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Eyaah..see fine lady wey awon aye wan use do experiment.

lefulefu:
Men who cheat are just managing their wives.they dont love their wives.u cant tell me that a married man that remembers his sidechic"s birthday,takes her out on valentine day,has romantic weekend trips with her while ignoring his wife..loves his wife.wey d love dey?

I still pride myself as a faithful guy cos it's not easy staying faithful to one lady for 12 long years...

Angy55:
It's even stated in the Bible, resist the devil and he will flee from you.

Exactly so no man can categorically say he will never cheat but we can only try to maintain proper status quo...

It's laughable for any lady to believe any guy that says such...but I guess ladies love lies.

Angy55:
In other words you can't guarantee your gf/wife of not cheating on her.
And what if the reverse is the case?

No man can guaranty that except a liar

I have heard many ladies use these words over and over again...'if he loves me he will never cheat on me'

Before you start wondering why i chose this topic let me make it clear that 9 out of every 10 marriages that hit the rocks usually have infidelity as a reason and in most cases it comes from the men yet if you ask these men,they will tell you they love their wives dearly but this usually do not go down well with the women who strongly believe a man can not love them and still cheat on them.

So i want to leave this question open for everyone to give their opinion so i ask...'Can a man love his woman dearly and still cheat on her?'

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MissJoy29:
1) Royalblak007. I love his/her threads. It takes number one on my list. There was a thread about one very expensive cake. The way the thread gave detailed details about the cake eh. Another one was about things that look alike that are easily confused. The thread gave the differences between them and some are so small you'd almost never spot it.

2) Explorers. He makes my love for Aeroplanes and massive structures come alive. I remember the thread about Symphony of the seas that still give me goose bumps till this day. I showed my students and they were so awed. They were busy asking me unimaginable questions. Lol.

3)Toks2008. I suspect he's a relationship expert. He's almost always on point . He sounds like a Christian too.

4) Autojosh. Just got to know him recently. So don't know much about him.

I'm humbled..thanks.

Some guys are already using it as ring tone...

theEYe21:
I’m actually a lady by the way Have a blessed day

O.M.G!...Im mesmerized that a lady has such encouraging words for me...your type is very rare...thanks once again

theEYe21:
Toks2008 this really made sense! Thank you so much for this knowledge you’ve shared. I was almost tearing up while reading this epistle I don’t know why? May God continue to bless you with more knowledge so that you can bless others. Thank you once again.

Thanks sir for your encouragement.

I'm the most hated guy by ladies on nairaland and my offence?,...i give an unbiased opinion on the reality of life and not the way things ought to be.

All my threads regarding ladies were written to safeguard them in this wicked,selfish and unfair world of men but rather for them to take a deeper look,they chose to attack me always but ironically many of the ladies who have been impacted positively by the articles send me a PM to thank me.

Even in my short time in U.K,God has used me to save many marriages and all glory to GOD.

To Ishilove I will be frank with you...everyone has a free will but we must be ready to bear the consewuence of our actions...so yes you are free to cheat on your hubby if you like but one thing I want the world to understand is this...monogamy is a choice and polygamy is also a choice and there is no where in the scriptures where polygamy was tagged a sin and even when Paul advised G overseers to be a husband of one wife it was an advise and if indeed it is a sinful act, he would have asked those who had more than a wife at the time of their calling to divorce the extra wives...

So if polygamy is not a sin why then do ladies go bunkers because their husband chose to marry another woman? ...i guess it's just natural for the ladies to be angry cos no one wants her man with another lady but unfortunately the lady must heart as long as the man did not ask her to leave...crazy but that is how the cookies crumble...

I have met many single mums here in U.K and 9 out of 10 left their marriage for same reason..."their husband cheated/married another woman" so I asked them.."How has life been after they left"?...many of them were sincere..

1.It has been a lonely life.
2.I have not been touched by a man in over 10years..
3.I am so depressed.
4.I can't count how many unserious guys have played me......and on and on but you know what?, the guy in question is having a swell time with his life so I asked them.."what is the point leaving a man who still wants you because he cheated?"

A man cheating on his wife does not mean he does not love her anymore but that is just a man for you...very polygamous in nature and the way of men with women is a mystery even the petrachs of the Bible can't understand añd Solomon the wisest man ever lived said..

Proverbs 30:18-19 New International Version (NIV)

18 “There are three things that are too amazing for me,
    four that I do not understand:
19 the way of an eagle in the sky,
    the way of a snake on a rock,
the way of a ship on the high seas,
    and the way of a man with a young woman.

This was why I created the thread on this link below to give ladies a realistic blue print to marital happiness.
https://www.nairaland.com/4065809/10-realistic-steps-lady-should

What an unjust world of men.

Lalas247:
she rejected him
. and he killed her


lefulefu .. can u imagine ..

The guy must be a member of a secret cult...they don't take rejection let alone public ridicule..

Ladies who ridicule guys publicly in some of our institutions are usually gangraped and even murdered by these evil guys who have sold their soul to the devil.

