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Jupxter:
I will never marry any lady without praying to God. Even Bill Gate's daughter, listeing to him or rather reading his comments i can see psychological boundaries created in the mind. It works early in life but down the life, it holds the do-er captive, i've scome to learn to live life without rules

Jupxter:
Toks Toks, I have about 10 guys in UK. I know everything you wanna tell me. You're like someone a preacher is telling accept Jesus and has become too attached to the happenings around. Your environment has conditioned you Toks, there's alwys a good woman even in that same UK. I swear it.

Jupxter:
If marriage is important to you, cool, come back home 6 months, find a good woman,marry her and take her back with you. It's time to leave the excuses behind brov

Jupxter:
Your usual excuse " If "


Do you imply saying no Nigerian guys of your age in UK dey marry Naija chicks wey dey responsible?

Jupxter:
No bro.. We are Christians naa...Make as many female friends as possible, and grow your friendships, somewhere something would pop out


Toks, my eyes has been on you for say 6 months now, these issues are psychological o, they are boundaries you've created within your mind limiting you ....you should speak to someone o. I mean guys that have walked this path or are currently walking this path. You need to break the psychological defenses you set up in your mind...Until you see no need for rules, limitations, principles, the rules you created are the bind that has kept you remanded in singlehood, it's time to unshackle bro, let go off the principles you've been working with for a very long time.... You don't need them,, step out and walk over the water bro

Jupxter:
True @




It is only because we are responsible guys dith the love of GOD else what is my business with marriage when I can be single and free to be with as many ladies as I desire.


Date randomly bro, date more. Meet more people

Jupxter:
Only wise people can relate to this :




Your angel will never come announcing to you 'hey I am your angel' no your Angel will always come in disguise.

nairamaniac:
Her wondering why you stopped craving is never or close to being a form of craving.

It would only seem that way to guy who wants to end up deceiving or consoling himself in order to give him an evalasting better memory whenever he thinks of the babe and how it hurt him not getting her.
Any man in this situation is a weak man.
If u cannot afford to bare the loss you shouldn't reduce yourself to below the babe's level.

djon78:
Bro don't be picky, one thing I have discovered is that almost every one of them women are the same, just know what you want.
I was once like that, my spec demand was this high. After going through subsequent relationship, I just saw that my expectation was just very high.


I stopped being picky and in the end got a very wonderful woman. Someone I would say was not my spec in all those picky times or my levels.

I stopped low, but she worships me, really upgrading her seriously, she appreciates it so much and so much gives me peace of mind.

In fact the woman that will transform your life is not all those spec we men rush for, but just someone you may even despise when you see her first time. Same thing happened with my friend, was very picky, but a wonderful lovely girl was around him, whom he was looking down on, at the end he gave her a try, today, he tells me, after some years together, that this was the best decision he ever made. His home is heaven.

There is this quote that has made so much meaning to me: your angel will never look like an angel, your angel will always come in disguise. And that is why many people miss their destiny and become miserable in life. Your angel will never come announcing to you 'hey I am your angel' no your Angel will always come in disguise.

I have learnt so much of life's lessons from that quote

sisisioge:
Tokunbo and love/relationship gist na 5&6...may God bless us with our heart desires o.

BushWickBill:
No it isn't.

The woman clearly knows what she's doing.

Please note that she did not deny an affair with the so-called Apostle.

Instead she said Politicians used her. So what do the politicians have on Suleiman that they would use Stephanie for?

This video only tells me that she knew there would be pressure on her from the Apostate and Heretic in advance. Hence the confession.

if you pay attention to this video you will understand why she confessed over the weekend.

It's not very hard to deduce the purpose for this video.

BushWickBill:
They won't hear it o.
They can't hear it.

They are brainwashed beyond recognition so their senses aren't in play here. They can't use their brain unless their GO/Bishops/Pastors/Revs tell them to

All the more reason to believe that the apology was either stage-managed or done as PR by the fake apostle.

Zykod:
Okay

tosyne2much:
I even have something to discuss with you egbon Toks.. I will suggest you get from number from Bbstar and call me

mhizsuzzy:
Seriously why are we so not it....A thread was created to pass a message of being careful with obsessed men and women all we could do is to argue which gender are guilty of it in the scenerio....Instead of tackling a problem, share experiences and give advices of how u were able to face it we are discussing another thing....
Soon someone go kukuma create a counter thread...This gender fight or sexism should just stop lets reason like adults nah

cococandy:
But of course. I knew it was somewhere at the back of your mind.

