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dingbang:
I just don't think I can ever fall in love with someone I already dislike... Once I have concluded your matter in my life, it is finished

For about 2years I never loved my ex but we were always close then suddenly from nowhere I started having strong feelings for her and at a stage I could not imagine a day without her....that is growing in love and indeed,anyone can grow in love if you only give that person the chance.

tosyne2much:
This kind of statement is a sign of looming danger

Stay away from obsessive lovers. Stay away from any one that threatens your life with fire and brimstone. Stay away from anyone who monitors your life here and there Love is arrogant neither does it require threats. Love and obsession are two different things

I have been told such a statement quite a number of times too and I know my life is in danger if I let love becloud my reasoning

I completely agree with you egbon Toks2008

This particular lady told me to my face and it almost caused me my life...

Maybe if I had taken it as a threat to life I would have saved myself the ordeal I went through.

This is why you will never see me date a lady I can't marry...NEVER

Fear women.

Put two sworn enemies of opposite sex in the same apartment and let them live together for a year....in most cases,they become friends and probably fall in love.

We have heard of ladies and guys falling in love with people in their work place,church,neighborhood and we have read stories of kidnapped ladies falling in love with the kidnappers after spending some days together in their hideout.

What is the point?

Many of us usually want to ensure that all conditions are right before we start an affair with someone....we want to be sure of our feelings,the compatibility,the chemistry and so on but it needs not be this way.

There is nothing like love at first sight but if you only give that guy or lady the chance to develop a regular closeness with you,both of you may likely form a bonding and be fond of each other which is stronger than "love".

You really dont have to be in love with someone before you can start a purposeful romance...as a guy,as long as you like what you see and as a lady as long as you know he really wants you,give each other a chance,get closer and grow in love just as most of our parents did.

I don't know if this makes sense.

I keep wondering how ladies who are deeply in need of husbands will go out and start keeping straight faces and put up an attitude that drives responsible guys away from them...smh!

I don't know if lalasticlala Wil find this insightful.

Divay22:
Lol
I remember when i joked with a guy (at that time he was asking me out) and at same time he wasn't in town..
So i told him before he'll come back, i might be married already , damn.. Dude said, he's gonna cut my ring finger if he sees a ring on it

I just told him point blank, you ain't in love but you're just obsess with me...And from that day, i just couldn't help it but to give him a cold shoulder.

And yes, sometimes your lover might not necessarily mean what he or she said , but to be on a safe side pls confide in someone....
I run away from guys that are obsess, they act understand the influence of their emotions and seriously once acid or injury is inflicted on you (na sorry sorry go end am, but even with that, you can never get your fine face or that scar would always be a remark).

I'll might doubt a guy if he says this, but if a lady says this to my brother, he'll leaving that state, if possible country immediately (I don't trust ladies..we're so irrational )

@your last paragraph...I actually added it to my writeup but removed it so I won't sound as if I'm bringing the ladies down but thank GOD it is coming from a lady.

If a lady tells a guy this I advise the guy to relocate to Mars.

Splinz:
One of those phrases from sore losers.
Oh c'mon give me a break... you can't do sh*t!

I pity you..I have been there and I almost died.

AntiBrutus:
Some may not say it verbally, but their actions would prove it.

Avoid obsessive lovers.
Those type that will give you their all.
You must reciprocate, if not...na to relocate to another planet.

They can go any length to get their pound of flesh.

Expecially those that go diabolical.

Zykod:
Nah, e no make sense atall. Nice way to start 2018 bro Toks

Good.

"If I can't have you, then no one will!" is a Phrase often used by jealous and envious characters demanding
to be loved and if they don't get what they want,they may likely act irrational and latter regret their actions.

The phrase means exactly as it sounds. Someone is laying exclusive claim to another, disregarding the other person's thoughts and feelings on the matter, and there is an implicit threat of bodily harm and/or death involved if they do not get their way.

This could apply to both sexes so if you ever hear this phrase from your partner after a break up please don't take it lightly by thinking it is mere liptalk.Get the police involved immediately and let that person sign an undertaken cos that is a clear threat to your life or that of any other person you are involved with.

I don't know if this makes sense.

Jozzy1063:
Whalahi she's hot sexy. Wish I could hv her to myself

Go to Calabar, Akwa ibom,the east,Ondo and those naija villages and your jaw will drop...Naija girls are far hotter abeg.

I was looking out for her full body pics since I'm not into faces but curves and I must say SHE IS HOT but I don't know if she is World's prettiest black female soldier.

I either marry a curvy chic or kukuma remain single.

Jamariwolf4:
3 minutes read.

