Romance › Re: Man Lists Advantages Of Dating A White Woman, Shares Photos With His Oyinbo Babe by Toks2008(m): 1:24am On May 26, 2018 |
lefulefu: lol toks it depends oo. U Remember that actor that starred in the that movie Hellboy. I think his name is Ron Periman or something. If that guy were to do business with Iyabo Obasanjo in za oza room i just don't want to imagine the type of pickin dem go born. 8 out of 10 mixed race are exceptionally beautiful both in skin texture and exterior dimension. |
Romance › Re: Man Lists Advantages Of Dating A White Woman, Shares Photos With His Oyinbo Babe by Toks2008(m): 1:20am On May 26, 2018 |
greiboy: Those who have been closer to the whites at one point or the other have given their opinion throughout the thread.
It is unbiased and undiluted truth.
Those who are fantasizing about being around whites are still living in their fantasies
It is normal for them to think whites are semi gods, it is their fantasies after all  I see them everyday but I will choose the ladies of colour over them except she is mixed race or a whity with nice skin. |
Romance › Re: Man Lists Advantages Of Dating A White Woman, Shares Photos With His Oyinbo Babe by Toks2008(m): 1:13am On May 26, 2018 |
BossLaifay: Good looking kids? He reeks of inferiority complex Mixed race are usually very very beautiful |
Romance › Re: Young And Unmarried Girls Wearing Wedding Rings. by Toks2008(m): 11:01pm On May 25, 2018 |
victorian: No lady is ready to hustle with any guy.
Guys are no longer loyal to ladies who hustles with them. We've seen so many heart breaks happening to our friends who hustled with guys and they were dumped like hot bricks as soon as he's made it.
It even happened to two of my friends who hustled with their boyfriends even helping the guy Financially to set up biz but at the end the Bf dupes them and runs away.
So no lady wants to fall victim anymore . This 8s why many ladies will die single..so in your mind you are doing a hustling guy a favour by marrying him...ok ..continue.. Look at 2baba...psquare..AY and many more and you will see the advantages of starting with a guy. Love affair is a risk and beeing with a hustle is no favour cos you are also fit to hustle whilst the guy also finds his feet. |
Romance › Re: Young And Unmarried Girls Wearing Wedding Rings. by Toks2008(m): 9:54pm On May 25, 2018 |
Zendinho: To be or not to be that's not the question....
When things fall apart, the center may not be able to hold it.... so the falcon could be far off from the falconer. What's she talking about?
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Romance › Re: Young And Unmarried Girls Wearing Wedding Rings. by Toks2008(m): 9:48pm On May 25, 2018 |
victorian: Most single guys are not ready, all they want is someone they will turn into baby mama, dump and move on to the next victim.
And the ladies now understand, who need such guys anyways. Don't blame them biko Stop deceiving yourself sis...guys are ready but ladies don't want a hustler but the so called "financially stable guy" as if anything is guaranteed. The best time to get a guy is when he is still hustling. |
Romance › Re: Before You Fire The Shots. by Toks2008(op): 8:58pm On May 25, 2018*. Modified: 10:47pm On Jul 11, 2018 |
Now I know you are a wicked person Ah ah. Shey him crime bad pass like that.? This girl be like sarkobi Lol! |
Romance › Re: Young And Unmarried Girls Wearing Wedding Rings. by Toks2008(m): 8:53pm On May 25, 2018 |
Zendinho: Exactly what my colleague told me some days ago.... that few of her unmarried friends have been caught doing that......
Am not surprised.... times are hard.... few guys are ready.... resources is scarce and true love is rare. Go to the various government paralstatals a,secondary schools and in churches ....you will see ready guys who are still h8stling their way up.. Ladies fooling themselves saying guys are not ready... |
Romance › Re: "Genotype Issues Have Cost Me Another Relationship" - Nigerian Lady Cries Out by Toks2008(m): 6:03am On May 25, 2018 |
malificent: I can relate. Very heart0breaking. This is the problem associated with living in a third world country. In advanced world this is no issh cos they can always check the genotype of a young foetus before it advances and if it is AS they will just do the needful and even if you bring SS to the world,they usually live a normal life to their 50s. |
Romance › Re: Why Are Women Their Own Worst Enemies? by Toks2008(op): 11:51pm On May 24, 2018 |
piamily: its no doubt. Women, our wahala is just too much. Swallow the bitter truth. we cant even live together without serious quarrels or malice. i wonder what the competition is all about. Our emotional nature might have side effects on us, but the men nko, dont they have feelings too? Me, i got no time for such jokes.. lol! |
Culture › Re: Twitter Blocks Audrey Skhosana Who Exposes Her Breasts Online by Toks2008(m): 3:25pm On May 24, 2018 |
Beautiful tits is a rare thing even among virgins. |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Curses Linda Ikeji: Come & Take The Ritual Money You Donated To Me by Toks2008(m): 2:56pm On May 24, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Curses Linda Ikeji: Come & Take The Ritual Money You Donated To Me by Toks2008(m): 12:41pm On May 24, 2018 |
anyicash: Just because someone is pregnant, another woman wants to kill herself..what really do women want? I once wrote a thread about women being their own worst enemies |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Curses Linda Ikeji: Come & Take The Ritual Money You Donated To Me by Toks2008(m): 10:55am On May 24, 2018 |
.Linda right now.
