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Romance › Re: 7 Images You'll Have To Look Twice To Realize What They Are (photos) by tobechi74: 12:48pm On Nov 08, 2020
Buhari and Saudi from Niger according to Kanu
Education › Re: Hell’ Discovered: Scientists Found A Planet That Rains Rocks. by tobechi74: 12:46pm On Nov 08, 2020
Is it zuma rock or oluma rock
Christianity Etc › Re: The Devil Who Thwarts The Plan Of God by tobechi74: 9:36am On Nov 08, 2020
Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Once Saved Always Saved A Fake Gospel? Lets See - Jack Kelley by tobechi74: 9:35am On Nov 08, 2020
Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › Re: What's Your Favorite Hymn? by tobechi74: 9:35am On Nov 08, 2020
Animals live their true identity

Not chained by the expectation of society

Eat when hungry

Mate when Hot


Without feeling ashamed

No clergy to place blame

A New born child is a sinner

So says a book that praises murderers

The gods created us nude

Yet unclothedness is a taboo it makes no sense

But we do not want to look different

So we put on a covering

And betray our true feeling.

We hide our true self

And show our false self

We tell children not to cheat

We are no different from hypocrite


Stop the pretence

Break the fence

Speak your unpopular opinion

Though it may conflict with established institution

Be yourself in the face of death

Your killers will oneday loose their breath

It is better to say your mind

Than to live a lie

How will someone else accept you

When you cannot love you

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/07/dirty-miracle/
Christianity Etc › Re: The Deeper Meaning To John 3:16 by tobechi74: 9:34am On Nov 08, 2020
Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Characteristics Of A Man After God's Heart - Pt. 2 by tobechi74: 9:33am On Nov 08, 2020
Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › Re: Six Things Christain Youths Should Engage In by tobechi74: 9:32am On Nov 08, 2020
Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › Re: Man Proposes, God Disposes! by tobechi74: 9:31am On Nov 08, 2020
Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › You have to turn a new leaf to make heaven by tobechi74(op):
Except one is born again…….

The message of born again has been misinterpreted in various ways. Today, to be born again simply means mumuring certain words of accepting Jesus into one life.

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A newly born child is oblivious of the status quo. He has no belief, no knowledge, nothing. As he grows,he is influenced by teachers,parents, clergy etc . He becomes a conformist to the society expectation. He looses his identity . He takes on the words,dress, religion, pleasure of his fellow .


To make heaven on Earth,the first step is to loosen our grip on all we think. Let go of your opinion, morality, deeply held belief. All these make up the false self. To be born again is to scrape off the false self , the society- taught way of thinking and open oneself to a new one. By dying to our old self, we let go of all previous teaching we have ever received. A born again person experience a change in perspective. It seems his values is turned upside down. He takes on a new personality and mindset. He leaves old friends. The world around him no longer make sence. Things you used to enjoy no longer serve you. You tend to spend more time alone.


Anyone who has never changed his core beliefs or religion is yet to die to his old self. Dying to old self is prerequisite to a new birth. A seed has to be buried to the ground before it can germinate. Many atheist and agnostic are dead to their old self. They are one step ahead than most of us who are yet to question our belief. The second step is observation. Not one created by someone else but one based on his own seeking and experience. A born again person does not take things because it is repeated by many or asserted by majority or written in a holy book. He listens to all side and filters them based on his reason and experience.


