₦airaland Forum

Bianda24:
He does not owe you evidence. He has just made a point, a clarion call sort of. Thanks. However, the hole I notice in his write up is that there is no place of divine intervention. Do not say I am going spiritual. As a matter of fact, Human can not do without divine intervention.
Whenever I see post on marriage, I notice people discuss it from their point of view or world view but most often, it does always go that way
Some people get married easily, without any fuss. They may not even want it at the time they got married and not its fruitful while some might be going from one seer to another. Such is life, such is marriage like a friend will say everyone with his time zone.
Less I forget, the write said something about taking the bull by the horn and marry whoever that comes your way, and damn the consequence, Plz don't try it, it will be distratrous.

dasparrow:
Please don't! Find something more productive to do with your time.

There is more to life than marriage. No thanks to Nigerians and their unhealthy obsession with marriage, I have such hatred in my heart for the so-called institution called marriage.

I am not going into it and there is nothing dumb Nigerians can do about it because I don't live in your country to begin with and don't hang around Nigerians in real life so nobody can tell me rubbish or shame me into anything I genuinely don't want for myself.

eghuan1:
Funny you brought this up. I was driving some days ago and some policemen stopped me somewhere and where asking how's madam. I didn't know how to answer the question. So one if them looks at me and says, e be like Oga never marry o. And his colleagues were like, which kind joke be that? Then one said to me, Oga Wetin you de wait for? I replied say I de find better person and he laughed for sometime.
He came to my side and said you no go go village go find one small girl give belle? Oga no look all these Lagos girls o. Na Wetin I do o.
When I left them, I set up a project, just like those pastors that saw thunder and thought God is speaking to them, "project one year". Get a better accommodation, arrange my life and set a trap, anyone who falls into the trap, drag her to mumsy.

Project to be delivered latest July next year.

pocohantas:
So men have finally agreed that they could be under pressure?
There is hope for we evening newspapers then.

Y'all will marry us last last

toh:
The question is, can you POCOHANTAS do without a man in your life?

1234IKECHhukwu:
Mehn!this is really touching & so true.

Blackfire:
This can only bring tears to your eyes...


See so much potentials and wonderful future.


What happened... What happened... What happened?

ANNOY:
It's my 19th birthday. Show me some love

Edopesin:
38 - 28 = 10 good years
Mogbe

franchasng:
Bleaching

ImaIma1:
Toks2008 you have been quiet. I haven't seen any threads from you lately.

RuthDaniels:
[b]Societal rules are mostly the reasons why people get married these days, Most people in their last thirties are pressured by thoughts of "when will you get married "? "what will people say"? "All my younger ones are married, when will I?". All these thoughts have led people astray.

Left to me, I believe an individual shouldn't be pressured into marriage. Yes you are getting old, people are asking questions but if you think deep, you will realize that these people won't be in the marriage with you. They will also blame you, call you names if you marriage fails, so why listen to them in the first place?

That said, Not everyone we see is a potential spouse, Never base your relationship or marriage on attractions alone! Compatibility and friendship matters a lot. Because there comes a time in marriage mostly after ten years when the test comes. Then only compatibility ,commitment and friendship holds the marriage. Groom your relationship, build your courtship, know yourselves then walk down the aisle. it is better to be late than be late! [/b]

greiboy:
in Nigeria that I grew up in

@Early


20s boy/men

Most can hardly get a girlfriend, most are broke with the exception of those from wealthy family, majority are in university. A huge number opt for the self service option.

Ladies
Most don't want to date their mates, most have high standards and believe they will end up with very rich prince charming. The majority of them hold great expectations for their futures

@Mid to late 20s

Men

Most are just getting laid now . Some are finding financial freedom. Majority are just having first relationships and first set of assets to call their own

Women

Most have now suffered countless heart breaks. Some are lucky to be married and won't stop flaunting their marriage status at the founts of the majority unmarried ones. Society and parents will begin to apply pressure on most to settle down. Some might start regretting actions they took in the their early 20s

Early 30s

Men

A huge number are now financially stable. Some might have settled down by now. Majority are feeling the pressure to settle down. Some are still reeling from heart breaks and feel they can't trust women again. Some have become playboys because of the relationship opportunities their new found financial status have afforded them.

Women
Some have become desperate to settle down as a consequence of societal pressures. Some have grown thick skin and have decided not to settle down again. Majority is now married but not all the married ones are glad.

LastSurvivor11:
Corpses still litter as if we are talking about empty sachet of water.

Have you seen what the London idiot and his brothers has turned the country to?

It shall never be well with anyone still supporting this muderous government..

Ezigboune:
May we not meet our untimely death all in the name of Marriage.

johnnyvid:
exactly, that's showbiz lifestyle for you. he's just trying to be on the social media. I just dey smile.

somegirl1:

Ndubuisi / Nnabuisi > Buisi > B'isi > Bisi

post=67379436:
My friend no flattino/Afonja combo here, he is full Igbo guy no blood mix

Lalas247:
Yes the key to mi heart ...
What’s the issue ... the guy decided to teach the lazy girl a lesson ..
Well you know me I am in full support ... yh is she ordering all sorts with zero balance is he her dad? Mtcheew

Ladies should learn to be independent so guys don’t disgrace them this way .. it’s so sad ..... can’t even feed themselves before the guy pay I don already bring out my card like nigga don’t get it twisted.

itiswellandwell:
Lol. Don't have time fohr all that. Just meet an alfa or herbalist to tell you things wey yahoo boys dey do.
All the very best.

comshots:
Rule number 8.Dont post false news on nairaland.

omoharry:
abeg help me ask am..he was rather hiding his head in the sand as if nothing happened..what kind of leader is that?...the one that lack human sympathy just because of his political ambition and yet they said this same man is a man of God..Osibanjo and PMB are bad product..he is a Fulani loyalist and a coward and definitely not a man of the people in times of tribulation...

hypertension:
So you think muslims will be killed down south without response from the northern muslim leaders

How old are you?

citizen202:
im pretty sure...you must b a yoruba man

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