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Funny comments...

lilbest4:
These mumu feminists should go to hell.
They will marry and frustrate the poor man with their feminist bushiiits when the man now run away they split his property in two and start looking for handsome engineers online. Serve them right

My brother some of these ladies are their own problems but they come online to play the victim....

what exactly happened? sometimes we need to know before making conclusions cos ladies can play the victim card so well.

mysteriousman:
What kind of dumb question is that, this is what happen when you let people without background in journalism become TV and radio presenters

I watched the whole video and I can say the presenter is a rookie.. he goofed big time cos it was more of an attack.

EgunMogaji:
It’s understandable for a woman not to want to sit with two men, regardless of skin color.

When my wife joined me here, one of the first things I did was register her for a martial arts class. Part of that training was to establish safe zones and put distance between her and potential aggressors, Black/white/purple it doesn’t matter.

Anyways, we’ll find out soon enough who’s telling the truth.

With the seat arrangement in trains there is nothing wrong.

Cluelessness and misplaced priority...

Are there no better news?

EgunMogaji:
I wasn't there so I can only go by my own experience.

I simply cannot believe that the event occurred as stated. She's a Woman and one that is travelling with children. Most Air Hostesses are Women. I just do not see a female air hostess siding with a male against a mother with children unless the situation was dire.

I also believe that it will take the Captains involvement to get her bounced and not just an air hostess.

The Airline will settle out of court.

Well we don't know the other side of the story yet but some whites can be annoying..

I remember last week in a train..mysrlf and another black guy were seated in a row of seats with a space in between us very big enough for another to sit but there was this white woman who came in but chose to stand even when she was shown the vacant seat...

The strange twist was that as soon as someone stepped out from the train,she sat in that space with other whites and I was like..LOBATAN!

loomer:
and na them smell pass o

Oversmell worry most of them...Awon smellos.

sKeetz:
Book of life ko

People stil believe in such nonsense? You would think that with the advance in science, people would relegate such silly beliefs to the museums where they belong.

It's quite sad.

It will be sader for you if you ever die without ensuring your name is in the book of life by accepting Christ this minute.

I'm not here to argue with you cos your choice is only yours to make.Many are in hell as I write begging just for a moment to come back to this world to accept Jesus as their Lord and saviour and die.

Have a great sunday

bilulu:
Please house I want to ask is there a certain amount of cash you need to have before planning to settle down? for instance one need to have up-to 500k in his account before thinking of settling down. please I need you input.

Wealth is progressive so as far as you have something generating steady income you are good.

lalasticlala:
Initially it was a challenge, but one day, I went out to eat at Mama put, in the process I met her for the first time. Lol. I had to get to know where she works & collected number. I kept her as just a friend for a whole year before taking it to dating level.

I always knew you are a sharp guy...

Mynd44 and Seun osewa what are you guys waiting for?

Mynd44 I sight you.

Blonchilli:
Na Python I will give you on your wedding day. Everyone is getting married now o. My men Toks2008 and tosyne2much must come when my time reach

Your time will surely come.

Pussickpunk:
Mr toks be talking about due diligence and how the marriages of old lasted....Complete bullsh*t! Our mother's were forced, coerced and brainwashed to get into marriage, and they remained in the most times abusive, dehumanizing union because of fear and what the society believed...

Lol! My mum and several other mums of my friends were never forced yet they enjoyed a lasting union...im sorry if that was the case of your folks but due diligence holds the key.

youngest85:
Ramsey my crush of life

You are either gay or a female posing as a male.

lalasticlala:
My wedding is coming up next week. I thought I should inform the beautiful people of Nairaland.

The pre-wedding pics were shot yesterday. I didn't want pre-wedding pics, but my babe wanted it, I gave in. They are not yet out that's why I couldn't upload them.

Meanwhile my outfits are ready.

Rice & Stew very plenty..

