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emilyone:
That's a lie from the pit of hell.

RuthDaniels:
Lol!

Then you haven't experienced those situations listed.

johnnyn1:
I'm in a relationship with a girl for up to 3years..

I am tired and want Out.
But I can't � bear the thought of us going diversely.

Is this love or something else?

Matured mind pls

mariesnikz:
Ok show me some love peeps. It's my birthday

RuthDaniels:
No!

Sometimes we leave those we love because letting them go is the only way to prove we love them.


If you have never being in love with someone who finds happiness in another, you may never understand me.

If you haven't been in love with someone whom your presence in their lives will only give them pains, you may find me crazy

There is always someone in a person's life whom they love but can't be with.

tosyne2much:
You don't stay in a relationship where you find no happiness all in the name of "love"

Sometimes you just have to let go not because you don't love or care, but for your own peace of mind and to avoid troubles

LaudableXX:
Has it occurred to you that too many men have flaws, just like the women and they are not perfect either? Have you ever heard of the curse of the familiar? No? Let me break it down.

At the start of a relationship, everything is new, shiny and exciting, because the whole affair is still a novelty. As days turn into weeks, and weeks into months, then the novelty wears off to the extent that everything becomes familiar, and common place. And that is what our local folks call "see finish." Nothing is exciting, anymore.

In order to stave off boredom, such men go hunting for new things. In the process, a new girl catches their fancy and the thrill of the chase begins. It is not that there is anything wrong with the old girl, it is just that the relationship has become stale, common place and too 'familiar.' For a man that is undisciplined, this cycle will recur over and over again. He dates a girl for a while, the affair gets stale, he dumps her citing a multitude of funny reasons, and moves on to another babe. And this beat goes on, repeatedly. But a rational man with a sound mind, will sit down to assess the situation, and try to make his old relationship more exciting, in order to take things forward, and make it more stable. That is what a sane man would do, but too many of my male friends lack the trait and discipline to think things through, and apply wisdom to get their relationships working again.

Netfilix:
Op, you're actually right, even though the ladies won't agree this because you sound bias, but you're very valid from my own experience, my current girlfriend is not as physically and facially attractive as my ex, but there is one thing my current girl posses that would make me love her forever, it is her understanding and utmost care, Infact I respect her patapata, Whenever my ex comes to mind, na her self centeredness and lack of respect I go dey remember. Lol...

And I wasn't really thinking marrying her but now I don mean to Marry her... Like she completes me...

Ladies this is my own advice, bad guys are out there plenty but there are some guys that are not really bad but thinks all the ladies are also bad, if you are lucky to meet this kind of guys ehn... And you prove him wrong, Mehn you finally gotten what you're looking for be that...


Pardon my grammar

AZeD1:
Bros you are still stuck in the 80's, this is 2018 lots of girls are hanging with guys just for sex. The moment they meet another, it's off to next one.

You need to keep up.

rockcitie:
Toks2008, so you're still a woman-hater even in 2018. All your write-ups are targeted at running women down for reasons best known to you. Please get a life.

alexialin:
So which means, if she had not offered her body but they are dating with abstinence involved, that means if she dumps him, the question is no longer flawed?


U see? That's why I always tell ladies, don't quickly fucvk a guy because u accept his wooing. Date, watch him, test his character for like 6months before fucvking him.

But most guys know, their character is questionable, so they quickly want to like fucvk sharp sharp before all eyes clear.

Can u imagine?


Tok2008 said my question is flawed because the guy had drilled her Pussyyy in all ramifications. So she can't dump him


U make me laugh

alexialin:
Oga Toks2008, but what if it's the other way round and the guy gets dumped.

Cos of his character, what then happens?

JennieCutie4U:
oga, in most cases, the guys r the ones that really need to check themselves... I don't totally agree with you that something is wrong with a girl if a guy dates d girl for a year and dumps her afterwards...all through the one year, they've been good together, he didn't find reason(s) to break up with her until after one year( and am sure he must have drilled her morally, physically, spiritually, SEXually, emotionally, domestically and what have you...) until all of a sudden, one year after, after he must have thought of the stupid need to have a taste of another soup, and having the useless notion that a man can change and use women like wrapper anytime and anyhow they want, they go ahead and discharge the poor girl like waste bin...(chei! umu Nwaanyi don suffer Sha) and move on with their lives like nothing ever happened. Guys need to check themselves too...
Though I know some ladies or girls have their issues too when it comes to relationship; with the attitudes, characters and all... but you people shouldn't always make it seem like it's always the girls' problem or fault...guys still have their own pool of faults or problems too! No one is perfect! Everybody has their imperfections which they work on everyday.
Even that cool heaven sent(for your mind)girl you dumped your babe for and finally married could be your headache tomorrow in ur marriage... it is well

AZeD1:
Can you explain the difference please?

zezebabyxoxo:
Whilst taking his time, he should look inwards and check himself. It should not always be about creating threads on what women lack and how dumb they are while placing himself on a pedestal insulting people that disagree and claiming sapiosexual. That word has become so cliché. Lol. If he was so perfect he won't be divorced and single at over 40. Humble yourself and get your sh!t together. With the right attitude and prayers the right one will come and stay. Male or female. Don't make this a man vs woman thread. It's getting tiring abeg.

AZeD1:
I'm sorry your post makes no sense and comes across as misogynistic.

If a guy dumps a woman because of her genotype, how is that the fault of the woman?

If a guy dumps a woman because she starts earning more, how is the fault of the woman?

If a guy dumps a woman because he relocates, how is the fault of the woman?


There's an urgent need to organise a logic class.

zezebabyxoxo:
It's funny how Uncle Toks is not responding to comments on his single status at his advanced age despite his wealth of knowledge.

biacan:
He even brought the issue on nairaland last year..... I know him very well he knows what I'm talking about ask him

JennieCutie4U:
what if he dates you for a day and dumps you the next day...is something wrong with you too? #seriouslyasking?

biacan:
He's very old I've seen him before..... looking so unkept
In case you don't know he's presently having issues with his neighbour on why he's yet to be married....they are suspecting him to be gay because of the way guys visit him fact...... ask him he knows I'm saying the truth

Splinz:
A controversial thread, no doubt. And I don't see them girls agreeing at all.

Op, either by act of omission or a deliberate one (perhaps to start a fight) failed to balanced his views, seeing that when the coin is flipped, one can also argue same things convincingly about the guys.

The girls are going mad already. But c'mon guys, we need not start WW3 now, mbok.

Angy55:
Uncle Toks2008 has dropped another one.
I'm here to read comments.

Angy55:
Uncle Toks2008 has dropped another one.

I'm here to read comments.

Ngokafor:
This makes no iota of sense...try again.

Jamariwolff:
I give up!
This is one pained frustrated nigga.

Ladies abort mission, I repeat, abort,

Don't argue with this person, you definitely won't win.

Jamariwolff:
Thanks dear


you seem to love the word 'dump'
Define :dump:
Can women dump men too or is it only men that do the dumping?
Come on, are you a misogynist too?

I don't know the type of relationship you've been entering and the type of ladies you've been dating.
But in normal relationships, people decide to end it mutually after realising that they weren't compatible for each other.
We aren't shît that you dump.

MissSlimbody:
It's obvious you're embittered based on your previous threads on NL. And your reaction shows I'm right.


l have never been "dumped" and that rubbish you typed won't make it happen.

I will not trade insults with you.

Jamariwolff:
So I shud check myself because of a nigga when there are millions of other niggas that will appreciate me and all I have a offer.

Rubbish.

I think you should check yourself, Why you jump from one lady to another like a bag of flies.