Hannysmilez: Oh. I prefer the anonymity. I did put it up at a point tho
Inasmuch as I respect the decision of some ladies not wanting to put up a dp I just wonder how a guy will just send a PM to an anonymous entity.
This is not about dating or romance but it just sounds strange for me to hook up with a lady I have no idea of how she looks....what if she is a robot.
funmisticqueen: Today has been lovely, men all of a sudden turned to minister of women affairs,knowing the genesis and revelation of all things female.
You seem to be a smart and intelligent lady...would have loved to send you a friend request before now but my PM email is faulty.
Bunch of eediots. Even if they are using your destiny to play Candy crush. There should be limit to which you load 100naira airtime to defend billion naira theft.
I voted Buhari primarily for the purpose of fighting corruption and I must say I'm not disappointed.
You judge a woman for her piercings but leave out a man that had to move away from his bed to someone else's bed, look at the cameras to ensure that none was focused on him, then go on to insert his fingers in a woman's vagi.na
But no, it's the woman's fault that this happened to her.
Oh well.
As I wrote "in my world" not yours so I'm not judging Kermen's act which is a different ball game....nevertheless you must understand that how you comport yourself is the way people will judge you.
darbeelicous: Toks2008 egbon mi...... I'm cool o....... good news.... I'm no longer single, I was at the time this thread was created, but right now I'm taken, and he's a nairalander too! Now I know that people do find love on nairaland.....
And I'm not 25 yet...... Lolz!!
WOW! never knew you are now married...good one..and wishing you the best.
A woman that had tattoos and piercings all over her rescued kids that were tagged as "witches" by natives who had no tattoos on them, in Akwa Ibom. Hence, saving their lives.
I'm not a fan of tattoos and piercings, but it's wrong to judge people's morals and "sexual responsibilities" based ln that.
If you like marry a lady with niple and clitoral piercing...your world,your choice.
ZarZar: Maybe they come across as intimidating & make others feel like they have to step up their game in order to measure up. Just a guess though. Or it could be that they're the ones not interested since most seem to have very high standards to go with the kind of smarts they require from others.
Johnpele: My husband had an accident after 1 year 9 months of our marriage and his organs were affected so badly and landed him on a wheel chair . It is so bad because nothing can be done, all the hospitals we have gone to. They are not too rich to travel out either.
After 4years of going to hospital to hospitals, his parents called me telling me to try and get pregnant for their son but it should not be from any of his relation at all. That I should keep it as a secret I will take to my grave.
This secret is amongst just me, him and his parents, no one else knows he is impotent.
He has been a torn to me. I am finding this very hard to do, but he is still making life miserable for me.
No support from him, anytime I return, he will tell me to first go into the bathroom and i should not seat on his bed, I will not even embrace him, even after bathing, he will not allow me bring his food, he treats me like a piece of tissue. I have not even decided to sleep with anybody yet, though it has been 9 months they told me that, it is really a tough one for me.
I so love my husband, I do not believe in having extra marital affairs, but the way he sees me like a dirty thing makes me to call him one day and ask for a divorce.
Last week I went for a wedding, I drove myself because the driver does not come on weekends, we have a nanny, before leaving I made him bitter leaf soup and pounded yam, that was what he asked for. When I left, I have not even gotten to the wedding venue, he started asking, who am i with? , who is the man? I was shocked. I told him nobody. Every hour he calls, it got to a length, I stopped picking so as to have peace. When I came back from the wedding, he threw packs of condom at me, called me a Free s*x worker and all. I am tired. He is their only male child amongst 5 girls.
purple3091: OP,i would choose the philandering man because i would still be legally his only wife plus be able to catch my funs(cheat) secretly and surely get more men masculine(younger) and handsome than his as my lovers while simultaneously producing kids of those attractive lovers who my husband would think are his...since us woman have more sexual options than a man can ever have...NOW TELL ME....BETWEEN A SINGLE CHEATING WIFE(who still come home at night),AND CHEATING WIVES(where none of the kids are yours),which do you choose?....and dont say neither because am sure you didnt want us to give you that reply....always like giving women negative options.now your turn grandpa,choose between the negative options i have given you
zameena: Nice thread you have here toks, a lot of factor comes into play when choosing a spouse, sadly religion has taken the front seat. Am in a place where majority of men I meet are christians and I can't settle for anytin less than a muslim man which seems like a big task. May God guide our step.