Oh congrats my guy...too bad I'm not in the country at the moment...i for show..

God bless your marriage.

Btw is she a nairalander?

danielchidozie:
This thread is geared towards rolling back memories of how NIGERIANS ABROAD raised cash for their first trip abroad.
your stories will be appreciated as we intending travellers can learn stuffs from ur hustle experience.

Ghana is also abroad i guess

Blonchilli:
if you like use the world's biggest stethoscope, borrow Superman's X-ray vision, make him/her your best friend it won't still guarantee that the marriage will work and you won't be abused in the marriage. I've seen best friends hate themselves and marriages that in the first 20 years the rest was one battle to another. No matter how careful you are it won't guarantee that the marriage will work. You can't just jump in either. You meet someone that not necessarily fit into what you want but has the same goals settle down with him/her. The mistake most ladies make when they're young and cross part with someone like that is they still want a fairytale wedding and big pocket and so they miss that person while guys turn that lady to a sex object. At the end they marry out of desperation and end up regretting

Gbam!

Ghana ladies are very hot..they may not be facially pretty but their curves nah something else..

Celepope:
Being in my 30s, I just realise the importance of marriage.Sometimes I do wake up in the middle of the night with the intent to talk over certain things that are troubling me but no one by my side to talk to.In my years in the US, I have had my fare share of girls.I have dated over 50 girls of different races.Not something to be proud of.Those talking about not wanting to get married i pity them.Perhaps they are just some pathetic E-warriors or they are still in their 20s.It gets to a stage in your life when reality hit you.Within the space of two hours,I just got two text messages from my exs, both telling me "you are getting old" after they saw the pix i used on my dp that I took 5 years ago.Anyways I will still keep my fingers crossed while still searching but I have told myself I will never go back to Nigeria to get married.God in heaven knows my heart desires and will surely grant me. .

AMEN

STENON:
Hmmmm, I have heard you sir. But What is the essence of marriage without faithfulness?

There is more to it than seeking sexual faithfullness from the man..A man who decides to marry you really wants to be with you so focus on that point and be happy.

I am tired of ladies running out of their marriage over a man's infidelity just for them to end up as celibate,or a toy in the hands of randy guys or even as mistress of another married man..so i ask..what is the point leaving a cheating husband just to start living irresponsibly?

Some women will even go celibate for years whilst the man is busy enjoying himself with another woman...so i tell ladies..NEVER EVER LEAVE YOUR MARRIAGE FOR ANOTHER LADY..NEVER

STENON:
This marriage topic is a complicated issue. It is not easy for "WE" singles out there. Different men/ladies with their different patterns of cheating, but the joy of it is that, we'l surely be married one day and all the sad stories would add up to a happy, Joyful, and victorious home because it goes beyond been a christian or Prayer warrior, It is just a matter of goodluck

It's about the mindset...

The first victory comes for a lady the moment she decides that her marital happiness will never be hinged on her husband's faithfulness to her.

Any woman who still has that mindset that her husband must not cheat on her should refrain from marriage until she is ready for the reality that men are polygamous in nature....hard one I k ow but that is just how the cookie crumbles.

malonephill:
so if I feel I won't be comfortable been with one woman all my life and I still can't stay abstinence, how do I help the situation

Marry 2 or more if you can..im not avast to polygamy if that is what any man wants but I just hate it when men sleep around..

pocohantas:
Na me get all this one?
Chai!

Wettin you do that guy poco?

AmericanSons:
and who is saying they shouldn't? Can you guys just live life without talking about marriage?

That is because the guys you refer to love GOD..they try to avoid immorality unlike many guys who claim they don't need marriage but will be getting down with random women...i call that foolishness and outright insanity.

The first instruction giving to man is that we multiply and be fruitful and we need to do that within the confines of marriage.

Any other way is sinful and unacceptable to GOD.

AmericanSons:
u dey mind dem? In Nigeria marriage is an achievement... Their mates in developed world's are touching lives making discoveries tech and all that but what do we have here?