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Education › Re: What Is The Best Course To Study As A Science Student.? by Toks2008(m): 8:54am On May 23, 2018 |
Go and study how to use Ewe and Egbo (Herbs) to cure aiments. |
Politics › Re: Dino Melaye In 1990 In Okene (Throwback Photo) by Toks2008(m): 8:51am On May 23, 2018 |
How can this be a comparison to the present when he was just a teenager...? |
Family › Re: What's The Reason Behind Your Name? by Toks2008(m): 9:21pm On May 22, 2018 |
kelvinreality: Erm .....you mean all this happen in one Night  See question...
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Family › Re: What's The Reason Behind Your Name? by Toks2008(m): 7:51pm On May 22, 2018 |
My mum went to the labour room from one room apartment and before she came back from the hospital my dad got a new job and rented a flat and even bought a Volkswagen which was used to carry her and myself from the hospital to the new apartment...
So he named me 0labode akorede meaning wealth has come,bringer of good tidings. |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Poses With Nelson Mandela Statue In South African (photos) by Toks2008(m): 7:34pm On May 22, 2018 |
She is bored... |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Poses With Nelson Mandela Statue In South African (photos) by Toks2008(m): 7:25pm On May 22, 2018 |
kolawoleibukun: haha correct guy. I for put my own but I no want make people see my face. that her mandela statute don tay way e day south Africa. na me be the first group to take picture with that mandela statute when dem newly put am. it already looks worn out. na now she day go SA lol! |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Poses With Nelson Mandela Statue In South African (photos) by Toks2008(m): 5:49pm On May 22, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji’s Public Statement On Her Pregnancy by Toks2008(m): 9:57am On May 21, 2018 |
IamD18: Getting pregnant out of wedlock shouldn't be an acheivement or a thing to boast of, we worship money so much that we find it difficult to unmask the truth in this country.
There's no different from Linda Ikeji with a village girl who got pregnant out of wedlock.
They are both loosed, cheap and maritally bankrupt for getting pregnant without a husband. Who are you to judge? |
Politics › Re: Female Suicide Bomber Overpowered While Trying To Blow Up Mosque. Photo by Toks2008(m): 2:20pm On May 20, 2018 |
madridguy: Inside Ramadan again? Boko Haram make una leave Nigeria and Nigerians alone.
Good job by the vigilante group. And some people are saying it's a war against Christians. |
Romance › Re: 5 Reasons Women Agree To Be Side Chicks. by Toks2008(m): 10:34pm On May 19, 2018 |
You try...expecially that #5 in advanced countries...
The day a lady told me that sharing of men is the norm I was like...
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Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 10:07pm On May 19, 2018 |
Mryacks: That is what I mean by saying “blind”. It is not that you won’t see more attractive people, but you will be disciplined enough to look away and not chase. Many people are writing here based on what they think but how I wish all male posters have been married for at least 5years.... |
Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 8:05pm On May 19, 2018 |
Mryacks: Love covers all. If you truly love someone then you will not look at anybody else as better than them. Not necessarily because you will not see finer, richer, curvaceous, taller, etc people than what you have but because your love will make you “blind” to all that you see thereby been content in you heart.. Love won't make you look away...it is self discipline. |
Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 8:04pm On May 19, 2018 |
Pricelessangel0: Somewhere In Abakaliki, i can assure you it has send many men to early grave both innocent and non even my dad friend was a victim. Thanks for the info..i see...Ebonyi
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Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 2:59pm On May 19, 2018 |
Pricelessangel0: Am not married, so i can't say, but when i have enter into the union, i don't think on any circumstance my hubby should cheat on me Thank God my village has a wicked culture, as in as much as she's married to you, cheat on her and let her do the same to you and watch yourself die slowly Abeg which village be this?
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Romance › Re: Don't Marry Guys Who Have This 10 Habits... by Toks2008(m): 1:59pm On May 19, 2018 |
drezzyx: Imagine if you married a guy…but then realised he had bad habits that couldn’t be cured? In this article, Beauty and Tips takes a look at why you need to avoid guys with these 10 habits.
Prince Charming might have flaws, but he doesn’t have bad habits that can ruin a relationship. While it’s impossible to find the absolute perfect man (we’ve looked, he doesn’t exist) that doesn’t mean you should drop your standards and marry a guy who has annoyingly bad habits. For a man to be marriage material, he has to be completely the right man for you. Sure, he will still have flaws (don’t we all?), but flaws are different from habits. Habits are things we’ve learned to do over the years; they’re ingrained in our behaviour and we do them automatically. Not only can they annoy you, but it’s also practically impossible to get a man to change his ways. If a guy has some of the following 10 habits? He isn’t marriage material.