So a female romancelander opened a thread this evening, and as usual, the brokers started shouting and calling her ashawo etcetera.

Well imma be honest with you: I collect money after sex, and that ain't ending anytime soon.

I AM NOT A OLOSHO OR PROSTITUTE.

I work for my money, but you must still pay me.

Take note and read carefully before you start insulting all the females (gone, alive, and yet to be born) in your family

Reasons why I'll always collect money after sex

1. Sex is difficult :
Oh yeah, it is! But you wouldn't know, would you? When you're just dicking down and going, you take 90% pleasure and me takes 10%.
In my sexually active years, I can count with one hand the number of sex I actually really enjoyed.
If fellow females won't be honest,
You can ask bobrisky and other faqqots who take dicks up their orifice, the receiver passes through pains!!

2. I'm a woman with needs:
I mean, I need to take a hot bath, change into something Hanes and eat good food, so pay up.

3. I'll get slut shamed anyway :
How many of y'all can swear on your life that you haven't bragged to your guys how you nailed that 'hoe'
Why not be a complete slut when I know I will still be tagged one, whether I collect cash or not?

4. Did you expect to leave like that?
So if i didn't ask, you'll just go?
Smh!!!!

5. It's the right thing to do:
Before you type that trash, remember your Bible or quran condemns Fornication. If you can't pay my bills, find some cheap young naive bitch.

6. It's a man's world:
Women have no say or opinion, right?
Well, in bed, we do!

7. I'd never fück a fuckboy ever :
I'll soon open a thread on how to identify fvckboys, but in details, they want to eat without giving anything in return. I can smell their stench from miles and I activate my ignore button, so I don't need to argue for money like a prostitute after sex.

Real men pay up without you asking,

whether you decide to go au naturel or sans naturel, pls pay your woman and treat her with respect.

Thanks.

To be honest. ..you made some sense but on the moral ground it is not right.

Must a man have erection every morning?

justwise:
I guess you did not see the area in bold which was where i directed my question, bytheway this was 2yrs ago and you are replying it now?

lol! someone did mention me which was why I visited the thread. Anyways no wahala. Stay blessed.

justwise:
I'm sorry but what you wrote here did not answer the question i asked, you just went on writing about something completely different.

You quoted a post asking how did the person know that the interviewing officers give based on their discretion and not merit and I'm buttressing the poster's point so what don't you understand?

I also wrote based on my experience.

justwise:
How do you know that?

Yeah it is true and I'm writing from experience.

When I applied for my U.K visa I was asked to state if I had been denied visa to any country and also state the reasons...

I wrote U.S and wrote that I was denied because their visa application is total gambling as they seldom verify or even asked for documents but only based their decision on generic questions and answers.

I know U.K shares intelligence with United states which is why I purposely wrote that.

karli4nia:
Hmmm Mr Toks u never change! Weh u don get Rukayat weh be 60/100... U still dey find 80-90... Be careful lest u end up with 20/100

Guys wey marry hot babes get two heads lol!

sollybaby:
But i fine pass chioma na.. Rich boo should come ooo

I'm rich but I be G boy....make I fall in?

And btw,pretty face dies not mean you are fine...fineness encompasses total outward beauty of a lady talking about cute face and nice curves.

Why do most big b**bs have very small ni pples?

Only an irresponsible man will have a hard on with empty pocket.

But when a man has enough money to get by...he will have er*ction almost every hour.

bencynthgreat:
Don't mind some people commenting any how. Some have never ever gone for HIV test and won't dare go because of fear but them get mouth to talk. b4 u condemn or type go for ur test and be sure of ursef first.

Believe it or not,no one is safe cos even if you test negative and you meet a lady you desire,you will likely do raw and who knows I'd she is not a carrier and even if a couple is certified HIV negative,one of them could stray and play raw game with an infected person and bring it home.

It's just GOD cos no one is really safe.

Cowbuoy:
LOL... Raw sex ke?? Ah don vow to myself after many things wey ah don see; "If condom no dey, we ain't knacking! shikena"... Self control na the key..


Omoh, all those fine girls wey dey do runz anyhow na dem be the carrier of those STD pass.. My friends wey don contract syphilis, gonorrhea from 'em Na dem sabi the kind money and wahala wey dem dey spend on the treatment, me go just dey laff 'em... Funniest thing be say, after dem recover finish dem go still go knack again..

This is why I hate indiscriminate sex...if I decide to make love to you then I have made up my mind to take the risk and dare the consequence.

I know I'm HIV negative cos I had my blood tested just about 3months ago but I will never use that thing called condom cos to me it is a waste of time and just psychological pleasure.