Sadly enough you are the one who chose to put religion in the first seat.
My dad was an Alhaji while my mum is a Christian yet my dad loved my mum till he passed on at 73.
My Muslim name is Lukman but I chose to be a Christian but I will never put religion in the first seat when it comes to matters of the heart.
I still remember how my dad invites Alfas to name my siblings in the morning and pastors in the evening...we will ear chicken at Easter and Ram at ileya festival...it was a great fun.....so please emancipate yourself from that thought.
Threebear: Free your soul from hate and live positively . The woman you are hating got 500k ,she is now an ambassador of payporte and got a land and huge sum of money from both big churchill and Heritage bank respectively. And she is currently in a relationship with a warri billionaire . She is made, when will you be?
Apparently you are more myopic than I ever thought and you must be a kid to say that cos you just exhibited the most idiotic act I can ever imagine asking me when I will be made and using 500k and a plot of land...as a yardstick! ....
The facelessness of naira land can so much bring insults...Chai!
Now I must apologize for ever engaging you on this thread...you are definitely a toddler....now run along and work hard in life so that 500k and a plot of land will be the least of your worries..
Threebear: To be stupid is one thing to combine stupidity with lying is another thing all together. When did T Boss get her boobs sucked by TTT perhaps in your dirty fantasy. When did she engage in sexual overtures with John? They kissed whilst sharing chocolate and that's about it, the other time was on a truth and dare game which every housemate participated in. Like I said, you are underexposed and dumb might I add myopic and non susceptible to learning and growing. And the fact you think slut shaming a woman in your books makes it ok for her to be sexually molested tells me all I need to know about you. That you are a pathetic liar, that has no respect for himself and women and a potential rapist in the making. Shame on you .
Threebear: Open your eyes and be emancipated. While every lame person might mistake you for a weed smoker out of a hit, someone with empathy might think you are probably a victim of armed robbery ,beaten up and rubbed and sprinkled with alcohol. While first impression does matter, if it stays your only impression then you are a fool. Anyone who religiously watched the show would tell you T boss was one of the most self respecting woman on the show second to only Uriel. She didn't allow men to touch her inappropriately neither did she participate judiciously in their numerous kissing festivities. Why then would she intentionally let kemen finger her? Stop watching through twitter please.
Tboss....self respecting...LIKE SERIOUSLY
I never watched it but her noise making got me digging into her conduct in the house ...
Ok what Kemen did might be seen as wrong, but what did Tboss do to show that an unacceptable action was being done to her?
Yes she was asleep, but that does not mean she was unconscious to wake up or scream, or do anything, she even turned her back on Kerman to show consciousness!
The video does not show any act of force & does not even show any person reacting as if something they did not want was being done to them!
Threebear: Very poor school of thought from a senseless underexposed person.
It's quite painful that I have to reply you for the sake of other reasonable and sound minded viewers of this thread.
For starters I think you are not only underexposed but a very dmb and myopic troll cos even a kingdargarten will understand that "my world" simply means my standard and my opinion but sometimes I understand that common sense is not really common...
Away from your lack of common sense I think sometimes our ladies must understand that how they comport themselves is very vital to how others Guage their moral standing.
This is the same free for all Tboss whose bo*bs was sucked by TTT and not forgetting her sexual overturns with myonce and John ogah but all of a sudden she is ranting like one sexually decent lady...
Don't get me wrong...I know consent is very important but when you have given a bad impression about yourself,you don't expect other people to see you differently...
So I reiterate that in my world...Tboss is a sexually reckless lady who needs to move on and stop making a fool of herself.