11:03pm On Oct 23, 2020
merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....
take this post to family section na.
Politics › Re: A Must Watch- Expose By A Nigerian Youth Living In Uk. by tobechi74: 9:08pm On Oct 23, 2020
Touching
Politics › Re: Port Harcourt COVID19 Wharehouse Exposed PHOTOS by tobechi74: 9:05pm On Oct 23, 2020
Sweetgirlmimi:
Are u supporting the stalked up COVID19 palliatives
he is a suspect
Politics › Re: I Will Lead A Protest If I See These People In Heaven by tobechi74: 9:05pm On Oct 23, 2020
If you are in heaven,will you protest? Or will you sponsor hoodlums to disorganise the peaceful protest

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