If you can't enjoy licking a candy with the wrap then there is no way I will put a rubber on.

No one is safe from HIV but we can only try to limit the risk.

Cowbuoy:
Bruv, one those few things I actually fear the most nowadays even more than death itself is HIV.. Damn it!! I can't just imagine being positive to that shît... I just can't!


Prevention is better than cure.. If you wan knack and condom no dey, tie your prick throw am back for your boxer, you won't die... Many more knackings still dey come your way!! BTW before some crackheads start quoting me to remind me of this, I'm gonna say it by myself; Yo! I know HIV can be contracted in many ways apart from sex, but I just outlined the most popular means we all know already...


To everyone reading this, I pray HIV will not be your portion.. Amen!!!!!!!!

Gone are the days when HIV was a threat...you can live for up to 30years with good management so kini big deal.

laudate:
Oga, that may be true for others you have met, or if you are talking generally....but within the context of this particular couple within this thread, the British woman is definitely older than this man, she is getting married to in Ado-Ekiti.

If a girl just has a big and mature body, her face will reveal her youthfulness. In fact, just by her face you can accurately guess if she is a pre-teen or a teenager. But the woman here on this thread, does not follow the pattern or trend you spoke about. She is definitely a mature woman.

I'm not disputing you but just know that white girls and some mixed race ladies age faster due to lack of melanin and other factors. Even their guys are not left out...

laudate:
Guy, look the photo again. This particular British woman is definitely much older than the guy!!

I'm writing from experience...I have met single mums who will quickly introduce their daughter to me and they will always add the age of the girl so that you will know before you trespass and find yourself in jail.

I'm 6.3ft and I have seen 14year old girls in U.K who are taller than me with big body...in fact their physical look is intimidating and I will be like.....

PierreDeFermath:
mother in law na small girl,wife old past her. it's Always good to marry a very young girl and she would look like this mother in law in her late 40's. but marry a woman in your age bracket and she go look like your grandma

You will be dazzled to know that the British lady is younger than the guy or just a year or two older.

Most female Britons have rapid growth. You will see a 14yeae old lady that looks twice her age.

Osu175:
My chakazulu don't even stand attention when he sees a bony girl, let alone a man.

this gay stuff must have a serious Mistery behind it

Very powerful demons control the hay world.

jmoore:
How many women did God create for Adam? There lies your answer.

Another philosophy.

People keep using this example to counter polygamy but we need a verse that condemns polygamy.

Proudgorgeousga:
no rules to control the woman
fixed

There are biblical rules.

Dimples129:
Toks this thread would've been interesting if you didn't limit it to religion...

Islam is the closest and 7/10 times it(Pologyny)works.

I think nature permits it. Religion just gives it laws and regulations for the sake of safety and love. So a real polygamous family treat eachother as a unit so there's no such thing as 'Step' mum... All are mums and one dad.

A Jamaican man for example who wants to spread his seed and have 10 baby-mamas is the same as any other polygamous relationship the difference being there's no rules to control the man.

It's nature.

I wonder if a woman can pull of the same thing


(polyandry)

A baby -mama with 4 kids by 4 men is no different to 1 woman marrying 4 men...

It's all technicalities in my humble opinion.

Unfortunately we are guided by the religion doctrines as either Muslims or Christians so we can't dissociate this topic from religion.

Good insight though.

TSOM:
The examples I cited in my prequel post are as scriptural/biblical as can be.

You claim Jesus didn't come to change the tradition of the people but with Jesus' ministerial work came the abolition of burnt sacrifices for atonement.

Jesus didn't come to change the tradition of the people on its entirety but he changed the "an eye for an eye" philosophy but, in its stead, preached peace, forgiveness and tolerance? A complete deviation from what Moses believed in.

I don't need to reel out exact bible passages in quick succession like sanctimonious, new-generation evangelist fresh out of theological school seeking to impress his first audience instead of focusing on the inferred meanings.

No biblical example and consequence of polygamy I have cited have you been able to dispute. We all attended Sunday school and read the bible in our time so mention every bible passage is redundant.

Mention one polygamous marriage in the bible which didn't result in racour and I'd mention monogamous ones which were peaceful. Mention even one.

Marry a thousand wives if you will. Have as many wives as your eyelashes if you want but stop using biblical quotations to justify your those choices 'cause men in bible times who made those choices paid for them.

My broda no be fight o...I'm not advocating for polygamy but I just want us to get it right.

There was no where in the bible that polygamy was written as a sin. The Christians today make things difficult for themselves with human philosophy.

Let's limit our discussion to scriptural evidence and not philosophy.