Born again persons are original in thoughts and deed. He is saperated from the mass . To be born again comes with a price of violating recognises order. This lead to grave consequences including death .
Christianity Etc › Re: Christians Fear Not, Biden's Win Is Not The End Of The World by tobechi74: 7:40am On Nov 08, 2020
People who dread Change
Christianity Etc › Re: What's Your Favorite Hymn? by tobechi74: 7:39am On Nov 08, 2020
Very good
Christianity Etc › Re: Controversial Nigerian Pastor Has Been Denied Bail By SA Govt, To Deported by tobechi74: 6:16am On Nov 08, 2020
Nigeria is representing
Christianity Etc › Re: Cobweb, A Bad Sign. by tobechi74: 6:15am On Nov 08, 2020
Spiderman cobweb is blessing
Christianity Etc › Re: Will Islam Self Destruct? by tobechi74: 6:14am On Nov 08, 2020
Until everyone starts chasing Islam from their country like india
Christianity Etc › Re: Divorce And Remarriage by tobechi74: 6:12am On Nov 08, 2020
God divorced man by destroying him with water
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Country Is The Garden Of Eden Located? by tobechi74: 6:10am On Nov 08, 2020
Your mind
Christianity Etc › Re: Video: Donald Trump To Lose 2nd Term. Apostle Suleman Prophecy Confirmation by tobechi74: 6:10am On Nov 08, 2020
His betnaija gambling workd
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman: Joe Biden To Be Impeached For Harris To Be President (Throwback by tobechi74: 6:08am On Nov 08, 2020
For sleeping too much?
Christianity Etc › Re: Faith Leaders Remind Believers That God Is In Control After Election Results by tobechi74: 6:08am On Nov 08, 2020
Human beings controlled the election
Christianity Etc › Re: The Danger Of Believing Too Much In God Will Save You by tobechi74(op):
Chai
Christianity Etc › Re: 10 Things You Should Know About The Garden Of Eden by tobechi74:
Story ofvEden is a myth. A parable.never happened

This miracle

Papa Segun , you have killed our son!” . Mama lamented . She knelt down and placed her ears against his chest  . He was not breathing but she could hear the beating of the heart.

Make we take am go hospital” Mama suggested.

Damilola who has been observant turned to Mama .

”  I can heal your son under one  condition. You will let us get married.”

“Over my dead body. “Papa cut in.

Damilola picked up her bag and began walking out of the door.

” I will rather watch him die than let him live and get married to someone else.”

Mama Chukwudi rushed to the door to prevent her from leaving.

“I will first report to SARS, ” Dami threatened.

“Say something. our only son”

“Ok. Both of you can get married “. Baba Chukwudi said reluctantly.. The fear of SARS is the avoidance of trouble.


Damilola went close to his fiancee body and dropped to her knees  . She made some incantation with her lips. She slowly ran her fingers from his lips to his  knee and gradually stroked him moving his fingers up  again. He unzipped him and brought out his 4 inches member to the glaring eye of mother and father.

“The children of these days do not have respect touching a man private part in the presence of an. Elder” . He said trying to stop the show but he was prevented by his wife.

Make sure your eyes are focused here. She instructed the couple in a rude manner while pointing his fingers at his Chukwudi’s weapon.

She  removed her blouse and  her bra she was putting on revealing the underside of her big tit for everyone to see.

Papa Segun mouth went wide open. This time it was Mama Segun turn to get irritated. But Papa Segun urged her to continue. He enjoyed feeding his eyes.

“What kind of man  stares at another man’s penis when a breast is  before him.”? He murmured to him self but audible enough for his wife to hear.

She placed her lips inches away from his ears Whispering how Hot she is . She took his earlobes  between her lips and kisses them deeply.she walks her way down the ridge through the neck pressing her tongue firmly into the nape of his neck. His  cock became hard and still. Mama noticed his boner and screamed for joy.

It is standing”

Chukwudi grabbed her melon with his hands and kisses them passionately. Papa Chukwudi tried to sapeerate the lovers. He stumbled against the stool and fell off.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/06/do-ladies-slut-shame-each-other-more/
Christianity Etc › The Danger Of Believing Too Much In God Will Save You by tobechi74(op): 9:23pm On Nov 07, 2020
There are a lot of people on the planet right now who carry an extremely strong and fervent belief that God is completely in control of what happens to them.

If they win the lottery, it’s because God is rewarding them.

If they suffer an illness, it’s because God is punishing them.

If they get a new job, it’s because God arranged it.

If they lose a child, it’s because God wanted that child back in Heaven.

But there is an incredible danger in believing that someone else is in control of your life. When bad things happen to you, you will say it’s God’s will and that you must have angered him so he is punishing you. When good things happen to you, you will believe God had a hand in making it happen, to reward you for something.

But what if some tragedy happens, like your child gets sick with cancer. You pray to God to let your child live. You make promises to God so he will grant your child life. “Please, Lord, if you just make Susie well again I will devote my life to you and donate all my money to the church.”