Marriage, fork, born, add to the population of 200M...

If I say I no hate these people are their reasoning, Na lie I talk.

In case you don't know...the men in developed countries marry very early mostly in their mid to late 20s so get your facts right bro.

ogbiwa:
I'm sorry Toks2008 but your post reeks of desperation from someone trying hard to pass on that desperation to other unsuspecting ones. Are you married? If yes for how long? Don't come and tell us to take a gamble and jump if you yourself have not lived long enough to see the end result of the kind of situation you're asking us to jump into. Don't say things like "consoling themselves with words like I'll rather remain single than marry wrongly". Of course that is a true and valid statement! Nobody should go into marriage as a gamble with eyes closed. You don't want to live the life of a man or woman who found out few months into marriage that they're not compatible nor even like their spouse. It's a terrible place to be. Many couples are already suffering in that situation. It's. not worth it!

I'm certain you did not read the article well so go back and this time around...read slowly...

obongitiad:
Nice one.

But how do you do due diligence on the person you intend to marry?

Nice question...

In the days of old,our parents don't date or court,they get introduced to each other and that is it...but strangely enough,their marriages usually lasts compared to today where couple date and court for years yet the case of divorce is on the increase. What was the secret?,....due diligence...

The parents of old dig deep to the history of the prospective couple...they find out many things and they will go ahead to introduce the couple to each other only if they are satisfied with their background check.

You can do due diligence on anyone today by checking their social media accounts,ask people who know that person be it friends co-workers,church/mosque members,even exes(sounds stupid I know)...but these are just few ways of doing due diligence if you really want to k ow that person beyond what he or she tells you.

Ejiod:
You are damn right..! See as Donald trump be acting like as if he's 40years. Feeling pressure is a relativistic factor..On my side. I'm quite scared of getting married because of my visions and plan. I have a blueprint I wouldn't want marriage to disrupt

There is an uncommon favour that only comes to a man after he gets married.

Oritzy:
You can as well talk to them if distance ain't gonna be a challenge for you both.

I know it's a challenge so I don't have to bother any of them.

Oritzy:
Not yet,but very close to it.

Wow! There are few nairalanders I admire and won't mind marrying but we live thousands of miles apart .one lives in Cameroun and another in the states and one particular one lives in naija.

I wish both of you well.

dasparrow:
She needs God not man. A Nigerian man will cheat on her sooner or later, infect her with sexually transmitted diseases, turn her into a glorified house maid and raise her blood pressure.

Most married Nigerian women are miserable and look much older than their age while nursing several sexually transmitted diseases given to them by their philandering husbands but they have sadly been mentally conditioned to believe that their lives can only start and end with a man.

That is a lie from the pit of hell rooted in patriarchy and chauvinism. Around the world, you have people living life to the fullest, happily too irrespective of their marital status.

Lastly, a lot of Nigerian women though married end up alone anyways down the line because the husbands die young. The average life expectancy rate in Nigeria is 53 years old maybe even lower no thanks to fulani herdsman killings, incessant car accidents, cultism, boko haram attacks, poor healthcare system and what have you. So these widowed women are left with a useless "Mrs" title, many mouths to feed and stark poverty staring them in the face along with in-laws that will hate them and want nothing more to do with them.

And how is the foreign lady immuned against all these? Or is it not what I see everyday? Abeg stop making unfounded assumptions.

Oritzy:
True words bro. At a time I concluded I would just have a baby mama and move on to enjoy my life not until Nairaland gave me this wonderful soul.
Compliments me in all areas.

Now I know people will say I am being too religious about this but I tried this method and it worked for me

I Prayed and asked God for a perfect Woman in my life.

And Nairaland was the last place I could ever imagine to find such person but now I'm like wow that means most of these NL girls forming feminist are actually nice people in real life.

Did you marry a nairalander?