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jhudit:
Yes, there is love in sharing gonorrhoea, HIV and AIDS.
We are supposed to forget about every other thing and strive to satisfy man's libido

pabostt:
.little wonder why most ladies naturally prefer polygamous men who can conviniently provide their needs over poor dudes who are sexually faithful to them

Op, is there any empirical evidence to back up the above claim aside the one you have watched in Nollywood?

Hannysmilez:
I'm not sure if you wrote this as a deliberate attempt to be controversial or you really believe it.
This is a dissapointing thread coming from the OP,I know you to make sense-unfortunately,today isn't your day.
Firstly,I assumed you were a Christian from your previous posts,really shocked that you're out here justifying promiscousness-I don't care bout the fancy ass name you gave to it.
Men generate millions of sperm so they should impregnate women with it? Are you aware that women also produce eggs which they shed monthly while enduring cramps?
Polygamy isn't my problem,neither is promiscousity-my problem is with you,who is supposed to be a Godly fellow,excusing it-to the point of including God in your weak and silly argument. The same God who asked men to love their spouses as Christ loved the Church. An important part of Christ's love is faithfulness,he turned down bread even after fasting for 40days just for the church.

If you're going to be a Christian,be one with your posts as well and represent God well.
From a free-thinker,Hanny

Lalas247:
Trust n honesty
2 key factors


It is not that hard to stay faithful ! That is love ...
how does cheating equate to love
You on the edge Toks on the edge

Allwility:
Watch out Toks, the feminists are coming for ya head

Fkforyou:
Another controversial thread again...Una no dey tire?

No offense Toks, this your thread even though it might be unintentional, would encourage men to be reckless and unfaithful.

It's like saying we guys have no will to be committed to someone, whom, most times are fully committed to us. It's not fair if you ask me.

As for me Sha, I don't commit easily and it's a personal decision I made.

But when I commit to someone, I hardly go back. In essence, once I am in, I'm in. No time to be checking out other options. It shows conviction and strength of character.

shinarlaura:
Just be caring to me.

greatgod2012:
Sexual fidelity is also a choice for women.
Women may not release more than one egg in a month but they can give sexual satisfaction to as many men as they want even in a day, any woman who wishes not to tow that line chooses not to, it's a choice my brother. The truth is tuhat anyone who can't stick to the vow he made on his wedding day do not have business getting married, for both men and women alike!


Like I said up there, toto no get meter o, it's a choice for man and woman to have sexual fidelity not based on that senseless analysis up there!




#evenlifeisachoice!

iphunanya:
Just be real with me and we'll be fine

greatgod2012:
@op, I've watched the video version of this your miscalculative analysis! It was a debate where she was trying to outscore the other contestants!

Back to your question, self control is one of the major qualities that distinguish humans from animals, if any man behaves like animal just because he's capable of producing millions of sperm from every release,, then,,such a man should be living with his mates in the bush and be inserting his instrument in every dick and harry holes! Ability to have self control and stick to the vow you made on your wedding day as a man is the greatest care and trust a man can give to his wife and wife to her husband!



FYI, if men are polygamous in nature,, women too are, because that hole we possess no get meter!


So,,the best way couples can care and show love to each other is by being faithful to each other in every reasonable and expected ways!

Ereolamide:
You don't if it makes sense but it's what you want ladies to know, how does that resonate with common sense.

What makes human different from animals is 'reason' or intellect, if human can use reason to better themselves: organise complex society, make laws, form religions, invent technology, adopts better lifestyle above their base nature compared to animals whose lives are brutish, fierce, and act according to caprices of their emotions without reason, then why can't man especially 21century man hold up to marital vows of marriage and remain in complete fidelity to one woman.

Wise you are not - Master Yoda.

adecz:
Beards are generally kept in uncivilized societies like Middle East or Africa.
You generally don't see responsible ppl keeping beards in US or Europe. Except entertainers & prisoners or mad men.

ZarZar:
Hahaha. She was right because it suits you facially & personality-wise. Correct chap making correct decisions

ZarZar:
TV Jesus & all the other portrayals of Jesus, show him spotting a beard. Stop asking me the obvious.

ZarZar:
Yours looks nice & shiny

You're a respectful guy, can't say the same for the rest though. If you have a beard, be the beard in terms of maturity. I think YOU got that on lock down. The rest are gonna have to earn their spot. Respect is not a birthright or attached to the hair follicles, it's earned.

osahon360:
i m a witness of dis beards ish
i hv both beards,mustache and a very neat teddy from close to my ear down to my chin and couple with my nice head shape and hair cut and my handsome facial appearance and my height couple with my pink lips.and.my chocolate skin and fresh face a.women attend to me faster than jerks nd my natural dark hair.wen i approach to toast dem they give all d attention in the world .i felt a sense of confidence wen ever i m walking and i m ontop of my world.i had lots of female admirers and my male countapart want to imitate me.i m unstopable and i m in my mid 20s and i m a friendly guy
i needs frnds both male and female can email me at emmaimafidon70@gmail.com

Benita27:
Since when is respect attached to only guys with beards?. I only respect guys who seem responsible, with or without beard.

ZarZar:
Because a beard gives the face a mature, dignified look, the way a mane does to a male lion. Hence the "respect".

Chemist009:
..... Hello fellows,my name is Shuaibu(not real name),am in my late twenties and am from Edo. So this is my story:



... Everything was going well and I was really at my peak until this happened some 11 years ago(2006 precisely)...... I was at home with my Guardian's wife and one of my cousins at night(around 8pm or so) when suddenly I heard someone call my name at the door and I answered rushing to open the door,only to discover that there was nobody at the door and i was a little terrified. And that ordeal, I can say was the beginning of my mystery.

Later on,I began having series of terrible nightmares that would linger on to become part of my life till this day. Firstly,I would always dream that I want to take something,but my hand will never get to it as i would stretch and stretch-and it was a recurring nightmare that happened on a regular basis. Secondly,I always dreamt that am always being pursued or running and when am running, it's usually at a very very slow rate and this dream too happened all the time. And so for a long sustained period,i had these two nightmares and in most occasions,always in danger.



Fastforward to a few years later and I would notice deterioration in every facet of my life, yet, I would just ignore. Later around 2012, I would gain admission into the University, but I well too realised that I was never the same again..... Before i entered University though, I began having health challenges (chest pain and discomfort) and I inwardly suspected it's a heart problem. So at the University, to cut a long story short, I never got anywhere near my peak and it was always whenever i had it in mind that I wanted to study or exams were around the corner that my chest problem always came, but when free or unoccupied or during holidays, I felt healthy and this was the trend all through my University days.


Again, although it was nightmares pre University, at the university it became somewhat metaphysical and it was in truth worrying. Whenever i slept and wanted to wake up, I always felt as though am being held down and standing up or even shaking becomes impossible and this has continued till this day. In summary, of recent it's either very terrible nightmares or not being able to stand up when awake as a result of being held down-and this mainly happens when am sleeping alone and in most cases when the room is dark.

It's way more mysterious than i presented it, but this is just a Summary of everything. Opinions please cos I feel trapped......

shinarlaura:
Hahahaha. This one is deep

missyadorable:
46k

Where is my money?

Quinn22:
I had to get my calculator
52k

jakandeola:
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Benita27:
She's 100% on point here, but again, it takes two to tango...I don't know the joy in fùcking an asshole when the Vagina is there to be used?, anal is anal irrespective of those involved.

tosyne2much:
I swear I don change henceforth
Oga Toks, wetin you go talk for this matter?

jashar:
I thought i read somewhere that he's divorced? He should go and forgive his ex na....

lofty900:
it can't happen