He’s Full Of Excuses
He can’t just give you a straight answer for why he let you down, and instead resorts to his Big Book Of Boyfriend Excuses. Each time he makes an excuse, he’s displaying his immaturity to you. Moreover, there is a good chance he’s lying. Excuses are the resort of children – and you want to marry a man, not a child.
He’s Narrow Minded
Guys who are narrow minded really frustrate us, don’t they? We just wish they would be more open to doing something other than watching sports all weekend, and we wish they would stop making snap, judgemental comments about people. Some guys can seem to be the most open-minded people about certain topics, but become closed off when it comes to other topics. And it’s really annoying because it can contaminate your relationship. For example, imagine you want to hang out with a guy friend you haven’t seen for a while. You know what this guy is all about, and you know what his “intentions” are – to hang out and catch up! Meanwhile, your partner mistrusts him, tells you all guys just want sex from you and won’t let you see him. If your man is still stuck in the 19th century with his close-minded views, he’s hardly worth marrying.
He Shouts
Any guy who has a habit of exploding with anger is a no-go as far as Beauty and Tips is concerned. If you’ve met a man who shouts, screams and verbally abuses people, stay well away from him.
He Breaks Promises
If your man casually breaks promises with you all the time, it isn’t a good sign. What this should tell you is that this is a bad habit he’s picked up down the years and is unlikely to change anytime soon. Broken promises are frustrating. If he breaks a promise early on in the relationship, it’s not a huge deal. But if he keeps doing it, you need to take this as the huge red flag that it is. In simple English, he’s disrespecting you and the relationship, and taking you for a fool. It’s a sign that he doesn’t care enough about you (or anyone for that matter) and probably won’t be changing in the foreseeable future. After all, he doesn’t seem to see it as a problem. But as the movies teach us, those who break their promises suck (it’s usually dad’s breaking their promises to their kids, and yes, they suck. And can you imagine what would happen if you guys had kids and he broke his promises to them, too?!)
He Lies
Breaking a promise is one thing, but if he brazenly lies to your face and you know it’s a clear lie, it’s a major warning sign that this is a guy you can’t trust. Lying is a bad habit that’s easy to get into and hard to get out of. If you’ve caught your man lying red-handed on more than one occasion, you’ll need to consider the very real possibility that he isn’t worth marrying.
He Doesn’t Put You First
If a man doesn’t put you first, you have to ask yourself the question – when will he put me first? The answer is probably never. Guys who don’t prioritise their women are instead in the habit of prioritising their buddies, their work or their hobbies. Love comes last, and if it’s always been this way in your relationship, there is a good chance that it won’t change.
He’s Possessive
It’s okay for someone to be a tad possessive at first. It’s even kinda cute. But you two have been together a while and he’s still being extra clingy, it’s a habit he’s probably not going to break. In fact, it probably means he’s a control freak. And that kind of man isn’t worth walking down the altar with.
He Likes To Win Arguments
If he gets a smug sense of satisfaction whenever he wins an argument between you guys and literally hates the fact that even once he could be wrong, it’s a bad habit that you should take as a red flag. No one in a relationship should go into an argument wanting to win. Instead, the goal should be a resolution that suits both parties. If your partner always has to be right? He isn’t worth your time.
He Won’t Take Responsibility
When we refuse to acknowledge our mistakes and take for responsibility for something that was OUR fault, we’re behaving like children. Worse still, we’re passing the blame onto someone else. Even worse, we’re not giving ourselves the chance to learn from our mistakes. If this sounds a lot like your man, he isn’t marriage material at this point.
He Has An Unhealthy Lifestyle
If he drinks and smokes too much while you’re trying to lead a healthier life, it’s a strong sign that you guys aren’t meant to be. Sure, he could cut down on his drinking and quit smoking. But if he’s tried in the past to no avail, it might be best if you avoid this kind of guy.
Stay happy! He doesnt keep promises,he shouts,Possessive...likes to win arguement...bla bla bla..Why not tell them not to marry at all...
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Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 11:31pm On May 18, 2018 |
Alejoc: Well if we claim we love God and still sin then this is a same  Wow! What an insight.. |
Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 10:55pm On May 18, 2018 |
lefulefu: ok oo i believe u  You don't have to...the records are there...i have been on nairaland for over 10years and no lady can find me wanting in any regberegbe...is that not a good way to show how disciplined I am? I'm very factual so I don't write what makes people happy or sad but I write it as it is. Just give me a lady with the type of exterior dimension I want and she will beg me to cheat on her. |
Romance › Re: Can A Man Love His Woman Dearly And Still Cheat On Her? by Toks2008(op): 10:49pm On May 18, 2018 |
lefulefu: i thought u were more of a polygamist  See your life for outside..so you are among those who juxtapose my write ups to my persona... It will amaze you to know how sexually chaste and faithful I am. I write factual threads which has no correlation with my lifestyle... |