I could see the post wasn’t complete because your sexism wasn’t very glaring yet. I mean your choice of picture (of all the ones on the internet ) Gave you away but it was only a matter of time before it surfaced. It only one comment from a low self esteem babe to make you take off your mask.

ndy87:
Not all ladies are cheats o. Good ones are still out there. I have never double dated in my life. And I won't.....

goldcoinhub:
Just three weeks to walking down the aisle with his fiancee, a Nigerian man was heartbroken to stumble upon a dirty secret between his heartthrob and his best man.

It was gathered that the man’s girlfriend of 5 years was sleeping with his best man. Here’s @Jenniieey’s tweets;



https://i2.wp.com/lailasnews.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/bb.png?resize=447%2C410&ssl=1

https://lailasnews.com/nigerian-man-finds-fiancee-sleeping-best-man-3-weeks-wedding/

Factfinder1:
Ladies and gentlemen I'm pained to announce to you that nairaland won't post anything reasonable for the next 3months just this BBnaija nonsense... I pity youths wasting their time watching this

Chatflick:
Hello guys it has been a while.... Please how can someone cope with his girlfriend having a male best friend? From my own point of view, I believe the boyfriend should occupy that space. Most times I call, she is always with her bestie and he tends to listen to our conversation and sometimes even interrupt it. Please serious and matured minds..

PS: She tells him everything, he knows stuffs about her that I don't. I'm not scared of him taking her from me just that I'm not comfortable with it all all and I'm loosing it gradually.

Zykod:
Can we both deal with this personally offline please? I don't want you at this bus stop anymore, it's breaking my heart see you repeat this over and over

Zykod:
Ther'es no excuse you will come up withToks. Can you see from yor mental posture, i can detect the obvious flaws? I asked how far, the first thing you brought up is limitations...aka 1. been in the search for long 2. Love for Jesus.

You sound like Peter who was fishing for long with no catch.... Doing things for long becomes somewaht perpetuated and drains energy in us....Moreso, if your clime depicts religious ladies as scarce, are there no ways to outsource in these modern eras? You have built limitations in your mind bro and it's hindering you...Locate them deal with them you're a man, quite whining about why you can't get a candy, Toks come out of where you kept yourself limited. There are numerous ladies who are celebate even at the age of 30, Toks, stop making excuses

Zykod:
Cmon the world has millions of single ladies and you keep whining about inadequacies, you can't be the most complex being even of your age, cheer up bro. Get $50-$100in your card, sign upgood dating sites and kuku do whitey, you're good looking and i'm sure you have so many matches outhere crying for you privately....You're the knight your duty is to go seek out and save your damsel in distress and not whine over not finding her, create solutons bro, generate a blueprint, develop a road map.

Zykod:
Bros i didn't saw village tins oh, you want find my trouble. I can relate with search gets more tedious with age. We're in the same age gap and have similar expereinces, we've both talked on this in time past.


I simply meant identify whatever bottlenecks that you consider as hinderances to your objective and create solutions. I.e. if you sign up multiple dating sites for goodness sakes you broaden your scope and can meet as many as possible. Whatever your kinds, i'm sure you can find in dating sites.

I'm unhappy you resign to the sidelines and keep complaining about the tides of the ocean without taking the first dip into the water. There perspection is the problem, you need to abandon the psyche, how you view things and just do things without reciting the reasons not to do them over and over, its becoming a routine and an anthem in your mind bro, snap out of it.

Cmon the world has millions of single ladies and you keep whining about inadequacies, you can't be the most complex being even of your age, cheer up bro. Get $50-$100in your card, sign upgood dating sites and kuku do whitey, you're good looking and i'm sure you have so many matches outhere crying for you privately....You're the knight your duty is to go seek out and save your damsel in distress and not whine over not finding her, create solutons bro, generate a blueprint, develop a road map.

Peachess:
Not true. If I'm kept in a room for a year with a guy I hate do much, nothing on earth will ever make me fall in love with the person. Especially if the person has the kind of temperament I hate so much. I'll only hate him more.

Zykod:
Trust me hommie, i'm a man, i can relate. Your excuses are your limitations. You have dating sites, you can date sporadically, what's stopping you? Stop whatever's stopping you. Identify the limitations and work around them

Zykod:
You need to cultivate the woman you desire from the woman with you bro, every woman, rada, almost every woman can be the woman of your dreams. Time dey go o. It has to be within the next 12-24 months o Toks

Homeboiy:
Oga 2017 has come and gone and your still unmarried



Anything stopping you from getting married should die by fire, oya begin dey pray

ibkayee:
Lol they may not be enemies anymore but 'fall in love' is a stretch

Depends on some factors too, it's possible, but it's not as simple as just 'two people of the opposite sex'