This is insanity of the highest limit but nevertheless..i always tell ladies "never ridicule a guy in public even if you don't want to date him" cos some guys are beasts who can't handle public ridicule and will do anything to get back at the lady.

I have seen similar cases while in school when a lady publicly ridiculed a notorious guy...the rest of the story is not a good one.

R.I.P beautiful lady.

PassingShot:
Yet, they say we are not fighting corruption.

Some say the fight is one-sided, not that those being prosecuted are not corrupt o.

I ask: if it's correct that PDP ruled for 16 years, does it not make sense that 99% of the looters are their members?

Yeye wailing haters supporting their oppressors.

I keep reiterating that Buhari has not disappointed me in this aspect.

He may be a lousy talker,old fashioned.. just name it but I voted for him to curb corruption and he is doing just that.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Tell that to your fake pastors that collect powers from fetish doctors and alfas. When I see pastors putting their hands on their members, I just laughed at the stupidity of the sheeples.

I have tried..

Gaddafithe2nd:
Sorry brother, Jesus doesn't know you and was not sent to Nigerians. According to the Bible he was only sent to lost sheep of Israel. I don't like talking about religion, but bringing religious matter on non-religion thread is not right.

You need deliverance..

adadike:
Nina, I warned you, okwa ngwara gi agwa. ina ra amu na abughi nke gi. I hope u ve seen the end of it all now? your eyes don clear! ome go gi vum n'anya

If you are a mother will you allow your son to be with a lady that was sexed on live television even if it was your son that did it with her..please be sincere with your answer..

I will advise her to go and find one oyinbo man marry but African guys have no chill...

Gaddafithe2nd:
So, the muslims, Buddhist and other non-christianity religion adeherent are all going to hell abi. Smh!

Nope..Christianity is not the way neither is any other religion..JESUS BROUGHT SALVATION NOT RELIGION and as long as they accept the only way to heaven which is Jesus...He is the only way to heaven and whether you are a Muslim,budhist or whatever religion..as long as you pray and worship Jehovah/Allah or whatever name you call the Almighty GOD in your language and also accept Jesus as your lord and savior,you are certain to have eternal life in Paradise but if you ever die without accepting Jesus as your lord and saviour then you have automatically made that decision to be in Hell and GOD has no hand in that but you chose it.

There is no basis for argument but there are two options...believe now or find out after you die when it becomes too late.

Read the article on my signature to have an in-depth understanding...no one deserves to be in hell except Satan and his demons who also made their choice.

The mortal death is only a consequence of being born on earth but eternal death is the consequence of our decision while on earth.

If you are still alive and have not accepted Jesus as your lord and savior please do so this minute cos death can come at anytime when you least expect it.

R.I.P Aishat

ItzBIM:
Don't want to sound like a hater but I don’t find her attractive. She’s average as fucckk

It is the Chef side of her that made Davido fall like mumu...and I'm sure I will too.

Solstar:
Greed reduced the popular pSquare brand to nothing and reduce the personalities behind the brand to inglorious hurstlers.

I thought that PSquare was an advanced brand, but out of greed, brothers become aliens, by denouncing their Soul ties for money. The twins became boys and the german juice changed her name, then the once upon a time glorious PSquare brand turns to independent up-coming street hurstlers that have to remove their shirts and exposed their rusty chests in order to be listened to.

As PSquare, the fans used to beg them to release another music, fans couldnt wait for the next single. Now they are shadows of a forgotten brand who now go naked to be remembered. Now they can do anything to be as popular as Davido and Wizkid.

How have the mighty fallen.

All for greed.

Advanced savagery...

nairavsdollars:
Papa abegi park somewhere. Your mates don go rest

He is still a small boy...when e reach like my age...all the body flaunting won't matter...

FloxySmart:
Damn this guy is so sexy.. .... I'm love struck *blushing

See yah life for outside...

Who body epp?

Believe all you see on social media at your own peril.

Slim101:
Small small this babe don dey turn to diplomat o!

She is already one.

Hanseel1:
no. 3,5 and 5 are okay.

I'm glad you found these points insightful.

biacan:
Some women are living in that hell called marriage This is why as a lady you need to build yourself up before getting married to avoid all this kind of stories..... I bet if she have her own money or business she would have been out of the marriage long time before now.....But your husband giving you half cup though

If any lady follows these steps,she will hardly have issues in her marriage..

https://www.nairaland.com/4065809/10-realistic-steps-lady-should

iyke2ken:
oshey, awon ti hippoTaurus!

my condolences.

Condolences ke...se ko re e?

A man paid your dowry without traditional marriage...silly comment.

I just love Taurus ladies..

Usually endowed,goal getters,dedicated,loyal and so much more.. Any Taurus lady in the house?..i know two on nairaland.

Earthbound:
The world has gone to shits.


Congratulations to her parents for raising such a........

Day by day I tend to believe more that good looks is a curse to many people..

https://www.nairaland.com/2877307/when-beauty-becomes-curse

O.M.G