What happens then if your child dies? Maybe you hate God. Maybe you feel like you deserved some horrible punishment for a transgression you may not even be aware you made. Maybe you sink into an extreme depression believing God has forsaken you and you lose all connection to your spirituality. Maybe you even feel angry and betrayed “I gave you EVERYTHING and you still took my child! Screw you!”

But what if your child’s death wasn’t caused or willed by God? What if your baby died because her body was too damaged to support life? What if tragedy happens because of cause and effect and not God’s will?

There is danger, too, in believing that all the good things you’ve gotten in life were because God willed it. Maybe you thank the Lord for getting you that new job. Maybe you thank God you met the partner of your dreams. Maybe you thank God for healing you. On the surface it doesn’t seem like there’s any harm to thanking a deity for giving you good things in life.

But there is a danger. Maybe you got the job because you worked really hard. Maybe you met the partner of your dreams because you dated 30 people and figured out what you liked and didn’t like and finally found the right partner through trial and error. Maybe you got healed because you started taking care of yourself better or you chose to try a new medication.

If you give God all the credit, you are then at his mercy aren’t you? Always wondering when you might displease God and be struck down with ill fortune. Always trying to be perfect and saintly so he will reward your piety.

Believing that God can and will save you is giving up your power. You may not take action because you believe God will provide. “If God wants me to eat then food will show up at my door.” Or “If God wants me to get a job then someone will call me with one.”

It’s a powerless way to live.

It’s not wrong to hope and pray for good outcomes. But there is a danger in tying your sense of self-worth and what you deserve in life to a deity’s whim and judgment. You will never feel good enough or powerful enough to have what you desire.

In my experience, God is hands off. He sets your feet upon the earth and says “Go, play, have fun. I’ll see you when you get home. Be nice to others and help each other.” And that’s it.

What you then experience is due to cause and effect. If you choose to drop out of high school, you probably won’t become a doctor. If you choose to steal, you will likely end up in jail. If you choose to hurt someone, you will probably not feel good about yourself.

Likewise, if you work hard, you will likely see some good success. If you are kind to others, you will probably attract kindness back. If you are loving, you will be loved back.

Cause and effect.

So when the good things happen, it’s because you made them happen or you were a vibrational match for those experiences. And when bad things happen, it’s because you made those happen too.

Does God care about your well-being? Yes, he does.

But he’s not there to save you or hurt you. You are going to do that all by yourself.

There are no rewards and punishments. Just choices and consequences. Own your choices and you’ll own your consequences
Pavlina
Christianity Etc › Re: Bride Price: Reno Omokri Teaching!!! by tobechi74: 8:10pm On Nov 07, 2020
Bride price is traditional not Christianity.
Jesus did not mention it because it is not important
Romance › Re: Are Non Virgins Eligible For Marriage by tobechi74: 8:04pm On Nov 07, 2020
Inexperienced graduate get jobs but have to be trained afterway
Romance › Re: by tobechi74: 8:03pm On Nov 07, 2020
Too much of shagging makes it shrink
Romance › Re: Reno Is On Niaraland, He Stole My Comment! by tobechi74: 8:02pm On Nov 07, 2020
Congratulations
Christianity Etc › Re: I Wanted To Kill Muslims Now I Am One by tobechi74: 5:57pm On Nov 07, 2020
So sas
Romance › Re: Closed by tobechi74: 3:30pm On Nov 07, 2020
Whenever a lady likes a guy, she can only give green light. She will never tell him her feelings. This is because she does not want to loose her feminine power.She understand that the one less interested in a relationship controls it. She pretends she does not like sex so she maintains her power. Guys with high sex drive are easily manipulated by ladies.
Romance › Re: Piece Of Bad Relationship Advice You Should Never Follow by tobechi74: 3:29pm On Nov 07, 2020
Never ask a guy out

Whenever a lady likes a guy, she can only give green light. She will never tell him her feelings. This is because she does not want to loose her feminine power.She understand that the one less interested in a relationship controls it. She pretends she does not like sex so she maintains her power. Guys with high sex drive are easily manipulated by ladies.
Romance › Re: What is the worse thing you have done to your friend? by tobechi74: 3:27pm On Nov 07, 2020
He told the gf that his side chick is my main chick.

I told side chick it is a lie. Na him sixth chick be dat
Romance › Re: What makes a woman cheap? by tobechi74(op): 3:09pm On Nov 07, 2020
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